You Seem Great

Talia and Becca
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Welcome to the You Seem Great podcast, where Talia Goldstein and Becca Klein talk about swiping, dating, and relationships. Each episode covers specific topics to help listeners better understand and navigate early dating and relationship building. With over 20 years of combined experience as matchmakers and experts in the field, Talia and Becca offer a unique perspective that every single needs to hear. Tune in weekly for the latest insights and learn how to become a better dater. Dating is hard, but the You Seem Great podcast is here to help.

  1. 15h ago

    The Biggest Dating Mistakes People Don't Realize They're Making

    If you've ever wondered whether you should trust the butterflies or focus on long-term compatibility, this episode explores the difference—and why it matters. We dive into one of the biggest misconceptions in modern dating: the belief that instant chemistry is the best predictor of a successful relationship. Instead, we talk about why compatibility, shared values, and the ability to grow together often create stronger, more lasting connections than an immediate spark. This conversation also explores how fear and insecurity can quietly shape the way we date, from overthinking rejection to making assumptions after a first date. We discuss practical ways to approach dating with more confidence, communicate more authentically, and create opportunities for meaningful connection instead of waiting for everything to happen organically. Along the way, we share simple mindset shifts, common dating pitfalls, and actionable advice for navigating first dates, disappointment, cancellations, and the expectations we often place on ourselves and others. If you've been feeling discouraged by dating or questioning what you should really be looking for, this episode offers a grounded perspective on building relationships that last. Tune in for a conversation about compatibility, confidence, and why the strongest relationships are often built—not discovered in a single spark. Join our Matchmaking network ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    35 min

  2. Jun 25

    Success Story: When the Right Person Doesn't Match the Checklist

    If you've ever dismissed someone because they didn't fit your usual type, this episode might make you think twice. In this conversation, Chris and Christine share the story of how they met, the assumptions they had going into dating, and why their relationship worked despite not checking every box on paper. From age differences and first impressions to post-date feedback and unexpected chemistry, they reflect on what happened when they stayed open to the possibility of something different. This episode explores the importance of authenticity, clear communication, and letting go of rigid expectations in dating. Chris and Christine talk about the qualities that mattered most as their relationship developed, why playing games never appealed to them, and how trust, compatibility, and shared values became the foundation of a lasting partnership. We also discuss a common challenge in modern dating: filtering people out too quickly. Their story is a reminder that meaningful connections don't always arrive in the package we imagined, and that sometimes the best relationships begin when we're willing to look beyond our checklist. If you're navigating dating, questioning your criteria, or wondering whether you're overlooking great potential matches, this episode offers a refreshing perspective from two people who took a chance on each other—and are grateful they did. Tune in for a conversation about openness, connection, and why the right person might surprise you. Join our Matchmaking network ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    38 min

  3. Jun 6

    Why You’re Not Getting the Results You Want ft. Alec Mountain

    In this episode with Alec Mountain, we dive into the core ideas behind his book and the patterns that quietly shape how people show up in their lives, relationships, and work. Alec unpacks the main concept of the book and the stories that informed it, highlighting how behavior—not just intention—drives outcomes. We explore the subtle factors that influence success, from timing and communication to the small habits people often overlook. A key theme in this discussion is the idea of “leaks”—the unnoticed behaviors and patterns that can negatively impact your results without you realizing it. From being late to how we approach commitments and interactions, these small signals often add up in meaningful ways. We also touch on gender differences in behavior, what people tend to miss when trying to improve outcomes, and why self-awareness is often the missing piece between effort and real progress. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing “everything right” but not seeing the results you want, this conversation offers a grounded look at what might actually be getting in the way—and how to start recognizing it. Connect with us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or visit our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more. Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more about matchmaking. Click here to learn more about Alec's book!

    27 min

  4. Jun 5

    How to Meet People in Real Life (Without Dating Apps) ft. Chloe Dworkin

    In a world where dating apps feel more frustrating than helpful, how do you actually meet someone in real life? In this episode, matchmaker Chloe Dworkin breaks down what it really takes to build meaningful romantic connections offline—from knowing where to meet people, to how confidence and presence shape your dating outcomes. We talk about the subtle psychology behind attraction, why some environments naturally lead to better connections (think weddings, social circles, classes, and shared spaces), and how small shifts in how you show up can completely change your dating experience. Chloe also shares what she’s learned from working directly with clients: why dating apps often fail to capture compatibility, how to recognize real-world opportunities for connection, and what separates casual chemistry from long-term alignment. If you’ve ever felt stuck in online dating or unsure how to meet people organically, this conversation offers a grounded, practical look at how relationships actually begin—and how to put yourself in the right places for them to happen. Join our Matchmaking network ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    42 min

  5. May 20

    Building Three Day Rule Into a Modern Matchmaking Empire

    In this episode of You Seem Great, we sit down with Talia Goldstein, founder of Three Day Rule, to talk about the journey of building one of the most recognized modern matchmaking companies. From early startup challenges to scaling a people-first brand in the dating industry, Talia shares candid insights on entrepreneurship, relationships, and what it really takes to grow a business centered around human connection. Connect with us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or visit our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more. Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more about matchmaking.

    40 min

  6. May 20

    The Psychology of Attraction, Confidence & Healthy Relationships ft. Bree Jacoby

    If you’ve ever wondered how confidence, attraction, and self-worth all connect in dating and relationships, this episode gets into it. Along with celebrity stylist and fashion expert Bree Jacoby, we talk about the psychology behind style, the energy people bring into relationships, and how confidence changes the way you date, connect, and show up in the world. This conversation explores the deeper relationship between self-image and attraction— from the way people present themselves to the emotional patterns that shape who they choose and why certain relationships work while others don’t. Bree shares her perspective on styling men and women, how appearance can impact confidence, and why feeling good in yourself often changes the kind of relationships you attract. We also get into masculine and feminine dynamics, emotional maturity, dating standards, and the difference between surface-level chemistry and true compatibility. Throughout the episode, we discuss healing after difficult relationships, recognizing alignment, and what it actually looks like when someone consistently shows up for you in the right way. If you’re dating, rebuilding confidence, or trying to better understand modern relationships and attraction, this episode offers an honest and grounded perspective on self-worth, emotional connection, and personal growth. Tune in for a candid conversation about dating, confidence, attraction, relationships, and becoming the version of yourself that naturally attracts healthier connections. Connect with us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or visit our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more. Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more about matchmaking.

    50 min

  7. Apr 27

    What People Get Wrong About Healthy Love

    If you’ve ever wondered what a healthy, supportive relationship actually looks like day-to-day, this episode gets into it. Along with our guest, Lauren Youash, we talk about what it means to truly get to know someone over time — beyond first impressions — and how the right relationship is built through consistency, support, and the way a partner shows up in both the big and small moments. This conversation explores the qualities that matter most in a long-term relationship, from emotional support and respect to maturity, drive, and shared growth. Lauren shares her own experience, including how her relationship evolved, what stood out over time, and the moments that made it clear she was with the right person. We also get into how people reveal their true selves in relationships, what to pay attention to early on, and why a strong partnership isn’t about perfection — it’s about alignment, effort, and showing up for each other through different phases of life. If you’re dating, in a relationship, or simply thinking about what you want long-term, this episode offers a clear and grounded perspective on what actually makes something last. Tune in for an honest conversation about partnership, self-awareness, and what it looks like when a relationship truly works. Connect with us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or visit our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more. Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more about matchmaking.

    34 min

  8. Apr 27

    Are Your Dating Standards Helping You… or Hurting You?

    If you’ve ever felt like dating gets more complicated — not easier — as you get older, this episode gets into why. Along with our guest, Monique, we talk about how expectations shift over time, the unspoken pressures that come with age, and how those factors can shape the way people approach dating and relationships. From filtering and first impressions to the subtle ways people disqualify each other too quickly, we unpack what’s really happening beneath the surface. This conversation dives into the different types of daters you’ll meet, how self-perception plays a role in who you attract, and why small mindset shifts can make a big difference in how you show up. Monique shares what she’s seeing in real conversations with clients, including the patterns that tend to hold people back — and how to start breaking them. We also get into the realities of modern dating, from overthinking early interactions to the growing role of technology (yes, even AI), and why staying grounded in who you are matters more than ever. If you’ve been feeling frustrated, overlooked, or unsure how to navigate dating at this stage of life, this episode offers a refreshing mix of honesty, humor, and practical perspective. Tune in for a conversation about expectations, self-awareness, and how to approach dating with more clarity and confidence. Connect with us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or visit our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more. Click ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more about matchmaking.

    28 min
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Welcome to the You Seem Great podcast, where Talia Goldstein and Becca Klein talk about swiping, dating, and relationships. Each episode covers specific topics to help listeners better understand and navigate early dating and relationship building. With over 20 years of combined experience as matchmakers and experts in the field, Talia and Becca offer a unique perspective that every single needs to hear. Tune in weekly for the latest insights and learn how to become a better dater. Dating is hard, but the You Seem Great podcast is here to help.

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  • Creator
    Talia and Becca
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    50
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Talia and Becca
  • Show Website
    You Seem Great

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