Owning Your Sexual Self

Rachel Maine
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Hi! I'm Rachel Maine! I am a sex coach and sexuality educator that helps women discover and embrace what brings them pleasure so that they can own their sexual self. This podcast provides a space for listeners to think openly about their sexuality and discusses all topics surrounding sexual health and wellness through a sex positive lens. Of course, there will be humor and profanity involved because well... that's my jam! Be sure to subscribe and review the podcast so you never miss a beat!

  1. 3d ago

    282. The ABCs of Kink

    Hello! I'm so excited to bring you another solo episode  of the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! I'll be taking you through the ABC's of Kink, exploring 26 different terms, practices, and experiences that you may have heard of, wondered about, or never even knew existed. I'll be sharing some of my own experiences along the way while helping make the world of kink a little less intimidating and easier to understand. There's no judgment or expectation to try anything, just an opportunity to get curious, explore your interests, and maybe learn something new about yourself! In this episode: What kink means and how it looks different for everyoneWhy consent, boundaries, and aftercare are so importantExploring 26 different kinks from A to ZHow to communicate your desires and limits with a partnerLetting go of shame and getting curious about what interests youThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! Ready to change your experience with love and dating? Be the Queen is a three month live program with Christine Hassler and Stefanos Sifandos designed for single women who are ready to break old relationship patterns, reconnect with their confidence and sensuality, and attract the loving relationship they desire. Join Be The Queen *If you decide to join through this affiliate link, Rachel may receive a small commission, which is always appreciated and helps support the work she shares with this community.* Resources Want, Will, Won't List BDSMTest.org Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

  2. Oct 19

    281. Fertility Without Pressure with Dr. Aumatma

    Hey, hey, hey! Dr. Aumatma Simmons is back for another conversation, and I'm so happy to welcome her to the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast again! With nearly 20 years of experience as a double board-certified Naturopathic Endocrinologist, she's helped thousands of families navigate fertility challenges. As the founder of the Holistic Fertility Institute and author of *Fertility Secrets*, she brings incredible knowledge and passion to her work, and it's a treat to have her back on the show! A quick note before we begin: Fertility experiences are deeply personal, and the information shared in this episode is intended for education, not individualized medical advice. Having a lower sex drive doesn't mean you love your partner any less, and intimacy can look different for every couple. Please consult a qualified healthcare professional for guidance specific to your fertility and reproductive health. In this episode: How stress impacts the fertility journeyThe pressures of fertility challenges and how they affect intimacyThe benefits of taking a break from trying to conceiveRecognizing the signs of ovulation and the fertile windowDifferent methods for tracking ovulationThe importance of realistic expectations during fertility treatmentThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! Ready to change your experience with love and dating? Be the Queen is a three month live program with Christine Hassler and Stefanos Sifandos designed for single women who are ready to break old relationship patterns, reconnect with their confidence and sensuality, and attract the loving relationship they desire. Join Be The Queen *If you decide to join through this affiliate link, Rachel may receive a small commission, which is always appreciated and helps support the work she shares with this community.* Connect with Dr Aumatma! Instagram: @HolisticFertilityDoctor Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

  3. Oct 12

    280. Rest, Rituals, and Pleasure with Radhika Mukhija

    Hello everyone! Welcome back to the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! I am so thrilled to welcome Radhika Mukhija to the podcast this week! Radhika is a wellness mentor, meditation guide, and author of the upcoming book Radiant Rituals. Through her unique blend of Ayurvedic wisdom, yoga philosophy, and modern neuroscience, she helps women manage stress, prevent burnout, and reconnect with their bodies. Today, she's bringing that perspective into a conversation about hormones, the importance of slowing down, and how everyday rituals can create more space for connection and pleasure. I'm so happy to have her here to share her knowledge and experience! In this episode: The connection between stress and hormonesHow seasonal changes influence your bodyThe importance of rest and preventing burnoutSlowing down for better intimacyExploring self-touch and self-pleasureBringing sensuality into everyday lifeReconnecting with your bodyThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! Ready to take a different look at what may be keeping you stuck in love? Love Magnet is a free three day workshop with Christine Hassler and Stefanos Sifandos focused on breaking old patterns and creating space for the relationship you want.  Join Love Magnet  *If you decide to join through this affiliate link, Rachel may receive a small commission, which is always appreciated and helps support the work she shares with this community.* Connect with Radhika Get her book: holisticprana.com/book Instagram: @holisticprana Website: holisticprana.com Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

  4. Oct 5

    279. Owning Your Kinky Side with Amanda Dames

    Hey hey! Welcome back to the Owning You Sexual Self podcast! I’m so thrilled to welcome Amanda Dames, aka The Kink Consultant, on this week! Amanda is a sexologist, Somatica® Certified Sex and Relationship Coach, podcast host, and former NYC Dominatrix who brings such an open and approachable perspective to kink, desire, intimacy, and communication. Her work has reached more than 300,000 followers and landed her features in Cosmopolitan, HuffPost, Women’s Health, and more. She has an incredible way of taking topics that can feel intimidating or taboo and making them easier to explore with curiosity, confidence, and a whole lot less shame. In this episode: What it can look like to explore your kinky sideHow shame can keep people from talking about their desiresWhat kink actually means and how it shows up in everyday sexualityHow to talk about boundaries, limits, and interests before exploringWhy starting slowly is important when trying kink for the first timeHow trust, consent, and feedback shape kink experiencesWhere to learn kink skills and find community, classes, and other resourcesThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! Ready to take a different look at what may be keeping you stuck in love? Love Magnet is a free three day workshop with Christine Hassler and Stefanos Sifandos focused on breaking old patterns and creating space for the relationship you want.  Join Love Magnet  *If you decide to join through this affiliate link, Rachel may receive a small commission, which is always appreciated and helps support the work she shares with this community.* Resources Guide for couples with mismatched desire to have more open and honest conversations in a safe framework: https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1 BDSM Menu for couples who are curious to explore each other's kinks: https://www.amandadames.com/bdsmlist Connect with Amanda! Website:  AmandaDames.com Instagram: @the_kinkconsultant Facebook: thekinkconsultant TikTok: @the_kinkconsultant YouTube: @thekinkconsultant Podcast: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-kink-consultant/id1766435920 Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

  5. Sep 28

    278. Emotional Safety with Stefanos Sifandos

    Hey and welcome back to the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! I’ve been looking forward to this conversation with Stefanos Sifandos because he brings such a unique depth to the way he talks about relationships, emotional safety, and human connection. With 25 years of experience working with Olympians, world champions, CEOs, military operators, individuals, and couples, his work brings together behavioral science, trauma resolution, and personal transformation. I’ve followed Stefanos for quite some time, so having him here to talk about emotional safety, the patterns we carry into relationships, and what it takes to create deeper connection feels especially exciting. In this episode:  What emotional safety can look like within a healthy intimate relationshipHow old survival patterns can show up during conflictThe role trust, boundaries, repair, and personal space play in emotional safetyHow a lack of emotional safety can create distance in sexual intimacyWhy moving through challenges together can strengthen connectionHow shame can interfere with authenticity and vulnerabilityWhy couples may benefit from talking more openly about their deepest sexual desiresThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! Ready to take a different look at what may be keeping you stuck in love? Love Magnet is a free three day workshop with Christine Hassler and Stefanos Sifandos focused on breaking old patterns and creating space for the relationship you want.  Join Love Magnet  *If you decide to join through this affiliate link, Rachel may receive a small commission, which is always appreciated and helps support the work she shares with this community.* Connect with Sefanos! Book: TunedinAndTurnedonBook.com Website: StefanosSifandos.com Socials @StefanosSifandos Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

  6. Sep 14

    277. From Tension to Turn On with Sapphire Leela

    Hello hello! Welcome back to the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! I am thrilled to welcome Sapphire Leela this week! Sapphire is a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, Intimacy Educator, and Certified Somatic Sexology Coach who helps people navigate sexual shame, desire differences, people pleasing, and recurring relationship patterns. She brings such a unique perspective to intimacy by blending somatic sexology with psychosexual and relationship therapy, and I cannot wait for you to hear everything she brings to this conversation! In this episode: How somatic work can complement traditional talk therapyHow sexual shame and relationship patterns show up in the bodyWhy conflict can become a repeating loop between partnersHow to recognize and interrupt your relational reflexesThe role vulnerability can play in moving through conflictHow regulation can help create space for connection and intimacyPractical tools for regulating your nervous systemThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! **This episode is sponsored by Foria. Visit ForiaWellness.com and use my exclusive code MAINE20 for 20% off your order!** Connect with Sapphire Leela Instagram: @intimacy.with.sapphire Website: SapphireLeela.com Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

  7. Aug 31

    276. The Four Dates Every Relationship Needs

    Heeey! I'm back with a quick tip solo episode of the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! If date nights keep getting pushed off, feel hard to plan, or always seem to fall on one person, this episode is for you! I’m sharing a simple tool called quad dating that gives you an easy way to make space for yourself, your partner, and your relationship each month. I’ll walk you through the four types of dates, how to make them work for your relationship, and why time apart can be just as important as time together. We’ll also talk about sharing the responsibility of planning so keeping the connection going doesn’t become one more thing for one person to manage. It’s a simple shift that can help you be more intentional with your time and keep dating each other even when life gets busy. Thank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! **This episode is sponsored by Wellness Sexpertise with Rachel Maine. Visit pure.shop/shop?sh=V9S5E8R and use my exclusive code MY9PU44 for 15% off your order!** Resources Relationship Regroup - WellnessSexpertise.com/freebies Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

  8. Aug 24

    275. Living in Sync With Your Cycle with Dr. Aumatma

    Hello! Welcome back to the Owning Your Sexual Self podcast! I’m thrilled to welcome Dr. Aumatma Simmons to the show this week! She’s a double board-certified Naturopathic Endocrinologist, best-selling author, and founder of the Holistic Fertility Institute who has spent nearly 20 years helping people better understand their hormones and fertility. She’s also the visionary behind Hormonal Leadership, bringing a whole new perspective to the connection between our hormones, energy, and burnout. I can’t wait for you to hear her insight in this conversation! In this episode: How to support fertility before trying to conceiveWhat fertility really looks like after 35What birth control does and doesn’t do for hormonesThe role toxins can play in hormone healthWhy hormone health matters beyond fertilityHow your energy shifts throughout your cycleWays to work with your cycle in everyday lifeThank you so much for listening! Don't forget to share on your social media and tag me if you loved this episode! **This episode is sponsored by Instant Hydration. Visit InstantHydration.com and use my exclusive code RACHEL33826 for 40% off your order!** Resources Free Fertility Analysis: MadreFertility.com Connect with Dr Aumatma! Instagram: @HolisticFertilityDoctor Support the show Connect with Rachel! Instagram: @The_Rachel_Maine Website: https://linktr.ee/WellnessSexpertise YouTube: YouTube.com/@OwningYourSexualSelf Facebook: Rachel Maine Email: therachelmaine@gmail.com

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Hi! I'm Rachel Maine! I am a sex coach and sexuality educator that helps women discover and embrace what brings them pleasure so that they can own their sexual self. This podcast provides a space for listeners to think openly about their sexuality and discusses all topics surrounding sexual health and wellness through a sex positive lens. Of course, there will be humor and profanity involved because well... that's my jam! Be sure to subscribe and review the podcast so you never miss a beat!

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  • Creator
    Rachel Maine
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    284
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Owning Your Sexual Self
  • Show Website
    Owning Your Sexual Self

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