Morrow Marriage | Disrupting Divorce

Cass & Kathryn Morrow
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Cass Morrow, Author of DISRUPTING DIVORCE | The NEW ManSaving Struggling Sexless and Toxic MarriagesAvailable on Amazon: https://a.co/d/31vm4bV Saving Struggling, Sexless & Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket FenceKeeping Families TogetherAvailable on Amazon: https://a.co/d/f0diMvp Brings you MORROW MARRIAGE: The NEW Marriage, with Cass & Kathryn.Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of Hell to save their marriage and keep their family together while battling narcissism, emotional abuse, reactive abuse, physical and sexual assault. They learned a lot during these toxic times and the restraining order against Cass... mess up and he would go to jail. Seven separations, two divorce lawyers... HELL. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story. Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today.Inspiring couples around the world...If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and sexless - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse?Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life.Join their exclusive Free Men's Community and Free Women's Community at https://go.morrowmarriage.com Take advantage of all the free resources to support this podcast and their books. 

  1. 1d ago

    How To Fix Resentment Fast | You're Keeping The Wrong List | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep470

    Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you! Scorekeeping is Bad, But Use It When it’s For Good! You've got a list. You didn't write it down, but you could recite it—every time they forgot, every time they didn't ask, every time you were the only one who tried. And the longer it gets, the more certain you are that you're right. In Ep470, Cass and Kathryn take the thing that's quietly destroying your marriage and turn it around: the same attentiveness, pointed the other direction, is one of the most powerful tools they teach. 🔑 What we cover: • What scorekeeping actually is, and the sequence it always runs • Pull back, shut down, cope, boil over, lecture • The test for whether your evidence is real: do you still feel it in three days? • Two signs the list is the bad kind • The Lovers List—Cass's tool, and Kathryn's "rose colored glasses" • Why "you're beautiful" is where you start, not where you stop • How to write a Mother's or Father's Day card that couldn't be about anyone else • The pause: when you're going over the edge, go read your list • Kathryn's honest caveat about when this won't work • Why every marriage they rebuild starts with what was good You can't bridge the gap with a list of everything they got wrong. 💬 Free training — rebuild trust, intimacy & leadership (start here): 👉 https://start.morrowmarriage.com/vslshortoptin 🔗 Courses, tools, books & our story: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/resources 🎙️ Full podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4 🔔 Subscribe — daily marriage help. No filter. #scorekeeping #resentment #gratitude #marriageadvice #marriagehelp #appreciation #relationshiptools #connection #husbandandwife #loveyourspouse #marriagepodcast #CassMorrow #MorrowMarriage #TheNEWMarriage MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.  Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today. Inspiring couples around the world... If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse? Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life. Have your own questions or topics you would like us to cover?  Let us know here: https://forms.gle/7R8GBAdmQRkuZ3NFA

  2. 3d ago

    You Recorded The Fight To Prove You Were Right | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep469

    Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you! Recording A Fight: Right Or Wrong! You hit record because you were finally going to have proof. And the second that phone went face-down on the table, you started behaving—measured, calm, reasonable—while you waited for them to hand you the exact reaction you were looking for. That's why the recording never works. In Ep469, Cass and Kathryn take on a question they get constantly, including the one recording of their own worst night that actually changed something. 🔑 What we cover: • Why recording puts you on your best behavior—and why that ruins the evidence • The man with a restraining order who couldn't name one thing he'd done • The five-minute "fight" that turned out to be nothing at all • The tells we hear every time: patronizing, passive aggression, wit as a weapon • Kathryn's instruction: if you're going to record, don't perform • The night Cass lost it before leaving for Africa—and what Kathryn did while recording • Why he watched two minutes of it and turned the car around • Recording to be right vs. recording for a breakthrough • What she did when he came home that most people won't do ⚖️ One note: Recording laws differ by state, and roughly a dozen require every person in the conversation to consent. Check your own state's law before you record anything. This isn't legal advice. 💛 Safety Note: If you're recording because you genuinely aren't safe, that's not the motive problem we're talking about here. Documenting what's happening to you is a different thing, and it's valid. 💬 Free training — rebuild trust, intimacy & leadership (start here): 👉 https://start.morrowmarriage.com/vslshortoptin 🔗 Courses, tools, books & our story: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/resources 🎙️ Full podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4 🔔 Subscribe — daily marriage help. No filter. #recordingfights #marriageadvice #marriagehelp #accountability #communication #gaslighting #conflictresolution #narcissism #husbandandwife #breakthrough #marriagepodcast #CassMorrow #MorrowMarriage #TheNEWMarriage #DisruptingDivorce MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.  Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today. Inspiring couples around the world... If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse? Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life. Have your own questions or topics you would like us to cover?  Let us know here: https://forms.gle/7R8GBAdmQRkuZ3NFA

  3. 4d ago

    You're Not Pulling Away, You're Pushing Her Away | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep468

    Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you! The Actual Path From Insecurity To Betrayal! The toilet paper roll was hung the wrong way. She was ten minutes late. The thermostat had been changed. None of it means anything on its own, and you're not accusing anyone—yet. You're just keeping track. That's where it starts. In Ep468, Cass and Kathryn walk through the most common path from insecurity to betrayal, step by step, using their own marriage as the case study—including the part where the "evidence" turned out to be a five-year-old and a clean toilet. 🔑 What we cover: • Why "proof she's cheating" and "proof she loves me" are the exact same search • Stacking evidence: the vault you're filling without realizing it • What it does to a partner when a normal, honest answer is never good enough • Checking her location, and why being proven wrong only makes the insecurity worse • Why you can't win an argument against your own mind using facts • Kathryn's honest admission about what she thought about, and didn't do • How a betrayal actually begins—and why it doesn't start with a third person • "I'm not pulling away, you're pushing me away" • The last mistake: smothering someone who needed space to breathe If you're looking for proof that you're loved, this is what the search is costing your marriage. 💬 Free training — rebuild trust, intimacy & leadership (start here): 👉 https://start.morrowmarriage.com/vslshortoptin 🔗 Courses, tools, books & our story: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/resources 🎙️ Full podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4 🔔 Subscribe — daily marriage help. No filter. #insecurity #jealousy #betrayal #marriageadvice #marriagehelp #trust #relationshipadvice #emotionalaffair #husbandandwife #anxiousattachment #marriagepodcast #CassMorrow #MorrowMarriage #TheNEWMarriage #DisruptingDivorce MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.  Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today. Inspiring couples around the world... If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse? Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life. Have your own questions or topics you would like us to cover?  Let us know here: https://forms.gle/7R8GBAdmQRkuZ3NFA

  4. Aug 6

    But I Didn’t F*ck Her | Do You Have To Sleep With Someone To Cheat? | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep467

    Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you! "But I Didn’t F*ck Her." It's the defense men reach for when confronted with betrayal, and it's the wrong measurement. Nothing physical happened and something was still broken—the compliments, the messages, the hidden conversations, the version of yourself you reserved for someone else. In Ep467 of The 'NEW' Marriage, Cass and Kathryn clear the air on their own story and answer the questions people keep asking sideways: what actually happened, what he actually did, and why he still says he cheated. 🔑 What we cover: • Why betrayal is far bigger than the physical act • What Cass actually did—and why he still says "I cheated" • Why he defended his behavior for years (and why it wasn't about disagreeing with her) • What Kathryn didn't know: that showing him her pain made him feel worse • Where the line for physical harm sits, and why they still debate it • Why "he never hit me" and "I wasn't beaten as a kid" stem from the same blind spot • Diagnoses, medication, and why they believe labels can be peeled off • Why a 40-second clip will never carry a 14-year story If you've ever been told "nothing happened" and known deep down that something did, start here. 💬 Free training — rebuild trust, intimacy & leadership (start here): 👉 https://start.morrowmarriage.com/vslshortoptin 🔗 Courses, tools, books & our story: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/resources 🎙️ Full podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4 🔔 Subscribe — daily marriage help. No filter. #cheating #betrayal #emotionalaffair #marriageadvice #marriagehelp #trust #transparency #healingfrombetrayal #husbandandwife #accountability #marriagepodcast #CassMorrow #MorrowMarriage #TheNEWMarriage MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.  Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today. Inspiring couples around the world... If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse? Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life. Have your own questions or topics you would like us to cover?  Let us know here: https://forms.gle/7R8GBAdmQRkuZ3NFA

  5. Aug 4

    If You Have To Explain It, You're Not There Yet | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep466

    Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you! Authenticity Is Ruining Marriages! You've been doing the work. Reading, listening, showing up. And you keep telling people about it—"I'm doing this for me," "I can't control my partner." It sounds healthy. It sounds like growth. And everyone around you can hear that you're not there yet. In Ep466 of The 'NEW' Marriage, Cass and Kathryn take on the flip side of everything they usually teach: inauthenticity ruins marriages, and so does chasing authenticity before you've actually arrived. 🔑 What we cover: • The exact phrases that out you as not-yet-changed • Why you don't have to say "I can't control my partner" if you actually believe it • The personal-trainer test—announcing the work vs. doing the work • Why growth is exponential, not linear, and why year one feels like nothing • The coaching moment: "Why did you have to say that?" • How "I'm the one doing everything" becomes the justification for quitting • The restaurant story—a man six years divorced who still hasn't put it down • Why it's completely fine to say "I don't know who I am yet" • Kathryn's closer: smart people don't have to tell you they're smart 💬 Free training — rebuild trust, intimacy & leadership (start here): 👉 https://start.morrowmarriage.com/vslshortoptin 🔗 Courses, tools, books & our story: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/resources 🎙️ Full podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4 🔔 Subscribe — daily marriage help. No filter. #Authenticity #PersonalGrowth #MarriageAdvice #SelfImprovement #MarriageHelp #Identity #Accountability #SavingYourMarriage #HusbandAndWife #Growth #CassMorrow #MorrowMarriage #KathrynMorrow #TheNewMarriage #DisruptingDivorce MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.  Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today. Inspiring couples around the world... If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse? Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life. Have your own questions or topics you would like us to cover?  Let us know here: https://forms.gle/7R8GBAdmQRkuZ3NFA

  6. Aug 3

    His Anger Isn't About The Kids | Stop Correcting Him | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep465

    Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you! Defensiveness, Getting Angry and Disrespect! He snaps at your five-year-old over nothing. You bring it up gently, at the right moment, in private—and he still hears an attack and tells you you're disrespecting him. So you stop bringing it up, and the tension just moves in and lives with you. In Ep465 of The 'NEW' Marriage, Cass and Kathryn answer a real listener question and hand back a reframe that changes what you're actually solving. 🔑 What we cover: • Why the anger almost certainly isn't about your child • Short fuses vs. long fuses, and what happens when mom starts shielding the kids • What defensiveness actually is: the mouth opens and the ears close • Why better timing won't rescue a conversation with someone who's already angry • Where to look instead—the areas of your marriage you've quietly written off • Why criticism lands soft when you're connected and lands like contempt when you're not • Kathryn's one-line move that stops Cass mid-spiral without correcting him • Kathryn's honest three weeks, and what Cass said instead of a lecture • The close: you don't have to correct your spouse, you have to connect with your spouse (Catch up on the Insecurity Series: Ep463: https://youtu.be/VFijE8WXuFc | Ep464: https://youtu.be/GZFvgVwKjDI) 💬 Free training — rebuild trust, intimacy & leadership (start here): 👉 https://start.morrowmarriage.com/vslshortoptin 🔗 Courses, tools, books & our story: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/resources 🎙️ Full podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4 🔔 Subscribe — daily marriage help. No filter. #Defensiveness #AngerInMarriage #ParentingTogether #MarriageAdvice #MarriageHelp #ShortFuse #Communication #Respect #HusbandAndWife #Parenting #CassMorrow #MorrowMarriage #KathrynMorrow #TheNewMarriage #DisruptingDivorce MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.  Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today. Inspiring couples around the world... If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse? Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life. Have your own questions or topics you would like us to cover?  Let us know here: https://forms.gle/7R8GBAdmQRkuZ3NFA

  7. Jul 29

    When Is A Boundary Unreasonable For Insecurity | Insecurity vs Control | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep464

    Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you! When Is A Boundary Unreasonable For Insecurity! She asks you to cut off one friend. You do it. Six months later there's a new name on the list. That's the tell: the friend was never the problem. In Ep464 of The 'NEW' Marriage, Cass and Kathryn walk through a real coaching case and draw the line between a boundary that protects a relationship and one that just manages someone's insecurity. 🔑 What we cover: • The full story: a coach, a late-night compliment text, and a fight that's still going 18 months later • Why the friend is almost always a proxy, and how to spot it • "If it's not this person, it's the next one"—the test that ends the debate • Owning the optics even when you did nothing wrong • Cass and Kathryn's actual rule: no his-friends and her-friends, only collective friends • You're allowed to be insecure. You're not allowed to be in and out. • How to set the real boundary—about the future, not about the friend • When she says she's done: the cool-off, and why chasing makes it worse • Why "go clean up your baggage" is a trap (everybody has some) (Catch up on Ep463: Powerful At Work, Powerless At Home — https://youtu.be/VFijE8WXuFc) 💬 Free training — rebuild trust, intimacy & leadership (start here): 👉 https://start.morrowmarriage.com/vslshortoptin 🔗 Courses, tools, books & our story: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/resources 🎙️ Full podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4 🔔 Subscribe — daily marriage help. No filter. #Boundaries #InsecurityInRelationships #RelationshipAdvice #Controlling #Jealousy #MarriageAdvice #CouplesAdvice #DatingAdvice #Commitment #MarriageHelp #CassMorrow #MorrowMarriage #KathrynMorrow #TheNewMarriage #DisruptingDivorce MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.  Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today. Inspiring couples around the world... If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse? Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life. Have your own questions or topics you would like us to cover?  Let us know here: https://forms.gle/7R8GBAdmQRkuZ3NFA

  8. Jul 27

    Why Confident Men Feel Insecure At Home | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep463

    Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you! Why Are Powerful Men And Women, Insecure At Home! You run a company, close deals, and make hard calls all day. Then you walk in your front door and one look from her puts you on your heels. That's not weakness. That's insecurity, and insecurity is just fear you've never named. In Ep463 of The 'NEW' Marriage, Cass breaks down why powerful men and women fall apart at home while they dominate everywhere else, and what to actually do about it. 🔑 What we cover: • Why insecurity is not about her cheating (that's a symptom, not the definition) • How you built confidence in the real world and skipped that process at home • The CEO wife and the checked-out husband: what was really going on with both of them • Why blame is the mask insecurity wears • What happens when you define yourself by your job, your spouse, and your kids • Why performing works at work for a while and never works at home • The real fear underneath it: not losing her, but not knowing who you are • How to point the same attitude that built your career at your private life If you're the guy everyone else calls strong and you feel like a stranger in your own house, this one's for you. 💬 Free training — rebuild trust, intimacy & leadership (start here): 👉 https://start.morrowmarriage.com/vslshortoptin 🔗 Courses, tools, books & our story: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/resources 🎙️ Full podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4 🔔 Subscribe — daily marriage help. No filter. #InsecurityInRelationships #ConfidenceForMen #MarriageAdvice #MarriageHelp #SuccessfulMen #ImposterSyndrome #Identity #HusbandAndWife #CassMorrow #MorrowMarriage #TheNewMarriage #KathrynMorrow #DisruptingDivorce #RelationshipAdvice MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.  Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today. Inspiring couples around the world... If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse? Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life. Have your own questions or topics you would like us to cover?  Let us know here: https://forms.gle/7R8GBAdmQRkuZ3NFA

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Cass Morrow, Author of DISRUPTING DIVORCE | The NEW ManSaving Struggling Sexless and Toxic MarriagesAvailable on Amazon: https://a.co/d/31vm4bV Saving Struggling, Sexless & Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket FenceKeeping Families TogetherAvailable on Amazon: https://a.co/d/f0diMvp Brings you MORROW MARRIAGE: The NEW Marriage, with Cass & Kathryn.Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of Hell to save their marriage and keep their family together while battling narcissism, emotional abuse, reactive abuse, physical and sexual assault. They learned a lot during these toxic times and the restraining order against Cass... mess up and he would go to jail. Seven separations, two divorce lawyers... HELL. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story. Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today.Inspiring couples around the world...If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and sexless - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse?Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life.Join their exclusive Free Men's Community and Free Women's Community at https://go.morrowmarriage.com Take advantage of all the free resources to support this podcast and their books. 

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  • Creator
    Cass & Kathryn Morrow
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    472
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Morrow Marriage | Disrupting Divorce
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