Sex, Love & Money with Rebecca Antonucci

Rebecca Antonucci
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Welcome to Your Life, and Welcome to Sex, Love & Money 💋 The Podcast for the woman who knows she’s meant for more, the woman who is done settling in love, intimacy and finances, and in who she allows herself to be. This is your invitation to step into your next chapter, to own your woman, to embody your power and start living a life that feels truly meaningful and aligned. No more settling for vanilla sex, no more choosing the almost good enough guy, no more staying in a career that doesn’t fulfil, no more looking at your bank balance and seeing only lack and limitation, no more sacrificing your dreams, and not giving a voice to your true desires, no more surface-level anything. It’s our time for it all; all the pleasure, all the aliveness, all the fulfilment, all the abundance. All of the Sex, Love & Money, that we all deserve. Let’s F*****g Go.

  1. May 31

    #199: Say Yes To Life

    You declared a big life. You said you were done settling. Done with the vanilla relationship, the career that drains you, the surface level friendships. You said you wanted more, more depth, more aliveness, more love, more of everything that actually matters. And then life said yes. And here you are, wondering why it's so hard. This is what no one tells you when you declare more: the yes comes with everything. The expansion and the discomfort. The love and the heartbreak. The dream and the risk that it might not work. You don't get to pick the parts you like and leave the rest. All parts of the woman come with the woman. I recorded this solo episode earlier this year, live from my first ever podcast set, the first day I've ever produced a full set like this, and things went wrong. Files got cut short. Equipment didn't hold up. And instead of collapsing, I sat down and made this episode. Because this is exactly what saying yes to life looks like. Not the highlight reel. This. I open up about something I've been sitting with for a while, a memory from my first relationship that's been quietly surfacing, and why I think it explains more about my patterns with men than almost anything else I've ever shared publicly. And I tell you about the friend who finally had the courage to look me in the eye and say what he actually felt, and why moments of honesty with men, changed everything. This one is raw. It's real. It's recorded from the middle of the risk.Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci (http://www.instagram.com/rebecca.antonucci) Apply to work with us in Breakthrough School by booking your introductory call here. (https://calendly.com/annakrystyna/bridge-clarity-call-clone)

    57 min

  2. May 24

    #198: Women Can't Teach Men How To Be Men (Kari & Jeddy Azuma)

    You've been told it happens when you least expect it. You've been told to do the work, heal your wounds, live your life, and he'll appear. And you've done all of that. And you're still waiting. And the ticking of that clock is getting louder. This episode isn't going to tell you to stop wanting it. It's going to show you what it actually takes to build it, and why so many people are struggling to get there. Jeddy and Kari Azuma have been married for 13 years. They met when she was 31 and ready, and he was 25 and looked like a pirate fresh off Burning Man. She took the risk anyway, not because he had the kingdom built, but because she could see the man he was becoming. That bet paid off in ways neither of them could have planned. In this episode, we get into all of it. Whether a woman can get a man ready for relationship. Why the entitlement women bring to dating is actually coming from protection, not selfishness. Why dating apps, pornography and ChatGPT breakup texts are quietly destroying our ability to actually relate. And what it means to play the long game when everything in modern culture is telling you to tap out. What we cover: Does a man need to build his kingdom before he's ready for love? Why your dating standards might be protecting you from the very thing you want The real reason good relationships are getting harder to find and keep How to highlight a gap in your man without becoming his mother Why holding the tension, not tapping out, is the actual skill Timestamps: 00:00: Does a man need to build his kingdom before he's ready for love? 13:03: Why women's entitlement in dating is really just protection in disguise 21:05: The moment Kari realised she'd been showing up to love with a checklist 27:29: Playing the long game: the season they almost lost each other 33:58: Dating apps, pornography and ChatGPT breakup texts, what they're doing to us 50:28: It happens when you least expect it, but what does that mean when you're ready now? Find Jeddy: @jeddyazuma on Instagram Find Kari: @kariazuma on Instagram Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci (http://www.instagram.com/rebecca.antonucci) Apply to work with us in Breakthrough School by booking your introductory call here. (https://calendly.com/annakrystyna/bridge-clarity-call-clone)

    1h 18m

  3. May 17

    #197: Mitchell Vickridge: You Will Never Escape Pain and Pleasure

    You know that feeling when something goes wrong and your reaction is so extreme it scares even you? When you can't sleep, can't switch off, and every tool in your kit isn't touching it, and a voice in your head is telling you it's all their fault? It's not. And this episode is going to show you exactly why. Mitchell Vickridge is a clinical facilitator and one of the most grounding people I've ever sat across from. He specialises in pride and shame: two states most of us are oscillating between all day long without even knowing it. He spent three and a half hours helping me go from a state of extreme anger when my Austin podcast set did not go to plan, to actually understanding why what happened, happened. This episode is a window into that process. We get into the hidden order underneath your hardest moments, why the people who trigger you the most are actually your greatest teachers, and the one question that will dissolve almost any resentment you're holding right now. We also talk about why you keep chasing the same fantasy in love and money, and why the universe keeps withholding exactly what you want most. If you've been stuck in a loop you can't get out of, this is the episode that might finally break it. What we cover Why your most extreme reactions are always about you, not them The hidden order: how to find the gift in what hurt you most Why you're attracted to who you're attracted to (and what it's really about) How past pleasure is quietly sabotaging your love life right now Why the universe keeps withholding exactly what you want TIMESTAMPS 00:00: Why your biggest emotional reactions are always pointing back at you 01:38: What pride and shame actually are, and why you're oscillating between them all day 13:31: The hidden order: why the person who hurt you was actually your teacher 19:33: The fantasy problem: why chasing what you want keeps pushing it away 30:41: Past pleasure informs future fantasy, how old relationships wreck new ones 43:37: How to actually value money in a way that sticks Find Mitch: @mitchellvickridge on Instagram. Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci (http://www.instagram.com/rebecca.antonucci) Apply to work with us in Breakthrough School by booking your introductory call here. (https://calendly.com/annakrystyna/bridge-clarity-call-clone)

    1h 35m

  4. May 10

    #196: Vanilla Sex

    You've had great sex that left you feeling nothing. You've had a man who did everything right, and woken up emptier than before. You told yourself it was him. You moved on. You tried again. Same result, different man. It was never him. And it was never the act of intimacy. It was the absence of everything that needed to come first. Vanilla sex has nothing to do with what's happening in the bedroom. It's sex without roots. Sex without time. Sex without knowing someone, and being known back. And if you've been cycling through men wondering why nothing ever feels like enough, this episode is going to name something you've felt but never quite had the words for. I recorded this 48 hours after a real epiphany hit me mid-dating: live, unfiltered, and straight from Bali. I tell you the full story of the man I've been dating, the padel court where it started, the wine cellar date, the comedy show, the cup of tea that wasn't just a cup of tea, and the moment I caught myself about to do the exact thing I tell every woman not to do. Because the truth is: if you're using sex to try to feel something, no man will ever be able to give you what you're actually looking for. Time and time again you will be setting you and him up to fail. And the sooner we name that, the sooner everything changes. Raw, real, and recorded live in Bali two days after the epiphany hit. You're welcome. WHAT WE GET INTO — What vanilla sex actually is, and why it has nothing to do with the bedroom — Why the f*ck and chuck cycle is grief in disguise, not cruelty — The Healthy Man Starter Pack: how to tell if it's real or just an act — Why making him wait isn't about games, it's about you finding out the truth — The Bali dating story unfolding right now, live revelations and completely unfiltered TIMESTAMPS 00:00: What vanilla sex actually is, and what it has nothing to do with 01:20: Sex without roots: why connection can't be rushed into being 07:25: The f*ck and chuck cycle isn't cruelty, it's grief 22:17: The Healthy Man Starter Pack, how to know if it's real or an act 29:36: Why dating too fast is setting you up to feel nothing 54:05: Why no man will ever be able to give you what you're actually looking for Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci (http://www.instagram.com/rebecca.antonucci) Apply to work with us in Breakthrough School by booking your introductory call here. (https://calendly.com/annakrystyna/bridge-clarity-call-clone)

    1h 16m

  5. May 3

    #195: Ryan Moresby-White: You're not his girlfriend. You're his initiation.

    He was a little boy. You were the woman who paid for it.  You didn't fall in love with a man. You fell in love with a seven year old who hadn't grieved his childhood yet. And until he does,  he will sabotage every relationship that gets close enough to matter. Ryan Moresby-White works with hundreds of men, fathers, CEOs, men in their 70s, helping them do the one thing society never taught them: grieve. He's built a multi-million dollar company doing it. And he's one of the most embodied, present men I've ever sat across from. In this episode, Ryan gets completely honest about the relationship he lost because of his own unresolved wounds, the four hours he spent on a bathroom floor in Bali vomiting after she left, and the nine months on the grass on the Sunshine Coast that changed everything. This is the episode I made for the women in my world who are tired of carrying men who don't know they're still boys. And it's for the men who are ready to find out. What we get into: Why most men are emotionally operating as 7-year-olds, and what to do about it The real reason men sabotage relationships (it has nothing to do with you) The post-breakup level up, and the two very different paths it leads to How to support a man on his healing journey without becoming his mother What a truly safe man looks like, and why he can feel so confronting Timestamps: 00:00: Most men are little boys walking around in adult bodies 01:15: What a rite of passage actually is, and why men don't get one anymore 06:12: Why women become the unintentional initiators for uninitiated men 11:03: The tree ring analogy: you're not dating one man, you're dating all of him 26:47: Ryan ends a year-long relationship, and shares why live on air 37:24: The bathroom floor in Bali: 4 hours of vomiting after she left 43:08: The post-breakup level up, two paths, two very different men 57:51: What women can do to actually support a man on his healing journey Find Ryan: @@ryanmoresbywhite) (https://www.instagram.com/ryanmoresbywhite/) on Instagram and YouTubeConnect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci (http://www.instagram.com/rebecca.antonucci)

    1h 27m

  6. Apr 26

    #194: Adam Roa: Why Fireworks Might Be A Red Flag

    You felt the spark. The chemistry was undeniable. You thought that feeling meant it was real. What if it didn't? Adam Roa is a poet, coach, and one of the most honest voices on love alive right now. His poem "You Are Who You've Been Looking For" got 40 million views in 48 hours, and instead of feeling celebrated, he fell into one of the darkest periods of his life. He's spent decades studying love from every angle: scientific, spiritual, poetic, personal. And what he's found might change the way you read your own relationships. This conversation goes deep. We talk about why fireworks are often trauma bonds in disguise, what mature love actually feels like in your body, and why the men in your life aren't moving on pain-free, they're just moving on differently. Adam also opens up about his new book Crazy Love, the journal entries he never planned to share, and the night he slept with someone he didn't want to, and wept about it the next morning. This is one of those episodes you'll come back to. What we get into: Why the chemistry you're chasing might be a trauma bond, not love Fireworks vs. mature love, and how to reset your body's barometer What surrendering to love actually looks like (hint: it keeps hurting) How to support your man when he goes quiet, without making it about you Why your ex moving on fast doesn't mean he didn't care Timestamps: 00:00: Fireworks aren't the indicator of a healthy relationship 01:15: What surrendering to love really means, and why it never stops 04:23: Why most fireworks are actually trauma bonds in disguise 09:01: The ten year relationship that taught him nothing, until it ended 10:18: Suicidal ideation, depression, and what finally turned the page 14:26: Self-love isn't a yes or no, it's a relationship with yourself 23:10: Why nothing grows without resistance (including you) 55:32: How to support a man who goes quiet without making it about you Find Adam: @adam.roa on Instagram and YouTube Get his book Crazy Love and access exclusive events at www.adamroa.comConnect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci (http://www.instagram.com/rebecca.antonucci)

    1h 31m

  7. Apr 19

    #193: Messy Action

    You're doing the work. You're staying in the game. And still, things aren't going the way you planned. The client didn't sign. The relationship isn't here yet. The results aren't coming fast enough. And a voice in your head keeps asking: should I quit? This episode is for you. 2026 was meant to be the year I win. My podcast team broke up with me. My dream assistant resigned in a day. I got detained by US customs for three hours and told to leave the country. I lost every competitive paddle match I entered. And then Austin happened. And I recorded this episode sweating in a studio with no air conditioning, with a voice in my head telling me to stop. I kept going anyway. That's the whole point. This is a raw solo episode about what it actually looks like to be three quarters of the way through your life marathon — when you're tired, things keep going wrong, and you're genuinely asking yourself whether you should quit. I share every humbling thing 2026 has handed me so far, and why I now believe every single one of it was a set up. If you're in the messy middle of something right now, this one's for you. What we cover: Why there are no shortcuts to any place worth going Everything that went "wrong" in 2026 — and what it was actually doing The difference between a roadblock and an initiation Eating humble pie: going backwards to go forwards Why your big life is waiting for you to become the woman who can hold it TIMESTAMPS 00:00: There are no shortcuts to any place worth going 01:15: Why I declared 2026 my year of winning — and what happened instead 08:45: Life is a marathon, not a sprint — and you can't cheat the distance 13:26: Everything that went wrong this year (the full list) 24:08: What happens at the 35km mark — and why quitting isn't actually an option 38:23: The fantasy you think got robbed from you — and what's actually true 45:24: Initiation, not a roadblock: why hard things are happening on your path 57:41: Eating humble pie — going backwards to eventually go forward Connect with Me: Want to work with me? Click this link here (https://calendly.com/annakrystyna/bridge-clarity-call-clone) to book a breakthrough call and join my upcoming Mastermind, Breakthrough School, today. Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci (http://www.instagram.com/rebecca.antonucci)

    1h 12m

  8. Apr 12

    #192: Chris Griffin: Why Your Dream Isn’t Working

    Most men are building the dream life for someone who no longer exists. Chris Griffin has dragged suitcases through Arizona with no guests, walked away from a woman he genuinely loved, and stood in a boardroom at 18 telling investors he'd lost all their money. He's also one of the most alive people you'll ever listen to. This conversation goes to places most podcasts are too polished to go. We talk about what it actually means to level up as a man — not the "get jacked, make money" surface answer, but the internal identity shift that has to happen first. Chris reads a poem he wrote while falling in love with someone he knew, deep down, he had to let go. We get into Christian women, faith, loneliness, the trap of "just good enough," and why the most dangerous place a man can live is in the middle. This one will make you feel something. That's the point. Together We Cover: Why you can feel lonely in a room full of people The “just good enough” trap that kills men slowly Walking away from a woman he loved, and why Faith, God, and the “Jesus Glow” he cant ignore The poem he wrote about love, and read out loud here Key Time Stamps:  00:00: Why you can feel lonely surrounded by people 00:57: What levelling up as a man actually means 04:25: The trap of chasing more — when the goalposts never stop moving 07:05: When success becomes your identity and gets stripped away 13:06: Feeling the sadness vs dwelling in it 21:32: Christian women, the 'Jesus glow,' and what he's really attracted to 29:50: 'Just good enough' will chew you up and spit you out 59:01: The poem: 'I met myself at a bar down the road today...' Connect with Me: Want to work with me? Click this link here (https://calendly.com/annakrystyna/bridge-clarity-call-clone) to book a breakthrough call and join my upcoming Mastermind, Breakthrough School, today. Connect with me on socials by saying hi over on IG: @rebecca.antonucci (http://www.instagram.com/rebecca.antonucci) Follow Chris Griffin on IG: @morechrisgriffenFollow The Pocket Podcast on IG: @thepocketpodcast

    1h 40m
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Welcome to Your Life, and Welcome to Sex, Love & Money 💋 The Podcast for the woman who knows she’s meant for more, the woman who is done settling in love, intimacy and finances, and in who she allows herself to be. This is your invitation to step into your next chapter, to own your woman, to embody your power and start living a life that feels truly meaningful and aligned. No more settling for vanilla sex, no more choosing the almost good enough guy, no more staying in a career that doesn’t fulfil, no more looking at your bank balance and seeing only lack and limitation, no more sacrificing your dreams, and not giving a voice to your true desires, no more surface-level anything. It’s our time for it all; all the pleasure, all the aliveness, all the fulfilment, all the abundance. All of the Sex, Love & Money, that we all deserve. Let’s F*****g Go.

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