Alcohol Minimalist: Change Your Drinking Habits!

Molly Watts, Author & Coach
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Change your relationship with alcohol without shame, guilt, or going sober. Join science-based coach Molly Watts to break habits and find peace through mindful drinking. Hosted by author and coach Molly Watts, this show is for daily habit drinkers, adult children of alcoholics, and anyone stuck in the “gray area” of alcohol use. Each episode blends neuroscience, behavior change psychology, and real-world strategies to help you build peace with alcohol — past, present, and future. You’re not broken. You’re not powerless. You just need new tools. Less alcohol. More life. Let’s do it together. New episodes every Monday & Thursday. Becoming an alcohol minimalist means: Choosing how to include alcohol in our lives following low-risk guidelines. Freedom from anxiety around alcohol use. Less alcohol without feeling deprived. Using the power of our own brains to overcome our past patterns and choose peace. The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast explores the science behind alcohol and analyzes physical and mental wellness to empower choice. You have the power to change your relationship with alcohol, you are not sick, broken and it's not your genes! This show is intended for educational purposes and does not constitute medical advice. If you are physically dependent on alcohol, please seek medical help to reduce your drinking.

  1. What I’ve Learned After 5 Years of Alcohol Minimalism (That Will Help You Drink Less)

    10H AGO

    What I’ve Learned After 5 Years of Alcohol Minimalism (That Will Help You Drink Less)

    Join Mostly Dry January-The Daily! As 2025 wraps up, Molly celebrates a major milestone—five full years of the Alcohol Minimalist Podcast. In this reflective and empowering episode, she shares five impactful lessons learned over the past five years—lessons that have shaped her journey and the lives of thousands who are building a more peaceful relationship with alcohol. Whether you’re a longtime listener or new to the show, this episode will meet you where you are with compassionate wisdom, science-backed insights, and practical tools to support moderation—not perfection. What You’ll Learn Your Brain Isn't Broken—And It Can ChangeUnderstand why psychological dependence on alcohol isn't a character flaw but a learned habit—and how your brain is capable of rewiring.You Don’t Have to Be All or NothingExplore the alcohol minimalist approach as a valid, sustainable alternative to both abstinence and overdrinking.Your Thoughts Create Your DesireDiscover how your core beliefs and inner dialogue shape your cravings—and how to challenge them.Willpower Isn’t the Answer—Planning IsLearn why planning, not willpower, is the key to long-term change. Molly revisits her most impactful strategies, including the "Doable Drink Plan."You Can Break the LegacyMolly shares how she rewrote her story as an adult child of an alcoholic and invites you to do the same.Key Questions for Reflection What do you understand about alcohol now that you didn’t a year ago?Where have you made quiet, meaningful progress?If you felt confident and peaceful around alcohol in 2026, what else would need to change?Mentioned Episodes & Resources Episodes: 14, 92, 115–117, 143, 167, 189, 198, 258Alcohol Core Beliefs Series: Search "alcohol core beliefs" in your podcast appMostly Dry January Challenge: Daily support, private podcast, coaching, and a powerful start to 2026Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA: Healthy men under 65: No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week. Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week. One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink. Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past. Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

    24 min
  2. Revisiting: Think Thursday-The Neuroscience of Mental Rest

    4D AGO

    Revisiting: Think Thursday-The Neuroscience of Mental Rest

    Join Mostly Dry January-The Daily! In this special holiday revisited episode of Think Thursday, Molly explores why mental rest is essential for brain health, especially coming out of a season of overstimulation. She explains how modern life is designed to hijack our attention, keeping us in constant reaction mode and depriving the brain of the downtime it needs to function well. Molly breaks down what happens neurologically when the brain is exposed to nonstop input, including cognitive fatigue, reduced creativity, increased stress, and weaker memory consolidation. She revisits the role of the default mode network and explains why creativity and quiet, not constant consumption, are key to restoring mental clarity and emotional regulation. The episode closes with practical, science backed strategies for reclaiming mental rest and intentionally creating space for the brain to recover and thrive. What You’ll Learn The difference between mental rest and sleep or meditationWhy the brain is not designed for constant stimulationHow nonstop input leads to cognitive fatigue and decision fatigueThe role of the default mode network in creativity and problem solvingWhy overstimulation increases stress, anxiety, and emotional reactivityHow modern technology has removed natural stopping points for the brainWhy attention is the product in today’s digital economyKey Concepts Explained Cognitive fatigue from continuous information processingDefault mode network and its role in reflection and creativitySympathetic nervous system activation from constant stimulationMemory consolidation requiring downtime and restAttention as a limited resource that must be protected intentionallyPractical Strategies Shared in the Episode Schedule at least 30 minutes of tech free time each dayEmbrace boredom and allow moments of silence without distractionCreate a no phone zone in one part of your day, such as meals or bedtimeReplace scrolling with hands on, real world creativityPrioritize presence over constant consumptionReal World Creativity Ideas Mentioned Playing music or learning an instrumentDrawing, painting, or doodlingWriting by hand through journaling or copying quotesGardening, crafting, sculpting, or woodworkingCreative movement such as dancing, stretching, or mindful walkingWhy Mental Rest Matters Mental rest is not wasted time. It allows the brain to process information, regulate emotions, consolidate memory, and restore cognitive energy. Without intentional breaks, the brain stays in reaction mode, making it harder to focus, create, and feel calm. Listener Invitation For the next 24 hours, find one way to engage in real world creativity with no screens involved. Notice how your brain and body feel afterward, and share your experience by emailing Molly or connecting in The Alcohol Minimalist community. ★ Support this podcast ★

    18 min
  3. The December Trap: Interrupting the Sin & Repent Cycle

    DEC 22

    The December Trap: Interrupting the Sin & Repent Cycle

    Join Mostly Dry January-The Daily! In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly tackles a common end-of-year mindset trap: the “sin and repent” cycle. It’s the idea that December is for overindulgence and January is for repentance—a pattern that often reinforces all-or-nothing thinking and keeps us stuck in old drinking habits. Through personal reflections and practical coaching, Molly unpacks the power of permission-giving thoughts like “It’s the holidays, I deserve this” or “I’ll get back on track in January.” These seemingly harmless ideas delay change, undermine self-trust, and reinforce avoidance patterns. But there’s a better way—and it starts by practicing mindful thought shifts right now, not later. With her See, Soothe, Separate, Shift method and a science-backed approach to building new thought habits, Molly shows listeners how to move through the holiday season with more clarity, agency, and peace. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why the “I’ll be good in January” mindset is not harmless—and how it reinforces habits you're trying to breakWhat permission-giving thoughts sound like and why they feel so rationalHow delaying behavior change until January trains your brain to avoid discomfortThe difference between self-compassion and excuse-makingHow to use the See, Soothe, Separate, Shift framework to rewire your thinking in real timeKey Quote “It’s not a willpower problem—it’s a pattern problem. The thoughts you choose now are training your brain for what you'll do next month and next year.”Mentioned in This Episode Behavior Map – Results CycleSee, Soothe, Separate, Shift framework for thought changeGet Involved Join Mostly Dry January: The Daily Go beyond white-knuckling Dry January. Molly’s new daily experience gives you: Real-time behind-the-scenes video check-insA private podcast feed for bite-sized daily mindset coachingWeekly science-backed brain lessonsLive group coachingAccess to a private Facebook community Sign up here: [Insert Link] or visit mollywatts.com/dryjanuaryTake Action This Week You don’t need to “start over” in January. You can begin noticing and shifting thoughts right now—before the year ends. Ask yourself: Is this a self-compassionate thought?Or is it a permission-giving excuse?What’s one small choice I can make today that aligns with who I’m becoming?Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA: Healthy men under 65: No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week. Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week. One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink. Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past. Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

    21 min
  4. Think Thursday: The Brain's Window of Tolerance & The Holidays

    DEC 18

    Think Thursday: The Brain's Window of Tolerance & The Holidays

    Join Mostly Dry January-The Daily! In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explains why the holiday season can feel emotionally harder even when nothing is “wrong.” Using neuroscience and psychology, she introduces the concept of the window of tolerance and explores how cumulative stress, anticipation, sensory overload, emotional memory, and disrupted routines narrow our capacity for regulation during December. Molly walks through what happens in the brain under prolonged stress, including the role of cortisol, emotional flooding, and nervous system survival responses. She reframes coping behaviors as signals of an overwhelmed nervous system rather than a lack of discipline, and shares realistic, supportive ways to gently expand capacity during a demanding season. What You’ll Learn What the window of tolerance is and why it mattersHow December compresses our stress tolerance through cumulative demandsWhy anticipation can activate stress before events even happenThe role of cortisol in emotional flooding and impulse controlHow the prefrontal cortex, amygdala, and hippocampus are affected by prolonged stressWhy coping urges increase when nervous system capacity is lowPractical, doable ways to support regulation without adding pressureKey Concepts Explained Window of tolerance as a flexible range that expands and contractsHyperarousal and hypoarousal as nervous system survival statesEmotional flooding when feelings rise faster than regulation systems can manageCapacity over discipline as a more helpful framework for behavior change during stressful seasonsPractical Tools Shared in the Episode Creating predictability with small daily routinesUsing gentle movement to lower cortisolSupporting the nervous system through sensory regulation like warmth, sound, and lightTaking frequent micro recovery moments rather than long breaksNaming emotions to reduce amygdala activationAdjusting expectations when capacity is lowerChoosing stability over optimization during high stress periodsResearch and References Mentioned Dr. Dan Siegel’s Window of Tolerance modelResearch in Psychoneuroendocrinology on cortisol and prolonged stressNeuroscience findings on stress effects in the prefrontal cortex, amygdala, and hippocampusUCLA research on affect labeling and emotion regulationThe Feelings Wheel by Dr. Gloria Wilcox, referenced from Breaking the Bottle LegacyRelated Think Thursday Episodes The Neuroscience of AnticipationSelective IgnoranceDefensive PessimismNovelty for Habit ChangeThe Neuroscience of Mental Rest ★ Support this podcast ★

    15 min
  5. The Language of Our Thoughts & The Desire to Drink

    DEC 15

    The Language of Our Thoughts & The Desire to Drink

    Join Mostly Dry January-The Daily! In this episode of the Alcohol Minimalist podcast, Molly explores one of the most powerful yet under-recognized tools for transforming your relationship with alcohol: the language you use in your thoughts. She explains how common phrases like “I need a drink” or “I deserve this glass of wine” are not just throwaway expressions. These words create specific emotional reactions that drive habitual behaviors, especially during emotionally charged moments. Using the Alcohol Minimalist framework and the Behavior Map – Results Cycle, Molly walks through how rewording your thoughts can unlock more peaceful, intentional decisions about drinking. This episode focuses on two key language pairs: “Need” vs. “Want”“Deserve” vs. “Choose”You’ll discover how shifting these words can reduce emotional urgency, increase your sense of agency, and help you align more closely with your alcohol core beliefs and long-term goals. What You’ll Learn Why your thoughts matter more than you think—especially the words you useThe neurological and emotional impact of saying “I need” versus “I want”How “I deserve this” may be fueling your desire without your awarenessWhy choosing your language intentionally supports long-term changeHow to rewire beliefs using the Alcohol Core Beliefs framework and the Behavior Map – Results CycleMentioned in the Episode Molly’s book: Breaking the Bottle LegacyAlcohol Core Beliefs worksheetThe Behavior Map – Results CycleNew program announcement: Mostly Dry January – The Daily A daily support experience launching this January to help you stay focused, inspired, and mindful throughout the month.Key Quote “Your thoughts are not just background noise—they’re the engine behind your emotions and actions. Change the thought, and you change the result.” – Molly WattsLinks and Resources Learn more about the Alcohol Core BeliefsJoin the Mostly Dry January – The Daily experienceInstagram: @alcoholminimalist Facebook Group: Alcohol MinimalistsTake Action This WeekStart tuning into your internal dialogue. When you catch yourself thinking “I need a drink” or “I deserve this,” pause and reframe it. Try saying “I want a drink” or “I choose to have a drink” and notice the emotional difference. Language is the entry point to lasting change. Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA: Healthy men under 65: No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week. Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week. One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink. Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past. Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

    21 min
  6. Think Thursday: The Neuroscience of Anticipation

    DEC 11

    Think Thursday: The Neuroscience of Anticipation

    Join Mostly Dry January-The Daily! Episode Summary In this Think Thursday episode, Molly explores why December feels so emotionally intense and why anticipation plays such a powerful role in our thoughts, feelings, and habits. Anticipation is not just psychological. It is driven by the brain's predictive systems that simulate the future long before it arrives. Using findings from neuroscience, including research highlighted in Neuron, University College London, Stanford University, and studies on dopamine and reward processing, Molly explains how imagining the future changes our emotional state in the present. She shows how anticipation can create craving, heighten anxiety, and influence behavior before anything even happens. Importantly, she connects this science to behavior change. When we understand anticipation, we gain the ability to shape our emotional experience, support our habit goals, and build a stronger relationship with our future selves. What You Will Learn Why the brain is not reactive but predictiveHow the prospection network simulates possible futuresWhy anticipation activates the same regions involved in memory and emotionHow dopamine spikes during anticipation more than during rewardWhy the holidays intensify emotional forecastingHow the brain treats future you similarly to a strangerHow anticipation contributes to cravings, stress, and anxietyPractical strategies for using anticipation intentionally in behavior changeKey Insights from the Episode Anticipation is a physiological experience. Heart rate, dopamine, and emotional readiness all shift based on prediction.December amplifies anticipation because the brain is projecting ahead using vivid emotional memories from past holidays.Many habit patterns with alcohol, eating, and spending are anticipatory rather than reactive in the moment.The medial prefrontal cortex becomes less active when imagining the distant future, which explains why future you feels separate.Mental rehearsal activates the same neural pathways as actual behavior and can support intentional change.Anticipatory framing can influence how stressful events are interpreted afterward.Practical Tools from the Episode 1. Anticipate the emotional landscape, not the event. Shift from worrying about what will happen to planning for how you want to feel. 2. Rehearse your chosen identity. Imagine yourself acting in alignment with your values to strengthen the neural pathways that support follow-through. 3. Shorten the distance to future you. Ask questions like: What will tonight's me thank me forWhat does tomorrow morning's me need4. Anticipate urges with curiosity. Recognize that urges are forecasts of relief, not emergencies. 5. Create micro anticipations that ground you. Examples include expecting the first sip of warm tea, a quiet step outside, or the feeling of waking up proud the next morning. Studies and Sources Mentioned 2023 review in Neuron on the prospection networkUniversity College London study on dopamine release during anticipatory uncertaintyStanford University research on future self representation in the brainStudies from the University of Michigan and Max Planck Institute on dopamine and anticipation2024 Psychological Science study on anticipatory framing and stress interpretation ★ Support this podcast ★

    17 min
  7. Revisiting: Drink-The New Science of Alcohol & Your Health with Dr. David Nutt

    DEC 8

    Revisiting: Drink-The New Science of Alcohol & Your Health with Dr. David Nutt

    Join Mostly Dry January-The Daily! If you’re working to change your drinking habits and create a peaceful relationship with alcohol, you’re in the right place. In today’s episode, we revisit a very special conversation with internationally renowned neuropsychopharmacologist, Dr. David Nutt. This episode originally aired when the podcast was still called Breaking the Bottle Legacy, but the message and insights are just as powerful—and relevant—today. In this episode, Molly speaks with Dr. David Nutt, author of Drink? The New Science of Alcohol and Your Health. The conversation dives into the science behind alcohol’s impact on the brain and body, while also exploring how to make more informed, intentional choices about drinking. Dr. Nutt shares: Why he wrote Drink?, and why science must inform our alcohol decisionsThe duality of alcohol: pleasure and poisonHis personal journey with alcohol, including owning a wine bar while being a leading voice in alcohol harm reductionHow using science can help you assess the role of alcohol in your life and your long-term goalsWhy This Episode Matters Molly revisits this conversation as a holiday-season reminder: it’s possible to enjoy social events with alcohol while staying aligned with your goals. Dr. Nutt emphasizes the power of planning ahead, staying self-aware, and not drinking alone—core pillars of the Alcohol Minimalist approach. If you’re seeking peace with alcohol—not necessarily abstinence—this episode delivers practical insights and validation that change is possible when you lead with knowledge and intention. Resources Mentioned Book: Drink? The New Science of Alcohol and Your Health by Dr. David NuttWebsite: mollywatts.comTakeaways Alcohol is a drug—understanding that fact is key to moderation“Think about drink”: intentionality and self-reflection help you stay in controlYou can challenge past patterns and create a new story for yourselfSubscribe and Share If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe and share it with a friend. And if you have a favorite adjective for your weather report or a show guest you’d love to hear from, email Molly at molly@mollywatts.com Low risk drinking guidelines from the NIAAA: Healthy men under 65: No more than 4 drinks in one day and no more than 14 drinks per week. Healthy women (all ages) and healthy men 65 and older:No more than 3 drinks in one day and no more than 7 drinks per week. One drink is defined as 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof liquor. So remember that a mixed drink or full glass of wine are probably more than one drink. Abstinence from alcoholAbstinence from alcohol is the best choice for people who take medication(s) that interact with alcohol, have health conditions that could be exacerbated by alcohol (e.g. liver disease), are pregnant or may become pregnant or have had a problem with alcohol or another substance in the past. Benefits of “low-risk” drinkingFollowing these guidelines reduces the risk of health problems such as cancer, liver disease, reduced immunity, ulcers, sleep problems, complications of existing conditions, and more. It also reduces the risk of depression, social problems, and difficulties at school or work. ★ Support this podcast ★

    32 min
  8. Think Thursday: Holiday Creativity-Why Making Things Helps Your Brain

    DEC 4

    Think Thursday: Holiday Creativity-Why Making Things Helps Your Brain

    Join Mostly Dry January-The Daily! In this episode, Molly explores why holiday creativity is far more than a nostalgic pastime. New research highlighted in The Washington Post shows that engaging in creative activities, even at a beginner level, is associated with younger looking brains and stronger cognitive health. Molly explains how creative acts like crafting, drawing, baking and building stimulate multiple brain networks, reduce stress hormones, and support emotional regulation. She connects these findings to childhood holiday memories while discussing why those early creative experiences were neurologically important. Molly also shares how creativity can support habit change by providing a healthy reward pathway, reducing urges, and strengthening identity. The episode ends with simple, low pressure ideas for tapping into creativity during the holiday season. What You’ll Learn Why creativity often feels counterintuitive but is deeply supported by neuroscienceHow creative activities activate the motor cortex, prefrontal cortex, reward system and the default mode networkThe connection between creativity, reduced cortisol, and emotional regulationWhy childhood crafting strengthened attention, fine motor skills and dopamine pathwaysHow creativity supports behavior change and identity transformationWhy the holiday season is a perfect time to reconnect with play and creative explorationSimple, nostalgic creative ideas that help the brain settle and feel groundedKey Ideas from the Episode You do not need talent to benefit from creativity; beginners gain the same cognitive advantagesThe brain responds to the creative process, not the quality of the final productHoliday crafts from childhood created sensory, emotional and learning experiences that supported brain developmentCreativity provides a self-generated way to shift emotional states and manage urgesCreative acts reengage curiosity, novelty and presence, which help the holidays feel richer and less overwhelmingSmall creative behaviors can be a meaningful substitute for less helpful coping habitsPractical Creative Ideas Mentioned Make a paper snowflakeTry a salt dough ornamentDecorate a gingerbread house kitMake a single handmade holiday cardPaint pinecones with simple suppliesCreate a photo collage from the yearDo a puzzle or coloring pageTreat cooking as a creative actTry a new recipe or texture-based food projectRelated Think Thursday Episodes The Paradox of FreedomNovelty for Habit ChangeDefensive PessimismThe Neuroscience of Mental RestSilence Is GoldenBrain Time: Why the Mind Does Not Experience Minutes the Way the Clock Does ★ Support this podcast ★

    18 min
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Change your relationship with alcohol without shame, guilt, or going sober. Join science-based coach Molly Watts to break habits and find peace through mindful drinking. Hosted by author and coach Molly Watts, this show is for daily habit drinkers, adult children of alcoholics, and anyone stuck in the “gray area” of alcohol use. Each episode blends neuroscience, behavior change psychology, and real-world strategies to help you build peace with alcohol — past, present, and future. You’re not broken. You’re not powerless. You just need new tools. Less alcohol. More life. Let’s do it together. New episodes every Monday & Thursday. Becoming an alcohol minimalist means: Choosing how to include alcohol in our lives following low-risk guidelines. Freedom from anxiety around alcohol use. Less alcohol without feeling deprived. Using the power of our own brains to overcome our past patterns and choose peace. The Alcohol Minimalist Podcast explores the science behind alcohol and analyzes physical and mental wellness to empower choice. You have the power to change your relationship with alcohol, you are not sick, broken and it's not your genes! This show is intended for educational purposes and does not constitute medical advice. If you are physically dependent on alcohol, please seek medical help to reduce your drinking.

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