Parents of the Year

Caroline & Andrew
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We were never given a manual on how to parent. It is easy to get overwhelmed to know the right thing to do. There is so much contradictory information out there and everyone has their own advice. Parenting is a rewarding but messy, confusing, infuriating, guilt-inducing, and overwhelming journey. While it's easy to get lost, Andrew Stewart, a real dad, and Dr. Caroline Buzanko, a real mom, child psychologist, and parenting expert (who also happens to be married to Andrew) will help you get back on track. In each episode, Andrew and Caroline have open and honest chats about everything parenting. Join them in honesty, laughter, and tears (Caroline is a bit of a cry baby) as they help you navigate this journey of parenting. And, every so often, you may get some gems of expert advice. Our goal is to make your parenting journey less stressful, more forgiving, and more awesome. Please join us every Wednesday for new episodes of Parenting of the Year.

  1. 214. Will Your Adult Kids Want to Spend Time With You Later?

    Jun 3

    214. Will Your Adult Kids Want to Spend Time With You Later?

    Why Do Some Parents Actually Enjoy Parenting More Than Others? Why do some families seem genuinely connected, even during busy seasons, while others feel like they’re running a constant relay race of chores, sports, and stress? In this episode of Parents of the Year, Andrew and Dr. Caroline talk about the simple moments that shape strong family relationships long after childhood ends. From late-night talks and Sunday dinners to grocery store runs, family group chats, funny memes, and spontaneous golf outings, this conversation explores how connection is built in everyday life rather than expensive activities or perfect parenting. They also unpack research showing dads often report having more fun parenting than moms, and why modern family life can leave many parents feeling emotionally drained instead of connected. You’ll hear honest stories about raising teens, creating family rituals, protecting time together, balancing rules with warmth, and finding ways to stay close as kids grow into adults. This episode is for parents who want more laughter at home, stronger bonds with their children, and practical ways to create family memories without adding more pressure to an already full schedule. If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to our previous episode on having more fun with your kids and creating meaningful family moments. Homework Ideas Create One Weekly Family Ritual Ideas: Sunday dinnerMovie nightBoard game nightEvening walkMonthly breakfast dateStart a Family Group Chat Use it for: funny memesphotosquick check-insmusic recommendationsinside jokesInvite Your Child Into Everyday Tasks Take them along for: grocery runscoffee tripserrandscookingdog walksGoal: connection without pressure. Leave Small Notes Write: encouragementfunny jokesmemories“thinking of you” notesPut them: on mirrorslunch bagspillowsbathroom countersAdd Music Into Chores Create: cleanup playlistscar playlistsfamily throwback songsTurn ordinary moments into shared memories. Schedule One-on-One Time One child. One parent. No agenda. Ideas: driving rangebookstorecoffeeskatingquick driveEven 30 minutes matters. Send us Fan Mail Enjoying the show? Help us out by rating us on Apple! https://apple.co/3du8mPK Follow us on Facebook and join our Facebook Community!  Access resources, get support from other parents, and ask Caroline and Andrew your questions!  Follow FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61566206651235and  FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/674563503855526

    27 min
  2. 215. Why don’t kids respect parents the way they used to? Part 1 Parental Authority Series

    5d ago

    215. Why don’t kids respect parents the way they used to? Part 1 Parental Authority Series

    Are Parents Losing Authority? Why Respect at Home Is Breaking Down Why are so many parents feeling ignored, dismissed, or completely powerless with their kids? In this episode of Parents of the Year, Andrew and Dr. Caroline tackle the growing culture of disrespect happening at home, at school, online, and across society. From kindergarten graduation fights between parents to teens brushing off rules without a second thought, they unpack what changed and what families can do about it. This conversation digs into gentle parenting gone too far, the pressure parents face from social media, and why so many adults are scared to set firm boundaries. Andrew and Caroline share personal stories about raising teens, handling screen time, teaching respect, building family culture, and helping kids care about the opinions of the people who love them most. They also talk about: Why consequences matterHow over-negotiating weakens authorityThe difference between compassion and permissivenessWhy kids still need non-negotiablesHow TV, social media, and peers shape behaviourTeaching respect through everyday momentsWhy kids secretly want boundaries, even when they push backThis episode is honest, funny, uncomfortable at times, and packed with practical parenting conversations every family should be having right now. If you’ve ever thought: “Why doesn’t my child listen anymore?” or “Why does everything turn into a battle?” this episode is for you. Homework Ideas Create One Non-Negotiable Rule Pick one household issue causing daily friction: phones at bedtimerude languagechoresdinner routinesCollaboratively make a plan and write: the rulewhy it mattersthe consequence if ignoredKeep it simple and consistent for one full week. Practice “Broken Record Parenting” When your child argues: stay calmrepeat the ruleavoid long explanationsExample:  “The phone stays downstairs at night.”  Repeat calmly instead of debating. Family Contribution Audit Ask:  “What does it take to make this house run every week?” Make a list together: laundrydishespet careridesgroceriesAssign one meaningful responsibility to each child. Set aside time to do chores together and make it fun!  Teach Respect Through Real-Life Practice Use real moments: ordering foodspeaking to cashiersapologizinghandling frustrationCoach kids before and after interactions. Schedule One “Just for Fun” Parent-Child Activity Play cards, go for ice cream, garden, drive somewhere together, watch a movie, shoot hoops — whatever fits your family. The goal:  Connection without pressure.   Send us Fan Mail Enjoying the show? Help us out by rating us on Apple! https://apple.co/3du8mPK Follow us on Facebook and join our Facebook Community!  Access resources, get support from other parents, and ask Caroline and Andrew your questions!  Follow FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61566206651235and  FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/674563503855526

    38 min
  3. 213. Are Phones and Social Media Making Teen Life Harder Than Ever?

    May 27

    213. Are Phones and Social Media Making Teen Life Harder Than Ever?

    This week on Parents of the Year, Dr. Caroline and Andrew are joined by their youngest daughter  Willow for one of their most honest conversations yet. From social media stress to family rules that actually work, this episode pulls back the curtain on life with teens. Willow shares why she is now grateful she did not grow up with unrestricted social media, what she sees happening with friends online, and why consistency matters more than punishment. They talk about: why many teens feel overwhelmed by Snapchat and social pressurehow trust changes the way kids communicate with parentsthe difference between boundaries and controlwhy nagging shuts kids downhow respectful conversations build honestywhy sleep, phones, and mental health are tightly connectedhow parents can hold firm limits without turning the house into a battlefieldOne of the most powerful moments comes when Willow talks about knowing the rules AND the reasons behind them.   If you are raising teens or preparing for those years, this episode offers practical ideas, humour, and a refreshing look at what healthy family relationships can sound like. Homework Ideas Replace Commands With Questions Instead of: “Go do your chores.” Try: “What’s your plan for getting your chores done today?” Doing so helps teens feel ownership instead of pressure. Keep a sticky note on the fridge with three reminder questions: What’s the plan?When are you thinking of doing it?Do you need help getting started?Create One Non-Negotiable Phone Boundary Pick one consistent rule. For example: phones downstairs at nightno devices during mealsno phones in bedrooms after a certain timeOutline consequences for following or not following the rule and stick with it. Consistency lowers arguments.  Explain the “Why” Behind Rules Spend 10 minutes talking about one family boundary and the reason behind it. Teens respond best when rules feel reasonable and predictable. Write family agreements together on paper instead of only giving verbal instructions. Practice Calm Corrections When something is not done perfectly, pause before pointing it out immediately. Instead of: “You missed a spot.” Try: “Thanks for getting started on this.” You get more of whatever you pay attention to, so focus on what they are doing right to get more of that. ;) This approach also reduces defensiveness and helps teens stay engaged. Ask About Online Stress Without Judgement Ask your teen questions about online use with curiosity. Keep calm and don't try to change or fix anything, show genuine interest in what they have to say.  Does social media ever make school harder?Do people feel pressure to respond quickly?What causes the most drama online?Keeps conversations open without turning them into lectures. Consider going on a walk or drive instead of face-to-face conversation.   Send us Fan Mail Enjoying the show? Help us out by rating us on Apple! https://apple.co/3du8mPK Follow us on Facebook and join our Facebook Community!  Access resources, get support from other parents, and ask Caroline and Andrew your questions!  Follow FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61566206651235and  FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/674563503855526

    32 min
  4. 212. How Do Parents Build Strong Readers Without Daily Battles?

    May 20

    212. How Do Parents Build Strong Readers Without Daily Battles?

    In this episode of Parents of the Year, Andrew and Dr. Caroline tackles a concern many are facing right now: how do you raise children who enjoy reading when screens compete for every second of attention? From bedtime stories and graphic novels to hockey intermissions with a book in hand, Andrew and Dr. Caroline share what worked in their own home raising readers. They talk honestly about screen dependency, why family reading habits matter, and how creating a calm reading space can change the rhythm of family life. You’ll hear practical ideas for children with ADHD, reluctant readers, teens who would rather scroll than sit with a book, and parents who struggle to model reading themselves. They also unpack why fiction builds empathy, why reading aloud still matters, and why “30 minutes a day” can make a massive difference in language development and emotional growth. This episode is packed with real stories, sharp humour, parenting truth bombs, and simple strategies families can start using tonight. Topics covered: Helping kids enjoy reading without forcing itGraphic novels, comics, and ADHD-friendly readingScreen time and attention spansWhy family reading routines matterReading spaces that kids actually want to useHow reading supports empathy, vocabulary, creativity, and emotional regulationWhy parents need to model reading tooIf your child says books are “boring,” this episode is for you. Homework Activities for Adults Supporting Children & Teens 1. Create a Family Reading Window Pick the same 30-minute block every evening where everyone reads adults included. No TV. No phones. Resources needed: Physical books, comics, magazines, or graphic novelsCozy seatingLamp or reading lightBasket for devices outside the room2. Build a Reading Space Together Let kids help create the reading area with blankets, beanbags, pillows, shelves, or music. Resources needed: Beanbag chair or floor cushionsBookshelf or reading basketWarm lightingOptional: quiet instrumental playlist3. Pair Books with Entertainment Read the book first, then watch the movie adaptation together. Ideas mentioned in spirit during the episode: Harry PotterGraphic novels turned into filmsHockey biographies for sports-loving kidsResources needed: Library cardStreaming serviceFamily discussion afterward4. Start a “Commercial Break Reading” Habit Keep a book nearby during sports games or TV time. Read during commercials or breaks. Resources needed: Easy-access booksBookmarkFamily participation5. Replace One Hour of Weekend Screen Time Choose one block on weekends where phones and tablets are off-limits. Use the time for: ReadingListening to audiobooksReading aloudFamily storytellingResources needed: Device basketAudiobook app or library accessTimer Send us Fan Mail Enjoying the show? Help us out by rating us on Apple! https://apple.co/3du8mPK Follow us on Facebook and join our Facebook Community!  Access resources, get support from other parents, and ask Caroline and Andrew your questions!  Follow FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61566206651235and  FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/674563503855526

    26 min
  5. 211. What's it like to parent an ADHD child (with an ADHD spouse)?

    May 13

    211. What's it like to parent an ADHD child (with an ADHD spouse)?

    Dr. Caroline and her husband pull back the curtain on the chaos, comedy, frustration, and heart behind parenting in an ADHD household. From forgotten conversations and missed instructions to emotional overwhelm, impulsive comments, and the endless “Did you take your meds today?” jokes, this episode hits the realities many families live every day but rarely talk about out loud. They share honest stories about: The emotional shift after diagnosis Why medication changed their daughter’s confidence What “checking out” actually looks like in ADHD brains How open-ended questions work better than constant reminders The hidden exhaustion ADHD kids carry from years of correction and criticism Marriage dynamics when one partner’s brain works very differently There’s humor throughout, with vacuum cleaners abandoned in car trunks, disappearing attention spans, and entire family conversations happening in three different timelines, but underneath it is a real conversation about patience, support, and learning how to parent the child in front of you instead of the one you expected. This episode is for parents raising ADHD children, couples navigating neurodiverse relationships, teachers, caregivers, and anyone trying to better understand how ADHD affects family life. Homework Activities for Parents & Caregivers 1. Replace Commands With Open-Ended Questions Instead of:  “Go clean your room.” Try:  “What’s your plan for cleaning your room today?” Why it helps:  It forces the child to mentally rehearse the task instead of letting the instruction disappear. Resource:  Sticky note checklist  Whiteboard task planner  Visual timer 2. Watch for “Mental Checkout” Practice recognizing the moment attention disappears instead of repeating yourself louder. Signs:  blank stare  delayed response  random unrelated comments  frozen body language Homework:  Pause. Reconnect. Ask one short question instead of repeating the entire instruction. 3. Reduce Negative Corrections Track how many times you redirect or criticize in one day. Goal:  Add more positive observations than corrections. Examples:  “I noticed you remembered that.”  “Thanks for coming back and fixing it.”  “Good catch.” Resource:  Daily praise tracker  Family reward chart 4. Create “External Memory Systems” ADHD brains struggle holding multiple steps internally. Homework:  Build external systems:  phone reminders  bathroom checklists  visual schedules  alarms  baskets for daily essentials 5. Debrief Social Moments Without Shame When impulsive comments happen:  pause later  replay the moment calmly  ask what they noticed  brainstorm a different response together  Goal:  Build awareness without embarrassment.  Send us Fan Mail Enjoying the show? Help us out by rating us on Apple! https://apple.co/3du8mPK Follow us on Facebook and join our Facebook Community!  Access resources, get support from other parents, and ask Caroline and Andrew your questions!  Follow FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61566206651235and  FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/674563503855526

    30 min
  6. 210. What Do You Do When Your Kid Is the Problem?

    May 6

    210. What Do You Do When Your Kid Is the Problem?

    When another parent pulls you aside and says your kid is the problem… what do you actually do? In this episode, Andrew and Caroline get real about one of the hardest parenting moments: facing the possibility that your child is the one causing harm. From playground conflicts to teen behaviour that crosses a line, they unpack why so many parents jump to defensiveness and what it costs our kids when we do. Through honest stories including Caroline’s own “my kid would never…” moment, they walk through how to stay grounded, gather the full story, and respond in a way that actually helps your child grow. You will hear practical ways to  Respond without escalating conflict between parents  Talk to your child without shutting them down  Separate defending your child from excusing behaviour  Reinforce values like accountability, empathy, and self awareness  Support kids who struggle with impulse control or social cues This episode is for parents who want to raise kids others trust, respect, and want to be around and who are willing to look inward to get there. Homework Activities for Parents The Full Story First Conversation Ask “Anything I should know about today?”  Let them talk without interrupting  No correcting, no lecturing Goal is to get their version before reacting  Resource notes app to track patterns over time Values Check In Ask  “What kind of person do you want to be at school?”  “What matters more here being right or keeping the relationship?” Goal is to build internal decision making  Resource simple list of family values at home Pre Event Reset Quick check in before school or social situations  “What did we talk about yesterday?”  “What would a good day look like?” Goal is to interrupt repeat behaviour  Resource reminder notes or phone prompts Pattern Break for Impulsive Kids Add structure or supervision in problem situations  Reduce unstructured time temporarily Goal is to prevent behaviour before it starts  Resource coordination with teachers or caregivers Separate Behaviour from Identity Say “I am on your side. We still need to fix this.” Goal is to maintain trust while addressing behaviour Send us Fan Mail Enjoying the show? Help us out by rating us on Apple! https://apple.co/3du8mPK Follow us on Facebook and join our Facebook Community!  Access resources, get support from other parents, and ask Caroline and Andrew your questions!  Follow FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61566206651235and  FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/674563503855526

    27 min
  7. 209. What should you say when you find out your child is self-harming?

    Apr 29

    209. What should you say when you find out your child is self-harming?

    Non-suicidal self-injury is showing up earlier and more often than many expect, and most adults feel unprepared when it does. In this episode, Andrew and Dr. Caroline talk openly about why kids hurt themselves without wanting to die, what it actually gives them, and why the usual reactions can make things worse. Caroline breaks down what’s happening in the brain when emotions feel too big to handle, why pain can feel like relief, and how social media is quietly amplifying the problem. You’ll hear what signs to watch for, how to respond without pushing your child away, and what to say when you don’t know what to say. This conversation also tackles common assumptions, including the idea that kids are “just looking for attention,” and replaces it with a clearer understanding of what’s really going on beneath the surface. If you want practical ways to keep communication open, support emotional regulation, and create a home where kids feel safe sharing hard things, this episode gives you a starting point that actually works in real life. Homework Ideas Practice neutral responses Next time your child shares something uncomfortable, pause before reacting. Say: “Thanks for telling me. I’m glad you came to me.” Goal: build safety, not fear. Build daily low-stakes connection Spend 10 minutes a day talking about anything they choose. No correcting or teaching.  This creates the foundation so they come to you when it matters. Expand emotional vocabulary together Instead of “fine” or “bad,” ask: “Was it frustrating? Disappointing? Stressful?” Name emotions out loud in everyday moments. Co-watch and audit social media Sit beside them and scroll together.  Ask what they notice, what feels good, what feels heavy.  Adjust what they’re exposed to. Send us Fan Mail Enjoying the show? Help us out by rating us on Apple! https://apple.co/3du8mPK Follow us on Facebook and join our Facebook Community!  Access resources, get support from other parents, and ask Caroline and Andrew your questions!  Follow FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61566206651235and  FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/674563503855526

    27 min
  8. 208. Who Is Your Child Actually Talking to Online?

    Apr 22

    208. Who Is Your Child Actually Talking to Online?

    Roblox isn’t just a game—it’s one of the most active online spaces kids are spending time in right now. In this episode, Andrew and Caroline get real about what’s happening behind the screen. With over 150 million daily users—many under 13—this platform has become a digital playground where kids are interacting, spending money, and forming connections… sometimes with people they don’t actually know. They break down how features like chat and in-game currency (Robux) are being used to build trust, how conversations move off-platform, and how quickly things can shift from harmless to risky. You’ll also hear the uncomfortable truth many parents wrestle with—choosing convenience today while ignoring what it might cost later. If your child is gaming online, this episode will change how you think about supervision, boundaries, and your role in it. Homework for Parents Bring devices into shared spaces  No bedrooms. No closed doors. Turn off chat features  If it’s not needed, it’s off. No headphones during gameplay  You should hear what’s happening. Check spending together  Walk through how in-game purchases connect to real money. Ask one simple question daily  “Who did you play with today?” Watch for behaviour changes Closing screens quicklyGetting gifts they can’t explainBeing secretiveUrgency to get back onlineCreate your own account  Spend 20 minutes inside the game. See what they see. Send us Fan Mail Enjoying the show? Help us out by rating us on Apple! https://apple.co/3du8mPK Follow us on Facebook and join our Facebook Community!  Access resources, get support from other parents, and ask Caroline and Andrew your questions!  Follow FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61566206651235and  FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/674563503855526

    20 min
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We were never given a manual on how to parent. It is easy to get overwhelmed to know the right thing to do. There is so much contradictory information out there and everyone has their own advice. Parenting is a rewarding but messy, confusing, infuriating, guilt-inducing, and overwhelming journey. While it's easy to get lost, Andrew Stewart, a real dad, and Dr. Caroline Buzanko, a real mom, child psychologist, and parenting expert (who also happens to be married to Andrew) will help you get back on track. In each episode, Andrew and Caroline have open and honest chats about everything parenting. Join them in honesty, laughter, and tears (Caroline is a bit of a cry baby) as they help you navigate this journey of parenting. And, every so often, you may get some gems of expert advice. Our goal is to make your parenting journey less stressful, more forgiving, and more awesome. Please join us every Wednesday for new episodes of Parenting of the Year.

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  • Creator
    Caroline & Andrew
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    215
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Parents of the Year
  • Show Website
    Parents of the Year

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