The Family Captain

John Michael Clark
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Lead your family with strength and love. Become the greatest man they've ever known. Have incredible sex with your wife.

  1. 5D AGO

    Why Most Christian Marriages Lose Their "Spark" (And How To Get It Back)

    So many Christian marriages have lost their spark. I see it in my church, I see it in our coaching program. I see it everywhere I look. "Happily" married couples whose body language makes it look like they're friends instead of spouses. We don't think God designed marriage to be "just okay". We think following His good designs for life, including marriage, leads to good fruit. That's why we tell guys to aim for ECSTATICALLY married...not just "happily" (which is usually not all that happy). So in this episode, we're helping you get the spark back in your marriage. To attract your wife again. To bring some fire back into the marriage bed. Stay till the end to hear how I suggest taking action on this to level up over the next 7 days. 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- 👉 Want The Family Captain To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

    51 min

  2. MAY 13

    How The Church Made Christian Men Weak: The Emasculated Husband

    Today we're exposing the LIE that has sadly seeped into Jesus' church. The lie that emasculates men, masculinizes women, makes families miserable, and minimizes God's good distinctions. We're going to blow up the nice guy issue plaguing the church. We're going to focus on the righteous fruit that the Scriptures want for us instead of the cultural perversions so prevalent today. And gentlemen, all of this is so that men, women, and children, can experience God's good design for marriage and family. God's design is a win-win where nobody loses, and where HE gets the glory. It's time to stop being the emasculated Nice Guy and start to become a Good Man. --- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 0:59 What has the church done to men? 3:08 Why "Nice Guys" aren't nice 8:21 Why wives RESENT Nice Guys 13:28 Keeping your wife on her toes 19:13 If you let your wife run your household... 22:49 Why asking for permission KILLS her desire for you 36:33 How to get your masculinity back 40:58 If she pushes back Mentioned: No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004C438CW/ --- 👉 Want The Family Captain To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

    53 min

  3. MAY 6

    Why 50/50 Marriage Doesn't Work (Do This Instead)

    Perhaps the most common marriage advice of the past 50 years has been: "Happy Wife, Happy Life" But it's a lie. It's not biblical. It leads to misery. We're here to destroy the myth of the "50/50" marriage by doing something radical... Reading the Bible and applying it. In this episode you'll learn why this is the biggest lie, how it slowly corrodes attraction in your marriage, and what to do instead. Implement our 3 legs of leadership and watch your family life flourish. --- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:27 Why is "Happy Wife, Happy Life" a lie? 2:43 Why wives lose respect for husbands in "50/50" marriages 12:10 What about BIG decisions? 17:31 Family Leadership in the Bible 23:31 Hierarchy and delegation 29:41 Micromanaging and being controlling 32:17 If you're doing everything right... 42:03 Is a good wife necessary for SUCCESS? --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

    46 min

  4. MAY 1

    How Feminism Is Secretly DESTROYING Your Marriage

    Feminism has subtly rooted itself in most marriages today. And yes, probably your marriage, too. Men and women who truly love the Lord are settling for meh, or even miserable, marriages...all because they've let demonic, feminist lies infiltrate their lives. In this episode, we'll break down how to identify and start to push back against feminist lies, how to bring peace to your wife by leading as a godly, masculine husband, and what the Bible ACTUALLY says about marriage, men, and women. This one will have immediate application for most marriages, so buckle up. --- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 0:44 Feminism in Christian Marriages 6:29 Covert Feminism 14:31 Leading AGAINST culture 19:08 If your wife was taught male leadership is dangerous... 21:58 Why feminists feel threatened by us 27:04 What the Bible reveals 30:29 Bringing peace to your wife 34:05 Is submission only because of The Fall? 41:21 How to become the man she trusts 47:37 The SECRET to a happy marriage --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

    50 min

  5. APR 22

    Why Husbands Become Resentful (And How to Fix It)

    Bitterness and resentment. After working with so many Christian husbands, we know that these feelings come up and create distance, even in Christian marriages. If left to their own devices, these do immense damage to families. That's why Family Captains nip resentment in the bud and get back to leading. How? In this episode we'll give you 3 questions to ask and answer that'll get you back on track, conquering resentment in your heart, and moving forward with strength and love. --- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ --- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:02 The Marriage That Breeds Resentment 3:27 Do You Keep "The List"? 8:46 Have You Removed Your Protection? 24:43 Wife Screen Time Example 34:03 What Do You Do When You're Disappointed? Mentioned: No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004C438CW/ No More Christian Nice Guy by Paul Coughlin: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00MBTYGK8/ --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

    43 min

  6. APR 15

    Husbands Who Kill Addiction Do This

    👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain --- Addiction stops many husbands from taking their life and their family to the next level. Inside the Family Captain, we're (accidental) experts on crushing addiction. I say accidental, because we never explicitly talk about it. We don't have curriculum that helps our clients defeat addiction. Our program simply creates so much momentum in men's lives that they don't have time or desire to do the things they used to cope or numb with. Internet lust. Gambling. Drinking. Scrolling. You name it. Many of our clients have come to us after and told us they broke free from the grips of addiction because of everything else we helped them put in place. This episode starts that process for YOU. No 12 step programs, just a solid 3 step plan to help you live the life you want to live, and addiction naturally crumbles. In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 0:56 Big Shift #1 4:22 Husband 1.0 vs 2.0 10:43 Can You Even Level Up If You're Stuck in Addiction? 19:00 Big Shift #2 31:43 Sports and Food 40:17 Big Shift #3 45:42 First Step Mentioned: Death by a Thousand Lies by Blaine Bartel: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0692104860 --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

    49 min

  7. APR 8

    How to Lead Your Family When Nobody Showed You How

    The thing you're missing? Leadership. The reason you're missing it? Nobody ever showed you what it looked like. We live in a strange generation. God's Truth is still True. Marriages still function ideally within that Truth. But, almost all of us are completely divorced from seeing it in action. So we become passive. Uncertain. We stop leading. Our marriages are..."okay". But they're certainly not God's best. They're usually not even that much different than secular, non-believer marriages. This episode helps fix that. What leadership ACTUALLY looks like.How to start leading today.How to use systems and strategies, not just tactics, to BECOME the man who leads, not just pretends.Let's dive in. -- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ -- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 1:02 Didn't Learn Leadership From Dad? 4:16 If You're "Winging It" on Family Leadership 11:00 What To Do When You Get Home 24:11 Building The 3 Legs of Leadership 30:07 Masculinizing Your Wife 41:58 Busy Is Not Leading Mentioned: AI Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lyIVKodyYZI --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ --- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

    49 min

  8. APR 1

    Help, My Wife Doesn't Want Sex

    "My wife loves me...but she doesn't WANT me." This is something we hear all the time from men here at The Family Captain. You're doing life really well together, you're operating as a team, you're friends with one another... But sex is irregular and infrequent, and you have a hard time telling the difference between what a "wife" means versus what a "good friend" means. This episode helps to change all of that. You'll learn some tactical stuff, but you'll also learn the thing underlying all of it that makes all the difference. Oh, and stick around to hear why we coach men to literally never ask for sex from their wives ever again. -- 👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ -- In This Episode: 0:00 Intro 2:07 The WRONG Way To Think About The Problem 14:08 Warm and Fuzzies vs. Hot and Bothered 16:11 Friend vs Roommate Marriage 20:09 Pursuing vs Pressuring 30:37 If You've Stopped Asking 38:29 The Pout 41:34 What To Do Tonight --- 👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/ -- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptain Website: https://thefamilycaptain.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain --- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

    51 min
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Lead your family with strength and love. Become the greatest man they've ever known. Have incredible sex with your wife.

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  • Creator
    John Michael Clark
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    113
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © John Michael Clark
  • Show Website
    The Family Captain

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