Women Winning Divorce: A Lawyer’s Guidance On Navigating An Unhappy Marriage & Protecting Your Financial Assets With Heathe

Heather Quick

Are you a successful woman in an unhappy marriage facing the decision to divorce? This show educates and empowers women in choosing to advocate for themselves, divorce with dignity, and protect their families and rights. Listen to: -Gain clarity on the divorce process -Protect your rights and assets -Overcome the fear of leaving an unhappy marriage and move towards a happier and healthier life Over the last 20 years, host Heather Quick has been focusing on advocating for exclusively women in divorce and family law. From starting as a solo practitioner to a team of now over thirty women, she’s dedicated to helping women to not only win at divorce, but also life. Every Monday Heather and an industry expert discuss how you can be your best self, before, during or after divorce. Every Wednesday Heather comments on divorce news, celebrity divorce, or shares a quick tip. If you’re ready to start moving towards a happier future, start by listening to Episode #2: Preparing Yourself For Divorce.

  1. 3d ago

    #240 What No One Tells You About Remarriage and Blending a Family After Divorce with Alex Harrison

    What if building a successful blended family has less to do with creating instant connection, and more to do with giving everyone the time, space, and support they need to adjust? Remarriage can feel like an exciting new beginning after divorce, but blending two families brings challenges that love alone may not prepare you for. From different parenting styles and relationships with ex-spouses to stepchildren struggling with loyalty, loss, and change, creating a healthy stepfamily takes patience, communication, and realistic expectations. In this episode of Women Winning Divorce, Heather Quick sits down with licensed clinical social worker, therapist, and stepfamily coach Alex Harrison to unpack what decades of research reveal about successful blended families. Alex shares why stepfamilies can take years to find their rhythm, why forcing an instant bond with stepchildren can backfire, and how couples can protect their marriage while navigating parenting differences and complex family dynamics. You’ll discover: Why healthy blended families often take two to seven years to truly find their groove and why that timeline can actually bring relief.How stepmoms and stepparents can build stronger relationships with stepchildren without forcing closeness, over-parenting, or taking on too much discipline too soon.The communication, parenting, and boundary-setting skills that can help couples navigate ex-spouses, different parenting styles, sibling relationships, and conflict without damaging their new marriage. Press play to learn how patience, realistic expectations, and stronger relationship skills can help you create a blended family that grows into lasting trust, connection, and resilience. Alex Harrison's Links Website https://www.alexharrisoncounseling.com/Instagram https://www.instagram.com/alexharrisonlcsw/LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexharrisonYouTube https://www.youtube.com/@TheAlexHarrison Interested in working with us? Fill out this form here to get started. Not quite ready? Interact with us on socials! OR get all of your questions answered by taking our online course: Divorce 101! Divorce 101 Online Course- https://heather-quick.mykajabi.com/divorce-101Linktree- https://linktr.ee/FloridaWomensLawGroup Florida Women’s Law Group Website- https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/Women Winning Divorce Podcast www.womenwinningdivorce.com Women Winning Divorce is supported by Florida Women’s Law Group. Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not an advertisement for legal services. The information provided on this podcast is not intended to be legal advice. You should not rely on what you hear on this podcast as legal advice. If you have a legal issue, please contact a lawyer. The views and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests are solely those of the individuals and do not represent the views or opinions of the firms or organizations with which they are affiliated or the views or opinions of this podcast’s advertisers. This podcast is available for private, non-commercial use only. Any editing, reproduction, or redistribution of this podcast for commercial use or monetary gain without the expressed, written consent of the podcast’s creator is prohibited. Thank you for listening, please leave us a review and share the podcast with your friends and colleagues. Send your questions, comments, and feedback to marketing@4womenlaw.com

  2. 6d ago

    #104 Can a Court Tell You How to Raise Your Child Religiously? This Case Could Test the Limits

    What happens when divorced parents fundamentally disagree about their child’s religious upbringing and neither parent is willing to compromise? Religion can be an intensely personal issue, but when parents share responsibility for raising a child after divorce, disagreements over faith can become much more than a difference of opinion. They can raise difficult questions about parental rights, co-parenting, a child’s emotional well-being, and how far a family court can go when deciding what is in a child’s best interests. In this episode of Women Winning Divorce, Heather Quick discusses a Maine custody dispute that could potentially reach the United States Supreme Court. The mother argues that restrictions involving taking her daughter to church violate her constitutional rights, while Maine’s highest court concluded that the custody decision was based on the child’s best interests rather than hostility toward her religion. Listen to the episode to learn: How courts may approach religious decision-making when divorced or separated parents cannot reach an agreement.Why a parent’s ability to co-parent and support their child’s relationship with the other parent can become critical in custody decisions.Why addressing disagreements about religion, education, healthcare, and other major parenting decisions early can help keep conflict from escalating into a larger legal battle. Play this episode to understand how religious freedom, parental rights, co-parenting, and your child’s best interests can collide in a custody case and what this developing case could mean for divorced parents. Article Link: https://www.newsweek.com/emily-bickford-supreme-court-church-custody-battle-12397201 If you're navigating divorce and need more guidance, don't miss the deeper conversation in #166 Navigating Divorce Through A Religious Lens Interested in working with us? Fill out this form here to get started. Not quite ready? Interact with us on socials! OR get all of your questions answered by taking our online course: Divorce 101! Divorce 101 Online Course- https://heather-quick.mykajabi.com/divorce-101Linktree- https://linktr.ee/FloridaWomensLawGroup Florida Women’s Law Group Website- https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/ Women Winning Divorce is supported by Florida Women’s Law Group. Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not an advertisement for legal services. The information provided on this podcast is not intended to be legal advice. You should not rely on what you hear on this podcast as legal advice. If you have a legal issue, please contact a lawyer. The views and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests are solely those of the individuals and do not represent the views or opinions of the firms or organizations with which they are affiliated or the views or opinions of this podcast’s advertisers. This podcast is available for private, non-commercial use only. Any editing, reproduction, or redistribution of this podcast for commercial use or monetary gain without the expressed, written consent of the podcast’s creator is prohibited. Thank you for listening, please leave us a review and share the podcast with your friends and colleagues. Send your questions, comments, and feedback to marketing@4womenlaw.com.

  3. Sep 28

    #239 What Healthy Love Looks Like: For Women Questioning Their Relationship with Crystal Sorrow

    How do you know whether your relationship is truly healthy, or whether you’ve slowly learned to accept behaviors that leave you feeling controlled, isolated, or unsafe? In this episode of Women Winning Divorce, Heather Quick sits down with Crystal Sorrow, CEO of Peaceful Paths, to unpack the difference between healthy love, unhealthy relationship patterns, and abuse. Crystal explains how emotional abuse and coercive control can develop gradually, often through behaviors that initially appear to be love, concern, or protection. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to recognize the qualities of a healthy relationship, including mutual respect, shared decision-making, trust, and the freedom to be yourself.How emotional abuse, coercive control, isolation, financial abuse, and digital monitoring can develop and why trusting your instincts matters when something feels wrong.How to begin safety planning, rebuild trust in yourself, and connect with confidential resources even if you aren’t ready to leave your relationship. If you’ve been questioning whether something in your relationship is healthy—or you want to better support someone you care about—play this episode to learn the warning signs, understand your options, and discover resources that can help you take your next step safely and on your own timeline. Peaceful Paths Visit https://www.peacefulpaths.org/ for information and support. Peaceful Paths serves Alachua, Bradford, and Union counties in Florida and offers services beyond emergency shelter, including advocacy, support groups, referrals, and other survivor resources. National Domestic Violence Hotline Visit https://www.thehotline.org/ for national domestic violence information and resources. Crystal notes that the website also provides educational articles and information for people who may simply have questions about their relationships. Hubbard House For listeners in the Jacksonville, Florida area, Crystal mentions Hubbard House as a provider of domestic violence services. Local Domestic Violence Centers Crystal encourages listeners outside these service areas to connect with their local domestic violence center. These organizations can provide information, support, referrals, safety planning, and someone to talk with, even if you are not ready to leave your relationship. If you are concerned that your phone or computer may be monitored, Crystal recommends considering a safer way to access support, such as using a public device or asking a trusted healthcare provider’s office to help you make the call. Interested in working with us? Fill out this form here to get started. Not quite ready? Interact with us on socials! OR get all of your questions answered by taking our online course: Divorce 101! Divorce 101 Online Course- https://heather-quick.mykajabi.com/divorce-101Linktree- https://linktr.ee/FloridaWomensLawGroup Florida Women’s Law Group Website- https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/Women Winning Divorce Podcast www.womenwinningdivorce.com Women Winning Divorce is supported by Florida Women’s Law Group. Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not an advertisement for legal services. The information provided on this podcast is not intended to be legal advice. You should not rely on what you hear on this podcast as legal advice. If you have a legal issue, please contact a lawyer. The views and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests are solely those of the individuals and do not represent the views or opinions of the firms or organizations with which they are affiliated or the views or opinions of this podcast’s advertisers. This podcast is available for private, non-commercial use only. Any editing, reproduction, or redistribution of this podcast for commercial use or monetary gain without the expressed, written consent of the podcast’s creator is prohibited. Thank you for listening, please leave us a review and share the podcast with your friends and colleagues. Send your questions, comments, and feedback to marketing@4womenlaw.com

  4. Sep 25

    #103 Think You Can Ignore a Divorce Court Order? Here’s What Can Happen

    What happens when your spouse refuses to turn over financial information, even after a judge orders them to do it? Financial disclosure can be one of the most important parts of a divorce or child support case, especially if you weren’t the person managing the finances during your marriage. When income, assets, or other financial information is withheld, it can leave you wondering whether you’ll ever get the complete picture you need to protect yourself. In this episode of Women Winning Divorce, Heather Quick discusses the reported arrest of former Kentucky Governor Matt Bevin in connection with an ongoing child support dispute. She explains how the case illustrates an important lesson for anyone navigating divorce: court orders are not suggestions, and repeatedly refusing to comply can have serious consequences. Listen to the episode to learn: Why complete financial disclosure matters when courts are determining child support and other financial issues.What contempt means and the potential consequences when someone repeatedly refuses to follow a court order.How staying organized, documenting what is happening, meeting deadlines, and working closely with your attorney can help protect you when your spouse refuses to cooperate. Play this episode to understand what can happen when financial information is withheld in divorce and what you can do to stay informed and protect your financial interests when your spouse refuses to cooperate. Article Link: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/09/04/us/politics/kentucky-governor-arrested-matt-bevin.html If you're navigating divorce and need more guidance, don't miss the deeper conversation in #182 How Effective Communication With Your Attorney Helps You Navigate Divorce Court With Confidence Interested in working with us? Fill out this form here to get started. Not quite ready? Interact with us on socials! OR get all of your questions answered by taking our online course: Divorce 101! Divorce 101 Online Course- https://heather-quick.mykajabi.com/divorce-101Linktree- https://linktr.ee/FloridaWomensLawGroup Florida Women’s Law Group Website- https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/ Women Winning Divorce is supported by Florida Women’s Law Group. Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not an advertisement for legal services. The information provided on this podcast is not intended to be legal advice. You should not rely on what you hear on this podcast as legal advice. If you have a legal issue, please contact a lawyer. The views and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests are solely those of the individuals and do not represent the views or opinions of the firms or organizations with which they are affiliated or the views or opinions of this podcast’s advertisers. This podcast is available for private, non-commercial use only. Any editing, reproduction, or redistribution of this podcast for commercial use or monetary gain without the expressed, written consent of the podcast’s creator is prohibited. Thank you for listening, please leave us a review and share the podcast with your friends and colleagues. Send your questions, comments, and feedback to marketing@4womenlaw.com.

  5. Sep 21

    #238 Why Emotional Clarity Is the Foundation for Every Major Divorce Decision with Hope Lutz Firsel

    Are you making divorce decisions from a place of clarity, or reacting from fear, overwhelm, and uncertainty? Divorce can make even the simplest choices feel impossible. When you’re navigating changes to your finances, parenting, home, identity, and future all at once, emotional overwhelm can leave you second-guessing yourself or feeling completely stuck. In this episode of Women Winning Divorce, Heather Quick talks with life and divorce coach Hope Lutz Firsel about why emotional clarity is essential for making thoughtful decisions and rebuilding trust in yourself during divorce. You’ll discover: How to recognize fear, anger, sadness, and other intense emotions without allowing them to drive major divorce decisions.Practical ways to create emotional clarity, regulate overwhelm, and reconnect with the confident part of yourself.How divorce coaching can complement your legal, financial, and therapeutic support so you can make decisions based on the future you want—not just what you’re feeling today. Play this episode to learn how to quiet the emotional noise, trust yourself again, and make divorce decisions with greater clarity and confidence. Hope's Links: Hope's Phone Number 773-848-9349Website https://hopefirsel.com/Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hopefirsel/?hl=en Interested in working with us? Fill out this form here to get started. Not quite ready? Interact with us on socials! OR get all of your questions answered by taking our online course: Divorce 101! Divorce 101 Online Course- https://heather-quick.mykajabi.com/divorce-101Linktree- https://linktr.ee/FloridaWomensLawGroup Florida Women’s Law Group Website- https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/Women Winning Divorce Podcast www.womenwinningdivorce.com Women Winning Divorce is supported by Florida Women’s Law Group. Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not an advertisement for legal services. The information provided on this podcast is not intended to be legal advice. You should not rely on what you hear on this podcast as legal advice. If you have a legal issue, please contact a lawyer. The views and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests are solely those of the individuals and do not represent the views or opinions of the firms or organizations with which they are affiliated or the views or opinions of this podcast’s advertisers. This podcast is available for private, non-commercial use only. Any editing, reproduction, or redistribution of this podcast for commercial use or monetary gain without the expressed, written consent of the podcast’s creator is prohibited. Thank you for listening, please leave us a review and share the podcast with your friends and colleagues. Send your questions, comments, and feedback to marketing@4womenlaw.com

  6. Sep 18

    #102 What Is No Fault Divorce? Why You Don’t Have to Prove Your Spouse Did Something Wrong

    What is no fault divorce and does it really mean that nothing your spouse did during the marriage matters? If you’re considering divorce, you may feel like you need to prove why your marriage should end. Maybe your husband cheated, hid money, walked away from the relationship, or perhaps you simply know the marriage is over. Understanding what “no fault divorce” actually means can help you stop focusing on whether your reasons are good enough and start thinking strategically about your future. In this mini episode of Women Winning Divorce, Heather Quick explains what no-fault divorce means in Florida and clears up some of the most common misconceptions surrounding it. You’ll learn: Why you generally don’t have to prove marital wrongdoing to obtain a divorce in FloridaHow your spouse’s conduct may still matter when addressing finances, parenting, support, property, and other issuesWhy shifting your focus from proving what happened in the past to protecting what matters in your future can help you prepare for divorce more strategically Play this episode to understand your rights, separate marital fault from the issues that may affect your case, and start preparing for your next chapter from a place of knowledge rather than fear. If you're navigating divorce and need more guidance, don't miss the deeper conversation in #147 Preparing for Divorce: Strategic Steps for You and a Look at Life After Interested in working with us? Fill out this form here to get started. Not quite ready? Interact with us on socials! OR get all of your questions answered by taking our online course: Divorce 101! Divorce 101 Online Course- https://heather-quick.mykajabi.com/divorce-101Linktree- https://linktr.ee/FloridaWomensLawGroup Florida Women’s Law Group Website- https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/ Women Winning Divorce is supported by Florida Women’s Law Group. Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not an advertisement for legal services. The information provided on this podcast is not intended to be legal advice. You should not rely on what you hear on this podcast as legal advice. If you have a legal issue, please contact a lawyer. The views and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests are solely those of the individuals and do not represent the views or opinions of the firms or organizations with which they are affiliated or the views or opinions of this podcast’s advertisers. This podcast is available for private, non-commercial use only. Any editing, reproduction, or redistribution of this podcast for commercial use or monetary gain without the expressed, written consent of the podcast’s creator is prohibited. Thank you for listening, please leave us a review and share the podcast with your friends and colleagues. Send your questions, comments, and feedback to marketing@4womenlaw.com.

  7. Sep 14

    #237 Equal Isn’t Always Fair: Will Your Divorce Settlement Actually Work in Real Life? with Donna Cates

    Your divorce settlement may look equal on paper, but will it actually support your life once the divorce is over? In this episode of Women Winning Divorce, Heather Quick sits down with certified divorce financial analyst, financial advisor, and bestselling author Donna Cates to explain why a 50/50 division of assets does not always create a financially fair outcome. From keeping the marital home to dividing retirement accounts, Donna breaks down the financial consequences women need to understand before agreeing to a settlement. You’ll learn how to evaluate whether your settlement can realistically support your monthly expenses, why liquidity and future tax consequences matter just as much as an asset’s current value, and how to think about your financial security five or ten years beyond the divorce. You’ll also discover the three-part reality test Donna uses: cash flow, liquidity, and long-term sustainability, to help women determine whether a proposed settlement truly works for their future. If you’re approaching mediation, reviewing a settlement proposal, or feeling pressured to sign just so your divorce can finally be over, play this episode to learn the questions you need to ask before making financial decisions that could affect you for years to come. Donna's Links: Website: www.moneymatterswealth.comBook: https://www.amazon.com/Divorce-Decoded-Manifesto-Navigating-Beyond-ebook/dp/B0DCW2VXH9Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/donnacates?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsi=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Interested in working with us? Fill out this form here to get started. Not quite ready? Interact with us on socials! OR get all of your questions answered by taking our online course: Divorce 101! Divorce 101 Online Course- https://heather-quick.mykajabi.com/divorce-101Linktree- https://linktr.ee/FloridaWomensLawGroup Florida Women’s Law Group Website- https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/Women Winning Divorce Podcast www.womenwinningdivorce.com Women Winning Divorce is supported by Florida Women’s Law Group. Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not an advertisement for legal services. The information provided on this podcast is not intended to be legal advice. You should not rely on what you hear on this podcast as legal advice. If you have a legal issue, please contact a lawyer. The views and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests are solely those of the individuals and do not represent the views or opinions of the firms or organizations with which they are affiliated or the views or opinions of this podcast’s advertisers. This podcast is available for private, non-commercial use only. Any editing, reproduction, or redistribution of this podcast for commercial use or monetary gain without the expressed, written consent of the podcast’s creator is prohibited. Thank you for listening, please leave us a review and share the podcast with your friends and colleagues. Send your questions, comments, and feedback to marketing@4womenlaw.com

  8. Sep 11

    #101 How Public Should You Be About Your Divorce? One Woman’s Story Sparks a Bigger Conversation

    How public should you be about your own divorce? When social media creator Jen Hamilton began sharing her separation publicly after discovering what she describes as her husband’s double life, millions were watching. Her story raises an important question. Social media can offer support and validation, but divorce is also a legal process. Posts can be screenshotted, saved, shared, and viewed later without the emotion or context behind them. In this mini episode, Heather Quick explores how to balance having a voice with protecting yourself, your children, and your future. Her winning move: Don’t post in the emotion. Listen for what to consider before sharing your divorce story online, and how to find support without sharing more than you may want to later. Article Link: https://www.thecut.com/article/jen-hamilton-divorce-tiktok.html If you're navigating divorce and need more guidance, don't miss the deeper conversation in #200 How To Reclaim Yourself After Betrayal, Divorce & Emotional Burnout Interested in working with us? Fill out this form here to get started. Not quite ready? Interact with us on socials! OR get all of your questions answered by taking our online course: Divorce 101! Divorce 101 Online Course- https://heather-quick.mykajabi.com/divorce-101Linktree- https://linktr.ee/FloridaWomensLawGroup Florida Women’s Law Group Website- https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/ Women Winning Divorce is supported by Florida Women’s Law Group. Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not an advertisement for legal services. The information provided on this podcast is not intended to be legal advice. You should not rely on what you hear on this podcast as legal advice. If you have a legal issue, please contact a lawyer. The views and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests are solely those of the individuals and do not represent the views or opinions of the firms or organizations with which they are affiliated or the views or opinions of this podcast’s advertisers. This podcast is available for private, non-commercial use only. Any editing, reproduction, or redistribution of this podcast for commercial use or monetary gain without the expressed, written consent of the podcast’s creator is prohibited. Thank you for listening, please leave us a review and share the podcast with your friends and colleagues. Send your questions, comments, and feedback to marketing@4womenlaw.com.

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Are you a successful woman in an unhappy marriage facing the decision to divorce? This show educates and empowers women in choosing to advocate for themselves, divorce with dignity, and protect their families and rights. Listen to: -Gain clarity on the divorce process -Protect your rights and assets -Overcome the fear of leaving an unhappy marriage and move towards a happier and healthier life Over the last 20 years, host Heather Quick has been focusing on advocating for exclusively women in divorce and family law. From starting as a solo practitioner to a team of now over thirty women, she’s dedicated to helping women to not only win at divorce, but also life. Every Monday Heather and an industry expert discuss how you can be your best self, before, during or after divorce. Every Wednesday Heather comments on divorce news, celebrity divorce, or shares a quick tip. If you’re ready to start moving towards a happier future, start by listening to Episode #2: Preparing Yourself For Divorce.

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