Legally Uncensored with Attorney Demetria L. Graves

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Navigating any legal problem is challenging especially any legal problem in family law, you know divorce, child custody, and child support. Each week join Attorney, Demetria L. Graves, a respected Certified Family Law Specialist in Los Angeles, as she breaks down the celebrity legal headlines and provides practical tips for navigating such legal issues should you experience the same legal challenges in your own life. If you are curious about navigating the legal system or just curious about celebrity legal drama, tune in! ************************************************************************************************************* About Demetria: Demetria Graves is a leading family law attorney and managing law partner for The Graves Law Firm. She was recently featured on Los Angeles Business Journal's 2022 list of 'Leaders of Influence: Minority Attorneys' and was also named a '2022 California Super Lawyer.' Do you have questions on any of the topics we discussed? Or any questions on family law in general? Is there a topic you’d like to see covered in more detail in a future episode? Send a message to info@graveslawfirm.ca and we’ll get back to you.

  1. 15H AGO

    When Staying Costs More Than Leaving: The Hidden Price of Indecision (Part 1)

    Send us a text We briefly filed for divorce from our audio… but reconciled. (Sorry!!) We’re back with a special bonus episode to open Season 7 of Legally Uncensored with Demetria Graves, Esq.* In this powerful two-part series, Host Demetria Graves, Esq. (family law attorney and founder of The Graves Firm) sits down with Britta Jo (Stay or Go Coach and Podcast Host) to explore the often-overlooked legal and financial consequences of staying in an uncertain marriage. Many women believe that “waiting it out” is the safer choice — but what if indecision is actually putting you at greater risk? Demetria offers a clear-eyed legal reality check on how staying in limbo can quietly erode your financial security, limit your legal options, and create outcomes that could have been avoided with earlier awareness. Together, Britta and Demetria unpack: * How indecision can create real legal and financial consequences * Who is most at risk when they delay difficult decisions * Common missed opportunities — like gathering financial information or protecting assets * How waiting can impact legal timelines, custody, and settlements * The hidden financial fallout of emotional hesitation * Why financial empowerment is a form of self-protection — not conflict Demetria also pulls back the curtain on what attorneys see behind the scenes, including: * Common myths that keep women stuck * The difference between emotional readiness and legal readiness * What it actually looks like to reach the “sweet spot” where both align This conversation also highlights the importance of building the right support team. Demetria explains why having emotional support — through coaching or therapy — can make the legal process smoother, clearer, and more empowering, and why being emotionally resourced is critical when navigating high-stakes legal decisions. If you’ve ever felt stuck between staying and leaving, this episode is for you. Listen. Learn. And share this with someone who needs it. For Part 2 and  more information on Britta Jo, visit www.stayorgocoaching.com Follow us on all socials and for more information head to www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com Catch this episode on Youtube!  Support the show

    38 min

  2. 08/15/2025

    Blossoming After Divorce: Tips to Manifest the Power Within with Valeka Jessica

    Send us a text Divorce isn’t the end—it’s the beginning of your next evolution. In this powerful and soul-nourishing episode of *Legally Uncensored*, host **Demetria Graves** welcomes actress, author, and creative force **Valeka Jessica**, who shares her inspiring journey of transformation after a decade-long marriage. Affectionately known as “V,” Valeka opens up about how the breakdown of her marriage became a breakthrough into her higher self. Through personal stories, honest reflections, and wisdom drawn from her *guided journal*, she reveals **11 essential tips** to help women reclaim their power, redefine their purpose, and blossom spiritually, emotionally, and financially after divorce. This episode dives into: * How to *rename* yourself and reimagine your identity * Releasing the past by getting rid of “his things” * Reconnecting with your purpose and finding joy again * The role of therapy, tribe, and spirituality in healing * Financial lessons and building independence * Using mindfulness, manifestation, and daily rituals to stay grounded * The importance of setting boundaries and celebrating small wins Whether you’re navigating divorce now or rebuilding after, this conversation is a heart-forward roadmap to reclaiming your life and honoring your next chapter. 📘 Grab Valeka’s journal and start your journey: *Blossoming After Divorce* 🎭 Follow her latest project: “I’m a Motherf*cking Superstar” — live in Atlanta, 2025. 🔗 Follow Valeka on IG: [@ValekaJessica](https://instagram.com/ValekaJessica) ✨ For more resources, follow us on IG and YouTube @LegallyUncensored or visit [www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com](http://www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com) Support the show

    39 min

  3. 08/07/2025

    How To Fix Your Marriage Without Counseling: A Practical Method You Will Appreciate

    Send us a text Can you fix your marriage without setting foot in a counselor’s office? In this transformative episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves sits down with retired marriage and family counselor Ziba Graham Jr. to explore just that. With decades of experience in helping couples and an innovative approach that moves away from traditional therapy models, Ziba introduces practical, future-focused strategies that have saved relationships—without laying blame or reliving past hurts. In fact, his approach was so effective, couples often "fired" him after just a few sessions. Together, they unpack: Why men often resist traditional counseling—and what to do about itThe key stages of a relationship and how to navigate themWhat makes a healthy relationship thrive over timeThree things you can do right now to shift your marriage dynamicThe "miracle question" and other tools to reset connection and trustWhether you’re trying to reconnect, avoid divorce, or simply strengthen your marriage, this episode delivers insightful, no-nonsense solutions that men (and their partners) will actually appreciate.  Learn more about Ziba's method in his book: Fix Your Marriage Without Counseling fixyourmarriagebook.com Available on Amazon: Fix Your Marriage Without Counseling For more resources, follow us on IG and YouTube @LegallyUncensored or visit www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com Support the show

    31 min

  4. 07/31/2025

    What Happens to the House? Divorce & Real Estate with Phyllis Harb

    Send us a text When a marriage ends, one of the most complex and emotionally charged assets to deal with is the family home. In this episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves is joined by veteran Los Angeles-based real estate professional Phyllis Harb to unpack everything you need to know about real estate and divorce. From deciding who stays or sells, to navigating buyouts, tax implications, and the emotional weight of leaving a shared home—this conversation dives deep into the legal, financial, and personal decisions that surround real estate during and after divorce. Whether you're in the middle of a separation or just planning ahead, this episode offers practical advice, real-life stories, and tips for making informed, fair, and future-focused choices about one of your biggest assets. Tune in to learn: * What happens to the house in different divorce scenarios * How to handle buyouts and avoid costly mistakes * Tips for selling or buying post-divorce * Emotional strategies for letting go and starting fresh * Why working with a real estate pro who understands divorce makes all the difference Learn more about Phyllis at www.harbandco.com Support the show

    30 min

  5. 07/24/2025

    The “P” Word: Breaking Down Prenups with Rachel King, Esq.

    Send us a text In this episode of Legally Uncensored, we’re talking about the “P” word—Prenups. Host Demetria Graves, Esq. sits down with powerhouse attorney Rachel King, Esq. to break the stigma around prenuptial agreements and explain why they’re not just for the rich or famous. From shifting societal roles to real stats on why Millennials and Gen Z are leading the prenup conversation, this candid episode dives into: What a prenup really is (and isn’t)Common myths and cultural misconceptionsHow prenups can protect both partners—not just assets, but expectationsWhether you're engaged, married, or simply curious, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating love with clarity and confidence. Support the show

    40 min

  6. 07/17/2025

    Marrying Young & Building Stronger Foundations Later: A Conversation with Yoki Brown

    Send us a text In this candid and thought-provoking episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves, Esq. sits down with NYC-based hospitality professional and former model Yoki Brown to explore love, divorce, and dating from a man’s perspective. Yoki opens up about marrying young, the evolution of his relationship, and how he and his ex-wife remain close friends to this day. Now in his 40s and single/dating, he reflects on how his past shaped his current views on love, commitment, and what it means to build stronger foundations later in life. Together, they unpack what it’s like to date in a big city, navigate personal growth after divorce, and redefine what a modern relationship can look like—especially when friendship with an ex is part of the equation. From hard truths to unexpected lessons, this episode offers real talk on relationships, resilience, and starting over with clarity and confidence. Support the show

    29 min

  7. 07/10/2025

    Is Divorce Really Contagious? Special guest Amber Dorsey

    Send us a text Is divorce... contagious? In this laugh-out-loud yet deeply honest episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves sits down with writer, creative, and single mom Amber Dorsey to explore the ripple effects of divorce within friendships and communities. From side-eyeing your relationship after a friend’s breakup to the quiet comparisons we don’t talk about, Amber brings humor, heart, and hard-earned wisdom to the mic. They unpack how one couple calling it quits can trigger deep reflection in others—and how comedy, cannabis, and community can be powerful tools in healing and moving forward. You’ll hear about: Divorce ripple effects in social circles and great friendsNavigating awkward friendships post-splitThe power of humor in healingAmber’s “divorce glow-up” and lessons as a single momIf you’ve ever felt alone in your relationship doubts or are rediscovering yourself after a split, this one’s for you. 🎧 Tune in and join the conversation—because love, loss, and laughter are all part of the journey. For more information follow us @legallyuncensored and www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com Support the show

    32 min

  8. 07/03/2025

    Behind Closed Doors, Part 2 – Domestic Violence and Divorce

    Send us a text In light of the recent **verdict in the Diddy case**, this episode of *Legally Uncensored* takes on even greater urgency. Host **Demetria L. Graves, Esq.** returns with licensed therapist **LeAnn Lazar** to continue the vital conversation on **domestic violence and its legal and emotional impact**—especially during divorce. Part 2 goes deeper into the lived realities behind the headlines, exploring how abuse complicates custody battles, support agreements, and the legal protections survivors need to move forward. Together, Demetria and LeAnn unpack the intersection of **trauma, legal strategy, and survival planning**, offering support and actionable guidance for those experiencing abuse or trying to heal from it. This episode is not just about law—it’s about **liberation, safety, and reclaiming power**. If you or someone you know is navigating a relationship affected by domestic violence, this episode is essential listening. Special Guest: LeAnn Lazar, Licensed Therapist - Specializing in Life Transformation Website: leannlazarcoaching.com  And dont forget to follow us on social media @legallyuncensored and Youtube for videos and everything you need at www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com. Support the show

    33 min
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Navigating any legal problem is challenging especially any legal problem in family law, you know divorce, child custody, and child support. Each week join Attorney, Demetria L. Graves, a respected Certified Family Law Specialist in Los Angeles, as she breaks down the celebrity legal headlines and provides practical tips for navigating such legal issues should you experience the same legal challenges in your own life. If you are curious about navigating the legal system or just curious about celebrity legal drama, tune in! ************************************************************************************************************* About Demetria: Demetria Graves is a leading family law attorney and managing law partner for The Graves Law Firm. She was recently featured on Los Angeles Business Journal's 2022 list of 'Leaders of Influence: Minority Attorneys' and was also named a '2022 California Super Lawyer.' Do you have questions on any of the topics we discussed? Or any questions on family law in general? Is there a topic you’d like to see covered in more detail in a future episode? Send a message to info@graveslawfirm.ca and we’ll get back to you.

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