Ask the Unfaithful

James & Sam
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The Ask The Unfaithful Podcast, is a safe place for both Unfaithful and Betrayed Partners to find hope and healing. This podcast draws on both our personal and professional experience to provide expert insight into the mind of the Unfaithful, and how their behaviors traumatically affect the life, heart and even brain plasticity of Betrayed Partners. Ask the Unfaithful is hosted by two Unfaithfuls in long-term recovery, James and Sam: Therapist and coach James Annear who co-owns CORE Relationship Recovery with his wife, Sharon Rinearson. They have been helping couples recover from the traumatic impacts of infidelity, sexually compulsive behaviors and addiction for over a decade. Formerly with Affair Recovery and now host of Sam's Healing Podcast, Sam has been producing videos for almost 10 years and helping to care for those in crisis due to infidelity and addiction for almost 15 years.

  1. 6d ago

    TRICKLE TRUTH: Why Staggered Disclosures Re-Traumatize Betrayed Partners in the Worst Way

    Why can trickle truth feel even more devastating than discovering the affair itself? For many betrayed partners, discovery is not a single event. First comes the affair. Then another detail emerges. Weeks later, another confession. Months later, another lie, omission, or piece of information changes the story... again. Just when the betrayed partner begins thinking, "At least now I finally know what happened," reality changes... for the second, third... fourth time. In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam take a deep look at trickle truth after infidelity - why unfaithful partners do it, what is happening psychologically underneath it, why it can be so destabilizing for the betrayed partner, and what must change for genuine recovery to begin. Trickle truth - also called staggered disclosure, incremental confession, or piecemeal revelation - is more than withholding information. And that leads to one of the central ideas of this episode: The affair may end behaviorally before it ends psychologically. In this episode, you'll learn: • What trickle truth really is • Why an unfaithful partner may continue withholding information even after discovery • Why partial disclosure may provide temporary relief for the unfaithful but creates greater instability later • Why trickle truth can make the betrayed partner feel as though the affair is still happening • Why betrayed partners may begin checking phones, rebuilding timelines, reviewing messages, receipts, and inconsistencies • Why the betrayed partner isn't "chasing information" – and what they may be desperately trying to do by investigating • How trickle truth can eventually make peace itself feel unsafe • The massive, unseen cost of trickle truth for the betrayed partner • The hidden psychological cost of trickle truth for the unfaithful partner • Why partial truth keeps the unfaithful organized around secrecy, monitoring, editing, anticipating, and managing rather than recovery • How recovery moves from information management to character transformation • Why professionally guided full therapeutic disclosure is absolutely essential James and Sam discuss how the movement from information management to identity transformation allows the unfaithful partner to stop asking, "How much reality can I control?" and begin asking, "How can I become someone who no longer needs to manage reality at all?" If you are an unfaithful partner, this episode may be difficult to hear—but understanding why trickle truth happens and what it does is an important step toward accountability, integrity, and genuine transformation. If you are a betrayed partner, this conversation may help put language around why repeated partial disclosures can be so profoundly destabilizing and why the need to establish what is real can become so consuming. 💬 Please Comment below: What parts of this video made a difference for you? 📬 Connect With Us: Have a question or a topic you want us to address? Email: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com  Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com Work with James & Sharon: Info@HopeForUs.com  Work with Sam: SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com  👉 If this episode resonates with you, please like, share, and subscribe for more conversations on betrayal trauma, affair recovery, and building trust again. ------ Our Website: www.AskTheUnfaithful.com  Contact us: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com  🔗 Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com (Email: Info@HopeForUs.com ) or email Sam at SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com  📬 Reach out: asktheunfaithful@gmail.com  🎧 Find us on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere podcasts are found. Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.HopeForUs.com  Find more from Sam at Sam's Healing Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@samshealingpodcast  Follow James at LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/james-annear-lmhc-704551157 Follow CORE Relationship Recovery (James & Sharon) on Facebook: www.facebook.com/CORERelationshipRecovery    ⚠️ Note: This episode is educational, not therapy. Please reach out for professional guidance at AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com to learn more about coaching or intensive options.

  2. Sep 10

    4 MISTAKES THAT PREVENT COUPLES FROM HEALING FROM INFIDELITY

    Are you actually moving forward in betrayal recovery or are you rushing to avoid discomfort? After infidelity, many unfaithful partners enter recovery with sincere intentions. They want healing, forgiveness, trust, and some sense of normalcy again. But when those things are wanted too quickly, what looks like motivation can actually become avoidance. In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam explore four common mistakes that keep couples stuck after infidelity, all connected by the same underlying pattern: rushing through the parts of betrayal recovery that are hardest to tolerate. As James explains, couples can believe they are moving forward when they are actually moving around the pain that still needs to be processed.  You'll learn: • Why rushing recovery and avoidance are often connected • The critical difference between momentum and avoidance: momentum moves through pain, while avoidance moves away from it • Why wanting to get to the other side of recovery can leave the betrayed partner feeling alone, burdensome, or pressured to suppress their pain • Why focusing on date nights, love languages, and relationship improvement before rebuilding safety can backfire • How avoiding difficult conversations may repeat the same avoidance patterns that existed before the betrayal • Why betrayal recovery is cyclical rather than linear • Why old triggers that still happen do not necessarily mean healing has failed • How the unfaithful partner's discomfort can unintentionally become the organizing force in recovery • The five things matter more than getting through recovery quickly • Practical questions for the unfaithful partner to ask themselves  One of the central ideas in this conversation is simple but challenging: If your primary goal is to feel better, you may be avoiding. If your primary goal is to become healthier, you're much more likely to be recovering.  James and Sam show you how to see what is happening clearly so you can shift your perspective: If you are the unfaithful partner, this episode will help you recognize when discomfort is quietly pushing you to rush, withdraw, defend, or move on prematurely. If you are the betrayed partner, it may help put language around why being rushed in recovery can feel so lonely—and why your ongoing questions, triggers, and need for processing do not mean that you are failing to heal.   💬 Please Comment: What parts of this video made a difference for you?   📬 Connect With Us: Have a question or a topic you want us to address? Email: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com  Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com Work with James & Sharon: Info@HopeForUs.com  Work with Sam: SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com  👉 If this episode resonates with you, please like, share, and subscribe for more conversations on betrayal trauma, affair recovery, and building trust again. ------ Our Website: www.AskTheUnfaithful.com  Contact us: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com  🔗 Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com (Email: Info@HopeForUs.com ) or email Sam at SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com  📬 Reach out: asktheunfaithful@gmail.com  🎧 Find us on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere podcasts are found. Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.HopeForUs.com  Find more from Sam at Sam's Healing Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@samshealingpodcast  Follow James at LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/james-annear-lmhc-704551157 Follow CORE Relationship Recovery (James & Sharon) on Facebook: www.facebook.com/CORERelationshipRecovery    ⚠️ Note: This episode is educational, not therapy. Please reach out for professional guidance at AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com to learn more about coaching or intensive options.

  3. Aug 26

    THE VICTIM MINDSET: WHY THE UNFAITHFUL WHINES, BLAMES, AND ISN'T EMPATHETIC

    What if the biggest obstacle to your recovery isn't shame, defensiveness, or even your affair - but believing you're the victim? Many unfaithful partners experience real grief, shame, fear, and emotional pain after discovery.  But when that pain becomes the organizing principle of their recovery, it shifts the focus away from healing and toward emotional self-protection. In this episode of Ask the Unfaithful, James and Sam explore one of the most overlooked barriers to genuine recovery: the victim stance. You'll learn why the victim stance often develops long before an affair begins, how childhood adaptations continue to shape adult relationships, and why, when the unfaithful organizes their recovery around emotional relief instead of integrity, it keeps both partners stuck. This conversation isn't about denying your pain. It's about learning how to process it without allowing it to define your recovery. In This Episode You'll Learn: • What the victim stance actually is - and what it isn't. • Why real emotional pain doesn't automatically make someone the victim. • How childhood experiences can shape adult coping strategies. • The hidden ways the victim stance shows up, and how it can look like vulnerability or self-awareness. • Why comparing pain damages healing. • How the victim stance blocks accountability, empathy, agency, and intimacy. • The difference between grief and victimhood. • Why recovery isn't about organizing your life around pain—it's about organizing it around integrity. • Three daily questions to help move beyond the victim stance.  One of the most important ideas from this episode is this: Recovery doesn't ask you to deny your emotional pain. It asks you not to organize your behaviors - or your identity - around that pain.  If you're committed to becoming a safer, healthier partner after betrayal, this conversation offers practical insight into one of the deepest shifts recovery requires. Chapters: 00:00 – What Is the Victim Stance? 02:30 – Pain vs. Victimhood 04:00 – Where the Victim Stance Begins 08:00 – The Hidden Forms of Victim Thinking 16:00 – Nine Ways Victimhood Sabotages Recovery 30:30 – Moving Beyond the Victim Stance 36:30 – Three Daily Questions for Growth 39:00 – Hope, Healing, and Next Steps   💬 Please Comment below: What parts of this video made a difference for you?   📬 Connect With Us: Have a question or a topic you want us to address? Email: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com Work with James & Sharon: Info@HopeForUs.com Work with Sam: SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com 👉 If this episode resonates with you, please like, share, and subscribe for more conversations on betrayal trauma, affair recovery, and building trust again. ------ Our Website: www.AskTheUnfaithful.com  Contact us: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com  🔗 Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com (Email: Info@HopeForUs.com ) or email Sam at SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com 📬 Reach out: asktheunfaithful@gmail.com 🎧 Find us on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere podcasts are found. Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.HopeForUs.com Find more from Sam at Sam's Healing Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@samshealingpodcast Follow James at LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/james-annear-lmhc-704551157 Follow CORE Relationship Recovery (James & Sharon) on Facebook: www.facebook.com/CORERelationshipRecovery    ⚠️ Note: This episode is educational, not therapy. Please reach out for professional guidance at AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com to learn more about coaching or intensive options.

  4. Aug 12

    4 WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL MINIMIZE AND DEFLECT

    Why does recovery stall even when you're trying? If you're the unfaithful partner, you may genuinely want to heal your relationship—but without realizing it, you could be making four common mistakes that keep your betrayed partner feeling unseen, unsafe, and emotionally alone. In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam expose the hidden patterns of minimization and deflection that derail recovery. These behaviors often aren't intentional, but they are deeply damaging. These self-protective responses prevent empathy, block trust, and keep healing stuck. You'll learn what these patterns are and why they happen, how they affect your betrayed partner, and - most importantly - what to do instead. If you're serious about becoming a safer partner and healing your relationship from your betrayal, this conversation will help you replace self-protection with ownership, validation, curiosity, and consistent recovery. In this episode you'll learn: ✔️ The four most common recovery mistakes unfaithful partners make ✔️ Why minimization feels protective—but causes more harm ✔️ How defensiveness shuts down empathy and accountability ✔️ Why relationship problems never justify betrayal ✔️ The difference between shame and healthy accountability ✔️ How to validate your betrayed partner instead of explaining or defending ✔️ Practical tools to replace self-protection with real repair Healing isn't determined by when you feel less guilty; it begins when you become a safer partner. 💬 Please Comment below: What parts of this video made a difference for you?   📬 Connect With Us: Have a question or a topic you want us to address? Email: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com Work with James & Sharon: Info@HopeForUs.com Work with Sam: SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com 👉 If this episode resonates with you, please like, share, and subscribe for more conversations on betrayal trauma, affair recovery, and building trust again. ------ Our Website: www.AskTheUnfaithful.com Contact us: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com 🔗 Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com (Email: Info@HopeForUs.com ) or email Sam at SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com 📬 Reach out: asktheunfaithful@gmail.com 🎧 Find us on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere podcasts are found. Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.HopeForUs.com Find more from Sam at Sam's Healing Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@samshealingpodcast Follow James at LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/james-annear-lmhc-704551157 Follow CORE Relationship Recovery (James & Sharon) on Facebook: www.facebook.com/CORERelationshipRecovery    ⚠️ Note: This episode is educational, not therapy. Please reach out for professional guidance at AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com to learn more about coaching or intensive options.

  5. Jul 29

    4 WAYS THE UNFAITHFUL LEARNED IT WAS OKAY TO CHEAT

    HOW DID THE UNFAITHFUL LEARN THAT INFIDELITY WAS OKAY? Can your childhood make you more prone to infidelity? Not by causing you to cheat, but by shaping how you learned to handle shame, conflict, rejection, loneliness, and emotional distress. In this episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam explore how four common parenting styles can influence emotional development and increase vulnerability to unhealthy coping strategies later in life—including emotional affairs, sexual acting out, validation seeking, avoidance, secrecy, and betrayal. This conversation is not about blaming parents. It's about understanding the emotional training ground that shaped your nervous system, your attachment style, and your responses to distress—because insight creates responsibility, not excuses. You'll learn: ✅ How and why one style of parenting can create weak boundaries and difficulty tolerating distress ✅ How and why another style often produces shame, perfectionism, and secret emotional lives ✅ How and why a third style can leave you with an unhealthy attachment style and an ongoing search for "fulfillment" ✅ Why this type of truly healthy parenting develops emotional regulation, empathy, accountability, and secure attachment You'll discover that relational recovery begins when you understand the emotional skills you never learned growing up and intentionally begin building them today. Whether you're the unfaithful partner seeking lasting recovery or the betrayed partner trying to understand why infidelity happened, this episode provides a compassionate, research-informed framework that can help both partners move toward healing. In this episode: • The connection between parenting styles and infidelity • Why affairs are often attempts at emotional regulation – and are not all about sex • What is the connection between Attachment Hunger and affairs • How childhood coping strategies develop and become adult problems in relating, empathy, communication and vulnerability • Shame, secrecy, perfectionism, and emotional suppression • The difference between emotional intensity and genuine intimacy • Why insight leads to responsibility—not excuses • A practical healing roadmap for each parenting style you might have received   📬 Connect With Us: Have a question or a topic you want us to address? Email: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com Work with James & Sharon: Info@HopeForUs.com Work with Sam: SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com 👉 If this episode resonates with you, please like, share, and subscribe for more conversations on betrayal trauma, affair recovery, and building trust again. ------ Our Website: www.AskTheUnfaithful.com Contact us: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com 🔗 Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com (Email: Info@HopeForUs.com ) or email Sam at SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com 📬 Reach out: asktheunfaithful@gmail.com 🎧 Find us on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere podcasts are found. Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.HopeForUs.com Find more from Sam at Sam's Healing Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@samshealingpodcast Follow James at LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/james-annear-lmhc-704551157 Follow CORE Relationship Recovery (James & Sharon) on Facebook: www.facebook.com/CORERelationshipRecovery    ⚠️ Note: This episode is educational, not therapy. Please reach out for professional guidance at AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com to learn more about coaching or intensive options.

  6. Jul 17

    5 PATTERNS THAT CAN CAUSE THE UNFAITHFUL TO CHEAT (AND TO FAIL IN BETRAYAL RECOVERY)

    Why do unfaithful partners cheat and why do they have such a hard time staying in recovery? The answer is almost never just one reason. In this episode of Ask the Unfaithful, James  and Sam explore five of the most common psychological behavior patterns in the unfaithful—and explain how these patterns often develop long before an affair ever begins. Rather than simply focusing on the behavior itself, this episode examines the underlying psychological dynamics that make betrayal possible and recovery impossible if they aren't addressed.  Understanding these patterns doesn't excuse betrayal—but it does explain it. And once you understand the pattern, you can begin to change it. Whether you're an unfaithful partner trying to understand why you betrayed your partner, or a betrayed partner desperately trying to make sense of what happened, this conversation provides practical insight, clinical understanding, and hope for genuine recovery. In this episode you'll learn: • Why infidelity is usually driven by psychological patterns—not isolated bad decisions  • The five common behavior patterns we repeatedly see in unfaithful partners  • How multiple patterns combine to dramatically increase risk of infidelity and relapse • The devastating impact these patterns have on betrayed partners even before discovery • Practical recovery strategies for interrupting these patterns in real time  • Why understanding your pattern is essential if you want lasting change  One of the most important ideas in this episode is that understanding your pattern explains your behavior—but changing your pattern changes your future. Recovery is not simply about stopping acting out behaviors. It's about becoming a different person. If you are serious about healing after infidelity, this episode provides a roadmap for identifying the hidden psychological dynamics that keep people stuck—and how to begin rewiring them. Remember: Learn your patterns. Interrupt them. Rewire them. That's how lasting change happens. 📬 Connect With Us: Have a question or a topic you want us to address? Email: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com Work with James & Sharon: Info@HopeForUs.com Work with Sam: SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com 👉 If this episode resonates with you, please like, share, and subscribe for more conversations on betrayal trauma, affair recovery, and building trust again. ------ Our Website: www.AskTheUnfaithful.com Contact us: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com 🔗 Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com (Email: Info@HopeForUs.com ) or email Sam at SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com 📬 Reach out: asktheunfaithful@gmail.com 🎧 Find us on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere podcasts are found. Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.HopeForUs.com Find more from Sam at Sam's Healing Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@samshealingpodcast Follow James at LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/james-annear-lmhc-704551157 Follow CORE Relationship Recovery (James & Sharon) on Facebook: www.facebook.com/CORERelationshipRecovery    ⚠️ Note: This episode is educational, not therapy. Please reach out for professional guidance at AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com to learn more about coaching or intensive options.

  7. Jul 2

    THE ONE ACTION THAT UNLOCKS THE UNFAITHFUL'S RECOVERY WORK

    What is the ONE action that unlocks real recovery for the unfaithful? In this powerful episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James Annear and Sam reveal the single most important shift that determines whether recovery actually works—or quietly fails. After betrayal, most unfaithful partners focus on external behaviors—apologies, transparency, doing "the right things." But without internal credibility, none of it sticks. Because here's the truth: If you don't trust yourself, no one else will be able to trust you either. This episode breaks down how self-trust becomes the foundation of integrity, empathy, and relational safety - and how learning to rebuild it unlocks everything else in recovery. You'll learn practical tools you can start using TODAY. 🔹 In This Episode, You'll Learn: • Why self-trust is the foundation of all recovery work • How betrayal damages your internal sense of reliability • The hidden ways shame, projection, and mistrust sabotage healing • Why recovery is about becoming believable to yourself again • How keeping small promises daily rewires your brain for safety • The role of consistency, transparency, and accountability • How somatic (body-based) work restores trust from the inside out • Why self-compassion is not weakness - but emotional regulation • How rebuilding self-trust directly impacts your partner's ability to heal 🔹 The Core Truth From This Episode: Recovery doesn't begin when you stop failing. It begins when your actions consistently align with your values. Or as James puts it: 👉 "Rebuilding self-trust isn't just about doing better - it's about becoming believable to yourself again." 🔹 This Episode Is For You If: • You're an unfaithful partner struggling to stay consistent in recovery • You feel like you're "doing the work" but nothing is changing • You want to rebuild trust, integrity, and emotional safety • You're ready to move from shame → accountability → growth 🔹 Key Topics Infidelity recovery Self-trust and accountability Betrayal trauma healing Rebuilding integrity after cheating Transparency and consistency Emotional regulation and nervous system healing Relationship repair after betrayal 💬 Please Comment below: How does this episode resonate with you? 📬 Connect With Us: Have a question or a topic you want us to address? Email: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com Work with James & Sharon: Info@HopeForUs.com Work with Sam: SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com 👉 If this episode resonates with you, please like, share, and subscribe for more conversations on betrayal trauma, affair recovery, and building trust again. ------ Our Website: www.AskTheUnfaithful.com Contact us: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com 🔗 Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com (Email: Info@HopeForUs.com ) or email Sam at SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com 📬 Reach out: asktheunfaithful@gmail.com 🎧 Find us on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere podcasts are found. Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.HopeForUs.com Find more from Sam at Sam's Healing Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@samshealingpodcast Follow James at LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/james-annear-lmhc-704551157 Follow CORE Relationship Recovery (James & Sharon) on Facebook: www.facebook.com/CORERelationshipRecovery    ⚠️ Note: This episode is educational, not therapy. Please reach out for professional guidance at AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com to learn more about coaching or intensive options.

  8. Jun 17

    IS THE UNFAITHFUL SLEEPWALKING THROUGH BETRAYAL RECOVERY?

    How conscious are you of your actions and how they impact your own recovery, your betrayed's recovery and your relational recovery?  In this powerful episode of Ask The Unfaithful, James and Sam explore one of the most uncomfortable truths about infidelity recovery: Many unfaithful partners aren't fully conscious of the patterns driving their choices even in recovery. That doesn't mean infidelity wasn't a choice—it absolutely was. But those choices - and many of our choices in recovery - often happen inside a system of unconscious behaviors, unexamined beliefs, and automatic coping strategies. Drawing inspiration from Anthony de Mello's book Awareness, James and Sam discuss how validation seeking, conflict avoidance, compartmentalization, rationalization, and secrecy can become so automatic that unfaithful partners wake up one day asking: "How did I become this person?" You'll learn: ✅ What "sleepwalking" through infidelity recovery really means ✅ Why good intentions are not enough to rebuild trust ✅ How defense mechanisms protect a fragile self-concept ✅ Why awareness is the beginning of integrity ✅ How validation seeking and conflict avoidance interrupt the recovery process ✅ The difference between managing appearances and building character ✅ Practical steps to interrupt autopilot patterns and create lasting change Real recovery begins when you stop asking: "How do I avoid consequences?" And start asking: "What inside me allowed this to happen?" Lasting recovery is built through awareness, honesty, accountability, and consistent action over time. 💬 Please Comment below: How does this episode resonate with you? 📬 Connect With Us: Have a question or a topic you want us to address? Email: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com Work with James & Sharon: Info@HopeForUs.com Work with Sam: SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com ------ Our Website: www.AskTheUnfaithful.com Contact us: AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com 🔗 Need help healing? Visit HopeForUs.com (Email: Info@HopeForUs.com ) or email Sam at SamsHealingPodcast@gmail.com 📬 Reach out: asktheunfaithful@gmail.com 🎧 Find us on Apple, Spotify, and everywhere podcasts are found. Find James & Sharon at the CORE Relationship Recovery website: www.HopeForUs.com Find more from Sam at Sam's Healing Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@samshealingpodcast Follow James at LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/james-annear-lmhc-704551157 Follow CORE Relationship Recovery (James & Sharon) on Facebook: www.facebook.com/CORERelationshipRecovery    ⚠️ Note: This episode is educational, not therapy. Please reach out for professional guidance at AskTheUnfaithful@gmail.com to learn more about coaching or intensive options.

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The Ask The Unfaithful Podcast, is a safe place for both Unfaithful and Betrayed Partners to find hope and healing. This podcast draws on both our personal and professional experience to provide expert insight into the mind of the Unfaithful, and how their behaviors traumatically affect the life, heart and even brain plasticity of Betrayed Partners. Ask the Unfaithful is hosted by two Unfaithfuls in long-term recovery, James and Sam: Therapist and coach James Annear who co-owns CORE Relationship Recovery with his wife, Sharon Rinearson. They have been helping couples recover from the traumatic impacts of infidelity, sexually compulsive behaviors and addiction for over a decade. Formerly with Affair Recovery and now host of Sam's Healing Podcast, Sam has been producing videos for almost 10 years and helping to care for those in crisis due to infidelity and addiction for almost 15 years.

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  • Creator
    James & Sam
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    82
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2024, 2025
  • Show Website
    Ask the Unfaithful

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