The D Shift

Mardi Winder

These ain’t your Momma's divorce conversations. On The D Shift we explore a range of different topics of interest for women of all ages going through separation and divorce. Guest experts share insight and strategies to navigate the challenges of going from married to single with confidence, clarity, and conviction. Each episode provides inspiration, education, and motivation to help women take control and re-define their life through divorce and other transitions.

  1. Understanding Divorce Grief and Why It Happens

    8H AGO

    Understanding Divorce Grief and Why It Happens

    In this episode of The D Shift, Strategic Divorce Consultant Mardi Winder sits down with Karen Omand, divorce and grief specialist, to talk about the often-overlooked grief that accompanies the end of a marriage. Karen brings both professional expertise and personal insight, drawing on her background in thanatology, the study of grief and loss, which she pursued after experiencing the sudden loss of her parents and navigating her own difficult divorce. Mardi and Karen explore how grief can appear in unexpected ways during divorce, including emotional overwhelm, cognitive fatigue, physical symptoms, and changes in relationships with friends and family. They also discuss why society tends to acknowledge grief after death but often minimizes the emotional impact of divorce. Topics covered include: • Why divorce can trigger grief responses similar to bereavement • The hidden losses people experience after separation • How identity, future plans, and even family pets can become part of the grieving process • Why many people feel unsupported during divorce • Practical ways to process grief and move forward with resilience Karen also shares how journaling and narrative therapy can help individuals process their emotions while navigating the practical realities of divorce. She introduces her workbook Just Separated, a resource designed to help individuals address the emotional, legal, and financial transitions that follow the end of a marriage. About the Guest: Karen Omand is a divorce and grief specialist with degrees in Sociology and Thanatology—the study of grief and loss. She works with people going through divorce who feel overwhelmed, conflicted, or stuck in grief, helping them find clarity, confidence, and calm so they can make decisions that truly serve them. As co-founder of The Divorce Workshop, certified grief counselor, and co-author of The Just Separated Workbook, Karen blends practical strategies with emotional insight. Her workshops, quizzes, and Just Separated Podcast offer real-world tools to manage loss, rebuild identity, and create a plan for life after divorce. Karen’s approach bridges the emotional and practical sides of separation, helping listeners move from chaos to clarity with strength and self-awareness. For Karen’s gifts: sample of Just Separated workbook www.divorceworkshop.ca/workbook22 Free Grief Quiz: What are you really Grieving? https://divorce-grief-meter-karen107.replit.app To connect with Karen: Website: www.divorceworkshop.ca Instagram: www.instagram.com/divorceworkshop.ca Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/karen.omandsheldon YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorceworkshop LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karen-omand-06673a250/ About the Host Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test". Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave an Apple Podcast Review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    27 min
  2. Social Security and Retirement After Divorce

    5D AGO

    Social Security and Retirement After Divorce

    Retirement planning after divorce can feel overwhelming, especially when you are suddenly responsible for your financial future on your own. In this episode of The D Shift, Strategic Divorce Consultant Mardi Winder speaks with certified financial planner Eric Blake about how women can make confident, informed retirement decisions after divorce, widowhood, or remaining single. They break down one of the most confusing topics for many women. Social Security. You will learn how ex-spousal and survivor benefits work, why the 10-year marriage rule matters, how remarriage affects eligibility, and how the timing of your claim can significantly impact your long-term income. The conversation also explores: • How to create a retirement strategy after a gray divorce • Why becoming overly conservative with investments can be risky • The impact of inflation on long-term retirement planning • How to manage cash flow, debt, and tax strategy post-divorce • Why women must be active decision makers in their financial future This episode is designed for women who want to move from financial uncertainty to clarity and take a strategic approach to retirement after divorce. About the Guest: Eric Blake is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER® professional and the founder of Blake Wealth Management, specializing in helping women 55+ navigate retirement with clarity and confidence. With more than 25 years of experience, Eric provides strategies to optimize investments, create reliable income, and minimize taxes. Inspired by his mother and grandmother’s financial journeys, Eric has a personal passion for empowering women to take control of their financial future. For Eric’s gift: www.womenssocialsecurityguide.com To connect with Eric: Blake Wealth Management: www.blakewealthmanagement.com The Simply Retirement Podcast: www.thesimplyretirementpodcast.com LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/ericblakecfp Facebook: www.facebook.com/EricBlakeCFP YouTube: www.youtube.com/@TheSimplyRetirementPodcast About the Host Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test". Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcast Review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    31 min
  3. How to Stop Emotional Overwhelm During Divorce

    MAR 3

    How to Stop Emotional Overwhelm During Divorce

    Divorce often comes with emotional overwhelm, decision fatigue, and constant mental noise that makes clear thinking feel impossible. In this episode of The D Shift, Strategic Divorce Consultant Mardi Winder is joined by leadership expert Emilee Tucker to explore how high achieving individuals can reduce overwhelm, improve communication, and make better decisions during high stress transitions. Emilee explains why most people are already operating at full capacity before their day even begins and how information overload and social pressure intensify stress during divorce. Instead of trying to manage time more efficiently, she introduces the concept of energy management and shows how aligning important decisions with your natural energy patterns leads to better outcomes. In this conversation, you will learn: • Why emotional overwhelm leads to poor communication and reactive decisions in divorce • The difference between time management and energy management and why it matters • How intentional language can shift conversations from defensive to collaborative • Simple ways to recognize stress signals in your body before they impact your choices • How curiosity and critical thinking reduce conflict and increase clarity This episode is designed for high-achieving people who want to stay strategic, communicate effectively, and protect their long-term outcomes during divorce. About the Guest: Emilee Tucker helps leaders, entrepreneurs, and high-achieving individuals overcome emotional overwhelm, reconnect with their inner truth, and create lasting happiness. With a background in organizational leadership and over 18 years of corporate experience, Emilee bridges the worlds of personal transformation and conscious leadership. Her work blends emotional intelligence, energetics, and intuitive wisdom to support deep self-awareness, authentic expression, and aligned living. Shaped by her own journey of deconditioning and awakening, Emilee is passionate about helping people remember who they are on a soul level—so they can live, lead, and relate with clarity, presence, and purpose. For Emilee’s gift: https://calendar.app.google/b69UvyLkitxAunkn6 - 20 Minute Breakthrough Call To connect with Emilee: LinkedIn:www.linkedin.com/in/emileetucker Substack: https://substack.com/@emileetucker YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EmileeTuckerLeads About the Host Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test". Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcast Review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    26 min
  4. Plan Your Best Divorce Financial Future

    FEB 26

    Plan Your Best Divorce Financial Future

    In this episode, Mardi Winder talks with Jamie Lima, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Certified Financial Planner, and mediator, to discuss the complexities of money during divorce and how financial concerns can influence decisions both before and during the process. Jamie brings a personal and professional perspective, sharing his own story of navigating divorce and how those early experiences shaped his career and approach to financial planning. Throughout their conversation, they explore why having a diverse team of professionals, including financial planners, divorce strategists, attorneys, and, at times, forensic accountants, is essential to achieving clarity and support during such a challenging transition. Jamie notes the common pitfalls of expecting attorneys to cover every aspect and encourages building what he calls "Team You," where specialists collaborate for the best outcome. The discussion highlights the value of understanding one’s financial options, preparing relevant documents, and using supportive resources wisely, especially as emotions can interfere with decision-making. They also touch upon the evolution of collaborative divorce formats and how emerging technology, like AI-assisted financial analysis, is making asset tracing more accessible and affordable. Jamie generously shares details about free and practical resources, including budgeting worksheets and online tools, aimed at empowering listeners with knowledge as they plan or move through divorce. This episode offers not only practical steps but also reassurance for anyone feeling overwhelmed,reminding listeners that thoughtful preparation, education, and the right support system can help ease the process and set the foundation for a brighter financial future after divorce. About the Guest: Jamie Lima: I grew up in a family that always seemed to have money challenges, especially after my parents divorced when I was very young. They tried incredibly hard, but I knew, even as a small child that it was rough on them. That led me to a career in finance as I wanted to learn and understand how to better support myself and my future family. After going through an incredibly difficult divorce myself, I decided to become a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and founded Allegiant Divorce Solutions to help others better prepare for, navigate, and recover financially from divorce. I promised myself early on that I would do whatever was required to ensure that my clients never felt the same struggles related to money that I did growing up, and through my divorce. After over 20 years of experience, I really love helping clients make important financial decisions and making the puzzle pieces ‘fit’ for them. But I also noticed a need in the Divorce space. The software we are using is antiquated, and I knew there had to be an easier way. That led me to build SecureSplit. SecureSplit Pro helps divorce professionals organize their cases in an easy-to-use and modern layout. I also created quick calculators to help consumers that are unable to work with professionals, SecureSplit Essentials. Outside of work my wife, Dawn, and I spend a lot of time in our Jeep off-roading, traveling the country in our RV, and trying to keep up with our 5 (yes, 5!) kids. For Jamie’s gift: https://allegiantds.com/resources To connect with Jamie: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamielima/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allegiantdivorce/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@allegiantdivorce Facebook: www.facebook.com/groups/preparingfinanciallyfordivorce/ About the Host Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test". Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.

    29 min
  5. Rising After Divorce For A 10/10 Life

    FEB 24

    Rising After Divorce For A 10/10 Life

    Welcome to this episode of The D Shift: Redefining Divorce And Beyond. Today, host Mardi Winder welcomes life coach and spark-restorer for women, Megan Bunnell, to share her powerful journey of rebuilding life after divorce and trauma. Megan opens up about navigating the aftermath of an abusive relationship, facing deep grief and an identity crisis, and finding her way to a "10 out of 10" life. Through candid conversation, Megan explains how women—especially high-achieving and accomplished ones—often hide their struggles, and how acknowledging where you are is the first step to rising after divorce. She offers practical advice on self-love, rewriting your inner narrative, and intentionally laying the groundwork for a fulfilling new chapter. Whether you’re just out of a relationship or looking to redefine your own happiness, this episode is filled with inspiration, actionable strategies, and hope for anyone refusing to stay broken after adversity. Plus, you’ll hear about Megans “Unstoppable You Assessment” and tools to help you start living your best life today. Tune in for genuine insight, encouragement, and the reminder that transformation is not only possible, it begins with loving yourself and taking one small step forward each day. About the Guest: Megan Bunnell is a life coach, speaker, and unapologetic spark-restorer for women who refuse to stay broken after divorce. A former teacher and corporate professional, Megan rebuilt her life after an emotionally abusive marriage, deep grief, and a complete identity unraveling. Now, as the founder of Tantalum Coaching and host of the Empowered & Unstoppable podcast, she helps high-achieving women stop merely “coping” and start creating 10/10 lives they’re obsessed with waking up to. Equal parts science nerd, straight-talking best friend, and bulldog with a heart of gold, Megan blends thought and emotional management with brutally honest self-reflection to help women rise stronger, softer, and more powerful than ever. Her message is simple: your past may explain you, but it does not define your future. For Megan’s gift: https://unstoppableyouassessment.meganbunnellcoaching.com/ To connect with Megan: Website: www.meganbunnellcoaching.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meganbunnell.lifecoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MeganBunnell.LifeCoaching Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/megan-bunnell/ About the Host Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test". Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app.

    29 min
  6. Collaborative Law Options For Divorce

    FEB 19

    Collaborative Law Options For Divorce

    This episode of The D Shift focuses on the often-overlooked possibilities offered by collaborative law for divorce. Mardi Winder is joined by Manisha Patel, an attorney known for blending legal expertise with a compassionate approach to the challenges of family separation. Through their conversation, Manisha Patel shares her journey from traditional litigation toward embracing alternative dispute resolution, particularly collaborative law. She explains how her experience with adversarial cases led her to realize that families benefit most from processes that prioritize emotional, mental, and financial well-being. Listeners will gain a clear understanding of collaborative family law and how it differs from mediation. Manisha Patel outlines the collaborative law framework, emphasizing open disclosure and a commitment not to pursue litigation, allowing couples to maintain greater control over their outcomes. The episode also touches on the role of other professionals, such as child welfare specialists and financial neutrals, in supporting families through this process. Through practical examples and thoughtful insight, Manisha addresses common concerns, including fears about working collaboratively when tensions or personality conflicts arise. She underscores the value of communication and the potential for collaborative law to prepare parents for healthy co-parenting beyond divorce, regardless of their current relationship. The conversation highlights choosing the best path for your unique situation and reminds listeners of the power and ownership they retain when making decisions together. About the Guest: Manisha Patel is known for combining deep legal expertise with a calm, practical, and compassionate approach that helps clients make good decisions in some of the most stressful moments of their lives. As a collaborative family law attorney, certified mediator, and founder of a boutique family law firm in Greensboro, North Carolina, Manisha focuses on helping families navigate separation, divorce, and co parenting with less conflict and more clarity, using collaborative law and mediation to keep people out of courtroom battles whenever possible. She is an elected Councilor to the North Carolina State Bar and past President of the Greensboro Bar Association, as well as a longtime leader in organizations that support women in the legal profession, pro bono service, and lawyer wellness. Her new book, End Your Marriage Peacefully: Your Guide to Successful Collaborative Divorce in North Carolina, launches in 2026. For Manisha’s gift: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1mdfky2F_12czu_q0QCIBJFvO_OKezzcz/view?usp=drive_link To connect with Manisha: Website: www.lawofficeofmpp.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/manishappatel LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/law-office-of-manisha-p-patel-pllc/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/lompp18/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lawofficeofmpp About the Host Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test". Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcast Review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    29 min
  7. How to Get Unstuck After Major Life Changes

    FEB 17

    How to Get Unstuck After Major Life Changes

    Today, Mardi Winder sits down with Michele Garrett, a women’s life and transition coach with more than three decades of experience in guiding individuals through personal and professional growth. Their conversation centers on the unique transitions women face, especially during the “third act” of life, when careers shift, children grow up, relationships change, and opportunities arise that can feel both liberating and overwhelming. Michele shares her journey from educator and trainer to coach, emphasizing the difference between directing others and empowering them to discover their best selves. The discussion highlights the struggle many women experience with feeling stuck after years of focusing on everyone else’s needs, and the challenge of learning to prioritize themselves without guilt. Michele offers insights into how identifying core values and creating space for self-reflection can help women move past old patterns and limiting beliefs. She outlines how even small changes, like scheduling moments for fun or setting healthy boundaries, can make a significant difference. Mardi and Michele explore the importance of learning to be comfortable alone, reframing the experience from being a punishment to an opportunity for growth. They stress that transitions are not about rigid goals, but about clarity, flexibility, and honoring what’s truly important. Listeners are encouraged to consider what “blossoming into your best” means personally, and to take practical steps toward creating a more fulfilling life, one choice at a time. About the Guest: Michele Garrett is a women’s life and transition coach, leadership mentor, and learning strategist with over 30 years of experience guiding individuals through personal and professional growth. As founder of Michele Garrett Coaching, LLC, she blends heart-centered coaching with practical tools to help women rediscover their voice, build confidence, and lead with clarity. Michele’s background spans teaching, instructional design, senior leadership coaching, and volunteer work with Dress for Success. She holds a master’s in education from Penn State and is an Associate Certified Coach (ACC). For Michele’s gift: https://calendly.com/mgarrettcoaching/30min To connect with Michele: Website: https://www.mgarrettcoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mtregogarrett/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/michelegarrettcoach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/michele.trego.garrett About the Host Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test". Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcast Review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    28 min
  8. Debunking Common Myths About Dating After Divorce

    FEB 12

    Debunking Common Myths About Dating After Divorce

    In this episode, Mardi Winder sits down again with Laurie Gerber, a love and relationship coach who specializes in helping people after divorce find new relationships. Laurie shares her own experience of working through challenges in her marriage with coaching, which helped her gain insight into what really matters in keeping a relationship strong. This led her to become a coach herself, with a focus on dating and finding love, especially for women over 50. The conversation gets real about the fears and myths that hold people back from dating again, like the worry that there aren’t any good partners left out there. Laurie reassures listeners that this simply isn’t true, and encourages a shift in perspective, if you’re here, so is someone else who’s a good match. She talks about her 3H Method, which makes dating feel more manageable and fun: pay attention to what your head, heart, and “hoo ha” tell you about someone, and don’t get bogged down with endless lists of requirements. There’s practical advice on online dating, including how to stay safe and what to watch out for, and tips for handling awkward moments, like figuring out how to politely turn down a match after a video call. Laurie reminds everyone that dating is a numbers game and it’s okay to say “no” if things aren’t clicking. The whole chat is supportive and easygoing, aimed at helping anyone feel more confident about jumping back into the dating world at any point in life. About the Guest: Laurie Gerber is one of the most engaging and effective life coaches and presenters in the country. After holding several positions at Handel Group® over the last 20 years, including President of HG Life, Laurie is currently licensing The Handel Method® and running Laurie Gerber Coaching, Inc. focusing on LOVE coaching. Laurie has appeared on the Today Show, Dr, Phil, MTV and A & E and been the resident love expert at Match, Zoosk, Jdate, and many more. She has been presenting to and coaching individuals, couples, and groups, with a wide range of partners including: the dating sites above, General Assembly, She Tribe, BeSocialChange, IvyConnect, Ellevate, and many more. She has appeared on television shows, podcasts, radio shows, and all over the internet. Check out “The Secret-Free Diet”, her TedX talk on the power of truth telling. When not working from her NYC townhouse, she’s meditating, jogging, or attempting to get cuddles from her 10, 20 and 22-year old kids and husband of 26 years. For Laurie’s gift: https://lauriegerber.com/webinar To connect with Laurie: Website: lauriegerber.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lauriegerberdatingcoach Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lauriegerber_coach/ Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@lauriegerbercoach Linked in: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauriegerber About the Host Mardi Winder is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce. Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test". Connect with Mardi on Social Media: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@divorcecoach4women Thanks for Listening! Thanks so much for listening to our podcast! If you enjoyed this episode and think that others could benefit from listening, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a comment in the section below! Subscribe to the Podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts. You can also subscribe in your favorite podcast app. Leave us an Apple Podcast Review Ratings and reviews from our listeners are extremely valuable to us and greatly appreciated. They help our podcast rank higher on Apple Podcasts, which exposes our show to more awesome listeners like you. If you have a minute, please leave an honest review on Apple Podcasts.

    30 min
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These ain’t your Momma's divorce conversations. On The D Shift we explore a range of different topics of interest for women of all ages going through separation and divorce. Guest experts share insight and strategies to navigate the challenges of going from married to single with confidence, clarity, and conviction. Each episode provides inspiration, education, and motivation to help women take control and re-define their life through divorce and other transitions.

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