Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

Matilde Crocini
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Hi, I'm Matilde, your host! If, like me, you are a daughter of a narcissistic mother I know you have experienced some degree of abuse as a child, and more than likely these wounds are still controlling your life as an adult…  How do I know?? Because I experienced it first hand and went through years of inner work to see the light again! What I learnt in my personal journey and in over 15 years of experience working with women is that: Undealt with narcissistic mother wounds and attachment trauma are causing you to live a life of struggle, constantly in survival mode. I want you to know that you are not alone in this. Many women are daughters of narcissistic mothers and experience the same difficulties in life as you do.  The good news? You can totally transform your life starting now! In this podcast I share my experiences, reflections and practical content to support you in this moment of Your Life. My invitation is to take what serves you and leave the rest. If you are ready to take back control of your life and Reclaim Your Fullness, let's go! **No AI was used to create any of the episodes on this podcast, just the good all-fashioned pen and paper, my experience, lots of research and the questions and requests from all of you sharing with me! With Love🤍

  1. 1d ago

    Minimising narcissistic abuse: a survival mechanism that will trap you in toxicity

    What is the impact of adapting to maternal narcissistic abuse? This survival mechanism, which has served you powerfully to get to here, has a downside: it impacts your life in more than one way, leaving you trapped in abuse and toxicity not only with your narcissistic mother or family, but also in career, friendships and romantic relationships. In this episode I share the 3 main ways this coping strategy impacts your life even now. The good news is: once you become aware you can take the first step and transform your life for good. 💥Reclaim your life course COMING SOON!Sign up to the Newsletter here be the first to know when it launches:https://mailchi.mp/2f78bdf7e148/mailing-list-sign-up💥Worried your childhood trauma is impacting your relationship? We've got you covered! Check our new podcast THE HE WANTS SHE WANTS MARRIAGE PODCASTHosted by Mark usher & Matilde Crocini - Relationship & Intimacy Experts Listen here👇Apple Podcast - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastSpotify - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastYouTube - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastRelated episodes: Episode 125 Healing the mother wound with a narcissistic mother: 3 things you need Episode 91 Public perfection & isolation as manipulation by your narcissistic mother (secrecy part 2) With Love! #narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse

    24 min

  2. May 19

    10 ways your narcissistic mother puts down your creativity and the impact it has on your life

    Self-sabotage, perfectionism, procrastination... This is the impact of all the times your narcissistic mothers has put down your initiative and creativity. In other words, how she received your ideas when you shared them with her as a child and afterwards has determined how you feel about yourself today. If you feel trapped, hopeless and demotivated in your life, this comes from the conditioning you have received. The good news is, understanding this will transform your life completely. You can heal from your narcissistic mother's toxic abuse and reclaim your superpower today. In this episode I share the solution that will turn self-sabotage, procrastination and perfectionism patterns around. Listen till the end! 💥Reclaim your life course COMING SOON!Sign up to the Newsletter here be the first to know when it launches:https://mailchi.mp/2f78bdf7e148/mailing-list-sign-up💥Worried your childhood trauma is impacting your relationship? We've got you covered! Check our new podcast THE HE WANTS SHE WANTS MARRIAGE PODCASTHosted by Mark usher & Matilde Crocini - Relationship & Intimacy Experts Listen here👇Apple Podcast - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastSpotify - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastYouTube - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastRelated episodes:Episode 135 Unpacking the wound of feeling like a failure for adult children of narcissistic mothers – where it comes from and 6 steps to turn it around from now Episode 123 8 signs the feeling of inadequacy rules your life and 5 steps to heal for daughters of narcissistic mothers With Love! #narcissisticmother #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwound #healingattachmenttrauma #childhoodtrauma #reclaimyourlife #motherdaughter #breakingfreefromabuse

    30 min

  3. May 5

    How a narcissistic mother uses drama to manipulate you & the impact this has on your life

    How much is the drama your mother creates over nothing impacting your life? Are you putting her needs in front of your all the time just to avoid her drama? It is common for a narcissistic mother to use drama control and manipulate those around her, especially her children. This will not only often create patterns of people pleasing in her adult children, but also will impact their life. Self-sabotaging, lack of motivation, over-controlling and people-pleasing pattern are a common consequence of this over-dramatic and manipulative behaviour. As a daughter of a narcissistic mother you don't need the drama anymore, but there's something you need to be aware of, and this is what I'm sharing with you today. 💥Reclaim your life course COMING SOON!Sign up to the Newsletter here be the first to know when it launches:https://mailchi.mp/2f78bdf7e148/mailing-list-sign-up💥Worried your childhood trauma is impacting your relationship? We've got you covered! Check our new podcast THE HE WANTS SHE WANTS MARRIAGE PODCASTHosted by Mark usher & Matilde Crocini - Relationship & Intimacy Experts Listen here👇Apple Podcast - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastSpotify - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastYouTube - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastRelated episodes: Episode 137 20 things your narcissistic mother can say to invalidate your feelings – the impact it has on adult daughters of narcissistic mothers & 3 steps to heal Episode 131 How to stop people pleasing: a 3 steps process you can implement from now 💖Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here:https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/With love!

    31 min

  4. Apr 21

    How to break free from your narcissistic mother's abuse - this will surprise you

    How is your narcissistic mother's abuse impacting your life? Do you want to know why despite all the boundaries and maybe even going no contact, you are still not free from the pain she caused you? Breaking free from your narcissistic mother's abuse and toxicity requires two types of work, and most people stop at the first one, never truly breaking free. In this episode I share with you how to truly break free, all the way to completely transform your life, by taking care of the second and most important aspect of this healing journey. Missing this crucial step will affect everything in life, including your physical wellbeing, your relationships, your career, your parenting and your overall happiness.Taking this step, on the other hand, will completely transform your life!  💥Reclaim your life course COMING SOON!Sign up to the Newsletter here be the first to know when it launches:https://mailchi.mp/2f78bdf7e148/mailing-list-sign-up💥Worried your childhood trauma is impacting your relationship? We've got you covered! Check our new podcast THE HE WANTS SHE WANTS MARRIAGE PODCASTHosted by Mark usher & Matilde Crocini - Relationship & Intimacy Experts Listen here👇Apple Podcast - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastSpotify - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastYouTube - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastRelated episodes:Episode 144 What does not work when healing from maternal narcissism & the 3 steps that will make the real difference - Healing mother wounds 💖Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here:https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/With love!

    31 min

  5. Apr 7

    What to do when your narcissistic mother goes no contact with you

    Has your narcissistic mother cut contact with you? Does that leave you feeling she robbed you of your choice to go no contact? The she robbed you of your chance at closure? The silent treatment is a frequently used way by a narcissistic mother to punish her children, but she may not stop there. She can go all the way as to actively go no contact with you. And this can truly hurt. It will trigger the childhood trauma that is already there, in particular the abandonment wound that's related to having a mother who is emotionally unavailable. In this episode I answer the question of a listener whose mother went no contact, and share one thing that will truly help if this is the case for you. This solution can also be very effective in the case of a prolonged silent treatment. 💥Worried your childhood trauma is impacting your relationship? We've got you covered! Check our new podcast THE HE WANTS SHE WANTS MARRIAGE PODCASTHosted by Mark usher & Matilde Crocini - Relationship & Intimacy Experts Listen here👇Apple Podcast - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastSpotify - The He Wants She Wants Marriage PodcastYouTube - The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast Related episodes:Episode 120 Grieving the mother you never had - the 6 stages of healing mother woundsEpisode 117 When your narcissistic mother tells you that you are the one with problems – this is what’s actually happening! 💌 Sign up to the Newsletter here:https://mailchi.mp/2f78bdf7e148/mailing-list-sign-up💖Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here:https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/With Love!

    24 min

  6. Mar 24

    Is your mother truly a narcissist? – the #1 thing that you need to WATCH OUT for no matter the label

    Are you wondering if your mother is truly a narcissist? How is this confusion impacting your life? Research about narcissism shows that only 2% of people labelled narcissistic are actually diagnosable narcissists. All the rest have narcissistic behaviours or traits. And then there are a bunch of other labels, like bipolar, borderline personality disorder, avoidant and dependant personality disorder etc...So where does your mother fit into all of this?In this episode I share #1 behaviour you have to watch out for, that goes beyond labels. I also share 3 characteristic to spot this behaviour so you can then take the measure you need to protect yourself from it. Worried you might have married a narcissist? Head to THE HE WANTS SHE WANTS MARRIAGE PODCAST and listen to episode 8Have you married a narcissist? How to tell the difference between a narcissistic and an insecure attached Related episodes:Episode 139 Is it true apology or manipulation with a narcissistic mother? How to tell the difference 💌 Sign up to the Newsletter here:https://mailchi.mp/2f78bdf7e148/mailing-list-sign-up 💖Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here:https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/ With Love!

    34 min

  7. Mar 10

    Just because you care for your narcissistic mother doesn’t mean you have to take the abuse

    Do you feel setting a boundary with your narcissistic mother would mean you don't care for her? Or that it would make you a bad daughter? Does that result in you silently taking abuse after abuse all in the name of caring for her? One of the things I get told very often is: I’m not able to set boundaries because I care for her too much.Something that is often assumed is that setting a boundary (which could go all the way to no contact or not) means you don't care about your mother. The thing is: you can still care, but you don’t have to take the abuse. We end up mixing caring and remaining silent in the face of abuse because as "good daughters" we feel we need to be responsible for our mother's emotionality. Her emotionality is not and never should have been your responsibility. Feeling responsible for your narcissistic mother emotionality is a result of enmeshment.  In this episode I share 3 steps to break the pattern of enmeshment and reclaim your own life. Your mother is not the protagonist in your life, YOU ARE! Enmeshment with my narcissistic family nearly broke my marriage. If you want to know what helped us going through hell and coming out stronger than ever listen to this new episode of THE HE WANTS SHE WANTS MARRIAGE PODCASTHosted by Mark usher & Matilde Crocini - Relationship & Intimacy Experts👇Watch on YouTube - Navigating relationship challenges with these 3 powerful agreements Listen here👉 Navigating relationship challenges with these 3 powerful agreements With Love!

    25 min

  8. Feb 24

    How your narcissistic mother takes your energy & #1 thing you can do now to reclaim your life

    Do you feel your narcissistic mother drains all your energy leaving none for you? A narcissistic mother takes up all your energy, even from a distance, and leaves none for you to fully live your life. So, what can be done? In this episode I will share with you how you can reclaim your life, beyond the setting of boundaries, which you may have done already. Without this steps even well set boundaries may fail in giving you back your life. What I will give you today is something way more effective than no contact and that can be applied no matter what your level of contact is. There are two steps you can take today to reclaim your life and energy, and stop feeling exhausted and drained after any interaction with your narcissistic mother, or even after thinking about her.  Related episodes: Episode 12 - When Your Inner Critic Has Your Narcissistic Mother's Voice NEW PODCAST💥Listen to THE HE WANTS SHE WANTS MARRIAGE PODCAST Hosted by Mark usher & Matilde Crocini - Relationship & Intimacy Experts Listen here👇 Apple Podcast - The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast Spotify - The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast YouTube - The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast  With Love!

    27 min
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Hi, I'm Matilde, your host! If, like me, you are a daughter of a narcissistic mother I know you have experienced some degree of abuse as a child, and more than likely these wounds are still controlling your life as an adult…  How do I know?? Because I experienced it first hand and went through years of inner work to see the light again! What I learnt in my personal journey and in over 15 years of experience working with women is that: Undealt with narcissistic mother wounds and attachment trauma are causing you to live a life of struggle, constantly in survival mode. I want you to know that you are not alone in this. Many women are daughters of narcissistic mothers and experience the same difficulties in life as you do.  The good news? You can totally transform your life starting now! In this podcast I share my experiences, reflections and practical content to support you in this moment of Your Life. My invitation is to take what serves you and leave the rest. If you are ready to take back control of your life and Reclaim Your Fullness, let's go! **No AI was used to create any of the episodes on this podcast, just the good all-fashioned pen and paper, my experience, lots of research and the questions and requests from all of you sharing with me! With Love🤍

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  • Creator
    Matilde Crocini
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    161
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © Matilde Crocini - Women Reclaiming Their Fullness
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    Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

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