Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? with Emily Fletcher Emily Fletcher

Want to learn how you can join Ziva's movement to visualize, alchemize and magnetize the life (and world) you really want? Click here to join the waitlist and be the first to know how you can turn the dial up on your own divinity: https://zivameditation.com/secret
 
===
 
What would the world look like as a matriarchy? Today on Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This? We’re launching Part 3 of the Priestess Pilgrimage and taking you on Emily and Layla’s journey through Crete - one of the last matriarchal societies.
 
(ICYMI: Emily and Layla Martin took a recent trip through Greece where they traveled to sacred sites where high priestesses were serving medicine and practicing sacred sexuality rituals that helped to form the very fabric of Western society. Catch up on Parts 1 and 2 at the links below.
 
While in other ancient cities, the priestesses were consulted by sovereigns and people in leadership, in Crete the high priestesses WERE the sovereigns. Layla walks us through the migration of our ancient ancestors from ancient Turkey and the Middle East who had worshiped the Goddess and has deep reverence for feminine expressions of marriage, childbirth, fertility and sexuality.
 
Layla and Emily also give practical ways to start with a psychedelic journey if that feels charming, including why it’s integral to be led by a therapist or an experienced guide who can help you move through the full spectrum of your human emotions. Discover how you can  prepare your body, heart and soul to experience these initiations if and when you feel ready.
 
Plus, they define Kundalini energy and why so many ancient depictions of women in Ancient Greece are shown with snakes.
 
So why isn’t everyone turning up the dial on their own divinity? Discover the reason in this week’s episode.
 
Catch up on Parts 1 and 2:
Part 1: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/why-isnt-everyone-doing-this-with-emily-fletcher/id1686999794?i=1000628363019
Part 2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reclaiming-high-priestess-teachings-that-were-banned/id1685418994?i=1000628969627
 
What part felt like a mic drop moment for you? Drop the timestamp in the comments below.
 
===
 
Layla Martin is a thought leader in the ever-emerging worlds of sexual wellness, Tantra, erotic empowerment, and personal development.Named the Headmistress of Pleasure by Women’s Health Magazine and a Sexpert Extraordinaire by Cosmopolitan, Layla has spent her life studying the science and deep magic of sexuality and human relationships. As founder of the VITA Method, she’s been certifying professionals in a Tantric approach to Love, Sex, and Relationships for over 7 years and has taught over 12,000 paid clients.The VITATM Method is proven to help heal trauma, release limiting beliefs, and awaken life-changing levels of pleasure. For 20 years, Layla traveled the world as a devoted student of Tantra, training with the most high-level teachers of this powerful tradition. She studied human sexuality, neuroscience, and biology at Stanford University, and immersed herself in the energetic traditions of Taoism and early witchcraft.
 
@thelaylamartin
https://vitacoachingmethod.com/
 
===
 
Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now:
Free Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/freemasterclass/
Learn More: https://zivameditation.com/
Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/

Today we’re kicking off a 4-part series with return guest Layla Martin, where they will take you through their recent Priestess Pilgrimage through Greece. Together, they traveled to several sacred sites to have a visceral experience of the very same places where priestesses were serving medicine and practicing sacred sexuality rituals that helped to form the very fabric of Western society. Things like democracy, theater, even religion.

In Part 1 they discuss what it means to be a high priestess, and why reclaiming words like “witch” and “priestess” empower people to connect with their own divinity. They also introduce the religion that has no name – something that humans have been practicing for millenia in order to connect with God through Nature, plants, animals, their own bodies, dance, music, medicines, breath, trance and meditation.

Layla and Emily also give a history lesson on why people used to travel to Eleusis to change their perception of death and the afterlife. Plus, they explore why it’s so hard to control people who have access to psychedelics and modalities such as breathwork, yoga, meditation and sacred sexuality.

So why isn’t everyone using psychedelics to tap into the divine? Discover the reason in this week’s episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?
 
Catch Part 2 of the Priestess Pilgrimage this Sunday, Oct 24 over on Layla’s podcast, This Tantric Life.
 
What part felt like a mic drop moment for you? Drop the timestamp in the comments below.

===

Want to learn how you can join Ziva's movement to visualize, alchemize and magnetize the life (and world) you really want? Click here to join the waitlist and be the first to know how you can turn the dial up on your own divinity: https://zivameditation.com/secret/

===

Have you watched our previous episode with Sarah Jenks?
Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/why-isnt-everyone-doing-this-with-emily-fletcher/id1686999794?i=1000627554473

===

Layla Martin is a thought leader in the ever-emerging worlds of sexual wellness, Tantra, erotic empowerment, and personal development.Named the Headmistress of Pleasure by Women’s Health Magazine and a Sexpert Extraordinaire by Cosmopolitan, Layla has spent her life studying the science and deep magic of sexuality and human relationships. As founder of the VITA Method, she’s been certifying professionals in a Tantric approach to Love, Sex, and Relationships for over 7 years and has taught over 12,000 paid clients.The VITATM Method is proven to help heal trauma, release limiting beliefs, and awaken life-changing levels of pleasure. For 20 years, Layla traveled the world as a devoted student of Tantra, training with the most high-level teachers of this powerful tradition. She studied human sexuality, neuroscience, and biology at Stanford University, and immersed herself in the energetic traditions of Taoism and early witchcraft.
@thelaylamartin
https://vitacoachingmethod.com/

===

Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now:
Free Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/freemasterclass/
Learn More: https://zivameditation.com/
Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/
For FREE bonus content, visit https://zivameditation.com/whythis/

In this episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This? Emily is joined by Sarah Jenks. Sarah is an ordained priestess, mother, and someone who has spent years studying the Sacred Feminine – guiding thousands of women through the process of remembering their brilliance and unique mission in this lifetime.
 
In this episode, they dive into what's possible when you start to build bridges between the seen and the unseen worlds. If you've been curious what a priestess is, you are in luck because Sarah is going to share how we can bring more divinity, ritual and ceremony to our everyday lives, to our families, and to our homes.
 
Sarah and Emily explore the concept of divine communication through synchronicities and future memories. She also defines the Sacred Feminine and they discuss why it’s been erased from history. The answer may shock you, and open you up to an entirely different world of possibility.

They also dive into how a matriarchy differs from a patriarchy and Sarah shares how she facilitates Sacred Ceremony without the use of plant medicine.
 
So why isn’t everyone Remembering the Sacred Feminine? Discover the reason in this week’s episode.
 
What part felt like a mic drop moment for you? Drop the timestamp in the comments below.
===
For FREE bonus content including a mini-masterclass from Sarah on how to do a ceremony called "What's Next for Me?", visit https://zivameditation.com/whythis/
===
Have you watched our previous episode with Radha Agrawal?
Listen on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/why-isnt-everyone-doing-this-with-emily-fletcher/id1686999794?i=1000626765832
===
Sarah Jenks is the mother of three, a woman who has struggled with body image and lack of direction, and someone who knows what it’s like to feel flat, overwhelmed, frumpy and exhausted. Through her own transformation and years of study in the Sacred Feminine, emotional eating and life coaching, she has been guiding thousands of women for over 10 years through the process of remembering their brilliance and their unique mission in this lifetime.
https://sarahjenks.com/
@sarahjenks
===
Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice?
Free Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/freemasterclass/
Learn More: https://zivameditation.com/
Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/

In this episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This? Emily sits down with Radha Agrawal, co-founder of Daybreaker, mama extraordinaire, and someone who makes more magic and mischief than most people make in a lifetime. She is also dedicated to helping people find meaningful community and belonging.
 
 
In this episode, Radha explores how our lack of connection with our community is the root cause of many of the challenges we face as a species, such as climate change and healing disease. They also discuss the physiological effects of loneliness, and Radha shares some groundbreaking stats on what loneliness does to the body.
 
 
Plus, Radha and Emily pontificate on why we've been taught to not prioritize our platonic relationships, and how to move beyond the fear of rejection to start creating a community you love.
 
 
So why isn’t everyone prioritizing friendships and creating conscious, aligned community? Discover the reason in this week’s episode – plus learn some easy ways you can start to invite more community into your life.
 
 
What part resonated the most with you? Drop the timestamp in the comments below so the whole community can enjoy it too.
 
 
===
 
 
For FREE bonus content such as mini-masterclasses from our guests and more, visit https://zivameditation.com/whythis/
 
 
===
 
 
Have you listened our previous episode with Dr. Cat Meyer?  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/why-isnt-everyone-doing-this-with-emily-fletcher/id1686999794?i=1000626037392
 
 
===
 
 
Radha Agrawal is an entrepreneurial force. She is the co-Founder, CEO and Chief Community Architect of Daybreaker, the global morning dance, music and wellness move-ment in five continents with a community of almost half a million people around the globe.
 
 
Find her at:
 
@love.radha
 
https://www.radhaagrawal.com/
 
 
===
 
 
Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now:
 
Free Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/freemasterclass/
 
Learn More: https://zivameditation.com/
 
Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/

In this episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This? Emily sits down with Dr. Cat Meyer, a licensed psychotherapist who specializes in sex, trauma and ketamine assisted therapy, three things that are very buzzy these days. Plus, she is an EMDR and Kambo facilitator and master Reiki practitioner.
They discuss how to heal through sex and psychedelics, and the power of reclaiming your own pleasure instead of outsourcing it to others. Cat and Emily discuss how shame and disconnection from your body can create challenges with feeling and embracing your own desires.
They also explore how somatic experiences can be used to reconnect your brain and body, and how this can help you discover not only what you want sexually, but also in your daily life. Plus, they delve deep into the benefits of various psychedelics, their ability to alter consciousness and how they can facilitate emotional healing and trauma processing.
Get ready for a wild ride.
There are so many insightful topics covered in this episode. What part resonated the most with you? Drop the timestamp in the comments below so the whole community can enjoy it too.
 
===
For FREE bonus content such as mini-masterclasses from our guests and more, visit https://zivameditation.com/whythis/
===
Have you listened to our previous episode with Candice Horbacz? Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/consciously-crafting-your-relationships-with-candice
===
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00:00 - Intro & Rethinking Sex and Pleasure
00:04:08 - Normalizing Not Feeling
00:06:07 - Healing from Sexual Trauma and Expanding the Mind
00:10:11 - Exploring the Fringe of BDSM
00:12:28 - The Integration of Tantra, BDSM, Energetics, and Psychedelics in Healing
00:16:32 -  What is Anti-Intimacy?
00:22:48 - Shame and Disconnection from the Body
00:24:47 - The Power of Connecting  with the Body
00:31:19 - Understanding Psychedelics, Empathogens, Altered States of Consciousness
00:35:48 - Expanding Perspectives through Psychedelics and Meditation
00:37:50 - The Power of Ketamine Therapy
00:44:03 - Integration and Consciousness Shifting
00:45:56 - Preparation for Psychedelic Therapy
00:50:21 - The distinction between numbing addiction and pleasurable experiences
00:54:45 - The Potential of Pleasure Practices and Psychedelic Assisted Therapy
00:56:52 - Vetting Trauma-Informed Facilitators
01:03:02 - Conclusion & Where to Find Dr. Cat
===
Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex, trauma, and ketamine-assisted therapy, author, yoga teacher, and international speaker dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies. She is the host of podcast Sex Love Psychedelics and the founder of SexLoveYoga.com an online platform for education and programs on relationships, sexuality, and embodiment.
Please enjoy this free guide from Dr. Cat on how to find the right facilitator in sex, psychedelics or plant medicine: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/Vetting%20Your%20Guide
===
Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now:
Free Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/freemasterclass/
Learn More: https://zivameditation.com/
Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/

In this episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This? Emily sits down with Candice Horbacz, mom of 2, philanthropist, entrepreneur, the host of Chatting with Candice, and a former adult film star.
They discuss how to consciously craft a loving, vulnerable relationship with your partner that emphasizes deep coherence, respect and intimacy with each other. Emily and Candice discuss the difference between sex and intimacy and how to navigate societal conditioning, judgment and shame around sexuality.
They also discuss the impact of pornography on kids and how to best approach topics around consent and boundaries in a world where online pornography is more accessible than ever.
What is possible when you do the hard work of crafting a relationship that emphasizes the need for vulnerability, deep self-awareness and open communication?
Find out in this engaging conversation between Emily and Candice.
There are so many insightful topics covered in this episode. What part resonated the most with you? Drop the timestamp in the comments below so the whole community can enjoy it too.
===
For FREE bonus content such as mini-masterclasses from our guests and more, visit https://zivameditation.com/whythis/
===
Have you watched our previous episode with Barrett Foa? Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FQ5qrQf3Fes
===
Timestamps
00:00:00 - Introduction & Why Isn't Everyone Doing This
00:02:18 - How Emily and Candice Met and Started Working Together
00:04:00 - What is the Difference Between Sex and Intimacy?
00:09:03 - Navigating Non-Traditional Relationships
00:15:49 - Consciously Challenging Societal Norms
00:26:05 - Generational Shifts on Masculinity and Femininity
00:26:49 - The Importance of Polarity in Relationships
00:28:04 - How Candice Entered the Adult Entertainment Industry
00:30:08 - How Candice Manifested Becoming a Top Performer
00:35:59 - Handling Societal Judgment in Non-Traditional Careers
00:38:18 - Societal Conditioning and Shame around Sexuality
00:42:03 - Common Criticisms of Pornography
00:50:25 - Discovering Your Sexuality
00:51:14 - How to Talk to Children About Sex, Consent and Relationships
00:52:31 - The Role of Pornography and Consent
00:54:29 - Nuances of Consent and Boundaries
00:56:11 - Accelerated Consent and Reading Nonverbal Cues
00:58:19 - Benefits of Consciously Creating Relationships
01:05:05 - Conclusion
===
Candice Horbacz is an active Lifestyle blogger, Social Media Influencer, and Live Streamer who mainly focuses on cooking amazing and healthy recipes, traveling possibly around the world, and restaurant blogging (recommendations and such).
She is also the mother of 2, host of Chatting with Candice, an entrepreneur, philanthropist and also happens to be a former adult film star.
Candice Horbacz and her husband Erik Horbacz have several business opportunities and philanthropic works outside the social media world. Now, they are both working on media projects such as live TV shows, online streaming programs, social media campaigns, and many others.
Instagram: @candicehorbacz
Website: http://www.candicehorbacz.com/
 
===
 
Ready to start your life-altering Ziva practice? Click here to start now:
Free Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/freemasterclass/
Learn More: https://zivameditation.com/
Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zivameditation/