Internal Family Systems (IFS) Meditations and Insights: Faithfully Growing with Tim Fortescue

Faithfully Growing with Tim Fortescue

This podcast provides a platform for us all to learn, grow and access our authentic selves together. Your host is Tim Fortescue a life coach trained in Internal Family Systems. Tim comes alongside as an ally as you heal, grow & experience faith & spirituality in a nonjudgmental, inclusive container while also clarifying their vision and values while increasing self-awareness & self-compassion. Find out more about Tim and his coaching practice at www.faithfullygrowing.com

  1. IFS INSIGHT: Exiles - the Parts We Push Down

    3D AGO

    IFS INSIGHT: Exiles - the Parts We Push Down

    For 25 Free IFS Meditations and to join the free Facebook Community, visit exploreifs.com Summary In this episode of IFS Meditations and Insights, Tim Fortescue delves into the concept of 'exiles' within the Internal Family Systems (IFS) framework. Exiles are the parts of ourselves that carry deep emotional pain and vulnerability, often pushed away by our protective mechanisms to help us cope with overwhelming experiences. Tim emphasizes the importance of recognizing these exiled parts, which can manifest as feelings of shame, grief, or rejection, and how they influence our current behaviors and reactions. He shares personal anecdotes to illustrate how these exiles can be approached with compassion rather than criticism, allowing for healing and integration into our broader self-system. Tim also discusses the role of 'protectors,' the parts of us that work tirelessly to shield our exiles from pain. These protectors may manifest as perfectionism, over-functioning, or numbing behaviors. He highlights that while these protectors are often seen as problematic, they are actually devoted guardians trying to keep us safe. The episode encourages listeners to gently engage with their exiles, fostering a sense of safety and connection, which can lead to a more harmonious internal experience. Tim concludes with practical steps for listeners to begin this journey of self-discovery and healing. Keywords Internal Family Systems, exiles, protectors, emotional healing, self-compassion, mental health, Tim Fortescue, IFS Meditations, personal growth, inner child Takeaways Exiles carry our deepest pain and vulnerability. Protectors are devoted guardians, not just problematic parts. Approaching exiles gently is a radical act of compassion. Exiles need to be met on their own terms, not forced into the light. Building trust with protectors allows for healing of exiled parts. Sound bites "Exiles don't need to be dragged into the light." "Approaching exiles gently is itself, a radical act." "It makes sense that some parts had to go underground." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to IFS and Exiles 00:46 Understanding Exiles and Their Impact 05:01 The Role of Protectors in Our System 07:53 Personal Story: Encountering My Exiles 12:41 Gentle Approaches to Healing Exiles 15:46 Practical Steps for Self-Discovery and Healing

    19 min
  2. IFS INSIGHT: IFS & Spirituality

    12/10/2025

    IFS INSIGHT: IFS & Spirituality

    To find out more and join the Faithfully Growing Community, visit exploreifs.com Summary In this episode, Tim Fortescue explores the intersection of Internal Family Systems (IFS) and spirituality, discussing how these concepts can coexist and support personal healing. He delves into the experience of overwhelm, the importance of self-energy, and the role of compassion in navigating inner chaos. Through practical steps and personal anecdotes, Tim guides listeners in recognizing their parts, practicing self-compassion, and accessing their inner wholeness. Takeaways Many people feel a longing for connection to something larger than themselves.Spirituality can bring warmth and meaning, but also pain and wounds.The self is inherently compassionate and whole, regardless of external beliefs.Healing involves turning toward our inner parts with curiosity and tenderness.Flooding occurs when multiple parts overwhelm our system, leading to chaos.Self-energy is a calm, compassionate presence that can guide us through overwhelm.Practicing self-compassion can create space for healing and integration.Naming our parts helps us understand and manage our inner experiences.We can access self-energy without needing to adhere to a specific spiritual belief.Our inner world is a sanctuary where every part has dignity. Sound Bites "Just naming them helps." "Just being together." "Step one, pause." Chapters 00:00 Exploring the Intersection of IFS and Spirituality 06:34 The Nature of the Self and Its Inherent Qualities 11:12 Understanding Inner Parts and Their Roles 16:28 Personal Journey: Embracing Authenticity and Connection 22:15 Practicing Compassionate Presence Within 24:31 Introduction to Internal Family Systems and Overwhelm 24:36 Final Thoughts on Overwhelm and Self-Care Keywords Internal Family Systems, spirituality, self-energy, overwhelm, compassion, healing, mindfulness, mental health, emotional awareness, personal growth

    25 min
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This podcast provides a platform for us all to learn, grow and access our authentic selves together. Your host is Tim Fortescue a life coach trained in Internal Family Systems. Tim comes alongside as an ally as you heal, grow & experience faith & spirituality in a nonjudgmental, inclusive container while also clarifying their vision and values while increasing self-awareness & self-compassion. Find out more about Tim and his coaching practice at www.faithfullygrowing.com

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