Breaking Free from OCD, Anxiety & Stress with Matt Codde

Matthew Codde LCSW

The Breaking Free from OCD, Anxiety & Stress Podcast is hosted by Matt Codde. Visit www.restoredminds.com/about to know more about Matt! In this podcast, you’re going to learn practical steps on the journey to recovery. In each episode, we will discuss common challenges and provide you with evidence-based strategies to help you overcome them. At Restored Minds, we believe that recovery is possible for everyone and it's our mission to give you the tools to help you build better mental health so you can become the best version of yourself.

  1. 4d ago

    Why Chasing Approval and Control Is Destroying You

    Nervous System Hijacked by Approval: Approval Addiction, Chronic Self Abandonment, and Chasing Control In this episode, Matt Codde, LCSW, explores what happens when your nervous system is hijacked by approval and you slowly slip into chronic self abandonment. He breaks down how approval addiction and tolerance for destruction quietly erode your sense of safety, shrink your world, and create the loss of authentic relationships—even while you look like “the good person” on the outside. Matt then turns to control, describing how we end up chasing a phantom called certainty and living in the illusion of playing God. He shows how fear convinces you that control equals safety, while in reality it leads to the erosion of creativity and spontaneity and a growing tolerance for destruction in your relationships, experiences, and everyday life. If you’re stuck in OCD, anxiety, people pleasing, or constant worry about what others think, this conversation will help you see the deeper fear loops behind your symptoms. It’s an invitation to stop abandoning yourself for approval and control, and begin living from authenticity, trust, and genuine connection.🧭 What You’ll Learn in This Episode✅ Understand what it means for your nervous system to be hijacked by approval.✅ Learn how chronic self abandonment develops through people pleasing and self rejection.✅ See why approval addiction leads to a quiet tolerance for destruction in your life.✅ Recognize how chasing a phantom called control keeps you stuck in fear and anxiety.✅ Explore the illusion of playing God and how it blocks trust in something deeper.✅ Discover how fear erodes creativity and spontaneity, shrinking your world.✅ Learn first steps to rebuild authentic relationships without abandoning yourself.🚀 Resources to Help You Heal:📥 FREE Recovery GuideStart your journey to freedom from OCD and anxiety with expert tools and step-by-step guidance.👉 Download now: https://www.restoredminds.com/start📖 Get a Copy of Our Book: From Stuck to UnstuckLearn practical strategies to overcome fear and reclaim your life.👉 Buy now: https://a.co/d/1WEvonT📘 Taking Back Control (TBC) ProgramLearn how to apply these principles daily and dissolve anxiety at the root.👉 Apply Now: https://www.restoredminds.com/tbc🎧 Subscribe & Connect for More Support:✅ Subscribe to our YouTube channel for weekly episodes, tools, and coaching content.👉 https://www.youtube.com/restoredminds✅ Leave a Review on your favorite platform to help others discover this life-changing content:👉 Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3NJI2zD👉 Spotify: https://spoti.fi/46AiT30✅ Ask a Question for a future episode:👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/assessments/2147654461✅ Download the Book – From Stuck to Unstuck👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/bookFollow Matt Codde, LCSW on Social Media:🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/🔹 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/restoredminds/🔹 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@matthcodde.restoredminds📸 If this episode helped you, share it on Instagram Stories and tag us!⏱️ Timestamps00:00 — What this episode is about: nervous system hijacked by approval03:30 — Nervous system hijacked by approval and chronic self abandonment07:20 — Approval addiction, resentment, and loss of authentic relationships12:00 — Approval addiction and growing tolerance for destruction17:20 — Chasing a Phantom: the illusion of control and playing God23:30 — Erosion of creativity, spontaneity, and trust in life29:00 — Waking up from fear loops and choosing authenticity over approval and controlDisclaimer⚠️This content is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Consult a licensed professional for personalized support.

    21 min
  2. Jul 2

    Why Your Anxiety Won't Go Away: The Secret Payoff of Fear

    The 5 Hidden Payoffs of Fear That Keep OCD and Anxiety Loops Running Most people assume fear is just something that happens to them. In this episode, Matt Codde, LCSW and founder of Restored Minds, explains why part of the mind actually believes it's benefiting from staying afraid, and why that belief is what keeps the fear loop running. Matt breaks down 5 "secondary gains", the hidden payoffs of safety, control, identity, pain avoidance, and self-justification that quietly convince you fear is protecting you. He walks through real examples (driving anxiety, health anxiety, relationship fears, money fears) showing how fear often creates the exact outcome it claims to prevent. If you've ever wondered why you can't just "stop worrying," this episode explains the piece that usually gets missed: you can't let go of fear until you're willing to let go of what you believe it's giving you. 🧭 What You’ll Learn in This Episode ✅ Understand the five secret "payoffs" your mind believes it's getting from staying afraid ✅ Learn why fear tends to create the very outcome it claims to prevent ✅ See why hypervigilance is the opposite of control, not a form of it ✅ Discover how pride and identity can quietly keep you attached to overthinking ✅ Recognize how staying in fear can be a shield against older, deeper pain ✅ Learn what "secondary gain" actually means and how to spot yours ✅ Understand the one shift that makes it possible to finally confront fear 🚀 Resources to Help You Heal: 📥 FREE Recovery Guide Start your journey to freedom from OCD and anxiety with expert tools and step-by-step guidance. 👉 Download now: https://www.restoredminds.com/start 📖 Get a Copy of Our Book: From Stuck to Unstuck Learn practical strategies to overcome fear and reclaim your life. 👉 Buy now: https://a.co/d/1WEvonT 📘 Taking Back Control (TBC) Program Learn how to apply these principles daily and dissolve anxiety at the root. 👉 Apply Now: https://www.restoredminds.com/tbc 🎧 Subscribe & Connect for More Support: ✅ Subscribe to our YouTube channel for weekly episodes, tools, and coaching content. 👉 https://www.youtube.com/restoredminds ✅ Leave a Review on your favorite platform to help others discover this life-changing content: 👉 Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3NJI2zD 👉 Spotify: https://spoti.fi/46AiT30 ✅ Ask a Question for a future episode: 👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/assessments/2147654461✅ Download the Book – From Stuck to Unstuck 👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/book Follow Matt Codde, LCSW on Social Media: 🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/ 🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/ 🔹 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/restoredminds/ 🔹 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@matthcodde.restoredminds 📸 If this episode helped you, share it on Instagram Stories and tag us! ⏱️ Timestamps• 00:00 What This Episode Is About •02:44 Payoff #1: The Illusion of Safety •05:45 Payoff #2: The Illusion of Control •06:52 Payoff #3: The Pride of "Overthinking Better Than Everyone" •07:53 Payoffs #4 & #5: Avoiding Deeper Pain and Using Fear as an Excuse •10:49 Finding Your Own Secondary Gain Disclaimer ⚠️This content is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Consult a licensed professional for personalized support.

    14 min
  3. Jun 30

    Why OCD Keeps You Stuck: Victim Consciousness Explained

    Stop waiting for OCD and anxiety to change before you do — here's why the shift has to come from within first. If you've been stuck in the loop of OCD or anxiety for a long time, there's a good chance something deeper is keeping you there: victim consciousness. In this episode, Matt Codde, LCSW breaks down why seeing yourself as a victim to OCD, anxiety, or fear keeps you perpetuating the very state you want to escape. Real recovery isn't about finding the right technique or waiting for symptoms to disappear. It's about a fundamental shift in how you see yourself and your role in your own healing. Whether you've been struggling for months or years, this episode will challenge you to look honestly at the paradigm you're operating from and explain why consciousness, not circumstance, is where lasting change begins. Matt draws from real-world examples and his own personal experience to walk you through what it actually means to move from victim to someone actively claiming their own recovery. 🧭 What You’ll Learn in This Episode ✅ Understand what victim consciousness is and how it silently perpetuates OCD and anxiety ✅ Learn why waiting for external circumstances to change keeps you stuck in fear ✅ See why OCD recovery is not a linear process and how to stop approaching it that way ✅ Understand how your current state of consciousness creates your emotional reality ✅ Learn the internal shift required to stop sustaining a fearful state of being ✅ See why resistance to emotion is what keeps you stuck, not the emotion itself ✅ Understand how taking radical ownership unlocks a completely different experience of life 🚀 Resources to Help You Heal: 📥 FREE Recovery Guide Start your journey to freedom from OCD and anxiety with expert tools and step-by-step guidance. 👉 Download now: https://www.restoredminds.com/start 📖 Get a Copy of Our Book: From Stuck to Unstuck Learn practical strategies to overcome fear and reclaim your life. 👉 Buy now: https://a.co/d/1WEvonT 📘 Taking Back Control (TBC) ProgramLearn how to apply these principles daily and dissolve anxiety at the root. 👉 Apply Now: https://www.restoredminds.com/tbc 🎧 Subscribe & Connect for More Support: ✅ Subscribe to our YouTube channel for weekly episodes, tools, and coaching content. 👉 https://www.youtube.com/restoredminds ✅ Leave a Review on your favorite platform to help others discover this life-changing content: 👉 Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3NJI2zD 👉 Spotify: https://spoti.fi/46AiT30 ✅ Ask a Question for a future episode: 👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/assessments/2147654461✅ Download the Book – From Stuck to Unstuck 👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/book Follow Matt Codde, LCSW on Social Media: 🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/ 🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/ 🔹 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/restoredminds/ 🔹 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@matthcodde.restoredminds 📸 If this episode helped you, share it on Instagram Stories and tag us! ⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 What This Episode Is About: Victim Consciousness and OCD 00:34 Why You Have to Shift Internally First 02:24 The Self-Perpetuating Loop of Victim Identity 07:57 OCD Recovery Is Not a Disease to Cure 10:38 Ascension of Consciousness: Not Linear, Spectral 13:05 What Transcending Victim Consciousness Actually Looks Like Disclaimer ⚠️This content is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Consult a licensed professional for personalized support.

    16 min
  4. Jun 23

    Why Stopping Reassurance Seeking Alone Won't Cure OCD

    If you have OCD or anxiety and you can't stop seeking reassurance, you are not alone and you are not broken. Whether it's Googling, calling loved ones, or mentally reviewing events over and over, reassurance seeking feels necessary in the moment. But it keeps you stuck. In this episode, Matt Codde, LCSW explains exactly why reassurance seeking is so hard to stop, and what you actually need to do instead. The problem is not willpower. The mistake most people make is trying to stop the behavior without addressing the inner emotional pressure that is driving it. When you just stop seeking reassurance without working on what is underneath, the anxiety doesn't go away. It shifts. You end up with a new theme, a new compulsion, or a new obsession, and the cycle continues. True recovery from OCD and anxiety means learning to confront and metabolize the emotions underneath the compulsion, not just stopping the behavior on the surface. This episode walks you through the core mindset shift that makes that possible. 🧭 What You’ll Learn in This Episode ✅ Understand why reassurance seeking is a symptom, not the root problem ✅ Learn why thoughts do not cause feelings and why that changes everything ✅ See why stopping compulsions without inner work leads to theme-shifting ✅ Understand the role of stored emotional pressure in OCD and anxiety ✅ Learn what it actually means to do the inner work in recovery ✅ See why all compulsive behaviors share the same emotional function ✅ Understand how to begin addressing the real source of your anxiety 🚀 Resources to Help You Heal: 📥 FREE Recovery Guide Start your journey to freedom from OCD and anxiety with expert tools and step-by-step guidance. 👉 Download now: https://www.restoredminds.com/start 📖 Get a Copy of Our Book: From Stuck to Unstuck Learn practical strategies to overcome fear and reclaim your life.👉 Buy now: https://a.co/d/1WEvonT 📘 Taking Back Control (TBC) Program Learn how to apply these principles daily and dissolve anxiety at the root. 👉 Apply Now: https://www.restoredminds.com/tbc 🎧 Subscribe & Connect for More Support: ✅ Subscribe to our YouTube channel for weekly episodes, tools, and coaching content. 👉 https://www.youtube.com/restoredminds ✅ Leave a Review on your favorite platform to help others discover this life-changing content: 👉 Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3NJI2zD 👉 Spotify: https://spoti.fi/46AiT30 ✅ Ask a Question for a future episode: 👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/assessments/2147654461✅ Download the Book – From Stuck to Unstuck 👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/book Follow Matt Codde, LCSW on Social Media: 🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/ 🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/ 🔹 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/restoredminds/ 🔹 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@matthcodde.restoredminds 📸 If this episode helped you, share it on Instagram Stories and tag us! ⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 What This Episode Is About: Reassurance Seeking and OCD 01:19 Why Cause-and-Effect Thinking About OCD Doesn't Work 02:21 Thoughts Are Secondary to Emotion 05:11 Why All Compulsive Behaviors Have the Same Root0 8:35 What Happens When You Just Stop the Behavior 09:30 The Inner Work That Actually Stops Reassurance Seeking Disclaimer ⚠️This content is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Consult a licensed professional for personalized support.

    12 min
  5. Jun 16

    How to Be More Loving to Yourself to Break the OCD Cycle

    If you've been struggling with OCD or anxiety for a long time and feel like nothing is working, this episode may reveal why. Matt Codde, LCSW explains why self-rejection is one of the most overlooked barriers to healing, and how learning to be more loving toward yourself is not a self-help cliche, but a clinical cornerstone of lasting OCD recovery. This episode applies to anyone dealing with OCD, anxiety, chronic pain, or any pattern of internal resistance. Whether you are in active ERP therapy or just beginning to understand your OCD cycle, the message here is one that most people have never heard in quite this way. If you have spent years trying to eliminate thoughts, manage anxiety, or "get better" before giving yourself permission to rest, recover, or even feel okay, this one is for you. Matt walks through the specific ways people with OCD are unloving to themselves without realizing it, and what the path toward integration and true healing actually looks like 🧭 What You’ll Learn in This Episode ✅ Understand why self-rejection silently blocks OCD and anxiety healing, even when you are doing everything "right" ✅ Learn how the OCD cycle is rooted in resistance to normal human experiences, not the experiences themselves ✅ See why trying to heal so you can love yourself is the one mindset that guarantees the cycle continues ✅ Understand Carl Jung's concept of shadow integration and why acknowledging all parts of yourself is essential for recovery ✅ Learn how pride, isolation, and the "I can fix this myself" pattern are actually forms of self-rejection ✅ See how investing in yourself, seeking guidance, and treating yourself like a best friend are acts of healing, not weakness ✅ Understand why love is the ultimate healing field and what it actually means to begin shifting from self-rejection to self-acceptance 🚀 Resources to Help You Heal:📥 FREE Recovery Guide Start your journey to freedom from OCD and anxiety with expert tools and step-by-step guidance. 👉 Download now: https://www.restoredminds.com/start 📖 Get a Copy of Our Book: From Stuck to Unstuck Learn practical strategies to overcome fear and reclaim your life.👉 Buy now: https://a.co/d/1WEvonT 📘 Taking Back Control (TBC) Program Learn how to apply these principles daily and dissolve anxiety at the root.👉 Apply Now: https://www.restoredminds.com/tbc🎧 Subscribe & Connect for More Support: ✅ Subscribe to our YouTube channel for weekly episodes, tools, and coaching content .👉 https://www.youtube.com/restoredminds ✅ Leave a Review on your favorite platform to help others discover this life-changing content: 👉 Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3NJI2zD 👉 Spotify: https://spoti.fi/46AiT30 ✅ Ask a Question for a future episode: 👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/assessments/2147654461✅ Download the Book – From Stuck to Unstuck 👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/bookFollow Matt Codde, LCSW on Social Media: 🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/ 🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/ 🔹 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/restoredminds/ 🔹 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@matthcodde.restoredminds 📸 If this episode helped you, share it on Instagram Stories and tag us! ⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 What This Episode Is About 01:20 How OCD Makes You Unloving to Yourself 03:10 Why Resistance to Normal Experiences Is the Real Problem 05:15 The Thought Experiment: How Would You Treat Someone Else? 08:00 Jung, Maslow, and Integration of the Whole Self 14:00 Love Is the Ultimate Healing Field Disclaimer ⚠️This content is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Consult a licensed professional for personalized support.

    19 min
  6. Jun 11

    Why OCD Recovery Is More Than Just Getting Better

    If you've been living with OCD, anxiety, or chronic fear, you may have been telling yourself that now just isn't the right time to fully commit to recovery. In this episode, Matt Codde, LCSW shares a perspective that goes beyond symptom management — one that asks a deeper, more honest question: what are you actually prioritizing over your own healing, and why?Matt explores how fear isn't just a clinical symptom to be eliminated, but a signal calling you toward the most important inner work of your life. Whether you've been stuck in survival mode, oscillating between stable and overwhelmed, or quietly wondering if real recovery is even possible for you — this episode is for you.This conversation moves into spiritually oriented territory, exploring what it means to grow beyond the ego, confront what's blocking love and peace within you, and understand why facing fear is not just about feeling better — it's about becoming who you're meant to be.🧭 What You’ll Learn in This Episode✅ Understand why fear is the central challenge beneath all OCD, anxiety, and panic — regardless of labels✅Learn why most people keep deprioritizing their healing and how to recognize that pattern in yourself✅See why recovery is not just about overcoming fear, but about removing what blocks love, peace, and presence✅Understand the difference between settling for stability and actually doing the deeper growth work✅Learn how OCD, as painful as it is, can become the catalyst for the most important transformation of your life✅ See why relationships rooted in fear — with others, yourself, or your faith — cannot become truly loving✅ Understand how confronting your inner world is the most meaningful work you can do in this lifetime🚀 Resources to Help You Heal:📥 FREE Recovery GuideStart your journey to freedom from OCD and anxiety with expert tools and step-by-step guidance.👉 Download now: https://www.restoredminds.com/start📖 Get a Copy of Our Book: From Stuck to UnstuckLearn practical strategies to overcome fear and reclaim your life.👉 Buy now: https://a.co/d/1WEvonT📘 Taking Back Control (TBC) ProgramLearn how to apply these principles daily and dissolve anxiety at the root.👉 Apply Now: https://www.restoredminds.com/tbc🎧 Subscribe & Connect for More Support:✅ Subscribe to our YouTube channel for weekly episodes, tools, and coaching content.👉 https://www.youtube.com/restoredminds✅ Leave a Review on your favorite platform to help others discover this life-changing content:👉 Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3NJI2zD👉 Spotify: https://spoti.fi/46AiT30✅ Ask a Question for a future episode:👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/assessments/2147654461✅ Download the Book – From Stuck to Unstuck👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/bookFollow Matt Codde, LCSW on Social Media:🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/🔹 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/restoredminds/🔹 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@matthcodde.restoredminds📸 If this episode helped you, share it on Instagram Stories and tag us!⏱️ Timestamps00:00 What This Episode Is About: Fear, OCD & the Deeper Work01:53 Why Fear Is the Root — Not the Label03:57 What Are You Really Here For? The Spiritual Question07:09 Why People Settle for Stability Instead of Growth09:26 OCD Was One of the Greatest Things That Happened to Me13:07 What Are You Prioritizing Over Your Own Healing?Disclaimer⚠️This content is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Consult a licensed professional for personalized support.

    17 min
  7. Jun 9

    Why Your OCD Work Isn't Working (It's the Starting Point)

    If you've tried ERP, meditation, supplements, and every tool you can find but still feel stuck, the problem likely isn't the tools. It's the belief you're bringing to them. In this episode, Matt Codde, LCSW breaks down why approaching OCD and anxiety recovery from a "fix the problem" mindset actually reinforces the cycle and what to do instead. Most people with intrusive thoughts, panic attacks, and anxiety come at recovery from a place of internal resistance, a belief that their thoughts and feelings are wrong, broken, or bad. But that belief is the root of the loop. Matt explains how the Triple-A Response™ and tools like ERP are designed not to eliminate thoughts and feelings, but to create non-resistance, so that emotion can move through the nervous system naturally and completely. This episode reframes what recovery actually looks like and how to measure real progress. If you've been asking "why am I not getting better?" this episode will shift how you understand the work entirely. 🧭 What You’ll Learn in This Episode ✅ Understand why approaching OCD recovery from a "problem-solution" mindset keeps you stuck ✅ Learn how internal resistance toward your emotions creates and sustains the anxiety cycle ✅ Understand why your thoughts and feelings are not abnormal or diseased ✅ See why tools like ERP and the AAA response are designed for non-resistance, not thought elimination ✅ Learn how to correctly measure progress in OCD and anxiety recovery ✅ Understand what it means to transcend fear rather than manage or suppress it ✅ See how adopting the right paradigm is the foundation all recovery tools are meant to rest on 🚀 Resources to Help You Heal: 📥 FREE Recovery Guide Start your journey to freedom from OCD and anxiety with expert tools and step-by-step guidance. 👉 Download now: https://www.restoredminds.com/start 📖 Get a Copy of Our Book: From Stuck to Unstuck Learn practical strategies to overcome fear and reclaim your life.👉 Buy now: https://a.co/d/1WEvonT 📘 Taking Back Control (TBC) ProgramLearn how to apply these principles daily and dissolve anxiety at the root. 👉 Apply Now: https://www.restoredminds.com/tbc 🎧 Subscribe & Connect for More Support: ✅ Subscribe to our YouTube channel for weekly episodes, tools, and coaching content.👉 https://www.youtube.com/restoredminds ✅ Leave a Review on your favorite platform to help others discover this life-changing content: 👉 Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3NJI2zD 👉 Spotify: https://spoti.fi/46AiT30✅ Ask a Question for a future episode:👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/assessments/2147654461✅ Download the Book – From Stuck to Unstuck👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/book Follow Matt Codde, LCSW on Social Media: 🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/ 🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/ 🔹 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/restoredminds/ 🔹 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@matthcodde.restoredminds 📸 If this episode helped you, share it on Instagram Stories and tag us! ⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 - What This Episode Is About: Doing the Work From the Right Place #RestoredMinds 00:54 - The Problem-Solution Trap in OCD and Anxiety Recovery 03:27 - There Is Nothing Wrong With You 05:47 - What the Triple-A Response Is Really 07:00 - How to Measure Real Progress in Recovery 09:21 - Working at the Right Problem Disclaimer ⚠️This content is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Consult a licensed professional for personalized support.

    13 min
  8. Jun 2

    Why Staying Stable in OCD Recovery Keeps You Stuck

    Getting from survival to stable in OCD recovery is real, hard-won progress — and it deserves to be celebrated. But staying in that "I'm fine" zone for too long comes with a hidden cost that most people don't see until they're sliding back toward survival mode. In this episode, Matt Codde, LCSW explains why stabilizing is only the beginning — and what happens when you don't keep moving forward. If you've been feeling like you've improved but there's still something missing, this episode is for you. Whether you're navigating OCD, anxiety, or emotional avoidance patterns, this is the conversation that will help you understand what real, lasting recovery actually looks like — and why settling for "okay" keeps you from experiencing what's truly possible. 🧭 What You’ll Learn in This Episode ✅ Understand the hidden cost of staying at Stage 2 (stable) in OCD and anxiety recovery ✅ Learn why the skills that got you stable won't get you to lasting freedom ✅ See why emotional avoidance keeps the "emotional tank" filling up — and leads to regression ✅ Understand the Healing Principle and why your body is already moving toward wholeness ✅ Learn how triggers and activating events are actually healing opportunities in disguise ✅ See why the gap between where you are and where you could be is the most important gap to focus on ✅ Discover what Stage 3 growth looks like — from personas and beliefs to real-world fears around money, health, and relationships 🚀 Resources to Help You Heal:📥 FREE Recovery Guide Start your journey to freedom from OCD and anxiety with expert tools and step-by-step guidance. 👉 Download now: https://www.restoredminds.com/start📖 Get a Copy of Our Book: From Stuck to Unstuck Learn practical strategies to overcome fear and reclaim your life.👉 Buy now: https://a.co/d/1WEvonT 📘 Taking Back Control (TBC) Program Learn how to apply these principles daily and dissolve anxiety at the root.👉 Apply Now: https://www.restoredminds.com/tbc Subscribe & Connect for More Support: ✅ Subscribe to our YouTube channel for weekly episodes, tools, and coaching content. 👉 https://www.youtube.com/restoredminds ✅ Leave a Review on your favorite platform to help others discover this life-changing content: 👉 Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3NJI2zD 👉 Spotify: https://spoti.fi/46AiT30 ✅ Ask a Question for a future episode: 👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/assessments/2147654461✅ Download the Book – From Stuck to Unstuck 👉 https://www.restoredminds.com/book Follow Matt Codde, LCSW on Social Media: 🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/ 🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mattcodde.restoredminds/ 🔹 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/restoredminds/ 🔹 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@matthcodde.restoredminds 📸 If this episode helped you, share it on Instagram Stories and tag us! ⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 – What This Episode Is About 01:00 – Celebrating Stage 2: You've Come a Long Way 02:30 – The Hidden Cost: Why Stable Isn't Enough 05:18 – What Gets You Here Won't Get You There 08:47 – Stage 3 Work: Fears Around Money, Health & Relationships 10:56 – The Healing Principle: Your Body Wants to Heal 15:22 – The Gap Between Where You Are and Where You Could Be Disclaimer ⚠️This content is for educational purposes only and is not medical advice. Consult a licensed professional for personalized support.

    19 min
4.8
out of 5
264 Ratings

About

The Breaking Free from OCD, Anxiety & Stress Podcast is hosted by Matt Codde. Visit www.restoredminds.com/about to know more about Matt! In this podcast, you’re going to learn practical steps on the journey to recovery. In each episode, we will discuss common challenges and provide you with evidence-based strategies to help you overcome them. At Restored Minds, we believe that recovery is possible for everyone and it's our mission to give you the tools to help you build better mental health so you can become the best version of yourself.

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