📞 https://www.jordanapodaca.com/ If they really loved you, how could they cheat on you? Part of what makes that question so difficult is that we use the word love to describe several different things. Someone can feel affection, attachment, attraction, and tenderness toward you while still failing miserably at honesty, loyalty, fidelity, sacrifice, and responsibility. In this episode, I break down those different meanings of love, what betrayal actually changes about the relationship you thought you had, and one of the most important questions to ask if you're trying to determine whether someone is truly capable of changing. If you're struggling to make sense of betrayal and want deeper, individualized help with what is keeping you stuck, you can book a free strategy call with me here: 📞 BOOK A CALL HERE: https://www.jordanapodaca.com/ 🎓 GET THE INFIDELITY TRIGGER COURSE: https://www.udemy.com/course/infidelity-triggers-regulate-your-nervous-system/ 00:00 If they loved you, how could they betray you? 00:30 The love that feels vs. the love that keeps its vows 01:42 Questioning every word in “they loved me” 02:50 Capital-L Love vs. lowercase-l love 04:12 What childhood crushes taught me about love and growth 06:05 “I love you, but only if I don’t have to change” 07:45 Feelings can’t do the job of loyalty 09:05 So can someone truly love you and still cheat? --------------------------------------------------------------------- JJA Consulting LLC • Based in Michigan • Appointments via Zoom • Professional liability coverage through Alternative Balance LLC Disclaimer Jordan Apodaca is a coach and hypnotist, not a licensed therapist, counselor, psychologist, psychiatrist, or medical provider. Services are provided for education, personal development, and coaching only and are not intended to diagnose or treat mental or medical conditions. Results vary. Coaching is not crisis care. If you are experiencing suicidal thoughts, imminent danger, or another emergency, contact 988, local emergency services, or an appropriate licensed professional. Summary of Terms & Program Policies Private Work: Private coaching is results-based rather than built around recurring weekly appointments. We define the specific outcomes being addressed and schedule focused work according to what is needed. The Results Guarantee is a commitment to continue covered work on the original agreed outcomes when appropriate; it is not a promise that any particular outcome will occur. Follow-Up & Scheduling: Requesting another session does not automatically result in another session. Clients provide an update on what remains unresolved, and Jordan determines the appropriate next step, which may include additional integration time, an exercise or resource, brief guidance, or another private session. Membership: Beyond Betrayal Community memberships renew automatically until canceled. Cancellation ends future billing; access generally continues through the current paid period. Membership does not include private coaching unless expressly stated. Privacy: Private one-on-one appointments are confidential subject to legal exceptions. Community spaces are different: members agree to respect each other's privacy, but confidentiality between community members cannot be guaranteed. Community Recordings: Community calls may be recorded for member replays. Jordan may reuse his own teaching and feedback publicly after removing member contributions and identifying information. A member's name, image, voice, direct quotation, or identifiable story will not be intentionally used publicly without additional permission. Conduct: Respectful participation is required. JJA Consulting LLC may pause or end services or community access for threatening, abusive, persistently disruptive, sexually inappropriate, or unsafe conduct. Payments: Payments are non-refundable except where required by law or expressly agreed otherwise. Subscription cancellation does not create a prorated refund. Full Terms: By purchasing, scheduling, joining, or participating in applicable services, you agree to the full Terms of Service, Privacy & Program Policies: https://www.jordanapodaca.com/#terms Subscribe to The Infidelity Recovery Podcast on Soundwise