Legally Uncensored with Attorney Demetria L. Graves

Demetria Graves

Navigating any legal problem is challenging especially any legal problem in family law, you know divorce, child custody, and child support. Each week join Attorney, Demetria L. Graves, a respected Certified Family Law Specialist in Los Angeles, as she breaks down the celebrity legal headlines and provides practical tips for navigating such legal issues should you experience the same legal challenges in your own life. If you are curious about navigating the legal system or just curious about celebrity legal drama, tune in! ************************************************************************************************************* About Demetria: Demetria Graves is a leading family law attorney and managing law partner for The Graves Law Firm. She was recently featured on Los Angeles Business Journal's 2022 list of 'Leaders of Influence: Minority Attorneys' and was also named a '2022 California Super Lawyer.' Do you have questions on any of the topics we discussed? Or any questions on family law in general? Is there a topic you’d like to see covered in more detail in a future episode? Send a message to info@graveslawfirm.ca and we’ll get back to you.

  1. Apr 30

    Mr. & Mrs. Wrong: Dating Patterns & Magnetic Attraction feat. Spicy Mari

    Send us Fan Mail Whether you’re divorced, healing from heartbreak, getting back outside after years off the market, or simply trying to understand why love feels different now, you deserve a magnetic kind of love. On this episode of Legally Uncensored, Attorney Demetria Graves, CFLS, sits down with relationship expert, matchmaker, and The Spicy Life creator Spicy Mari for an unfiltered conversation about dating after divorce, heartbreak, emotional burnout, and the patterns people keep repeating in love. From trauma bonding and “dating your ex in a different body” to ego, social media expectations, soft-life culture, and the realities of dating in 2026, this episode gets REAL about why so many people struggle to attract healthy love the second time around. Spicy Mari also breaks down her signature S.P.I.C.Y. framework and shares how self-awareness, vulnerability, confidence, and intentional dating can completely shift the way people approach relationships post-divorce. ✨ This episode explores: • Repeating toxic dating patterns • Standards vs. ego in modern dating • Apps, attraction & emotional availability • Hard truths for both men and women • How to genuinely attract the right partner Because at Legally Uncensored, we talk about love, law, and the messy middle in between. 🎙 Guest: Spicy Mari 🔗 Learn more: https://www.thespicylife.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-spicy-life/id1339358556 Follow & subscribe to Legally Uncensored for more conversations on love, relationships, divorce, family law, and modern dating. www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com Support the show

    35 min
  2. Apr 16

    Cover Your Assets: The Financial Playbook for Marriage & Divorce

    Send us Fan Mail Marriage may start with love—but it operates as a financial partnership. And when that partnership shifts, understanding the money behind it can change everything. In this episode of Legally Uncensored, we sit down with divorce financial experts Josephti Cruz and Kathryn Holland of Cover Your Assets—a platform dedicated to helping individuals navigate the real financial complexities of divorce with clarity and confidence. This conversation goes beyond surface-level advice and dives into the business of marriage—what you need to know before things go wrong, how to protect yourself if they do, and how to strategically rebuild after. We break down: – How to protect your assets before divorce is even a thought – What financial decisions matter most during the process – The tax implications that can quietly cost you long-term – Why “50/50” isn’t always equal when it comes to asset division – How to think about divorce as a financial transition—not just an emotional one At its core, this episode is about prevention, preparation, and power. Because the truth is—most people don’t realize what they don’t know until it’s too late. Whether you’re married, considering divorce, or rebuilding after one, this is your 101 on understanding the financial side of relationships so you can move with intention and protect your future. Tap in, take notes, and get informed. Follow Legally Uncensored for more conversations that break down the legal—and financial—realities of life. www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com To learn more about Cover Your Assets: www.coveryourassetsdivorce.com www.instagram.com/coveryourassetsdivorce Support the show

    36 min
  3. Mar 5

    Sex, Faith, Freedom & Marriage with special guest Lyvonne Briggs

    Send us Fan Mail Does God hate divorce? What happens when the faith that once held your marriage together begins to feel like the very thing keeping you stuck? On this deeply layered episode of Legally Uncensored, Demetria Graves, Esq. sits down with Lyvonne Briggs, MDiv, ThM — Emmy Award-winning producer, Afro-Caribbean spiritualist, and author of Sensual Faith: The Art of Coming Home to Your Body — for a transformative conversation at the intersection of spirituality, marriage, sexuality, and self-liberation. Known for her work featured on TEDx and in ESSENCE, Cosmopolitan, Rolling Stone, and The Washington Post, Lyvonne brings her signature blend of theological depth, cultural insight, and embodied healing to unpack the sacred myths many of us inherit about commitment, endurance, and desire. Together, Demetria and Lyvonne explore: Marriage: Sacred Covenant or Beautiful Illusion? When “God said stay” becomes guilt instead of guidance. How spiritual language can mask emotional harm — and the difference between obedience and imprisonment. Sex After Divorce Rediscovering desire through a lens of both faith and freedom. Generational Healing Unlearning sacrifice as virtue. Reclaiming embodiment as spiritual practice.  With Demetria’s legal lens and Lyvonne’s theological insight, this episode offers clarity for anyone wrestling with the tension between spiritual belief and lived experience. Because sometimes healing isn’t about holding on — it’s about coming home to yourself. Connect with Our Guest Learn more about Lyvonne Briggs and her work at: https://lyvonnep.com/ Stay Connected with Legally Uncensored For more episodes, resources, and updates, visit: www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com Follow us on social media for behind-the-scenes content, clips, and upcoming conversations. 🎙 Watch full episodes and exclusive content on YouTube: Head to our YouTube channel and subscribe so you never miss an episode. Support the show

    35 min
  4. Feb 19

    When Staying Costs More Than Leaving: The Hidden Price of Indecision (Part 2)

    Send us Fan Mail In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Stay or Go Coach and Podcast Host Britta Jo continues her discussion with family law attorney Demetria Graves, Esq., shifting from awareness to action. If Part 1 was the wake-up call, Part 2 is the roadmap. Together, Britta and Demetria move beyond the risks of indecision and into what preparation, clarity, and empowered decision-making actually look like. They unpack how women can protect themselves — emotionally and financially — even before making a final decision about their marriage. In this episode, they explore: How to begin preparing legally and financially without escalating conflict The importance of confidential consultations and understanding your rights early How to quietly gather documentation and protect assets What strategic preparation really means — and what it doesn’t How clarity reduces fear and increases leverage The power of timing when making major legal decisions Demetria shares practical insight into how informed preparation changes outcomes — in negotiations, custody discussions, and financial settlements. She explains why knowledge is not a declaration of divorce — it’s protection. Britta reinforces the emotional side of the journey, discussing how fear, guilt, and uncertainty often delay action — and how support systems like coaching and therapy create steadiness during life’s most pivotal transitions. This episode is about reclaiming agency. Because preparation is not betrayal. It’s wisdom. If you’re navigating uncertainty and wondering what your next move should be, this conversation will give you clarity, courage, and practical next steps. Listen. Learn. And share this with someone who needs it. Follow Demetria’s work on Legally Uncensored with Demetria Graves, Esq. for deeper conversations on family law, empowerment, and navigating life’s most complex transitions. For more information on Britta Jo, visit www.stayorgocoaching.com Follow us on all socials and for more information head to www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com Catch this episode on Youtube!  Support the show

    38 min
  5. Feb 4

    When Staying Costs More Than Leaving: The Hidden Price of Indecision (Part 1)

    Send us Fan Mail We briefly filed for divorce from our audio… but reconciled. (Sorry!!) We’re back with a special bonus episode to open Season 7 of Legally Uncensored with Demetria Graves, Esq.* In this powerful two-part series, Host Demetria Graves, Esq. (family law attorney and founder of The Graves Firm) sits down with Britta Jo (Stay or Go Coach and Podcast Host) to explore the often-overlooked legal and financial consequences of staying in an uncertain marriage. Many women believe that “waiting it out” is the safer choice — but what if indecision is actually putting you at greater risk? Demetria offers a clear-eyed legal reality check on how staying in limbo can quietly erode your financial security, limit your legal options, and create outcomes that could have been avoided with earlier awareness. Together, Britta and Demetria unpack: * How indecision can create real legal and financial consequences * Who is most at risk when they delay difficult decisions * Common missed opportunities — like gathering financial information or protecting assets * How waiting can impact legal timelines, custody, and settlements * The hidden financial fallout of emotional hesitation * Why financial empowerment is a form of self-protection — not conflict Demetria also pulls back the curtain on what attorneys see behind the scenes, including: * Common myths that keep women stuck * The difference between emotional readiness and legal readiness * What it actually looks like to reach the “sweet spot” where both align This conversation also highlights the importance of building the right support team. Demetria explains why having emotional support — through coaching or therapy — can make the legal process smoother, clearer, and more empowering, and why being emotionally resourced is critical when navigating high-stakes legal decisions. If you’ve ever felt stuck between staying and leaving, this episode is for you. Listen. Learn. And share this with someone who needs it. For Part 2 and  more information on Britta Jo, visit www.stayorgocoaching.com Follow us on all socials and for more information head to www.legallyuncensoredpodcast.com Catch this episode on Youtube!  Support the show

    38 min

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Navigating any legal problem is challenging especially any legal problem in family law, you know divorce, child custody, and child support. Each week join Attorney, Demetria L. Graves, a respected Certified Family Law Specialist in Los Angeles, as she breaks down the celebrity legal headlines and provides practical tips for navigating such legal issues should you experience the same legal challenges in your own life. If you are curious about navigating the legal system or just curious about celebrity legal drama, tune in! ************************************************************************************************************* About Demetria: Demetria Graves is a leading family law attorney and managing law partner for The Graves Law Firm. She was recently featured on Los Angeles Business Journal's 2022 list of 'Leaders of Influence: Minority Attorneys' and was also named a '2022 California Super Lawyer.' Do you have questions on any of the topics we discussed? Or any questions on family law in general? Is there a topic you’d like to see covered in more detail in a future episode? Send a message to info@graveslawfirm.ca and we’ll get back to you.

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