Islamic Life Coach School Podcast

Kanwal Akhtar
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I have created the Islamic Life Coach School, and this podcast in efforts for you to achieve any and ALL of your goals through high level of self awareness, mind management and emotional intelligence. It is my mission to provide you with the tools that you can use to make your life unrecognizably successful.How do I define success? Success is what you want it to be. These tools can be applied to create success in life, religion, relationships, career etc. YOU define your success and I will teach you the tool to get it.

  1. Aug 25

    Success Is Responsiveness

    Success can look “mature” on paper and still feel crushing in real life. When we treat integrity as never changing our mind, we end up trapped in routines and commitments that no longer match our capacity, our family needs, or the reality in front of us. I unpack why that rigid definition creates shame, procrastination, and burnout, especially for high achieving women who are used to planning well and doing what they said they would do.  We work with a different definition that makes success sustainable: success is responsiveness. That means staying awake to the data your life gives you, then recalibrating without turning it into an identity crisis. We talk through why sustainability is not a straight line, why “temporary intensity” does not automatically mean you designed your life wrong, and how miscalculations are often the price of building a life that is big enough to enjoy. We also name the hidden trap of sunk cost thinking, where you keep paying for a decision long after reality has changed just to avoid admitting you were wrong.  From there, we get practical about course correction and self-trust. I share how to notice the lower brain’s panic response, separate facts from self-blame, and choose responses like renegotiating, canceling, apologizing, resting, or changing strategy. We connect it to an Islamic framework too: using your intellect, seeking counsel, making istikhara, committing with excellence, then letting what unfolds teach you with humility. Capacity is information, not a moral score, and real integrity is returning to alignment with your highest values again and again.  If this helped, subscribe, share it with a friend who’s carrying too much, and leave a review so more listeners can find the show. What commitment do you need to update based on today’s reality? I invite you to join The Ummi Collective. It is a weekly coaching program for Muslim mothers raising children on the autism spectrum. Inside, you learn how to support your child’s development in a way that builds independence, confidence, and long-term success... without losing yourself in the process. Apply for a Commitment Rate today https://www.islamiclifecoachschool.com/offers/RRn2EBEC/chec

  2. Aug 18

    The Evil Eye and the Good Eye

    People don’t decide how they feel around us based on our best lines. They decide based on our state, the invisible atmosphere we bring into the room through our eyes, our timing, our voice, and the quality of our attention. I’m digging into energetics from an Islamic life coaching lens and giving it language that feels concrete, not woo woo: what you call “energy” is your nervous system meaning paired with your emotions, and it gets transmitted long before you speak.  We break down a simple framework (circumstance, nervous system meaning, emotions, action, results) to show how one moment can create two totally different inner worlds. When someone else is thriving, the meaning we assign can quietly produce jealousy and contraction even while our words stay polite. Shift the meaning toward trust in Allah’s provision, and the emotional state changes into openness, generosity, and genuine joy. That inner change is not just personal growth. It’s purification of the heart in real time, shaping how we interpret people, how we respond to family, and how our presence lands.  Then we connect this to a concept that deserves more attention: the good eye. We’re so careful about the evil eye, but what about becoming someone whose gaze, expectations, and dua carry barakah for others? The good eye isn’t empty praise. It can include hard truth without hidden satisfaction, correction with high regard, and a presence that leaves people feeling more dignified and peaceful after being with you. If you want practical spiritual tools, emotional regulation, and deeper Islamic character work, press play, then subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review so more people can find it. I invite you to join The Ummi Collective. It is a weekly coaching program for Muslim mothers raising children on the autism spectrum. Inside, you learn how to support your child’s development in a way that builds independence, confidence, and long-term success... without losing yourself in the process. Apply for a Commitment Rate today https://www.islamiclifecoachschool.com/offers/RRn2EBEC/chec

  3. Aug 11

    The Islamic Law Of Attraction

    “Law of attraction” gets thrown around like a spiritual shortcut, but a lot of what’s popular online  shifts power away from Allah and toward “the universe” or your own thoughts. That is exactly where Muslims should be cautious. We start by grounding everything in Tawhid: Allah alone creates, provides, and decrees outcomes, and nothing happens outside His permission. Then we ask the more useful question: if Allah designed the human mind with real psychological mechanisms, what happens when we actually use those tools the way He intended?  We walk through how attention shapes perception and behavior, including the brain’s built-in filtering system that highlights what you repeatedly focus on. That explains why fear can become a self-reinforcing lens: when you rehearse danger, you get better at noticing danger, even in neutral situations. We apply that to marriage decisions with a practical shift from obsessing over red flags to deliberately learning green flags like emotional maturity, kindness, consistency, and responsibility, so you’re ready to recognize goodness when Allah places it in front of you.  We also apply the same principle to business, income, and risk. A fear-based inner script like “I don’t want to fail” can create hesitation and avoidance which leads to missed opportunities, while trust in Allah allows you to pursue excellence.  If you’ve ever wondered what Muslims can accept or reject about “law of attraction,” this conversation gives a clean framework: the mind is a means, Allah is the First Cause. Subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway. I invite you to join The Ummi Collective. It is a weekly coaching program for Muslim mothers raising children on the autism spectrum. Inside, you learn how to support your child’s development in a way that builds independence, confidence, and long-term success... without losing yourself in the process. Apply for a Commitment Rate today https://www.islamiclifecoachschool.com/offers/RRn2EBEC/chec

  4. Aug 4

    Experiential Knowledge of Allah

    You can study Islam for years, memorize rulings, and still feel anxious, reactive, or spiritually “stuck.” We’re going after the uncomfortable question behind that experience: what if the problem isn’t a lack of Islamic information, but a lack of embodied change? I break down the difference between fiqh as a necessary map and the lived journey of becoming the kind of person who can consistently walk that map with a steady heart. We talk about why behavior rarely shifts just because we know something is haram or wajib, and how fear, shame, resentment, and insecurity can overpower our best intentions. I share the story of Al Razi and the old woman to highlight the gap between intellectual certainty and existential certainty, and why “simple faith” often looks like calm, resilience, and trust that has settled into the nervous system. Then we get practical. I introduce my C-NEAR formula (Circumstance, Nervous System Thoughts, Emotions, Actions, Results) to show how interpretation shapes emotional experience, habits, and outcomes. Two Muslim women can know the same verses and still live completely different internal realities, depending on the meanings their minds add. If you’ve struggled with perfectionism, people pleasing, or turning worship into performance, this will help you see the hidden commentary you can finally challenge. If this helps you, subscribe, share the episode with a friend, and leave a quick review so more people can close the gap between knowing and becoming. I invite you to join The Ummi Collective. It is a weekly coaching program for Muslim mothers raising children on the autism spectrum. Inside, you learn how to support your child’s development in a way that builds independence, confidence, and long-term success... without losing yourself in the process. Apply for a Commitment Rate today https://www.islamiclifecoachschool.com/offers/RRn2EBEC/chec

  5. Jul 28

    Healthy Ambition

    Ambition has a reputation for making people restless, intense, and never satisfied, but that version of ambition is only one story. We talk about the difference between chasing achievements to fill an emotional void and pursuing growth from a grounded place of gratitude. When “enoughness” is the real target, every milestone wears off fast. When values are the target, you can feel fulfilled right now and still build a bigger life with purpose. We also dig into what it means to be multipassionate without becoming addicted to novelty. If you love learning across fields, your interests can compound into deeper impact rather than distract you. The trap is letting excitement decide your commitments. The moment progress slows and the work turns repetitive, a shiny new goal starts calling your name. We share a simple way to tell the difference between a genuine shift in priorities and an escape from the discomfort of sustained effort, plus why finishing what you start is a cornerstone of mastery. Finally, we reframe “productive” ambition by focusing on emotional fuel. Instead of using stress, self-punishment, and burnout as the engine, we walk through healthier fuels you can generate before any results show up: enthusiasm, inspiration, vitality, courage, audacity, exploration, joy, certainty, gratitude, and generosity. The goal is to stay wildly ambitious while becoming emotionally healthier, so discipline and peace can coexist. If this resonated, subscribe for more tools, share this with a friend who feels stuck in the start-and-stop cycle, and leave a review so more listeners can find the show. What emotional fuel do you want to lead with this week? I invite you to join The Ummi Collective. It is a weekly coaching program for Muslim mothers raising children on the autism spectrum. Inside, you learn how to support your child’s development in a way that builds independence, confidence, and long-term success... without losing yourself in the process. Apply for a Commitment Rate today https://www.islamiclifecoachschool.com/offers/RRn2EBEC/chec

  6. Jul 21

    Shadow Work Made Simple

    Shadow work has a reputation for being heavy, dark, and painfully complicated. We take a different angle: what if shadow work is simply learning to spot the hidden meanings your nervous system assigns to everyday life and updating that “old code” with truth? When we understand the shadow self through a practical lens, we stop fearing what we might find and start using self-awareness as a real tool for healing, confidence, and better relationships. We walk through what shadow work actually is, why it often starts out hard, and why it gets easier when your body learns safety. Instead of relying only on insight, we talk about somatic signals like tightness, shallow breathing, and tension as clues that an old insecurity just entered the room. This is nervous system work in plain language: the body stores pain, but it also stores safety, and with repetition it can alert you before you spiral into projection, catastrophizing, or self-protection. If you care about mental health, trauma healing, emotional regulation, and practical self-development grounded in faith and integrity, this conversation will give you a clearer map. Subscribe, share this with a friend who overthinks everything, and leave a review with the pattern you want to break next. I invite you to join The Ummi Collective. It is a weekly coaching program for Muslim mothers raising children on the autism spectrum. Inside, you learn how to support your child’s development in a way that builds independence, confidence, and long-term success... without losing yourself in the process. Apply for a Commitment Rate today https://www.islamiclifecoachschool.com/offers/RRn2EBEC/chec

  7. Jul 14

    Relational Intelligence For Introverts

    You can be quiet, private, and easily drained by crowds and still become a popular trustworthy woman. We’re unpacking the myth that “she must be an extrovert” is the reason some women seem surrounded by supportive friendships, respected professional connections, and opportunities. I challenge the story many smart, capable women tell themselves, “I’m an introvert, so I’m not good with people.” That story feels accurate, but it quietly turns a skill into a life sentence.  We take a values-based approach to networking and relationship building, with a firm line between sincere connection and anything transactional. Think of social capital as trust, goodwill, and follow-through, not collecting contacts. We talk about relational equity the same way you’d talk about investing: small deposits made consistently can compound into a powerful, stable network over time. Checking in, celebrating someone’s win, remembering what matters to them, making thoughtful introductions, and keeping promises are not “small” when they’re repeated.  Then we get highly practical: introverts need a system, although they think they need to rely on pressure to create their social support. I share how a simple relational operating system reduces decision fatigue so you stop overthinking what to say, when to reach out, or whether it’s awkward. You’ll leave with ideas for a weekly plan, quick prompts to guide your outreach, and a reframed sense of legacy rooted in faith and character.  If you found this helpful, subscribe, share it with a friend who calls herself “bad at networking,” and leave a review so more listeners can find the show. What’s one small relationship deposit you’ll make this week? I invite you to join The Ummi Collective. It is a weekly coaching program for Muslim mothers raising children on the autism spectrum. Inside, you learn how to support your child’s development in a way that builds independence, confidence, and long-term success... without losing yourself in the process. Apply for a Commitment Rate today https://www.islamiclifecoachschool.com/offers/RRn2EBEC/chec

  8. Jul 7

    The Mufti Nafs: Self-Sabotage using Islam

    Your mind can sound deeply religious while quietly talking you out of healing. When change requires effort, the nafs doesn’t usually say “I’m scared.” It says “be careful,” then borrows sacred words like sabr, qadr, tawakkul, and gratitude to make stagnation feel like righteousness, even as your anxiety, reactivity, and relationship stress stay the same.  We walk through the hidden “religious skepticism” that shows up when you consider therapy, coaching, nervous system regulation, boundaries, or learning new communication skills. I break down the difference between prophetic sabr and self abandonment, between trusting qadr and opting out of your life, and between sincere dua and spiritual procrastination. We also name a common trap: mistaking unfamiliar language for something un-Islamic without actually checking evidence, scholarship, or outcomes.  You’ll leave with a simple filter to test that inner voice: does it move you toward emotional stability, mercy, and excellence, or does it keep you stuck in fight, flight, freeze, and years of the same pain? If you’ve ever “haram policed” yourself out of growth, this will help you hear what’s really happening.  Subscribe for more Islamic life coaching tools, share this with a friend who’s stuck in overthinking, and leave a review so more Muslim women can find the support they deserve. What’s one phrase your mind uses to keep you small? I invite you to join The Ummi Collective. It is a weekly coaching program for Muslim mothers raising children on the autism spectrum. Inside, you learn how to support your child’s development in a way that builds independence, confidence, and long-term success... without losing yourself in the process. Apply for a Commitment Rate today https://www.islamiclifecoachschool.com/offers/RRn2EBEC/chec

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I have created the Islamic Life Coach School, and this podcast in efforts for you to achieve any and ALL of your goals through high level of self awareness, mind management and emotional intelligence. It is my mission to provide you with the tools that you can use to make your life unrecognizably successful.How do I define success? Success is what you want it to be. These tools can be applied to create success in life, religion, relationships, career etc. YOU define your success and I will teach you the tool to get it.

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