Farm Family Harmony Podcast

Elaine Froese
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Get personal with Elaine Froese, Canada's Farm Whisperer, in Farm Family Harmony, where no farm topic is taboo! Whether it's about a Daughter-In-Law feeling left out of the farm family, which sibling gets the family farm, or when it's time to tell Mom and Dad to respectfully retire, Elaine covers the crucial conversations every farm family needs to have.

  1. 1d ago

    77: When Leaving the Farm Feels Like Losing Yourself

    When you've spent your life building a farm, what happens when you have to walk away from it? In this episode, I sit down with Warren Davies, The Unbreakable Farmer, to talk about the emotional side of farming and how deeply our sense of identity can be tied to the land. Warren shares his experience navigating some of life's toughest challenges and what he's learned about the pressures farmers face. Together, we explore why it's not always easy to talk about what we're going through, especially when we're used to being the ones who keep everything moving. We also touch on the importance of connection, the challenges of farm transition, and why having the right people around you matters. If you're facing uncertainty on your farm or feeling the weight of expectations, this episode is a reminder that you don't have to figure everything out on your own. "For farmers, we're taught to be resilient, and we're expected to be resilient. You know, you're meant to be able to bounce back and be tough and stoic." - Warren Davies Resources Mentioned During This Episode Support Resources: https://www.theunbreakablefarmer.com.au/supportresources Mental health support services, crisis helplines, rural assistance resources, and downloadable well-being tools. Farm Family Coach: https://farmfamilycoach.com Farm family coaching and support for improving communication, resolving conflict, and navigating farm transitions. Book a free discovery call. Blue Tree Project: https://bluetreeproject.com.au/ A mental health awareness initiative using blue-painted trees to spark conversations, reduce stigma, and offer symbols of hope. Cottage by the Sea: https://www.cottagebythesea.com.au/ Programs and coastal experiences supporting children facing hardship and challenging circumstances. Talk It Out Conversation Card Game: https://www.domore.ag/shop/p/talk-it-out-conversation-starter-game A set of 150 conversation starter cards designed to encourage meaningful discussions, strengthen relationships, and build connections. About Our Guest   Warren Davies, known as The Unbreakable Farmer, is one of Australia's leading rural mental health speakers and advocates. Drawing on his experience in farming, mental health, and disaster recovery, Warren is passionate about raising awareness, encouraging meaningful conversations, and empowering people in rural, regional, and remote communities to seek support. As a former farmer, business owner, husband, father of five, and everyday bloke, Warren brings an authentic and relatable perspective to his presentations and workshops. His work focuses on strengthening communication, building community connections, and helping people recognize when to ask for help. Through his own experiences with mental health challenges, hitting rock bottom, and rebuilding his life, Warren shares powerful lessons about resilience, persistence, and determination. His story offers hope and practical encouragement to those navigating stress, uncertainty, and life's toughest challenges. Contact Warren Follow Warren on Facebook Follow Warren on Instagram Follow Warren on LinkedIn Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps: 0:30 - Welcome and introduction of Warren Davies, "The Unbreakable Farmer" 1:45 - Warren's story: Melbourne, bullying, moving to the country, first farm at 22  4:09 - Losing the farm after a seven-year drought, and losing his identity with it  6:58 - The grade three "wheat seeds" story  9:54 - First tool: connection and communication  10:24 - "Find your five people"  10:53 - Building capacity instead of resilience ("cowboy up")  12:57 - One in five people will struggle with their mental health  13:57 - George's story: the conference thumbs-up/thumbs-down signal  14:44 - Speaking tools: curling your toes, and finding a few resonating faces  18:41 - George's reveal, and his talk with his two neighbours  21:37 - TING (whole-body listening): Talk, Inquire, Notice, Guide  25:34 - "They want to be seen and heard"  26:15 - Succession and family conversations with a reluctant older farmer  30:27 - "I love you, but I cannot read your mind"  31:37 - Disaster recovery and the bushfires  32:57 - "Comparison is a joy stealer" and "different is not wrong"  34:25 - "Talk It Out" conversation cards  35:16 - Blue Tree Project  37:33 - Cottage by the Sea  40:32 - Homework: who are your five people?  41:50 - How to reach Warren  42:06 - Warren's five capacity-reset questions  44:18 - Closing and Farm Family Coach call to action

    77: When Leaving the Farm Feels Like Losing Yourself

  2. Oct 20

    76: Why Smaller Conversations Matter... values and curiosity

    In this episode, I sit down with Shawna Percy, suicide prevention specialist and founder of Ag Care Connect, to explore why small conversations can make such a big difference in farm families. Drawing on 15 years of experience in mental health and suicide prevention, Shawna shares how meaningful connections often begin with simple, everyday conversations. On the farm, where family relationships, emotions, and expectations are closely intertwined, finding the right words isn't always easy. Together, we explore how building the habit of talking and listening can create a stronger foundation for navigating difficult conversations, from family relationships to farm transition and mental well-being. If you've been struggling to start an important conversation with someone in your farm family, this episode offers a valuable reminder that you don't have to tackle everything at once. Sometimes, the smallest conversations are where meaningful change begins. "Sometimes in hindsight we see things looking back, but sometimes our loved ones and others can be really good at masking and hiding things from us." - Shawna Percy Resources Mentioned During This Episode Free Conversation and Legacy Guide Practical conversation starters to help farm families build connections and navigate difficult discussions. Protective Planning Tool A free, anonymous tool to help individuals prepare for challenging moments and support their mental well-being. Ag Care Connect Resource Hub Mental health and wellness resources designed to support farmers and agricultural communities. Ag Care Connect Foodbelt Campaign Learn more about Ag Care Connect's Foodbelt Campaign. Ag Care Connect Speaker Page Information about speaking engagements, presentations, and links to books. Non Violent Communication by Dr. Marshall Rosenberg Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships. About Our Guest   Shawna Percy is an Ontario farmer, suicide prevention and intervention specialist, author, TEDxUW speaker, and founder of Ag Care Connect, a national initiative supporting the mental wellbeing of Canadian farmers and agricultural communities. Widowed by suicide, Shawna brings both professional expertise and deeply personal lived experience to conversations about grief, loss, mental health, and suicide prevention. With more than a decade of experience and over 100 suicide intervention workshops facilitated, she has trained nearly 2,000 people in suicide intervention. Through Ag Care Connect, Shawna develops free, practical resources that help farmers and farm families navigate life's pressures, including difficult conversations about farm succession, changing family roles, grief, and legacy. Her work recognizes that succession planning is about far more than transferring land and assets. It's also about identity, relationships, belonging, and the emotional weight of letting go. Shawna is passionate about helping farm families have the conversations that matter before a crisis forces them to. Contact Shawna Follow Shawna on Facebook Follow Shawna on Instagram Follow Shawna on YouTube Visit Ag Care Connect Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps: 00:30 - Why upstream, small conversations matter before big ones 03:38 - Learning to ask directly about suicide 04:35 - The Toronto moment that proved the power of one question 06:24 - What Ag Care Connect is building for farm families 06:50 - Suicide prevention as life promotion, not just crisis avoidance 09:42 - Why producers need producer-only conversations 11:02 - The Conversation and Legacy Guide as an entry point 11:30 - Starting with farm history, family story, and generational context 13:19 - Questions across generations and between siblings 14:46 - How the Protective Planning Tool works 15:58 - Anonymous, free, and built for use in the moment 17:49 - Why the worst time to plan for crisis is during a crisis 18:45 - Shauna's current work, recovery, and limits after the car accident 20:08 - Built by producers for producers, inside agriculture 20:38 - Why succession conversations are really identity conversations 21:36 - Getting more comfortable with feelings through practice 23:01 - Choosing better settings for hard conversations 23:54 - Curiosity and respect as the tone for farm family communication 24:49 - How to reach Ag Care Connect and follow what's happening 26:11 - Finding ag-informed therapists through the National Farmers Mental Health Alliance 27:34 - Favorite conversation starters for people who do not know each other well 28:59 - Why curiosity prevents harmful power dynamics 29:56 - Nonviolent Communication and asking for needs clearly 31:21 - Suicide, unmet needs, and why practical tools matter now 32:41 - Pressure, change, and why people must be gentle with themselves 33:55 - Resilience as a system issue, not just an individual trait 34:51 - Prayer, outlet, and hope during hard seasons 36:47 - Reaching out by phone, in person, and with intention instead of doomscrolling 37:45 - Community response after suicide and after the car accident 40:03 - Grace, Scripture, and the myth that suicide automatically means hell 41:23 - Family support, house support, and rehab after the accident 42:52 - Asking for help clearly instead of expecting people to guess 43:50 - Anonymous peer support through Do More Ag 44:47 - Why one question can plant a seed for change 46:36 - What listeners can control: response, choices, and reaching out for help

    76: Why Smaller Conversations Matter... values and curiosity

  3. Oct 6

    75: How Fraud Can Fracture Farm Families

    In this episode, I sit down with Julie Matthews, fraud investigator and former investigative journalist, for an important conversation about fraud and the impact it can have on farm and rural families. Julie brings years of experience working with scam victims and seeing firsthand how the effects can reach far beyond the money lost. Together, we explore why farm families can be particularly vulnerable and how quickly trust can be taken advantage of. We also talk about what can happen when fraud enters a family, why it can be so difficult to talk about, and what farm families need to be paying closer attention to. If you want to better protect your farm and the people you care about, this episode is for you. "The scammers will try to isolate that person further from any family or friends they do have. So for family and friends, watch for isolation... try to keep the lines of communication open." - Julie Matthews Resources Mentioned During This Episode www.juliematthews.ca Scam prevention resources, fraud awareness, and support for individuals, families, and rural communities. About Our Guest Julie Matthews has dedicated her career to stopping scam artists and protecting Canadians. She spent 19 years as an investigative TV reporter. Her passion for helping others led her to trade her microphone for a badge, becoming a peace officer and senior investigator with the Government of Alberta's Consumer Investigations Unit. Recognizing the need for fraud prevention education, especially in rural areas, she turned her focus to empowering others. Julie now travels across Canada delivering engaging presentations to seniors, businesses, and community groups about the latest scams. She focuses in depth on fraud impacting rural and farming communities and families.  She is the national spokesperson for the Canadian Anti-Scam Coalition's Stand Against Scams campaign. She is a strong victim's advocate and volunteers her time speaking to victims and their families across North America about how to get through to loved ones trapped in one of these heartbreaking scams. Contact Julie Follow Julie on Facebook Follow Julie on Instagram Follow Julie on TikTok  Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps: *]:pointer-events-auto R6Vx5W_threadScrollVars scroll-mb-[calc(var(--scroll-root-safe-area-inset-bottom,0px)+var(--thread-response-height))] scroll-mt-[calc(var(--header-height)+min(200px,max(70px,20svh)))]" dir="auto" data-turn-id= "request-WEB:20dce6e2-ee03-4773-ad86-dc604738cdf8-1" data-turn-id-container= "request-WEB:20dce6e2-ee03-4773-ad86-dc604738cdf8-1" data-testid= "conversation-turn-2" data-turn="assistant"> div:has([data-free-thinking-preview-answer=true])+:is(.text-message,.relative:has(>.text-message))]:-mt-2 grow"> div:has([data-free-thinking-preview-answer=true])+:is(.text-message,.relative:has(>.text-message))]:-mt-2" data-streaming-response-group=""> 00:30 - Episode intro and why fraud fractures farm families 03:51 - Julie speaks to seniors and the problem of scam shame 05:03 - Why scammers target farms and rural families 08:12 - One email click that led to thousands disappearing 10:05 - Cybersecurity basics for farms without IT departments 11:47 - Phone scams, CRA impersonation, and grandparent fraud 14:10 - Buy and sell scams involving tractors, livestock, and feed 17:01 - Romance scams, friendship scams, and emotional manipulation 18:59 - Warning signs: secrecy, isolation, and hidden relationships 22:05 - How social connection helps protect isolated adults 25:19 - Spotting fake emails, fake names, and fake websites 27:37 - Cloned Facebook pages and fake contests from real businesses 29:31 - Defining elder abuse and protecting farm families legally 32:22 - Estate scams, odd bills, and suspicious family behavior 35:43 - Organizing documents and using password managers safely 39:42 - Obituary scams and why family details should stay private 42:08 - How to contact Julie Matthews for speaking and support 43:05 - Final reminders on harvest stress, gut instinct, and getting help

    75: How Fraud Can Fracture Farm Families

  4. Sep 21

    74: Barbed Wire Thinking - The Land Logic Model

    In this episode, I sit down with Chad Reznicek, Behavioral Health State Specialist with the Colorado AgrAbility Project, to talk about something that affects all of us: the way we think about the challenges in front of us. Chad spent 20 years as a licensed therapist before bringing his experience to agriculture and helping develop the Land Logic Model, a practical approach designed for farmers and ranchers. Together, we explore what Chad calls "barbed wire thinking": thought patterns that can leave us feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or convinced things are worse than they really are. We talk about how assumptions, comparison, blame, and all-or-nothing thinking can show up on the farm, and why it's important to pay attention to the stories we're telling ourselves. Chad also shares why asking for help matters, especially in a culture where working harder and pushing through can feel like the only option. If you've ever caught yourself assuming the worst, carrying everything on your shoulders, or wondering how to look at a difficult situation differently, this episode is for you. "If we don't like the current consequences we are dealing with in life, we may not be able to change the things that are happening to us, but we can change and question whether our belief is working in our favor." - Chad Reznicek, MA, LPC Resources Mentioned During This Episode COMET  90-minute training to help community members recognize and respond to signs of behavioral health distress Colorado Agricultural Mental Health Program Mental health voucher program for Colorado's agricultural community About Our Guest Chad Reznicek is the Behavioral Health State Specialist with Colorado State University Extension and Co-Director of the Colorado AgrAbility Project, committed to helping expand and improve behavioral health support and resources in rural communities. Before joining the AgrAbility Team, Chad spent 20 years as a licensed therapist, providing behavioral health services in diverse settings with special focus areas in suicide prevention, trauma, mood disorders, and substance abuse. Both of Chad's parents were raised on farms, and he grew up in a small town in central Nebraska with a deep respect for agriculture as the heart of our rural communities.  Contact Chad Visit LandLogic's Website Visit the Colorado AgrAbility Project Website Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps: 0:30 — Welcome and episode introduction 2:17 — Chad's background: rural Nebraska, therapy work, and moving into agricultural mental health 5:18 — What the Land Logic model is and how it supports producers 8:01 — The "agrarian imperative": why land, purpose, and farming identity run so deep 10:53 — Using a farm map and a typical day to help producers feel understood 12:32 — Introducing "barbed wire thinking" and how thought patterns affect wellbeing 14:47 — Catastrophizing: expecting the worst-case outcome 17:37 — All-or-nothing thinking and making room for the gray area 19:49 — Mind reading: assuming you know what others are thinking 22:56 — Overgeneralizing from one setback 25:19 — Blaming, agency, and focusing on what you can influence 30:55 — Personalization: carrying too much responsibility alone 35:42 — Comparing yourself to neighbors and measuring self-worth through appearances 38:29 — The fairness trap: dwelling on what feels unfair 41:42 — "Heaven's reward": using work to avoid hard family conversations 45:13 — Toxic grit, asking for help, and challenging the "do it alone" mindset 48:34 — Land Logic training, resources, and how listeners can connect 50:40 — Closing invitation to the Farm Family Transition membership

    74: Barbed Wire Thinking - The Land Logic Model

  5. Sep 8

    73: Transition Talk Tips for Siblings

    In this episode, I'm talking about something many farm families wrestle with: how to have better conversations with your siblings about farm transition. Farm siblings and non-farm siblings can look at the same farm and see things very differently. You may have different expectations, different concerns, and even different ideas about what the future should look like. So how do you talk about it without the conversation going sideways? I share some practical talking tips and questions to help you come from a place of curiosity, get clearer about what matters to each person, and keep the conversation moving forward. If conversations with your farm or non-farm siblings have been difficult, avoided, or long overdue, this episode is for you. "Respect doesn't mean that everyone agrees, but it means that everybody gets to speak without being labeled entitled or greedy or ungrateful or impossible." - Elaine Froese   Elaine Froese (pronounced 'phrase'), CSP, is a certified professional speaker, certified coach, and author. She's a go-to expert for farm families who want better communication and conflict resolution to secure a successful farm transition. As a farmer and mother to the successor of their farm, she understands the culture of agriculture intimately. Her superpower is helping families find harmony through understanding. Her expertise is to discuss what she calls the Undiscussabull™ – the bull in the middle of the farm family that no one wants to talk about. She is an award-winning author who's written 5 books over the past 25 years. Faith Today magazine has dubbed her "Canada's Farm Whisperer". She was awarded the Farm Management Canada Wilson Loree award for excellence in Farm Business Management, the 4-H Canada First Most Distinguished Alumna award from a pool of 350,000 alumni, as well as the Manitoba 150 Women Trailblazers award. Elaine's passion is to share simple, practical and actionable tools with farm families so they can talk about tough issues and get traction in their farm transition. Her topics are a catalyst to courageous conversations and conflict resolution. Expect her to WOW your audience by bringing clarity with workable and practical tools. She's on a mission to guide farm families, across North America, to get unstuck, communicate better, find harmony through understanding, and secure a profitable farm legacy. Elaine's goal is for everyone to be rich in relationships. Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps 00:30 - Why sibling conversations matter during farm transition 01:30 - Farm siblings vs. non-farm siblings 02:57 - Expectations, assumptions, and the roots of conflict 04:51 - Three questions to start the conversation 06:21 - Why parents' wills and intentions should not be kept secret 07:51 - Writing down commitments and next steps 08:48 - Speaking up before small irritations become big problems 09:46 - Using time tracking and data instead of emotion alone 11:23 - What non-farm heirs may still want from the farm 13:16 - Land as inheritance, equity, and long-term planning 15:10 - Warm-hand succession and transferring assets early 16:38 - What is underneath "I'm fine" 17:38 - Planning for vulnerable family members and caregiving 19:35 - When mediation or facilitation is needed 21:09 - Self-awareness and the conflict dynamic profile 24:17 - Personality differences and how they affect farm teamwork 25:28 - Why quick repair matters in sibling relationships 26:39 - Clarifying expectations, timelines, and roles 28:54 - Why Elaine does this work and the role of lived experience 29:54 - The power of thank-you notes and written conversations 34:16 - Celebrating the good together as a family 36:16 - Avoiding estrangement and choosing repair 37:56 - Why facilitators help families have safer, shorter, more productive conversations

    73: Transition Talk Tips for Siblings

  6. Aug 25

    72: How to Refresh From Grief & Loss on the Farm

    In this episode, I sit down with Jaclyn Turpin, Registered Social Worker and founder of Rural Refresh, for a conversation about grief and loss on the farm, including the losses that don't always involve a death. With over ten years of experience as a social worker and her own connection to agriculture as a farm spouse, Jaclyn understands how deeply change and loss can affect farm families. Together, we talk about experiences like selling livestock, transitioning out of farming, losing independence, and other changes that aren't always recognized as something we need to grieve. Jaclyn shares why naming and talking about these experiences matters, along with practical ways to navigate loss, ask for help, and better support the people around us when they're going through a difficult time. If you or someone you know is navigating grief, change, or loss on the farm, this episode is for you. "We don't always recognize those non-death losses and transitions as a loss experience, and they really are. This is people's identity. This is people's life. It's their livelihood. It's so much a part of them." — Jaclyn Turpin, MSW, RSW, BA Resources Mentioned During This Episode Rural Refresh website: https://www.ruralrefresh.ca grief, loss, and mental health support with Jaclyn Turpin National Farmers Mental Health Alliance: https://nfmha.ca agriculture-informed mental health support for farmers and farm families Do More Ag Foundation / AgTalk: https://www.domore.ag/agtalk confidential mental health support for the Canadian agriculture community About Our Guest Jaclyn Turpin is a Registered Social Worker in private practice. With both her lived experience and education, she supports farmers and their families with transitions, loss, and change. Jaclyn has years of experience working with those who are experiencing grief from both death and non-death losses. She now farms with her husband and children in Oxford County, Ontario, and is committed to supporting those who identify as the farmer and those who keep the rest of the roles filled, both on and off the farm. Jaclyn is passionate about working with rural individuals and appreciates the uniqueness of rural mental health and grief on the farm. Contact Jaclyn Visit Rural Refresh Website Follow Jaclyn on Facebook Follow Jaclyn on Instagram Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps 00:00 - Introducing grief and loss support for farm families 00:33 - Jaclyn's background growing up in Oxford County 01:19 - Why loss and grief work became personal 03:07 - Why non-death losses matter in agriculture 05:19 - Naming the actual loss in farm transitions 06:01 - Using a loss timeline to map layered grief 07:36 - Why "buck up" culture makes grief harder 08:10 - Phrases people say that are not helpful 09:30 - Replacing shallow comfort with real empathy 10:21 - Questions that open space for honest grief 11:54 - Presence matters more than perfect words 12:41 - Why "let me know if I can help" is too vague 13:04 - Practical support that actually helps farm families 14:03 - What makes agricultural grief unique 15:12 - Small losses children notice on the farm 16:50 - Slowing down after a major transition 18:50 - Understanding ambiguous loss and dementia 20:47 - How dementia affects independence and farm identity 21:45 - Caregiver grief and the challenge of supporting safely 23:18 - Practical adjustments for people in care homes 24:21 - How to contact Jaclyn and work with Rural Refresh 25:39 - Why some people resist getting help 27:12 - Why it is never too early to seek support 28:38 - Making stress conversations normal in farming 30:05 - Choosing not to bottle everything up 31:39 - Why busyness is not the antidote to grief 32:16 - Expanding what community support can look like 33:57 - Frozen meals, expectations, and practical care 35:35 - Why follow-up matters long after the funeral 36:39 - Helping children understand death and loss 37:10 - Jaclyn's virtual support group for spouses of farmers 38:47 - Building community across Ontario and beyond 39:36 - Final encouragement for farm families and listeners

    72: How to Refresh From Grief & Loss on the Farm

  7. Aug 11

    71: How to Help Farm Dad & Mom Find New Purpose

    In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Ken Keis, president of CRG Consulting Group, leadership expert, and longtime friend, for an honest conversation about helping farm parents find purpose beyond the farm and why understanding yourself is essential for a successful transition. Drawing from decades of experience working with families, leaders, and organizations, Ken shares how personality, values, and purpose shape the way we communicate, make decisions, and navigate change. Together, we explore why so many farm transitions stall, the importance of having difficult conversations before a crisis, and how changing roles doesn't mean losing your identity. We discuss discovering your purpose beyond the farm, understanding different personality styles and values, creating a healthier family culture, and why transition planning should happen while everyone is healthy and able to make decisions together. If you or someone you know is struggling with letting go, finding purpose after farming, or navigating the next chapter of your family's journey, this episode is for you. "The farm or your business is your identity. And I'm here to say that is not true. It is just an entity. The relationship and the people are the legacy." - Dr Ken Keis Resources Mentioned During This Episode CRG Consulting Group:  leadership development tools, personality assessments, and coaching resources Why Aren't You More Like Me? by Dr. Ken Keis explore personality styles, communication, and self-awareness Values Assessment Tool:  discover your core values and what drives your decisions Insight: The Surprising Truth About How Others See Us, How We See Ourselves, and Why the Answers Matter More Than We Think by Dr Tasha Eurich:  develop self-awareness, become more confident, and successful. Ken Keis' free eBook, The Quest for Purpose:  discover your purpose, have meaning & fulfillment, live with passion and presence Triggers: Creating Behavior That Lasts: Becoming the Person You Want to Be by Marshall Goldsmith:  overcome trigger points in our lives and enact meaningful and lasting change. About Our Guest Ken Keis, Ph.D., is a globally recognized expert in personality, leadership, purpose, and wellness. With more than 37 years of experience, he has delivered over 3,000 presentations and 10,000 hours of coaching and consulting, helping individuals and organizations realize their full potential. As President and CEO of Consulting Resource Group International (CRG), Ken has advanced professional and personal development through CRG's proprietary models, 10 online courses, and 14 assessments, including The Personal Style Indicator, consistently rated the #1 personality assessment by participants. He has also certified and licensed coaches, trainers, speakers, consultants, and HR professionals in more than 30 countries. Ken is the bestselling author of Why Aren't You More Like Me?, Deliberate Leadership, and The Quest for Purpose. His work has been endorsed by respected leadership experts, including Ken Blanchard, Jim Kouzes, and Marshall Goldsmith. Contact Ken Follow Ken on LinkedIn Connect with Ken on Twitter Follow Ken on Facebook Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: Why farm family clarity and transition matter 00:30 - Dr. Ken Keis's background and farm experience 01:03 - The importance of measurement and clarity in life and farming 01:31 - The role of personal style indicators in understanding family dynamics 02:24 - Leadership development and realization of potential 03:00 - Procrastination's impact on agriculture and family decisions 04:21 - Personal family story: engagement, values, and clarity 05:44 - Family meeting: using personality tools for farm decision-making 06:28 - Navigating risks and uncertainties in farming 07:25 - Why family members are wired differently and personality differences 08:43 - Recognizing strengths and challenges of varied personal styles 09:50 - The importance of purpose and the risks of taking the farm for granted 10:14 - The legacy of the farm: family relationships vs. land 11:07 - Inherited roles and aligning talents with farm roles 11:36 - Moving on: the story of finding fulfillment outside traditional farm roles 12:14 - Clarity about the farm as an entity, not identity 12:52 - The significance of values in decision-making and alignment 13:48 - Challenges of growth and outgrowing capabilities 14:15 - Self-awareness and perception gaps 15:14 - The need for intentional planning and clarity 16:37 - The importance of environment and culture on motivation 17:22 - Transition stories: CEOs and medical professionals 18:03 - Planning ahead for farm succession and estate transfer 19:03 - The importance of legal and estate planning 20:22 - Managing aging farm owners and health considerations 21:24 - Tools available for assessing wellness, confidence, and values 22:26 - Family and business values alignment exercises 23:41 - The role of congruence and authentic values in happiness and engagement 26:45 - Practical steps for clarity, communication, and intentional transition 28:02 - The impact of wellness, mental health, and self-worth on decision-making 29:49 - Embracing personal choice and living authentically 31:01 - Creating flexible, enjoyable retirement and transition options 32:02 - The power of intentional planning over reacting to circumstances 33:19 - Closing thoughts: Your ability to choose your farm's future

    71: How to Help Farm Dad & Mom Find New Purpose

  8. Jul 28

    70: Financial Freedom for Farmers

    In this episode, I sit down with Michael Baker, CPA, Certified Financial Planner, and co-author of Financial Blind Spots, for a conversation about building financial confidence and creating more options for your farm family. Michael shares why so many farmers overlook important financial opportunities, the value of having the right advisory team, and how planning can help protect your family, your farm, and your future. We discuss common financial blind spots, creating a long-term vision, protecting your greatest assets, and why asking better questions leads to better decisions. If you're ready to take control of what you can and make proactive decisions for your family's future, this episode is for you. "Control what you can control. The only way to create possibility is to move forward. Reach out and ask questions. Just ask, ask, and ask. Eventually, you'll know." - Michael Baker, CPA Remember, successful financial planning is a journey — one step at a time. Share this episode with your farm family and community to build confidence and strengthen your financial future together. Resources Mentioned During This Episode Financial Blind Spots: A Deep Dive into Farm Finance A practical guide to building financial confidence. Values-Based Financial Planning by Bill Backrack Align your financial decisions with what matters most. Reid Wilkie, Farm Attorney in Medicine Hat Trusted legal guidance for farm families and transitions. About Our Guest Michael Baker, CPA, CA, CFP, TEP, is the founder of Baker Wealth in Medicine Hat, Alberta. With over 30 years as a professional accountant, Mike has become a leader in transforming financial landscapes, and his goal is clear: to be a visionary in financial planning and tax strategy using life insurance. At the core of his work is a single value: helping others create a life they love. He leads a balanced life and is located in Medicine Hat, AB. Mike has been happily married to Sabrina, the love of his life, for 23 years, and together they raise 16-year-old triplets — a son and two daughters.  An accomplished athlete, he played University football for the Golden Bears and has completed seven Ironman Triathlons, bringing that same discipline and devotion to everything he does. Contact Michael  Visit The Baker Wealth Website  Follow Michael on LinkedIn Follow Michael on Facebook Elaine Froese Resources: Watch this episode on YouTube. Visit the podcast website SPEAKING - book Elaine for your next event COACHING - explore Farm Transition Coaching MEMBERSHIP - become a Farm Family Transition Member FREE STUFF - downloadable tools for your farm transition CONTACT - take the next steps in your transition BURNING QUESTION? Submit it here Farm Family Coach Social Media Links Facebook Instagram LinkedIn X YouTube TikTok Timestamps 00:00 - Introduction to Mike Baker and the topic of financial freedom for farmers 02:37 - Mike's journey from CPA to financial advisor and the book Financial Blind Spots 04:56 - The gap in financial advisory engagement among farm families 07:09 - Building a North Star: setting long-term goals amidst life's uncertainties 10:25 - Key concepts of the "Financial Pyramid" model for farm planning 13:12 - The crucial role of protection and insurance in farm succession 15:22 - How land and asset valuation affect farm transition strategies 18:02 - The longevity risks faced by farm families and the 100-year legacy plan 23:31 - Values-based planning: aligning financial decisions with family priorities 27:41 - Practical advice for an older farm family just starting to plan 32:28 - The importance of health, prevention, and early diagnosis in farm safety 35:01 - Different types of insurance: term, participating whole life, critical illness, and disability 37:46 - The complexity of disability insurance and the importance of definitions 40:30 - The use of key person insurance in farm business continuity 44:23 - Innovative insurance strategies involving land and leverage 48:26 - How to choose and vet a trustworthy financial advisor 50:27 - Next steps for farm families seeking financial clarity and freedom 52:48 - Upcoming farm finance, legal resources, and networking opportunities 54:17 - Closing thoughts: taking one step at a time toward better financial health

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Get personal with Elaine Froese, Canada's Farm Whisperer, in Farm Family Harmony, where no farm topic is taboo! Whether it's about a Daughter-In-Law feeling left out of the farm family, which sibling gets the family farm, or when it's time to tell Mom and Dad to respectfully retire, Elaine covers the crucial conversations every farm family needs to have.

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