The Sex Reimagined Podcast

Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown

Get ready to reinvent your love life with the Sex Reimagined Podcast! This isn't your awkward middle school sex ed class - we're bringing the juicy details with plenty of humor and real talk. Your hosts, Leah Piper (Tantra Sexpert) and Dr. Willow Brown (Taoist Sexpert), have a combined 40 years of turning fumbles into touchdowns in the bedroom. Leah and Willow don't shy away from oversharing their most hilarious and cringe-worthy sex stories - all with valuable lessons so you can up your pleasure game. Each month they invite fellow sexperts to share their methods and research on everything from healing trauma to the science of orgasm. Get ready to feel empowered, laugh out loud, and maybe even blush as we redefine what fantastic sex can be. 

  1. 22h ago

    Leah & Dr. Willow: Why Penetration Alone Won't Make You Orgasm | Ep. 204

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! Why doesn't penetration make every woman orgasm, and what does the outer vulva have to do with the vaginal orgasm you're chasing? In this episode, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown break down the anatomy of arousal that most couples skip straight past, including the clitoral shaft and legs, the vestibular bulbs, and why what they call premature penetration sabotages deep, contractive vaginal orgasms. They walk through concrete touch techniques for vulva stimulation and G-spot stimulation, the palming method for combining external and internal pleasure during penetrative sex, and how word bath dirty talk can heal sexual shame stored in the body. Whether you've faked orgasms during penetrative sex for years or you're just curious about the difference between a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm, this conversation gives you the anatomy, the technique, and the permission to slow down. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS There's a name for the thing almost every couple does wrong before penetration even starts, and it's the biggest reason vaginal orgasms feel out of reach.The clitoris is way bigger than the part you can see. Wait until you hear how far back the shaft and legs actually go, and what that has to do with why humping things felt so good as a kid.There's a simple hand technique you can use during penetration, with a partner or a toy, that Leah says increases your odds of orgasm by about 80 percent.Most people who dislike fingering were never fingered well. Leah explains exactly what goes wrong and what actually works instead.Willow shares the one shift in touch, tied to pressure and speed, that can make clitoral stimulation feel five to eight times better almost instantly.Word baths sound simple, but they can unlock a kind of somatic shame release that neither partner expected. Leah gives you the actual words to use.LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/why-cant-i-orgasm-from-penetration Slow Tantric Sex Online Masterclass - Join us August 19th at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Erotic Polarity Online Masterclass Register for $55 HERE  Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

  2. Aug 4

    Alison Armstrong 3.0: Sex, Shame, and What He Fears Most | #203

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! Men Aren't Misbehaving in Bed. They're Terrified of Failing You. Alison Armstrong is back for round three, and if you have followed her work on understanding men since 1991, you already know she has a gift for making male behavior finally make sense. If this is your first time meeting her, buckle up, because she is about to change how you think about every man in your life. In this episode, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown sit down with Alison for a raw, funny, and genuinely eye opening conversation about why so many men quietly give up on sex as they get older, and it has almost nothing to do with wanting you less. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS Men often quit sex due to shame after erectile dysfunction, not because their desire for their partner has faded.Shame is worse than emasculation because it disconnects a man from his own spirit, while emasculation only affects his sense of productivity.Sexual feedback lands best as gentle, judgment free clues rather than direct criticism, what Alison calls the warmer, colder, hot approach.Many men experience direct questions as interrogation, so framing feedback as an invitation, like asking permission to share favorite moments, respects their need for productivity and control.Alison's new concept, the ever presence of death, reveals how men's quiet awareness of mortality shapes their drive for purpose, protection, and honor in relationships.LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: http://sexreimagined.com/alison-armstrong-why-men-stop-having-sex  Slow Tantric Sex Online Masterclass - Join us August 19th at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Erotic Polarity Online Masterclass Register for $55 HERE  Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

  3. Jul 28

    Leah & Dr. Willow: Do Women Want to Be Masterful Lovers? | #202

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! Do Women Actually Want to Become Masterful Lovers, or Have We Only Ever Trained Men to Try? Leah and Willow dig into real conversations with men who are quietly craving more curiosity and skill from their partners, unpack why presence can be more powerful than technique, and get honest about the conditioning that's kept women playing it safe in bed. Funny, tender, and overdue.  IN THIS EPISODE: Why men are craving more reciprocity, not just more sexThe nine minute presence trick that stops a roomWhat a hand resting on his body really means to himThe conditioning behind why women hold backWhy it's finally safe to want sexual mastery tooLINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/masterful-lover  Slow Tantric Sex Online Masterclass - Join us August 19th at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Erotic Polarity Online Masterclass Register for $55 HERE  Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

  4. Jul 22

    Leah & Dr. Willow: Cult, Religion, or Neither? The Red Flags Before You Start Learning Tantra | #201

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! Is Tantra a Religion? The Truth About Teacher Red Flags, Spirituality, and Sacred Sex. Is tantra a religion, or is it something you can shape around your own beliefs? In this episode of the Sex Reimagined podcast, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown answer a listener's question about tantra and religious conditioning, breaking down the difference between white tantra (your solo, spiritual practice) and red tantra (bringing that presence into relationship with another person). Leah opens up about growing up in a Pentecostal household and then Catholic school, and how tantra became the path that let her hold both her faith and her rebellion at the same time. The conversation moves into a second listener question on red flags in tantra teachers, with Leah and Willow sharing the exact things to watch for when choosing a tantra teacher, from gaslighting and isolation tactics to teachers who overly sexualize the work or can't explain why a practice matters. If you've ever wondered whether tantra practices require you to believe in something specific, or you're nervous about finding a legitimate tantra teacher versus someone using tantra as a cover, this episode gives you a clear, grounded answer. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS Tantra isn't a religion or dogma. It's a set of practices you can layer onto whatever you already believeWhite tantra is your solo practice (meditation, journaling, self-pleasure); red tantra brings that presence into relationship with another personLeah's own path from a religious upbringing to tantra shows how it can hold both faith and rebellion at onceA good teacher always explains "why" and welcomes questions; red flags include gaslighting, isolating you from your community, secrecy, and targeting the youngest or most attractive studentsDon't put teachers on a pedestal. Study with many, and trust your own body and experience as your best teacherLINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/is-tantra-a-religion  Slow Tantric Sex Online Masterclass - Join us August 19th at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Erotic Polarity Online Masterclass Register for $55 HERE  Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

  5. Jul 14

    Leah & Dr. Willow: Chakras and Sex: The Real Map to Better Orgasms | #200

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! What if the secret to becoming a master lover isn't a new technique, but your own chakras? In this episode of the Sex Reimagined Podcast, Dr. Willow Brown and Leah Piper break down the seven chakras and reveal why understanding your body's energy centers is one of the most overlooked paths to becoming a more skilled, magnetic, and orgasmic lover. From the root chakra at the anus to the crown chakra at the top of the head, Willow and Leah map out where each energy center lives in the body, what emotional and psychological material it stores, and exactly how to touch, sound, and breathe your way into unlocking it. They dig into why the throat chakra (not just the g******s) may be the most underused key to bigger, longer orgasms, how the vagus nerve links your voice to your pleasure, and why root chakra and anal touch carry some of the deepest, most transformative erotic potential in the body. Whether you're new to chakra work or looking to deepen your tantric practice, this conversation offers a real, usable roadmap for building erotic energy circuitry between your chakras and your partner's. KEY TAKEAWAYS ⛤ Your chakras are a literal touch map. Each of the seven energy centers corresponds to a real location on the body and carries its own psychological theme, so knowing your chakras means knowing exactly where and how to touch for both comfort and arousal. ⛤ The throat chakra is the great magnifier. Sound and vocalization during sex amplify pleasure throughout the whole body and activate the vagus nerve, the only nerve pathway connecting the g******s to the brain through the heart and throat. ⛤ The root chakra holds some of the body's biggest pleasure and biggest shame. Anal touch is deeply avoided for many people, but it opens access to a distinct orgasm carried by the hypogastric nerve, separate from clitoral or ejaculatory orgasm. ⛤ The second chakra stores sexual shame and inadequacy. Genital touch can surface stored stories about being "too much" or "not enough," and learning to touch with presence rather than just technique helps release that stored shame. ⛤ Building chakra circuitry deepens intimacy. Connecting two chakras at once, like a hand on the g******s and a hand on the heart, literally bridges different parts of the erotic and emotional body, making pleasure and self-expression flow more freely. LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/chakras-and-sex Slow Tantric Sex Online Masterclass - Join us August 19th at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Erotic Polarity Online Masterclass Register for $55 HERE  Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

  6. Jul 7

    Leah & Dr. Willow: Feeling Undesirable? Here's the Fix | #199

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! Feeling undesirable is painful, and if you or your partner are feeling insecure, you are not alone. In this episode, Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown open up about feeling undesirable in a long-term relationships, the sneaky ways aging, body changes, and dating app rejection chip away at our sense of being wanted, and why the fix starts inside you, not outside. They get real about menopause and hormones, spouses who stop initiating, ghosting culture, and the vulnerability it takes to ask a partner what do you still love about me. From there they hand you real tools: mirror work, movement, nature, and the practice of choosing yourself first instead of waiting to be chosen. This is a conversation about reigniting desire and remembering that radiance was never about your reflection. It was always coming from inside you. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS ♥ Feeling undesirable often comes from body changes, aging, or just drifting in a long relationship. None of that means you're unlovable. ♥ Stop waiting to be chosen. Choose yourself first. ♥ Change your state to change your desire. Mirror work, movement, and time in nature bring you back into your body. ♥ You're most magnetic in your genius zone. Notice when someone you love is glowing, and tell them. ♥ Radiance comes from the inside out. The most attractive people aren't perfect. They're lit up from within. LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/feel-desired-again Slow Tantric Sex Online Masterclass - Join us August 19th at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Erotic Polarity Online Masterclass Register for $55 HERE  Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

  7. Jun 30

    Freddy Zental Weaver: 50 Years of Tantra in 1 Conversation | #198

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! If you've ever wondered what it looks like to live a fully embodied, sexually conscious life from childhood all the way through your 70s, Freddy Zental Weaver is the living answer. In this fourth visit to the Sex Reimagined podcast, the co-founder of Tantra Nova and author of Zental: My Tantric Journey pulls back the curtain on the experiences that shaped him: a father who introduced breathwork and somatic self-reflection after a near-violent incident, an early encounter with sexual energy at age 13, two years in prison that became an unlikely turning point, and 25 years of facilitating sexual healing and consciousness work with couples and individuals around the world. Leah and Willow explore with Freddy how Tantra is far more than a bedroom practice — it's a technology for transformation. KEY TAKEAWAYS: Tantra is a full life path, Freddy has been living it since age 13 and has spent 25 years facilitating sexual healing and consciousness work around the world.Sexual energy creates a natural altered state that makes people more open, unmasked, and available for deep healing, no substances required.Men have far more available to them than the three-second ejaculatory experience; learning to separate orgasm from ejaculation and breathe sexual energy upward is life-changing.Tantric healing doesn't require a romantic partner, community and conscious touch can hold what one person alone cannot, without threatening a committed relationship.Sex consciousness isn't just personal, when we stop vilifying sexual energy and bring awareness to it, it has the power to shift culture.Slow Tantric Sex Online Masterclass - Join us August 19th at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Erotic Polarity Online Masterclass Register for $55 HERE  Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

  8. Jun 23

    Leah & Dr. Willow: Listener Tantric Sex Questions Answered | #197

    Send us a text & leave your email address if you want a reply! Tantra Isn't What You Think…  Your Burning Questions, Finally Answered. You've heard the word Tantra thrown around, maybe even Googled it at 11pm and come away more confused than when you started. Same. In this episode, Leah and Willow go straight to the source, your listener questions, and bust the biggest myths about Tantra, tantric sex, and what any of this actually has to do with your real life, your real body, and your real relationships.  ⛤ Classical vs. neo-Tantra explained. Tantra means "tool for expansion" and neo-Tantra is showing up right now as a vehicle for sexual healing, because the culture needs it. ⛤ White Tantra vs. red Tantra. White Tantra is practicing your instrument solo (breath, meditation, presence). Red Tantra is making music with the band. You need both. ⛤ Ejaculatory choice. Tantra may be the most effective, side-effect-free path for men who want to last longer. Breath and sound are the two primary dials and learning to ride the arousal scale changes everything. ⛤ What a tantric orgasm actually is. Forget the genital sneeze. Full-body orgasms spread sensation from g******s to fingertips, toes, heart, and third eye and your body can be trained to get there. ⛤ Why sounding is non-negotiable. The jaw and throat mirror the pelvic bowl, and the vagus nerve runs right through it. Making sound isn't just sexy, it's how sensation travels through your whole body. ⛤ Breathwork as your fastest on-ramp. Slow nasal breathing drops cortisol, eases performance anxiety, and helps partners co-regulate, making intimacy feel safer and more pleasurable, fast. LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/tantric-sex-questions-answered  Slow Tantric Sex Online Masterclass - Join us August 19th at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Sexual Reflexology Online Masterclass - Join us September 2nd at 4pm Pacific / 7pm Eastern for a live masterclass on zoom. Register for $33 HERE (free limited replay window available) Erotic Polarity Online Masterclass Register for $55 HERE  Support the show Please help support the production costs of the show! Donate now: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2032242/supporters/new FREEBIE- Introduction to Tantric Kissing Video and WorkbookSxR WebsiteDr. Willow's WebsiteLeah's Website

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Get ready to reinvent your love life with the Sex Reimagined Podcast! This isn't your awkward middle school sex ed class - we're bringing the juicy details with plenty of humor and real talk. Your hosts, Leah Piper (Tantra Sexpert) and Dr. Willow Brown (Taoist Sexpert), have a combined 40 years of turning fumbles into touchdowns in the bedroom. Leah and Willow don't shy away from oversharing their most hilarious and cringe-worthy sex stories - all with valuable lessons so you can up your pleasure game. Each month they invite fellow sexperts to share their methods and research on everything from healing trauma to the science of orgasm. Get ready to feel empowered, laugh out loud, and maybe even blush as we redefine what fantastic sex can be. 

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