Rebranding Middle Age

Krista O'Reilly-Davi-Digui

The Rebranding Middle Age Podcast is for growth-minded midlife women who have outgrown pushing, trying harder, believing you need to be "fixed," or never feeling good enough. Women like you who are ready to slow down, listen inward, and practice a kinder, soul-honouring way of being in your body and life. It offers a mix of story, evidence-based education, and practical application to help you quiet the conditioning and noise so that you befriend yourself - be your True Self and be on your own side - midlife and beyond. Hosted by Krista O'Reilly-Davi-Digui, holistic mind-body-life coach, founder of the Brave + Beautiful Community for brave and curious midlife women committed to valuing and trusting themselves and handcrafting meaningful, soul-honouring lives.

  1. 5d ago

    A Conversation About Grief Part 2: Living Forward After Significant Loss

    Sensitive Content: child loss, suicide loss, grief, trauma I'm talking with my friend, Kathy Escobar, again in this episode. This month marks 7 years since the death of our sons, Jairus and Jared. They died by suicide five days apart from each other and are the reason Kathy and I met early in our grieving and healing process. A beautiful gift in a horrific season of life. This is part two of a two-part series where we talk about looking back and then living forward. As I shared last time, it feels hard to share such a short, incomplete conversation about such an important, life-changing topic. But this is what we had capacity for. Losing our kids is a deepest fear come true. It's horrible. It changes you and your life. And while it is not easy to look back and remember, our purpose for sharing is to offer hope to others and tell you that though it feels impossible, you can survive this pain and grief. In this episode, we talk about living forward after the death of our sons and some of the most important truths and practices that have helped us along the way. Some of the things we explore: Deciding early on that we wouldn't set up camp in our grief and pain. And that grief and pain are part of our story but not the fullness of it.Allowing joy even in the depths of grief. How I (Krista) would have panic attacks when I allowed joy into my body but I persisted in this anyway.Shame can be a big part of a parent's experience when their child dies by suicide or accidental overdose. And how shame is a false sense of control.The practice of paradox or "both/and" has been key for both us in surviving and living forward. For example, we can experience anger or rage about son's dying and also have empathy for what they were feeling and experiencing.Not everyone needs to know your story.The importance of letting our souls lead the healing process. And making space to remember our kids and finding our unique ways of staying connected to them after they are gone.How this type of loss and grief is a process that involves constant metabolizing or integrating of deep pain. There is no end-point. As I like to say, healing is a practice not an end-point.Finally, the truth that we need each other. We need other people to help us through this type of trauma, pain, and loss. Be kind to yourself. And if you're navigating the death of your child or suicide loss of a loved one, please connect to a grief circle of people going through a similar experience. xo Resources Grief Support: Tools For Suicide or Child Loss | A Life In Progress® My Beautiful Son's Life Has Ended | A Life In Progress® 19 Bittersweet Gifts As I Walked My Son Home | A Life In Progress® Connect with Krista: Instagram: @a_life_in_progressFacebook: @alifeinprogressca and @rebrandingmiddleageYouTube: @ALifeinProgressWebsite: alifeinprogress.ca Connect with Kathy: Website (find her social handles and books here): kathyescobar.comHer podcast Soul + Practice: listen here Subscribe and Review If you loved this episode, hit subscribe and leave a review. Reviews help more growth-minded midlife women like you discover this show. Support the show: https://buymeacoffee.com/alifeinprogress

  2. Oct 19

    A Conversation About Grief Part 1: Looking Back 7 Years After the Death of Our Sons

    Sensitive Content: child loss, suicide loss, grief, trauma I'm talking with my friend, Kathy Escobar, today. This month, and this week for me, marks 7 years since the death of our sons, Jairus and Jared. They died by suicide five days apart from each other and are the reason Kathy and I met early in our grieving and healing process. A beautiful gift in a horrific season of life. This is part one of a two-part series where we talk about looking back and then living forward. In this episode we spend some time looking back and sharing bits and pieces of our experience. We choose to talk openly and honestly about grief, suicide loss, and what it takes to live forward because we know that other parents who need this are listening and watching. It's challenging to share a short conversation about such an important, life-changing topic because there is so much to say. So much nuance and complexity that could be helpful for others. But it's also draining for us so we're offering what we have capacity for and trusting it is enough. Our aim for sharing is to offer hope to others. And to say you are not alone if you're going through this. It's hard and horrible. It might feel like you'll die because of how intense and overwhelming the pain of losing your child is. But you can survive this. Some of the things we explore: We share a bit about our sons, who they were, and what life was like for them in the years leading up to their deaths.The surreal moment of police coming to your door.There is life before, and there is life after. We are changed, our families are changed, our experience of life has irrevocably altered.What was most helpful in the early years (and what wasn't).The necessity of community or safe spaces to tell the truth without advice-giving or pat answers.How we all grieve differently so making space for each family member to grieve in their own way is important.Trauma therapy was a must-have for both of us. Join us for part two next week. Take good care of yourself. xo Support the show: https://buymeacoffee.com/alifeinprogress Resources Grief Support: Tools For Suicide or Child Loss | A Life In Progress® My Beautiful Son's Life Has Ended | A Life In Progress® 19 Bittersweet Gifts As I Walked My Son Home | A Life In Progress® Connect with Krista: Instagram: @a_life_in_progressFacebook: @alifeinprogressca and @rebrandingmiddleageYouTube: @ALifeinProgressWebsite: alifeinprogress.ca Connect with Kathy: Website (find her social handles and books here): kathyescobar.comHer podcast Soul + Practice: listen here Subscribe and Review If you loved this episode, hit subscribe and leave a review. Reviews help more growth-minded midlife women like you discover this show.

  3. Oct 12

    How to Hear and Trust Your Inner Voice Part 2: Tools That Help You Hear Your Inner Wisdom

    Join a community of growth-minded midlife women: https://www.alifeinprogress.ca/community/ This is Part two of a two-part series on learning to hear and trust your inner voice. The world is noisy, and it can be hard to hear yourself in the middle of it all. Learning to hear and trust your inner voice isn't something that happens by accident. It requires creating space, learning to recognize how your own wisdom speaks to you, and developing a practice of listening and responding to what you hear. In Part 1 of this series, we explored why your inner voice matters and the different ways your inner wisdom might show up. In this episode, we're getting practical. I'll share tools and practices that can help you quiet the noise, connect with yourself, and build a more trusting relationship with your inner wisdom. We'll explore why making space for yourself is non-negotiable, how to capture the ideas and insights that come to you, and how simple rhythms and practices can help you hear what might otherwise get lost in the busyness of everyday life. You'll also learn why this work doesn't require perfection, how to distinguish inner wisdom from fear and urgency, and why having a wise, supportive circle can make a difference. Because midlife is an invitation to get more honest about who you are, what is and isn't working, and the kind of life you want to create. Learning to hear and trust your inner voice is an essential part of this process. In this episode, you'll learn: Why creating intentional, uninterrupted space for yourself is essential to hearing your inner voice.Simple tools and practices to help you capture, explore, and integrate your inner wisdom.How to build a consistent listening practice without needing to get it right or do it perfectly.Ways to recognize the difference between an inner nudge and fear-driven urgency.Why the right people can help you access your own wisdom without telling you what to do.What to remember when your inner voice feels quiet or life gets difficult. You don't need to overhaul your life or add another long list of things to do. Start where you are. Create a little space, pay attention, and practice listening. Over time, these small, intentional choices can help you build a relationship with yourself that becomes an increasingly reliable anchor through all the seasons of life. Where could you create a little more space to hear yourself and what might you discover if you gave yourself the chance to listen? Resources *links to some of the resources I shared The Sacred Medicine Oracle The Dreaming Way Seasonal Mindfulness Journals Lunar Abundance The Life Visioning Course Connect with Krista: Instagram: @a_life_in_progressFacebook: @alifeinprogressca and @rebrandingmiddleageYouTube: @ALifeinProgressWebsite: alifeinprogress.ca Subscribe and Review If you loved this episode, hit subscribe and leave a review. Reviews help more growth-minded midlife women like you discover this show. Support the show: https://buymeacoffee.com/alifeinprogress

  4. Oct 5

    How to Hear and Trust Your Inner Voice Part 1: Learning to Recognize Your Inner Wisdom

    Join a community of growth-minded midlife women: https://www.alifeinprogress.ca/community/ This is Part one of a two-part series on learning to hear and trust your inner voice. In this episode, we’ll lay the foundation by exploring what inner wisdom can sound, feel, and look like, how to distinguish it from fear and conditioning, and the stages we move through as we develop self-trust. What if the next step in your growth isn’t finding more answers outside of yourself but learning to listen inward and hear your inner wisdom? If you want to heal, grow, become, and lead your life from your True Self, you need to learn how to recognize, develop, and trust your inner voice. But that can be easier said than done. There are so many voices competing for your attention: fear, old stories, conditioning, your inner critic, other people’s expectations, and the constant noise of the world around you. And when you’ve spent years looking outside yourself for answers, it can take time to learn what your wisdom actually looks, sounds, and feels like. In this episode, we’re laying the foundation for that work. We’ll explore what inner wisdom can look, sound, and feel like and how to begin discerning it from fear, urgency, conditioning, and habitual thought. You’ll also learn about: The conscious mind, subconscious mind, and unconscious mind.Or you can think about multiple sources of wisdom available to you as mind, heart, body, soul/True Self, and spirit.Why inner wisdom may show up as a deep knowing, a physical sensation, an image, a sudden thought, a sense of direction, or even a voice in your mind.The qualities that can help you recognize genuine wisdom: it tends to feel loving, grounded, clear, and powerful and it leads toward healthy, wise action.Why your conscious mind can quickly jump in with objections after you receive a piece of inner guidance and why capturing that wisdom immediately can help you develop self-trust.The difference between living from conscious awareness and recognizing the deeper patterns, beliefs, and intuition operating beneath the surface.The four stages of growth, from living on autopilot to having your True Self become your more natural way of being.Why awareness and self-compassion need to companion each other if you don't want to quit when you must navigate the uncomfortable parts of change.Why growth and healing aren’t linear, and how deeper self-trust can open the door to unexpected shifts in understanding and freedom.Why learning to listen inward is essential if you want to create a vision for your life that actually reflects you rather than what you’ve been conditioned to want. NOTE: In this episode I share the concept of the conscious mind being responsible for a very small percentage of your behaviour. The precise numbers cannot be proven. The point is to consider how much of your life is driven/motivated by beliefs and habits/patterns that you are not even aware of. And, how your agency and freedom expands when you do the work to bring awareness to some of these deeply rooted beliefs and patterns. The goal is to become more familiar with your own unique way of receiving wisdom, so you can begin trusting yourself, and walking in more freedom and joy. And the more you listen, the more you learn to distinguish your True Self from the voices that have been shaping your life for you. Ultimately, this is about creating a different relationship with yourself. One rooted in awareness, compassion, a commitment to messy practice, and the freedom to be who you truly are. So, what happens when you get quiet enough to listen? What has your inner wisdom been trying to tell you? And what would change if you learned to trust your inner wisdom and act on what you hear? Resources Registration for Autumn Session of the Brave + Beautiful Community is now open! Become a member. We begin our new session on October 12th. Connect with Krista: Instagram: @a_life_in_progressFacebook: @alifeinprogressca and @rebrandingmiddleageYouTube: @ALifeinProgressWebsite: alifeinprogress.ca Subscribe and Review If you loved this episode, hit subscribe and leave a review. Reviews help more growth-minded midlife women like you discover this show. Support the show: https://buymeacoffee.com/alifeinprogress

  5. Sep 25

    Choose Yourself and Live a Life That is True to Yourself.

    Join a community of growth-minded midlife women: https://www.alifeinprogress.ca/community/ This is Day 4 of the Quiet the Noise Challenge. Years of over-functioning, overriding our own needs, or not honouring the truth of who we are and our wiring and capacity, create significant wear and tear on our minds, hearts, and bodies. This often leaves us depleted, discouraged, and running on autopilot. This level of “wear and tear” is not resolved in a week. If you are experiencing burnout or deep exhaustion, it may not be resolved in a year. But you need to start somewhere. You need to slow down, shore up leaks, clear what you no longer want to carry/tolerate/practice. And you need to create the space/spaciousness in your days, weeks, and year to listen inward and respond with wisdom to what you hear each step of the way. I hope that you will walk away from this four-day challenge feeling relieved, seen, and inspired. That you’ll leave with a renewed sense of clarity about how to come back into alignment with the life you truly want and the pace you honestly need. Day 4 invites you to look back, look forward, and live present. Resources Registration for Autumn Session of the Brave + Beautiful Community is now open! Become a member. Join the Challenge live and get the notes and prompts here: https://www.alifeinprogress.ca/quiet-the-noise/ Connect with Krista: Instagram: @a_life_in_progressFacebook: @alifeinprogressca and @rebrandingmiddleageYouTube: @ALifeinProgressWebsite: alifeinprogress.ca Subscribe and Review If you loved this episode, hit subscribe and leave a review. Reviews help more growth-minded midlife women like you discover this show.

  6. Sep 24

    Name What You're Ready to Clear or Release

    Join a community of growth-minded midlife women: https://www.alifeinprogress.ca/community/ This is Day 3 of the Quiet the Noise Challenge. Be as honest with yourself as possible about what is no longer serving you. What you want to let go of. Even if you feel afraid. Even if you don’t yet know HOW something could be possible for you. Name it anyway. Before we add in, we must clear or create space. Clear mental, emotional, physical, financial space/capacity for what you truly want. For what brings you joy, keeps you healthy, helps you feel fully alive, excited, on purpose. For example, you may need to let go of relationships, distractions, habits, or physical clutter that prevent you from living fully or on purpose. Say no to wonderful opportunities because they don’t support the vision you have for who you want to be or become or the life you truly want. Let go of inner judgment – all the “shoulds” and doing things out of obligation or to keep the peace even though your health pays the price. Or release your old people-pleasing, comparing, self-judging patterns. Day 3 invites you to Name the noise. Take action to quiet or clear the noise. Notice how you feel and continue listening inward for wisdom and direction. Resources Registration for Autumn Session of the Brave + Beautiful Community is now open! Become a member. Join the Challenge live and get the notes and prompts here: https://www.alifeinprogress.ca/quiet-the-noise/ Connect with Krista: Instagram: @a_life_in_progressFacebook: @alifeinprogressca and @rebrandingmiddleageYouTube: @ALifeinProgressWebsite: alifeinprogress.ca Subscribe and Review If you loved this episode, hit subscribe and leave a review. Reviews help more growth-minded midlife women like you discover this show.

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The Rebranding Middle Age Podcast is for growth-minded midlife women who have outgrown pushing, trying harder, believing you need to be "fixed," or never feeling good enough. Women like you who are ready to slow down, listen inward, and practice a kinder, soul-honouring way of being in your body and life. It offers a mix of story, evidence-based education, and practical application to help you quiet the conditioning and noise so that you befriend yourself - be your True Self and be on your own side - midlife and beyond. Hosted by Krista O'Reilly-Davi-Digui, holistic mind-body-life coach, founder of the Brave + Beautiful Community for brave and curious midlife women committed to valuing and trusting themselves and handcrafting meaningful, soul-honouring lives.

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