Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers | Mother Wound Healing After Maternal Narcissism & Family Dysfunction

Matilde Crocini | Mother Wound & Inner Transformation Coach
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Is your narcissistic mother’s drama leaving you feeling anxious, guilty, exhausted and wanting to break free from the abuse? If this is you, you are in the right place!  This podcast is for daughters ready to recover from emotional neglect, maternal narcissism, narcissistic abuse and childhood trauma. The family dysfunction created by a narcissistic mother (or by an immature mother) is the root of your mother wound and childhood trauma.  Follow now to stop maternal narcissism draining your energy.  It’s time for you to break free from your narcissistic mother’s drama, heal the mother wound and love your life again! Follow now and you will learn: To recognise the signs of maternal narcissism How to recover from parentification, childhood emotional neglect and narcissistic abuse.  How to set boundaries with common manipulation tactics used by a narcissistic mother such as triangulation, love-bombing, guilt-tripping, gaslighting, golden child/scapegoat dynamics and more. Follow to get 2X weekly clear episodes, easy to listen first thing in the morning, on your daily walk, or on your commute. All episodes are aimed at giving you the tools to heal the mother wound and love your life again.   A podcast on maternal narcissism you can trust: Voted Best Narcissistic Abuse Podcast of MillionPodcasts! Hosted by Mother Wound & Inner Transformation Coach Matilde Crocini with 15+ years of experience in supporting women healing mother wound.  Here are the best 3 episodes for you to start with👇:   Ep 2  10 Key Signs Your Mother is a Narcissist Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers / 10 Key Signs Your Mother is a Narcissist Ep 148 Is your mother truly a narcissist? – the #1 thing that you need to WATCH OUT for no matter the label Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers / Is your mother truly a narcissist? – the #1 thing that you need to WATCH OUT for no matter the label Ep 155 The 4 main survival patterns daughters of narcissistic mothers must be aware of to heal and break free from abuse Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers / The 4 main survival patterns daughters of narcissistic mothers must be aware of to heal and break free from abuse **No AI was used to create any of the episodes on this podcast, just the good all-fashioned pen and paper alongside years of experience as Mother Wound Coach and as daughter of a narcissistic mother.   With Love🤍

  1. 17h ago

    A holiday safety plan for visits with a narcissistic mother – 10 things that will make the difference

    Are you dreading the holiday season because of having to visit your narcissistic mother? Plan the visits in a way that works for you without adding to the drama. Holiday visits with a dysfunctional family or with a toxic mother are challenging at best and can cause you to approach the holidays with fear and anxiety, causing a setback in your emotional healing from narcissistic abuse. You might wonder how you will survive the season this time and it makes sense. What if you are not able to avoid visiting your narcissistic mother and you feel that setting boundaries at this time might just cause a lot more drama?In this episode you will learn the 10 essential things to plan to reduce the toll of visiting your narcissistic mother or toxic family this holiday season. Discover how much your mother’s drama is still impacting your life today – Complete the Drama Meter Quiz now – It’s FREE and takes less than 3 minutes and you unlock a Free Clarity Call.👉Start The Drama Meter quizLearn how to say No to your mother's drama and yes to your life!Check out our new complete self-paced course “No More Drama”👉Get Course HereEnjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 88How your narcissistic mother can triangulate during holiday season & 5 things you can do to stop it With Love! #narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery

  2. 2d ago

    Why nervous system regulation is essential for boundary setting with a narcissistic mother

    Do you find boundary setting with your narcissistic mother to be energy draining and guilt inducing? Most boundary setting advice will say you need to keep a calm tone and be prepared for your mother toxic reactions. But there’s something no one tells you. Setting boundaries with a narcissistic or immature mother is challenging on your nervous system because of the mother wound and the childhood trauma you carry. And yet boundaries are important to navigate family dysfunction. This is why nervous system regulation is essential to set successful boundaries. In this episode you will learn: The effects of childhood trauma on your nervous system Why it feels almost impossible to keep calm when you are setting a boundary Why you might be right in being afraid of setting boundaries if you don’t know how to regulate your nervous system Why guilt, anxiety and exhaustion hit after setting a boundary The first step no one tells you about that will change everything Discover how much your mother’s drama is still impacting your life today – Complete the Drama Meter Quiz now – It’s FREE and takes less than 3 minutes and you unlock a Free Clarity Call.👉Start The Drama Meter quizLearn how to say No to your mother's drama and yes to your life!Check out our new complete self-paced course “No More Drama”👉Get Course HereEnjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 93This is what happens when you set boundaries with your narcissistic mother - A personal experience & 2 fundamental questions to ask yourself With Love! #narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery

  3. Oct 29

    As a daughter of a narcissistic mother you are at risk of attracting a narcissistic partner – Why & how to prevent it

    Do you want to know why you keep attracting narcissistic people in your life? This is the result of the mother wound you still carry after growing up with a narcissistic mother or with an emotionally immature mother. The childhood trauma that comes from maternal narcissism leaves us living life and relating using coping patterns which work as a magnet in attracting unhealthy relationships. In this episode you will learn: Why you still attract narcissistic relationships in your life How people-pleasing, lack of boundaries, and fear of rejection shape your relationships The "Wounded meets wounded" principle How to break this pattern and start attracting healthy relationships  Complete the FREE Coping Pattern Assessment NOW and unlock the Free Clarity Call👇Your Coping Pattern Assessment Learn how to say No to your mother's drama and yes to your life!Check out our new complete self-paced course “No More Drama”👉Get Course HereEnjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 74How Healing From Maternal Narcissism Impacts Your Romantic Relationships With Love! #narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery

  4. Oct 27

    Healing the mother wound is not selfish – How your narcissistic mother's neglect still impacts your decisions today

    Experiencing childhood neglect by your narcissistic mother impacts your life as an adult and keeps the cycle of pain going even when you are doing your best to stop it, unless you understand this:Doing what it takes to heal the mother wound is not selfish. Suffering childhood neglect, be it emotional or physical, means you have witnessed your narcissistic mother being selfish, emotionally immature and self-absorbed. Being through such childhood trauma, has probably made you promise yourself to never become as selfish as your mother. This resolution is great, but it will also keep you stuck in the cycle of pain. In this episode you will learn: How this “I will never be like my narcissistic mother” resolution is not enough by itself to end the cycle of pain The inevitable impact that suppressing your needs has on your decision-making process today How your inner transformation and healing of the mother wound is the most selfless act Discover how much your mother’s drama is still impacting your life today – Complete the Drama Meter Quiz now – It’s FREE and takes less than 3 minutes and you unlock a Free Clarity Call.👉Start The Drama Meter quizLearn how to say No to your mother's drama and yes to your life!Check out our new complete self-paced course “No More Drama”👉Get Course HereEnjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 43People-Pleasing as a Result of Maternal Narcissism-Recognising it & How to stop With Love! #narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery

  5. Oct 22

    Narcissistic mother with dementia – 3 things you need to know to survive her crazy behaviours

    Dementia makes maternal narcissistic abuse much worse, but that’s not all. If your narcissistic mother is developing a form of dementia, there’s one thing no one has told you that you need to know, especially if you are the primary caregiver. Everyone will tell you how when maternal narcissism and dementia collide, the narcissistic abuse and toxicity skyrocket. The general family disfunction that may have been going on under the surface will become apparent to you. Everyone will tell you the importance of setting boundaries and to take care of yourself. But no one will tell you about one thing that makes all the difference.  In this episode I share 3 things you need to know when caregiving for your narcissistic mother with dementia and Number 3 is the most important of all. This will make a difference not only in navigating the challenges you are facing, but also in your recovery and healing from maternal narcissism, the healing of your childhood trauma and mother wound. Caring for your narcissistic mother with dementia does not have to be the end of your life. There’s a lot you can do to navigate this challenging time and the first step is to get support. Discover how much your mother’s drama is still impacting your life today – Complete the Drama Meter Quiz now – It’s FREE and takes less than 3 minutes.👉Start The Drama Meter quizLearn how to say No to your mother's drama and yes to your life!Check out our new complete self-paced course “No More Drama”👉Get Course HereEnjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 169The challenges of caregiving for your narcissistic mother in a trauma-bonded or enmeshed mother/daughter relationshipWith Love! #narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery

  6. Oct 20

    The challenges of caregiving for your narcissistic mother in a trauma-bonded or enmeshed mother/daughter relationship

    Caregiving for your narcissistic mother is hard enough. What makes it even harder is when you add a trauma bonded or enmeshed mother/daughter relationship to the mix which is common with maternal narcissistic abuse. Maternal enmeshment and trauma-bondage create a toxic relationship dynamic that adds to the challenges of recovering from abuse. When caregiving for your narcissistic mother falls on your shoulders in these types of toxic family dynamics everything gets 10X more difficult on you and recovery requires more and more effort.  Caregiving for your toxic mother will leave you physically exhausted, anxious, and mentally drained. Doing so with maternal enmeshment and in a trauma-bonded relationship will be even worse.  In this episode you will learn: what it means to care for your narcissistic mother when the family dysfunction has led to enmeshment and trauma-bondage,  how the childhood trauma patterns are going to impact your decision making in this situation,  the importance of healing the mother wound to be best prepared for this eventuality.  You may have lost hope to ever have a life, but you can still turn this around. Stop trying to do it on your own and get the support you need. Discover how much your mother’s drama is still impacting your life today – Complete the Drama Meter Quiz now – It’s FREE and takes less than 3 minutes.👉Start The Drama Meter quizLearn how to say No to your mother's drama and yes to your life!Check out our new complete self-paced course “No More Drama”👉Get Course HereEnjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 85What you can expect when caregiving for your narcissistic mother & what to do to lessen the emotional loadWith Love! #narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery

  7. Oct 15

    The true number 1 step to end the drama your narcissistic mother constantly creates with her toxic behaviours – it’s not what you’ve been told

    If you are feeling defeated and exhausted by trying to set boundaries and implementing advice on how to deal with your narcissistic mother's drama there’s a reason – no one told you where you really need to start if you want the rest to work. They haven't told you because most people don’t know this.  Most daughters of narcissistic mothers end up jumping to boundary setting and it only results in the escalation of drama. They are fighting a battle they can’t win, not because they are doing it wrong, but because they are starting from the wrong place.  Breaking free from dysfunctional family dynamics, from maternal narcissism, from the emotional abuse of an immature mother, is a process that needs energy. Healing mother wound requires energy. Recovering from emotional abuse requires energy. Even recognising the signs of abuse requires energy. But what can you do when your energy is drained by your mother’s toxic behaviour?  There’s a way to get you battle-ready, feeling calm and alive, so you can set boundaries that work and create the space to recover and heal the mother wound. The key is your nervous system that has been dealing with the coping patterns from your childhood trauma. That’s where you start. Listen to the episode to learn how you can heal your nervous system and unlock the energy you need to set boundaries and regain control of your life. You deserve it. Learn how to say No to your mother's drama and yes to your life!Check out our new complete self-paced course “No More Drama”👉Get Course HereDiscover how much your mother’s drama is still impacting your life today – Complete the Drama Meter Quiz now – It’s FREE and takes less than 3 minutes.👉Start The Drama Meter quizEnjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 161Is your mother emotionally immature or narcissistic – 5 differences and the 1 common trait that matters for your healing With Love! #narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery

  8. Oct 13

    The trap of parentification for the high achiever – How you can be successful in life while still hurting inside after this toxic family dynamic

    If you have been parentified as a child you might still be hurting and you shouldn’t have to suffer today because of the toxic family dynamic in your past.   Parentification is a toxic family dynamic, common when dealing with narcissistic mothers or with emotionally immature mothers or parents, that puts too much responsibility on the child way too soon inevitably creating childhood trauma.  Often cause by childhood emotional neglect alongside immature parents who are unable to take responsibility, parentification is a clear sign of abuse resulting in trauma that is carried by the parentified adult and will manifest in specific comping patterns leaving you only capable of achieving a certain degree of success, far below what you deserve.  And despite all that you may have achieved so far in your life, you might still be hurting inside.  Patterns such as people-pleasing, perfectionism, extra independence and inability to take a break or delegate will hold you back in every aspect of your life, including your career, relationships, parenting… And in the long run they will also affect your physical and mental health.  In this episode I share: the 3 main traits of the parentified adult child coping pattern,  how they are holding you back today,  your best next step to recover and regain control of your life.   It’s time to truly be successful and thrive like you deserve. Learn how to say No to your mother's drama and yes to your life!Check out our new complete self-paced course “No More Drama”👉Get Course HereDiscover how much your mother’s drama is still impacting your life today – Complete the Drama Meter Quiz now – It’s FREE and takes less than 3 minutes.👉Start The Drama Meter quizEnjoyed this episode? Continue listening by going to Episode 79The Impact of Parentification with a Narcissistic Mother & How to Heal in 5 StepsWith Love! #narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery

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Is your narcissistic mother’s drama leaving you feeling anxious, guilty, exhausted and wanting to break free from the abuse? If this is you, you are in the right place!  This podcast is for daughters ready to recover from emotional neglect, maternal narcissism, narcissistic abuse and childhood trauma. The family dysfunction created by a narcissistic mother (or by an immature mother) is the root of your mother wound and childhood trauma.  Follow now to stop maternal narcissism draining your energy.  It’s time for you to break free from your narcissistic mother’s drama, heal the mother wound and love your life again! Follow now and you will learn: To recognise the signs of maternal narcissism How to recover from parentification, childhood emotional neglect and narcissistic abuse.  How to set boundaries with common manipulation tactics used by a narcissistic mother such as triangulation, love-bombing, guilt-tripping, gaslighting, golden child/scapegoat dynamics and more. Follow to get 2X weekly clear episodes, easy to listen first thing in the morning, on your daily walk, or on your commute. All episodes are aimed at giving you the tools to heal the mother wound and love your life again.   A podcast on maternal narcissism you can trust: Voted Best Narcissistic Abuse Podcast of MillionPodcasts! Hosted by Mother Wound & Inner Transformation Coach Matilde Crocini with 15+ years of experience in supporting women healing mother wound.  Here are the best 3 episodes for you to start with👇:   Ep 2  10 Key Signs Your Mother is a Narcissist Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers / 10 Key Signs Your Mother is a Narcissist Ep 148 Is your mother truly a narcissist? – the #1 thing that you need to WATCH OUT for no matter the label Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers / Is your mother truly a narcissist? – the #1 thing that you need to WATCH OUT for no matter the label Ep 155 The 4 main survival patterns daughters of narcissistic mothers must be aware of to heal and break free from abuse Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers / The 4 main survival patterns daughters of narcissistic mothers must be aware of to heal and break free from abuse **No AI was used to create any of the episodes on this podcast, just the good all-fashioned pen and paper alongside years of experience as Mother Wound Coach and as daughter of a narcissistic mother.   With Love🤍

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