Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? with Emily Fletcher

Emily Fletcher

Welcome to Why Isn't Everyone Doing This with Emily Fletcher. Each week we’ll explore some of the most spine-tingling, potent modalities that can give you the kind of bliss and pleasure that is your birthright. No topic is off limits: We’ll dive into everything from breathwork to psychedelics, from meditation to BDSM. Join Emily in conversation with scientists, doctors, healers, and innovative thinkers to reveal the tools that have radically changed their lives, and that very well may change yours, too. We can’t wait to hear which one has you asking, “Why isn’t everyone doing this?”

  1. 21h ago

    Why Isn't Everyone Manifesting With Their Whole Bodies?

    Twelve years of practice, and one of the worst nights of his life, met in the same body. In this episode, Emily Fletcher sits down with Oliver Lehne, an actor, playwright, and Ziva meditator she's known for over twelve years. Oliver came to meditation, by his own admission, to impress people. He arrived anxious, low on self-esteem, and constantly deferring to everyone else's opinion. What's emerged since is a man who trusts himself enough to create from that trust, including a play that landed a London producer within days of one conversation. Oliver and Emily trace his path from meditation into embodied manifesting, and he shares the exact phrase that came through in his first real pleasure prayer, one he still writes in his journal every morning. He also opens up about the night his husband had a brain injury on Christmas Eve, and how the steadiness he'd built over a decade of practice carried him through it. In this episode, Oliver explores: Why he first came to meditation to impress people, and what he found underneath that What adaptation energy is, and why running out of it launches the body into fight or flight How surrender changed the way he shows up with his own parents Why visualizing was always the hardest part of manifesting, and how feeling replaced picturing The shift from performing his emotions as an actor to simply letting them move The mantra that came through in his second pleasure prayer, and why he still journals it daily How his play found a London producer within two days of one conversation The night his husband had a brain injury on Christmas Eve, and the steadiness that carried him through Why he believes meditation and manifesting compound each other Key Moments: 00:33 – Life before Ziva: anxiety and chronic people-pleasing 05:08 – Why he first came to meditation: wanting to impress people 09:52 – Adaptation energy, defined 12:59 – How surrender changed his relationship with his parents 16:31 – The embodied manifesting formula: visualize, alchemize, magnetize 20:03 – Permission over performance 24:12 – The pleasure prayer that gave him his daily mantra 27:02 – How his play found a London producer in two days 31:06 – His husband's brain injury on Christmas Eve 34:09 – The miracle: walking out of the hospital alone 36:33 – His invitation to anyone still on the fence 🎥 The Magic Maker replays come down Aug 7. If you haven't watched all three parts, or want to sit with them again before you decide, now's the time. Watch the replays: magicmaker.zivameditation.com 🔗 MORE FROM EMILY & ZIVA: Learn Ziva Meditation: preview.zivameditation.com Free masterclass: learn.zivameditation.com Get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: whythis.zivameditation.com Follow us on Instagram: @zivameditation

  2. 6d ago

    From Overwhelmed Mom to Manifesting Magic

    What if you've been surviving your life instead of actually living it, and you didn't even know it? ✨ Enrollment for the Ziva Experience is officially open. Meditation to dissolve stress at the root, embodied manifesting to turn emotion into fuel, and a community built to hold you through all of it. Join us now → experience.zivameditation.com In this episode, Emily Fletcher sits down with Tammy Lewis, a business owner, mother of two, and now a Ziva Guide, to trace what changed between the version of her quietly holding everything together and the version of her now manifesting a cross-country move, a new school, and an entirely different marriage, with speed and ease. Before Ziva, nothing was broken, but everything was heavy: she was managing everyone else's emotions while hers sat at the bottom of the list. "It was getting by," she says. "I was surviving my life instead of actually living it." She found Ziva in 2021, and between being consistent with her daily Ziva Meditation practice, two pilgrimages, and years of practicing Ziva Magic's embodied manifesting formula, she learned to tell a thought that's “of her” from guidance that moves “through her.” Now her emotional lows resolve in minutes instead of days, manifestations show up almost daily, and she sums up her reality in one line: "Honestly, everything feels like magic." In this episode, they explore: The “before” picture: a good, full, busy life that was still a constant clench in the body — holding, managing, getting by The internal tool of asking what's “of me” versus what's “through me” during meditation, and how it sharpened her guidance How clearing childhood-level stuff she didn't know needed clearing kept expanding her capacity to receive Manifesting a cross-country move, a new school, and a mountain home in the same ten days she got clear on what her family truly wanted Her first, reluctant encounter with emotional alchemy at a Costa Rica retreat, and why part of her still resists it today Growing up Catholic and the jolt of first hearing “use your pleasure to pray” Why the Ziva circles, not just the meditation, became the real differentiator — and her new role guiding them Key Moments: 00:00 – Meet Tammy Lewis: the before and after 03:21 – “It's literally all magic”: journaling on Persephone before the call 06:53 – Her most recent evidence of magic: leaving expat life in Panama 09:06 – Turning guidance into action, Michael Jackson-style 10:51 – The tool: what's “of me” and what's “through me” 12:11 – The before picture: who was Tammy pre-Ziva 13:43 – The weight of life as a constant clench in the body 15:19 – Clearing invisible cages she didn't know were there 17:47 – Life now: shorter lows, funnier meetings 20:59 – Her son's word of the year: friendship 23:15 – Describing the meditation: the first practice she's ever craved 25:31 – Embodied manifesting: it's the feeling, not the thing 28:26 – The speed of manifesting and collapsing timelines 31:39 – Her first emotional alchemy experience, reluctantly, in Costa Rica 34:39 – The myth of Persephone and the underworld 38:03 – Pleasure as prayer, and her Catholic upbringing 43:03 – Leading the Ziva circles: community as the real differentiator ✨ The Ziva Experience is open for enrollment. Meditation to dissolve stress at the root. Embodied manifesting to turn your emotions into fuel. A mantra ceremony and a community built to hold you through all of it. Enroll now: zivameditation.com/experience 🔗 MORE FROM EMILY & ZIVA: Learn Ziva Meditation: preview.zivameditation.com Free masterclass: learn.zivameditation.com Get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: whythis.zivameditation.com Follow us on Instagram: @zivameditation

  3. Jul 24 ·  Bonus

    Magic Maker Part 3: The Highlights

    Tune into the highlights from Part 3 of Magic Maker Live with Emily Fletcher. 👉 Watch the full replay (available for a limited time, Parts 1, 2, and 3) and join the priority list to be first to know when the doors open: https://zivameditation.com/replay On Thur, Jul 23, Emily Fletcher closed out Magic Maker with Part 3, the moment this whole series had been building toward. She revealed the full five-part Ziva formula and led the community through a live taste of Visualize, Alchemize, and Magnetize, back to back, in real time. You'll learn: – The visualization Emily uses to reconnect with the question, what would I love– Why alchemizing what's in the way comes before magnetizing what you want– A live taste of sacred rage and pleasure, back to back, and why both matter– How to bring pleasure up through the body and pour it over a dream– Why the power of this ceremony doesn't diminish if you're watching the replay– The full five-part formula, named for the first time this series Key Moments: 0:00 – Welcome back for Part 3: the moment this whole series has been building toward0:41 – Today's reveal: the full five-part Ziva formula1:24 – Why manifesting a dream requires accessing the quantum field1:58 – Getting curious: what would I love?3:45 – Imagining the dream already done5:22 – Getting honest: what's keeping me from being a match for this dream6:28 – Alchemize: inviting the inner ancestor and inner child to move8:43 – Finding a kernel of pleasure in the expression of what is real9:00 – Magnetize: turning the ember of pleasure into a flame10:07 – Sending pleasure up through the body and into the vision11:56 – Dancing as if the dream has already come true13:59 – Sitting down as the person whose dream has already come true15:15 – Naming all five parts of the formula for the first time16:05 – What's opening in just a couple of days16:26 – Closing reflection: this reaches you the same way, live or on replay ✨ Watch the full Part 3 replay, plus Parts 1 and 2. This is where the priority list closes before the doors open. 👉 https://zivameditation.com/replay 🔗 MORE FROM EMILY & ZIVA: Learn Ziva Meditation: preview.zivameditation.com Free masterclass: learn.zivameditation.com Get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: whythis.zivameditation.com Follow us on Instagram: @zivameditation

  4. Jul 22 ·  Bonus

    Magic Maker Part 2: The Highlights

    Tune into the highlights from Part 2 of Magic Maker Live with Emily Fletcher. 👉 Watch the full replay (available for a limited time) and save your spot for Part 3, live Thur, Jul 23 at 1pm ET: https://zivameditation.com/replay On Tues, Jul 21, Emily Fletcher welcomed the Magic Maker community back for Part 2, the day built to clear out every "yeah, but" standing between them and their dreams. In this episode, she shares the biggest limiting beliefs keeping people stuck, real stories of what's possible once those beliefs dissolve, and a live taste of the embodiment work that makes this training different from anything else out there. You'll learn: – Why a thinking mind was never a sign that meditation is failing – The timeline of scarcity and the timeline of abundance, and the one choice available to all of us right now – Why nature is not a vending machine, it is a mirror – Two student stories of manifestations that arrived bigger than what anyone dared to pray for – Why meditation is a skill like any other, and never something people are naturally gifted or bad at – What most manifestation teachings leave out entirely, and why it matters more than mindset – A live practice in sacred rage, sacred sorrow, and pouring bliss back into the body – Homework before Part 3: DJ your feelings Key Moments: 0:00 – Welcome to Part 2: today is all about alchemy 0:25 – Pronoia: choosing to believe nature is conspiring in your favor 1:07 – Saying yes signals to nature that you're ready for your dream 1:32 – Limiting belief: I don't have time to meditate 2:08 – Your brain prints every cell in your body and makes every decision you make 2:29 – Limiting belief: I already meditate, why would I need this 3:04 – Accessing the unmanifest: the quantum engine room where reality is formed 3:23 – Limiting belief: I can't stop my mind from thinking 3:59 – Thoughts are not the enemy of meditation. Effort is. 4:16 – Monks vs householders: the ancient framework behind the Ziva approach 4:42 – What most manifestation teachings leave out completely 5:10 – Nature is not a vending machine, it is a mirror 5:33 – Limiting belief: pleasure feels edgy 6:10 – Reclaiming pleasure and remembering the body as a temple 6:39 – The invisible cage of being afraid to feel your feelings 7:21 – Freud, defense mechanisms, and why we numb instead of feel 7:57 – Live practice begins: a taste of Alchemize 8:14 – Sacred rage: dancing out the frustration 11:05 – Asking the body: what am I ready to alchemize? 11:19 – Shaking, stomping, and punching out what's in the way 13:32 – Integration: honoring the inner child 14:21 – Sending bliss and love out to the whole planet 15:03 – Join the waitlist, share your magic, see you Thursday ✨ Watch the full Part 2 replay and save your spot for Part 3, live Thur, Jul 23 at 1pm ET. This is where the full formula gets revealed. 👉 https://zivameditation.com/replay 🔗 MORE FROM EMILY & ZIVA: Learn Ziva Meditation: preview.zivameditation.com Free masterclass: learn.zivameditation.com Get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: whythis.zivameditation.com Follow us on Instagram: @zivameditation

  5. Trailer

    Magic Maker Part 1: The Highlights

    Tune into the highlights from Part 1 of Magic Maker Live with Emily Fletcher.  👉 Watch the full replay (available for a limited time) and save your spot for Part 2 & 3, live July 21 and July 23 at 1pm ET: https://zivameditation.com/replay On July 16, Emily Fletcher opened the doors to Part 1 of Magic Maker, and within minutes people from all over the world were sharing breakthroughs in real time. In this episode, we share some of the most powerful moments from this first session. You'll also hear real-time testimonials from the Magic Maker community, a powerful guided visualization to get clear on your dreams, and how to start identifying the invisible cages that are keeping you from your dreams. You'll learn: – Why most Western meditation apps are watered-down monastic tools, and why that makes you feel like you're failing – The real reason the mind falls silent (it's not what most meditation teachers tell you) – What quantum field theory says about "empty space," and why you're not separate from the field – The two ways to access the field: restful transcendence and ecstatic transcendence, and why you need both – Why the armor that protected your heart can become the wall blocking the love you desire – Live testimonials from Magic Maker Day 1 participants – A powerful homework to do before Day 2: "I see evidence of magic all around me" Key Moments: 0:05 – The question we've been circling all series: why does it feel like more is available to us?1:39 – Welcome to Day 1: why most meditation out there was built for monks, not householders3:00 – Glorified bedtime stories: why relaxation apps aren't meditation4:02 – Your mind thinks involuntarily, just like your heart beats. You're not failing.4:34 – How the mind actually falls silent, and why "clearing your mind" was never the goal6:28 – Quantum field theory: empty space isn't empty, and you're not separate from it8:34 – Turiya, the fourth state of consciousness, and rest five times deeper than sleep9:58 – The second path to the field: embodiment, ecstasis, and creation energy11:34 – The 2% slide: trading grinding harder for accessing the unmanifest12:56 – Kristen's story: "I forgot who I was. In this space, I remembered."13:17 – The armor that protected your heart becomes the wall blocking the love you want15:07 – Amy's story: "Before, I was a believer in magic. Now I know I am the magic."15:20 – Closing practice: "I see evidence of magic all around me" ✨ Save your spot for Day 2 and Day 3 of Magic Maker, live July 21 and July 23 at 1pm ET. You'll also find the full Day 1 replay at the same link, available for a limited time. 👉 https://zivameditation.com/replay 🔗 MORE FROM EMILY & ZIVA: Learn Ziva Meditation: preview.zivameditation.com Free masterclass: learn.zivameditation.com Get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: whythis.zivameditation.com Follow us on Instagram: @zivameditation

  6. Jul 14

    135. Why Isn't Everyone Activating Their Feminine Frequency? with Peruquois

    Why Isn't Everyone Activating Their Feminine Frequency? with Peruquois Your voice may be the most direct bridge you have between your body and your soul. In this episode, Emily Fletcher sits down with Peruquois, a ceremonial sound healer, composer, and teacher who has spent over 30 years helping women reclaim their feminine frequency through their own voice. At 23, standing on the edge of a cliff in Bondi, Australia, ready to jump, Peruquois experienced a primal sound moving up through her body that changed the entire course of her life. She shares how that moment became a lifelong practice: a method for releasing stress, grief, and old trauma through vibration, breath, and touch rather than talk therapy alone. Peruquois opens up about healing her own experience of sexual assault by sounding out her pain in the forest, explains why her live transmissions have been measured to raise people's energy biomarkers two to fourteen times over, and leads a live guided exercise inside the episode to help listeners reconnect with their own voice, breath, and body. In this episode, Peruquois explores: – The cliff-edge moment at 23 that changed the direction of her entire life– How a primal sound moving through her body became a decades-long body of work– What she means by pure feminine frequency, and why she calls it the flow of love– Why the feminine principle holds the role of destroyer as much as creator– Healing sexual assault through sound, and why the voice moves what talking and writing can't– The heart rate variability studies showing energy biomarkers rising 2 to 14x during her transmissions– Why meditation alone can quiet the mind but not release what's stored in the body– A live guided exercise using breath, touch, and voice, right inside the episode Key Moments: 02:09 – Standing on a cliff in Bondi, Australia at 2304:19 – The primal sound that changed everything06:42 – Communing with pure feminine frequency08:43 – The promise, and the medicine man who'd been waiting for her12:46 – The feminine as destroyer: menstruation as death and rebirth18:36 – Healing sexual assault through sound in the forest20:58 – The voice as the bridge between body and soul24:01 – Why meditation alone can't move deep trauma28:03 – The science: energy biomarkers rising 2 to 14x31:34 – The grief that comes after the opening40:28 – A 15-minute practice for a nervous system with no time to spare49:45 – Live guided exercise: breath, touch, and voice ✨ Magic Maker is officially open for registration. Three Parts. Totally free. Jul 16, 21 and 23. Join Emily live for three days of activations, tools and community designed to help you access the field, dissolve your invisible cages and become a frequency match for what you're calling in. Register free: magicmaker.zivameditation.com 🔗 MORE FROM EMILY & ZIVA:Learn Ziva Meditation: preview.zivameditation.comFree masterclass: learn.zivameditation.comGet 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: whythis.zivameditation.comFollow us on Instagram: @zivameditation

  7. Jul 9

    Why Isn't Everyone An Energetic Match for Their Dreams?

    Your mind says yes. Your body says not yet. And until those two are saying the same thing, nothing you manifest will stick. In part three of this special bonus series leading up to Magic Maker, Emily Fletcher names the gap most experienced meditators never hear named: meditation gives you access to the unmanifest, but manifesting the actual dream is a distinct second skill, and almost nobody has been taught how to do both together, in the right order. In this episode, Emily breaks down the difference between an addictive longing — trying to fill an internal void with something external — and an intuitive desire, which is genuinely divinely inspired, but only accessible once meditation has given the body a reliable way to fill itself up first. She gets specific about the neurochemistry: within thirty to forty-five seconds, the brain and body flood with dopamine and serotonin. Then she goes further. What happens when your mind wants one thing but your body is still holding unexpressed rage or grief? Two student stories show what becomes possible once that channel finally clears. And Emily makes the case for why this is more powerful done alongside others: when a group holds coherence together, the prayers get amplified. ✨ Magic Maker is open. Three days. Totally free. July 16, 21 and 23. 👉 magicmaker.zivameditation.com In this episode, Emily explores: Why meditation alone isn't enough, and manifestation alone doesn't hold: the two-part practice most people are missing The on-air challenge from her science-forward friend Ari that inspired this episode Addictive longing versus intuitive desire, and why most people confuse the two The neurochemistry of accessing the unmanifest: dopamine and serotonin in under a minute Other doorways to source, including yoga, lovemaking, and ecstatic dance Mary's story: from not feeling deserving to signing the perfect business partner Head, heart, and hoo-ha: getting vision, emotion, and power into coherence Why unexpressed rage and grief quietly become mixed signals to the universe The one-minute purge practice to try before you pray or manifest Kelly's story: dancing rage into radiance through emotional alchemy Why coming together in a group creates a collective antenna, and what happens when thousands hold the same intention at once Key Moments: 00:00 – Welcome to part three of the bonus series 00:39 – The story that sparked this episode: Emily's appearance on Ari's podcast 01:12 – The Ferrari and the ten-million-dollar check: old-school manifesting 01:42 – Addictive longing versus intuitive desire 03:19 – Why Emily really teaches manifesting 04:38 – Meditation as the precursor to manifestation 05:10 – The neurochemistry of accessing the unmanifest 05:59 – Other doorways to source: yoga, lovemaking, ecstatic dance 07:04 – Mary's story: from undeserving to the perfect business partner 08:30 – Head, heart, and hoo-ha: getting into coherence 09:24 – A friend's story: wanting love while carrying unexpressed rage 10:28 – The Ziva protocol: dancing sorrow and rage into ecstasy 12:39 – The one-minute purge practice 13:39 – Kelly's story: dancing rage into radiance 14:44 – Last year's 30,000 Magic Makers and the collective antenna 15:18 – Magic Maker: three free days starting July 16th ✨ Magic Maker is officially open for registration. Three Parts. Totally free. Jul 16, 21 & 23. Join Emily live for three days of activations, tools and community designed to help you access the field, dissolve your invisible cages and become a frequency match for what you're calling in. Register free: magicmaker.zivameditation.com 🔗 MORE FROM EMILY & ZIVA: Learn Ziva Meditation: preview.zivameditation.com Free masterclass: learn.zivameditation.com Get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: whythis.zivameditation.com Follow us on Instagram: @zivameditation

  8. Jul 7

    Why Isn't Everyone Bridging the Seen and the Unseen Realms?

    What if the difference between a life that feels alive and one that feels flat comes down to a single skill: learning to read frequency? In this episode of Why Isn't Everyone Doing This?, Emily Fletcher sits down with Rebecca Campbell, author, oracle deck creator, musician, and ceremonialist who now lives in Glastonbury, one of the most potent sacred sites on the planet, where she tends ancient wells and leads pilgrimages. Emily and Rebecca met on a boat in Croatia last summer, and Emily admits she judged Rebecca on sight, until Rebecca opened an unplanned prayer portal on the top deck and blew the whole group's hearts open. This conversation goes deep into what frequency actually is, how the body already knows the difference between resonance and dissonance, and an almost-forgotten Irish tradition called keening, a three-day, three-night grief ritual so powerful it was eventually made illegal. Rebecca traces her own path from a teenage encounter with a grieving mother to a spontaneous ceremony that revealed her connection to what she calls the ancient grandmothers of the earth, and shares the harrowing birth story that nearly took her life and cracked her open to the gates between the seen and the unseen for good. In this episode, they explore: What frequency really is, and why the body already knows resonance from dissonance Keening, the ancient Irish grief ritual, and why it was eventually outlawed Why grief and rage are life force, not something to bypass or suppress Rebecca's teenage encounter with a grieving mother that initiated her spiritual path The spontaneous ceremony that connected her to the ancient grandmothers of the earth Why water is older than the earth itself, and what that means for frequency and memory Isis and her twin sister Nephthys, the goddess of the unmanifest Rebecca's near-death experience after childbirth, and the mother in the next hospital bed Why the collective purge so many people are feeling right now is part of the awakening, not a step backward The new timeline bubbling up, and the third frequency that bridges the seen and the unseen Key Moments 00:00 – Emily and Rebecca open in ceremony before the interview begins 02:04 – Welcome to Why Isn't Everyone Bridging the Seen and the Unseen Realms 03:41 – How Emily and Rebecca met on a boat in Croatia 09:20 – Why the same dream can arrive through more than one person at once 11:22 – What frequency actually means, explained through the body's senses 13:26 – Keening: the ancient Irish grief ritual, and why it was made illegal 19:44 – Grief and rage as compost, not something to lock away 24:03 – Rebecca's teenage awakening and the woman named Anna 27:14 – The spontaneous ceremony and the ancient grandmothers of the earth 30:59 – Why water is older than the earth 34:05 – Emily's own experience in the Hathor temple at Dendera 35:02 – Isis and Nephthys, goddess of the unmanifest 38:35 – Rebecca's near-death experience after giving birth 40:08 – The mother in the next hospital bed and the gates of life 44:06 – Ancestral purging as part of the awakening, not a setback 45:07 – The new timeline and the third frequency bridging seen and unseen ✨ Magic Maker is officially open for registration. Three days. Totally free. Jul 16, 21 & 23. Join Emily live for three days of activations, tools and community designed to help you access the field, dissolve your invisible cages and become a frequency match for what you're calling in. 👉 Register free: https://magicmaker.zivameditation.com 🔗 More from Emily & Ziva 🧘 Learn Ziva Meditation https://preview.zivameditation.com 🎓 Free Masterclass https://learn.zivameditation.com 💫 Get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS https://whythis.zivameditation.com 📸 Follow us on Instagram @zivameditation

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Welcome to Why Isn't Everyone Doing This with Emily Fletcher. Each week we’ll explore some of the most spine-tingling, potent modalities that can give you the kind of bliss and pleasure that is your birthright. No topic is off limits: We’ll dive into everything from breathwork to psychedelics, from meditation to BDSM. Join Emily in conversation with scientists, doctors, healers, and innovative thinkers to reveal the tools that have radically changed their lives, and that very well may change yours, too. We can’t wait to hear which one has you asking, “Why isn’t everyone doing this?”

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