Off the Fence with Karen Covy: Mastering Decision Making, Divorce & More

Karen Covy
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When your future is on the line, making the right decision can feel impossible—especially when emotions are high, the stakes are huge, and the pressure is real. Enter Karen Covy, a nationally recognized divorce coach, lawyer, mediator, and decision strategist with over 30 years of experience, Karen helps high-achieving professionals navigate life's toughest crossroads with clarity and confidence. Each week on Off the Fence, Karen sits down with thought leaders, industry experts, and people who’ve been through it all to unpack what it really takes to make smart, strategic decisions—whether you're facing a divorce, rethinking your career, navigating family dynamics, or reinventing your life. Each episode offers real talk, practical insights, and powerful strategies for navigating divorce, career pivots, relationship challenges, and midlife transformation with clarity and purpose. If you're standing at a crossroads and wondering what’s next, this podcast will help you get off the fence—and into action. 👉 Get show notes and resources at https://karencovy.com/podcast

  1. The Money Threat That Ended My 33-Year Marriage

    23H AGO

    The Money Threat That Ended My 33-Year Marriage

    Roxanne had listened to her husband's money threats for years, but when he mentioned creating trusts to cut her out, something inside her snapped. She filed for divorce the next day. Yet, after 33 years of marriage, leaving is still hard – in spite of the fact that her marriage has been over for years. Unfortunately, Roxanne’s husband refuses to accept reality, leaving her to navigate the treacherous waters of a gray divorce while trying to protect herself both financially and physically. What makes Roxanne's situation particularly complex is that her husband is an alcoholic and is in complete denial about the divorce. With guns in the house and her 30-year-old son serving as an unintentional buffer, Roxanne must carefully balance her safety with the practical challenges of untangling decades of separate finances and preparing for a battle over assets.  Her story reveals the hidden struggles many face when leaving a long-term marriage, especially when one spouse will do anything to maintain the status quo. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

    40 min
  2. Money After Divorce: What Every Woman Needs to Know

    2D AGO

    Money After Divorce: What Every Woman Needs to Know

    When your financial world gets turned upside down, the last thing you want is to feel powerless. That’s why Lauren Connelly, a wealth advisor with over a decade of experience, devotes her career to helping women and families navigate major life transitions like divorce, retirement, and estate planning so that they have enough money after divorce to live comfortably. Growing up with a single mother who worked tirelessly to rebuild after divorce, Lauren brings both professional expertise and personal insight into why financial clarity and confidence matter so much during times of change, particularly divorce. Lauren explains how she first saw the power of financial education while working in retirement planning, where she met countless people—especially women—who were suddenly forced to take charge of money decisions they’d never handled before. She makes it clear that understanding the basics, even if you’re not “a numbers person,” can transform fear into empowerment.  Lauren stresses that financial planning isn’t just about numbers—it’s about your life goals. Whether you’re figuring out if you can sustain yourself after divorce, planning to retire comfortably, or simply wanting a second opinion, she emphasizes the value of asking the right questions and finding an advisor who truly fits you. Most importantly, she shows how financial planning, done right, helps you build a future that supports not just your wealth, but your freedom and peace of mind. About Lauren Lauren Connelly is a Wealth Management Advisor at Vestor Capital with 10+ years of experience. Lauren is dedicated to assisting clients in growing and protecting their assets so they can achieve what matters most to them. Lauren, a CFP® professional, believes that fear drives financial decisions too often. She is dedicated to empowering individuals, families, and businesses to identify and realize financial success. Through unbiased and carefully considered guidance, she works with clients as their personal "CFO" and reviews all aspects of their financial lives to help develop, implement, and continuously refine a detailed road map for success.  Connect with Lauren You can connect with Lauren on LinkedIn at Vestor Capital,  email Lauren at lconnelly@vestorcapital.com,  and visit her website at Vestor Capital. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

    30 min
  3. 26 Years Together And I Don't Enjoy His Company

    SEP 12

    26 Years Together And I Don't Enjoy His Company

    Imagine carrying the weight of someone else’s happiness for so long that you forget what it feels like to breathe. Robin has spent the last ten of her 26 years together with her husband slowly suffocating as she's become her husband's caretaker instead of his partner.  While he battles depression and anxiety with little progress despite years of treatment, Robin finds herself drowning in guilt over wanting something she can barely admit: freedom. Four sessions into couples therapy with her husband, she's finally confronting a devastating truth: she's been building a rich, fulfilling life that deliberately excludes the man sleeping next to her every night.  Now she wonders whether the small cosmetic changes happening in therapy can address the deeper disconnection that's been festering for years, or if it's time to finally have the conversation she's been avoiding about what she truly needs. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

    25 min
  4. Divorce Recovery Tips That Help You Choose Better Love

    SEP 10

    Divorce Recovery Tips That Help You Choose Better Love

    "Your divorce doesn't define you." These powerful words from divorce recovery coach Leah Marie Mazur capture the essence of her transformative approach to healing after divorce. Leah Marie brings raw authenticity to the table, sharing how her own journey through three divorces led to profound self-discovery and eventually, to her calling to help other women, especially moms, to rebuild self-esteem, set boundaries, and navigate both divorce recovery and co-parenting with confidence. Leah Marie emphasizes that divorce recovery isn't just about getting over the end of your marriage. It's about understanding your patterns, taking ownership of your role, and learning to meet your own needs so you don't rely on others to fill emotional voids.  Leah Marie and co-founder Samantha Boss also created the Next Chapter membership, a private community and resource hub specifically for women dealing with high-conflict divorces and co-parenting struggles. The platform offers practical tools, compassionate support, and the reminder that divorce is not who you are, it’s just one chapter in your story. About Leah Leah Marie Mazur is a Certified Divorce Recovery Coach, and the founder of Mindfully Ready and co-creator of The Next Chapter membership. She specializes in helping divorced moms heal, rebuild self-esteem, and co-parent with confidence after high-conflict breakups. Through coaching, courses, and community, Leah empowers women to set boundaries, prioritize themselves, and create fulfilling new chapters in life. Her own experience of navigating three divorces fuels her passion for guiding women through recovery with compassion and proven strategies. Connect with Leah You can connect with Leah Marie on LinkedIn at Mindfully Ready and on Facebook at Mindfully Ready. You can follow Leah Marie on TikTok @mindfullyReady, on Instagram at Mindfully Ready and on YouTube at @mindfullyready.  To find out more about Leah Marie’s work, visit her website at Mindfully Ready. Just Launched! The New Woman Within: Empowered Moms, Empowered Kids. A self-paced program designed to help divorced moms heal, rebuild confidence, and create a life they genuinely love—while modeling healthy coping and boundaries for their children.  Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

    38 min
  5. Navigating Post-Divorce Dating with Love Expert Laurie Gerber

    SEP 3

    Navigating Post-Divorce Dating with Love Expert Laurie Gerber

    What if the secret to successful post-divorce dating isn't about perfecting your dating profile, but about understanding the three crucial criteria that most people completely ignore?  In this podcast episode, love coach Laurie Gerber reveals her revolutionary "3-H method" that has helped countless women over 50 navigate the treacherous waters of modern dating. As someone who saved her own marriage from the brink of divorce (now 26 years strong) before becoming a professional coach, Laurie brings unique insight to relationship challenges. Laurie and I dive deeply into WHEN and HOW you should start dating again after divorce [SPOILER ALERT: It's not when you think!]. We also talk about how to avoid the most common pitfalls that will keep you stuck in dating limbo. Finally, we discuss how to navigate the modern maze of online dating and how to master the progression from digital banter to video chats to live dates.  This episode is full of helpful tips and down-to-earth advice that will leave you feeling empowered to dive back into the dating world with confidence. As Laurie says, it’s never too late to find love … but only if you start by doing your own inner work first. About Laurie Laurie Gerber is one of the most engaging and effective life coaches and presenters in the country. After holding several positions at Handel Group® over the last 20 years, including President of HG Life, Laurie is currently licensing The Handel Method® and running Laurie Gerber Coaching, Inc. focusing on LOVE coaching. Laurie has appeared on the Today Show, Dr, Phil, MTV and A & E and been the resident love expert at Match, Zoosk, Jdate, and many more. She has been presenting to and coaching individuals, couples, and groups, with a wide range of partners including: the dating sites above, General Assembly, She Tribe, BeSocialChange, IvyConnect, Ellevate, and many more. She has appeared on television shows, podcasts, radio shows, and all over the internet. Check out “The Secret-Free Diet”, her TedX talk on the power of truth telling. When not working from her NYC townhouse, she’s meditating, jogging, or attempting to get cuddles from her 10, 20 and 22-year old kids and husband of 26 years. Connect with Laurie You can connect with Laurie on LinkedIn at Laurie Gerber and on Facebook at Laurie Gerber. You can follow Laurie on Instagram @lauriegerber_coach, on TikTok at lauriegerber_coach and on YouTube at @lauriegerbercoach.  To find out more about Laurie’s work visit her website at Laurie Gerber and for more of Laurie's dating resources check out her FREE webinar: "3 Secrets to Finding and Maintaining Healthy Love without Repeated Disappointments" Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

    46 min
  6. Finding Love After 50: Strategies From a Matchmaking Pioneer

    AUG 27

    Finding Love After 50: Strategies From a Matchmaking Pioneer

    What if the key to finding love after 50 isn't about getting lucky, but about getting strategic? Andrea McGinty, known as the “Godmother of Modern Dating,” discovered this truth firsthand after being dumped at the altar in her twenties. That devastating moment sparked the creation of It's Just Lunch - a revolutionary matchmaking service that grew to over 110 locations worldwide and facilitated more than 10,000 marriages. Andrea later sold that company and created “33,000 Dates,” a dating service that focuses specifically on helping people over 45 navigate the complex world of online dating with scientific precision and proven strategies. Andrea harnesses the power of data analytics and algorithms to sift through thousands of potential online matches for her clients. Her approach combines cutting-edge research with old-school relationship wisdom, using everything from demographic data to red-flag identification techniques.  Her results speak for themselves: 65% of Andrea's current clients end up in long-term relationships, and more than 40% of today's top matchmakers trace their expertise back to her pioneering methods.  Andrea’s latest book, "Second Acts: Winning Strategies for Dating Over 50," distills decades of Andrea’s experience into 166 no-nonsense strategies, complete with worksheets and QR codes for interactive guidance.  From understanding why AI-written profiles fail spectacularly to learning the optimal number of dating sites to use at once, Andrea's systematic approach transforms the overwhelming world of modern romance into a manageable, strategic process that actually works. About Andrea About Andrea McGinty is known as The Godmother of Modern Dating and her journey is as compelling as the love stories she’s helped create.  After being dumped at the altar in her 20s, Andrea founded It’s Just Lunch Matchmaking in 1990.  Andrea revolutionized the matchmaking industry. Her innovative service grew to over 110 locations worldwide and facilitated over 33,000 setups, resulting in more than 10,000 marriages. Today, her company, 33,000 Dates, focuses on helping the over-45 crowd find love in the second act of their lives.  Andrea has been featured on Oprah, People, Today Show, and named Entrepreneur of the Month on the Early Show. As a sought-after speaker, she has addressed audiences at the American Marketing Association and other prestigious events. Her insights and passion have made her a trusted voice in the realm of love and relationships.   Connect with Andrea You can connect with Andrea on LinkedIn at Andrea McGinty and on Facebook at 33 Thousand Dates.  You can follow Andrea on Instagram at 33000dates and on YouTube at 33000dates.  To find out how to work with Andrea visit her website at 33 Thousand Dates. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

    52 min
  7. The Money Mistakes Most Women Make Without Realizing It

    AUG 20

    The Money Mistakes Most Women Make Without Realizing It

    What if the biggest threat to your financial future isn't market crashes or economic downturns, but simply not being part of the conversation? In her 25 years of working within the financial services industry, Dr. Barbara Provost discovered that women’s financial needs (including the need for a financial education) were being largely ignored. As a result, women were making money mistakes they didn't need to make. She and her daughter Maggie Nielsen are now on a mission to change that.  Together, they operate Purse Strings, an organization designed to provide women with clear, practical financial education and connect them with vetted professionals who understand their unique challenges. Whether it’s preparing for retirement, navigating divorce, or recovering from unexpected loss, Dr. Provost and Maggie focus on helping women make confident, informed financial decisions during major life transitions and beyond. In this podcast episode, we dive deeply into the most common and costly financial mistakes women make - like staying out of financial conversations, undervaluing their contributions, or trusting advisors who don’t engage with them. We also talk about simple, practical steps you can take to start regaining control of your financial future, and to build the right support team who will help you do that. If you’re feeling uncertain about your finances (especially if you’re facing a divorce!) this podcast episode is a great first step toward building the secure financial future you dream about. About Dr. Barbara & Maggie Dr. Barbara Provost and Maggie Nielsen are a dynamic mother-daughter duo committed to empowering women with the tools they need to make confident financial decisions. As a consultant, educator, and entrepreneur, Barbara connects women with trusted financial professionals to help them plan for a future full of choices. Maggie, with her curious mindset and passion for personal growth, inspires others through motivational talks and equips women with the financial knowledge they need to thrive. Together, they are dedicated to helping women build lives free from financial stress thanks to the support of their community of trusted professionals. Connect with Dr. Barbara & Maggie You can connect with Dr. Barbara & Maggie on LinkedIn at Purse Strings and on Facebook at Purse Strings. And follow them on YouTube at Purse Strings and on Instagram at Purse Strings.  To find out more about their work visit their website at Purse Strings and listen to their podcast Women and Money: The Shit We Don't Talk About.  Grab your free Divorce Prep Guide. Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

    35 min
  8. What No One Tells You About Divorce and Your Money

    AUG 13

    What No One Tells You About Divorce and Your Money

    What if everything you think you know about divorce and your money is keeping you trapped in financial anxiety? Phil Telpner, a financial advisor, former hedge fund manager, and president of Breakout Private Wealth, reveals why even women with substantial assets find themselves paralyzed by money decisions during and after their divorce. He also reveals the simple system he created that will turn that around. Phil breaks down the most common questions women face post-divorce: “Can I?”, “How much?”, and “What if?”. He also reveals how you can turn your answers to these questions into the foundation of a strong financial plan.  Phil also unpacks the hidden landmines that can derail your financial future after divorce, including maintenance changes due to job loss, and the tax implications that come with switching your filing status post-divorce.  Phil challenges conventional financial wisdom and offers practical strategies for maximizing your wealth and minimizing your financial risks after your divorce. His insights offer a lifeline for women who want to build financial security while modeling financial strength for their children.  Throughout this episode, Phil’s message is clear: Action eliminates anxiety. You don’t need to have every financial issue figured out from the start. You just need to take your next best step. About Phil Phil helps recently divorced women take their finances from overwhelm and anxiety to opportunity.  He is the author "Million Dollar Divorce- How To Avoid Money Anxiety After Divorce, Without Sacrificing Your Lifestyle) and the "Gen X Guide To Financial Independence" Husband, Dad, Financial Advisor, Owner Breakout Private Wealth. Connect with Phil You can connect with Phil on LinkedIn at Phil Telpner.  To explore how Phil can help you achieve your goals visit his website at Breakout Private Wealth.  You can email Phil at pt@breakoutprivatewealth.com Karen Covy is a Divorce Coach and Consultant, Lawyer, Author, and Speaker who is dedicated to helping people make the best decisions possible for themselves, their families, and their future - especially in stressful times. You can check out Karen's videos on YouTube. You can connect with Karen on LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and on her own website at karencovy.com.

    41 min
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When your future is on the line, making the right decision can feel impossible—especially when emotions are high, the stakes are huge, and the pressure is real. Enter Karen Covy, a nationally recognized divorce coach, lawyer, mediator, and decision strategist with over 30 years of experience, Karen helps high-achieving professionals navigate life's toughest crossroads with clarity and confidence. Each week on Off the Fence, Karen sits down with thought leaders, industry experts, and people who’ve been through it all to unpack what it really takes to make smart, strategic decisions—whether you're facing a divorce, rethinking your career, navigating family dynamics, or reinventing your life. Each episode offers real talk, practical insights, and powerful strategies for navigating divorce, career pivots, relationship challenges, and midlife transformation with clarity and purpose. If you're standing at a crossroads and wondering what’s next, this podcast will help you get off the fence—and into action. 👉 Get show notes and resources at https://karencovy.com/podcast

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