You Make Sense

Sarah Baldwin
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You Make Sense is a manual to understanding your human experience, so that you can navigate the world with freedom, ease, and empowerment. Using the latest neuroscience and trauma research, this podcast will equip you with powerful somatic tools to help you get unstuck and create the life you desire. Sarah Baldwin, SEP, is an expert in trauma resolution, attachment, parts work, and nervous system regulation. But before she was a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and trained in Polyvagal interventions, she first came to this work as someone struggling to find relief. It was through her own healing that led her to become a trained professional, now helping thousands of people across her programs, courses, and classes to do the same.

  1. 16h ago

    3 Components of Living an Expanded Life

    You’ll also learn three key components of expansion: working with your nervous system, understanding trauma feedback loops, and becoming the adult self or warrior your younger parts need. Rather than forcing change through insight or willpower, Sarah explains why healing involves showing the body that what was once dangerous can now be safe, one tolerable step at a time. Listen in to learn how working with your nervous system and protective parts can help you move toward the life you want. Episode Highlights: • [00:00] Introduction• [00:42] Why every living thing wants to be fully expressed• [02:27] What blocks you from becoming more fully yourself• [10:46] Why healing is part of expanding into the life you want• [12:44] Three components of living an expanded life• [17:26] #1: The nervous system as the foundation for expansion• [28:12] #2: Understanding roads of familiarity and trauma feedback loops• [31:17] #3: Becoming the adult self your younger parts need• [36:08] Taking tolerable steps toward the life you want• [40:39] Question 1 - How do I balance purpose, relationships, and other parts of life?• [45:19] Question 2 - Can trauma be healed when you cannot consciously remember it?• [51:13] Question 3 - How do I navigate childhood trauma while caring for an ailing parent? Join the 3-Day Expansion Experience:​​You know you’re meant for more — so why does moving toward it feel harder than it should? Inside Expansion, Sarah is going to give you science-backed tools to help you regulate your nervous system, support your younger parts, and take tangible steps toward the life you want. RSVP now for only $37:https://bit.ly/yms-sp-ee Download Sarah’s FREE Workbook:https://bit.ly/yms-sp-workbook Connect with Sarah on:Email Community — bit.ly/yms-sp-newsletterInstagram — instagram.com/sarahbcoachingWebsite — sarahbaldwincoaching.com Submit a Question:sarahbaldwin1.typeform.com/podcast Quotes:“We don't heal just to heal. We heal so that we can be us.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:11:44] “The life you want [is] for you, and it's our healing that gets us there.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:12:49] “We need to overall bring regulation to our nervous system, and we need to show it, not tell it, that the things that were once dangerous are now safe.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:25:58] “Our nervous system and our protective parts are saying, ‘Here is how I know how to navigate life and be safe.’ Because remember, their priority is not you living your full expanded life. Their priority is you surviving.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:29:42] “Adult you is the only one that can lead the way into the expanded life you are here to live.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:33:50]

  2. Oct 6

    [Top Episode] The Nervous System’s Bias for Negativity and How to Rewire It

    Real transformation begins not with willpower but with a felt sense of internal safety. Drawing on Polyvagal Theory, Somatic Experiencing, and Parts Work, Sarah shares tangible tools to help you shift from survival mode to genuine ease. Join Sarah to discover how regulation transforms not only your mindset but your entire lived experience, one safe, grounded moment at a time. Episode Highlights: • [00:00] Introduction• [02:07] The connection between dysregulation and negativity• [02:39] Understanding the six states of the nervous system• [04:30] Why the nervous system is hardwired for survival• [06:52] Neuroception and your orientation to the world• [10:15] Your nervous system shapes your thinking• [18:01] Working with your parts to find more ease and inner peace• [26:31] Somatic tools to begin orienting toward the positive• [37:50] Question 1: Understanding what regulation really means• [46:10] Question 2: Why feedback triggers negative responses• [54:40] Question 3: Healing the scarcity mindset surrounding money Get on the Waitlist for Sarah’s 16-Week Program:Ready for tools to heal every area of your life? You Make Sense is a 16-week live program that goes far beyond these weekly podcast episodes to give you powerful somatic exercises and resources to address your nervous system, relationships, younger parts, purpose, boundaries, grief, and more! Click below to get on the waitlist for limited-time reduced pricing:https://bit.ly/sp-yms-waitlist Connect with Sarah on:Email Community — bit.ly/yms-sp-newsletterInstagram — instagram.com/sarahbcoachingWebsite — sarahbaldwincoaching.com Download Sarah’s FREE Workbook:https://bit.ly/yms-sp-workbook Submit a Questionsarahbaldwin1.typeform.com/podcast

  3. Sep 29

    How to Tell Narcissism From Other Trauma Responses

    Sarah goes on to explain the difference between being a narcissist and having an avoidant attachment. While they can sometimes appear similar from the outside, avoidant partners have a deep desire for connection but often push it away out of self-protection. Listen in for a nuanced understanding of attachment wounding and how to find clarity on your own relational dynamics. Episode Highlights: • [00:00] Introduction• [00:51] Difficult behaviors don’t always indicate narcissism• [03:15] Understanding the origins of narcissism• [07:54] Why narcissists often seek out codependent partners• [11:50] Repair, ownership, and empathy• [17:39] Common traits associated with narcissism• [19:41] Why you can’t heal someone else’s narcissistic part• [22:08] Healing changes your baseline for love• [25:30] The difference between avoidant attachment and narcissism• [28:20] Why avoidantly attached people want connection and push it away• [31:08] Building capacity for closeness, connection, and intimacy• [34:14] Using your adult self to distinguish narcissism from avoidant attachment• [35:28] Question 1 - How do I heal when family dynamics pull me back into old roles?• [50:24] Question 2 - Is my partner wrong for me if they remind me of a narcissistic parent?• [01:02:43] Question 3 - Is my nervous system reacting to old trauma or something truly unsafe? Get on the Waitlist for Sarah’s 16-Week Program:Ready for tools to heal every area of your life? You Make Sense is a 16-week live program that goes far beyond these weekly podcast episodes to give you powerful somatic exercises and resources to address your nervous system, relationships, younger parts, purpose, boundaries, grief, and more! Click below to get on the waitlist for limited-time reduced pricing:https://bit.ly/sp-yms-waitlist Take Sarah’s FREE Quiz:Feeling stuck in your life? Not sure where to start with somatic healing? Sarah’s free quiz, “What’s Keeping You Stuck,” will equip you with free tools and a personalized guide to better understand your nervous system specific to you. Click below to get started:https://bit.ly/yms-sp-quiz Connect with Sarah on:Email Community — bit.ly/yms-sp-newsletterInstagram — instagram.com/sarahbcoachingWebsite — sarahbaldwincoaching.com Submit a Question:sarahbaldwin1.typeform.com/podcast Quotes:“When we are in dynamics with a narcissist, we'll notice that there really is no capacity to properly repair.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:11:52] “[Narcissists] are unwilling to see reality in any other way than they see reality.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:12:14] “The more that we heal, here's the beautiful thing that happens: I change my baseline for what love is.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:24:19] “An avoidant attachment is absolutely and completely something that can be healed. Full stop.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:31:07] “What we have to do, if we have an avoidant attachment, is build our capacity for connection, co-regulation, closeness, attunement, intimacy, being exposed, being seen, and being known.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:31:51]

  4. Sep 22

    Healing Can Feel Worse Before It Feels Better

    You’ll also learn why protective parts may block you from pursuing what you want, and how healing unfolds through cycles of expansion and contraction as the nervous system gathers evidence that the present is safe. By taking tolerable steps and bringing this work into everyday life, you can build your capacity to navigate triggers and experience more of who you are. Find out why healing can feel so elusive and how to recognize progress even when it doesn’t feel like it. Episode Highlights: • [00:00] Introduction• [00:49] The counterintuitive nature of healing• [03:24] The nervous system as the foundation for healing• [10:01] Building your capacity to receive the good• [12:49] How becoming more embodied changes what you tolerate• [14:20] Processing deeper layers of trauma as your capacity grows• [16:05] Resolving coupling dynamics• [20:43] Reconnecting with your needs and deepest desires• [22:20] How healing can change your perception of reality• [23:39] Renegotiating relationships as your needs change• [24:23] Why regulation doesn’t mean never getting triggered• [24:59] The expand/contract experience of healing• [27:12] Taking tolerable steps toward the life you want• [29:10] Healing happens through living, not just therapy• [30:43] Grieving what you lose as you heal• [33:29] Question 1 - What is the connection between physical and mental health?• [37:51] Question 2 - Can healing result in physical symptoms or weight gain?• [43:23] Question 3 - How do I navigate family members who refuse to heal? Get on the Waitlist for Sarah’s 16-Week Program:Ready for tools to heal every area of your life? You Make Sense is a 16-week live program that goes far beyond these weekly podcast episodes to give you powerful somatic exercises and resources to address your nervous system, relationships, younger parts, purpose, boundaries, grief, and more! Click below to get on the waitlist for limited-time reduced pricing:https://bit.ly/sp-yms-waitlist Take the FREE Quiz:https://bit.ly/yms-sp-quiz  Last 20%: Workbook Connect with Sarah on:Email Community — bit.ly/yms-sp-newsletterInstagram — instagram.com/sarahbcoachingWebsite — sarahbaldwincoaching.com Submit a Question:sarahbaldwin1.typeform.com/podcast Quotes:“It can be really confusing when we hit certain points of the healing process, and what is forward might feel like backward to us.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:01:10] “We have to show, not tell, our nervous systems that we are actually safe.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:10:28] “The good things don't always feel good at first.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:10:39] “The only way to live a fully embodied life is [by having] access to all of the human experience, to all of our feelings, and [by] living in our bodies today. We are not living in the body of a traumatized part of us from the past.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:20:24] “[The goal is] not to orchestrate a life where you never get triggered; it's to know the route out of being triggered.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:24:53] “We heal through our living, not just through being in therapeutic containers.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:29:17]

  5. Sep 15

    Why Does My Mind Always Go to the Worst-Case Scenario?

    Much of the catastrophizing we experience is actually a result of protective parts that formed in our early childhood to keep us safe. You’ll learn how to come to the aid of these parts by first accessing your most capable, able adult self. Listen in for a compassionate guide on how to find lasting relief and step toward the thinking patterns you truly desire. Episode Highlights:  • [00:00] Introduction • [01:47] Focusing only on positive or negative• [07:22] Why you may always assume the worst• [15:46] Giving the vulnerable part safety from your adult self• [21:28] Why traditional talk therapy isn’t enough• [28:48] Accessing your adult self• [33:38] The power of internal co-regulation • [40:32] Question 1 – How do I stop sabotaging my healthy relationship?• [51:08] Question 2 – How do I manage fear and anxiety about my health?• [57:51] Question 3 – How do I eradicate the shame I feel about my parts? Get on the Waitlist for Sarah’s 16-Week Program:Ready for tools to heal every area of your life? You Make Sense is a 16-week live program that goes far beyond these weekly podcast episodes to give you powerful somatic exercises and resources to address your nervous system, relationships, younger parts, purpose, boundaries, grief, and more! Click below to get on the waitlist for limited-time reduced pricing:https://bit.ly/sp-yms-waitlist Download the FREE Workbook:https://bit.ly/yms-sp-workbook Connect with Sarah on:Email Community — bit.ly/yms-sp-newsletterInstagram — instagram.com/sarahbcoachingWebsite — sarahbaldwincoaching.com Submit a Question:sarahbaldwin1.typeform.com/podcast Quotes:“I can be with what is not okay, and I can still be okay. This can only happen when we are anchored in safety.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:06:56] “When we have a protective part that is anticipating a dangerous future or catastrophizing about how things will go wrong, it is going to put us in a state of dysregulation.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:11:50] “Your protective parts will do anything to ensure the dangers of the past don’t happen again.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:13:55] “We believe thoughts when there is an affect attached to it.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:24:53] “When I experience hard things as adult me, it will never, ever, ever be like the hard traumatic things I experienced as a child because there’s an adult here now. And that’s me. And that is the work that sets us free.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:37:39]

  6. Sep 8

    Developmental Trauma and How Your Past Shapes Your Present

    Healing requires more than understanding where our wounds came from. Sarah explores how somatic healing and parts work are necessary components to bringing resolution to painful childhood experiences. By learning to become a steady, regulated presence for yourself, you can begin to release and shift old survival responses. Discover how healing developmental trauma can help you build greater safety within yourself and with the people you love. Episode Highlights: • [00:00] Introduction• [00:56] Healing developmental trauma requires a somatic approach • [08:16] Implicit memory and how trauma lives in the body• [10:15] How attachment trauma shapes adult relationships• [15:25] Using somatic parts work to heal attachment wounds• [19:23] Why intimate relationships can activate developmental trauma• [20:57] Becoming the safe, regulated presence your younger parts need• [22:32] Why healing developmental trauma requires consistency and support• [25:13] Relearning connection through nonverbal experiences• [28:37] Question 1 - How do I rebuild my sense of self after parentification?• [35:44] Question 2 - How do I heal abandonment that affected multiple developmental stages?• [44:24] Question 3 - How do I set boundaries as my role within my family changes? Get on the Waitlist for Sarah’s 16-Week Program:Ready for tools to heal every area of your life? You Make Sense is a 16-week live program that goes far beyond these weekly podcast episodes to give you powerful somatic exercises and resources to address your nervous system, relationships, younger parts, purpose, boundaries, grief, and more! Join the waitlist for limited-time reduced pricing:https://bit.ly/sp-yms-waitlist Connect with Sarah on:Email Community — bit.ly/yms-sp-newsletterInstagram — instagram.com/sarahbcoachingWebsite — sarahbaldwincoaching.com Download the FREE Workbook:https://bit.ly/yms-sp-workbook Submit a Question:sarahbaldwin1.typeform.com/podcast Quotes:“The number one most important thing that a baby or a child needs is a safe adult's regulated nervous system.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:02:05] “Implicit memory is the type of memory that we have when it comes to trauma. It is not orderly, and it lives and is experienced in our bodies and our nervous system.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:08:59] “The reason you struggle in relationships, if you do, is because your system had to adapt to a caregiver who could not successfully securely attach to you.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:11:23] “A secure attachment means that you had a caregiver who was predominantly anchored in regulation in their nervous system.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:11:37] “We have to also become the person that our parts feel safe with.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:16:10] “When it comes to healing developmental trauma, our young parts aren't supposed to have to actually do anything, except be picked up and held by us, and for us to say, ‘Let me take what is too much for you.’” — Sarah Baldwin [0:21:59] “You can't piecemeal your healing journey. You have to have support.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:23:40]

  7. Sep 1

    The Spiritual Nature of Somatic Healing and Parts Work

    We explore the connection between our spiritual nature and the healing process, along with the spiritual and scientific foundations of parts work. Sarah explains how to begin working with your parts and what integration actually means. You’ll be invited to examine your self-protective behaviors with curiosity, compassion, and awareness, which is a powerful step toward deeper healing and a fuller experience of being alive. Your system already knows how to heal; it just needs to be shown the way. Episode Highlights: • [00:00] Introduction • [01:33] Another way to think of spirituality  • [07:28] How the nervous system protects us  • [13:36] Regulating your nervous system  • [16:39] Our spiritual nature • [21:33] The spiritual quality of parts work  • [24:22] The science of parts work • [32:31] Tools to begin working with your parts  • [38:00] What integration truly means  • [43:44] Question 1 - Why does nothing ever seem to pan out in my purpose? • [49:05] Question 2 - How do I take steps forward to actually help my parts? • [53:55] Question 3 - Is parts work beneficial for everyone, including those with personality disorders?  Navigating Your Nervous System is NOW ENROLLING: Want to work with Sarah in a live capacity? The doors are now open to her 6-week live program, Navigating Your Nervous System, designed to help you get into the driver’s seat of your experience and start feeling better on a daily basis. Click below to learn more:https://bit.ly/sp-nyns Download Sarah’s FREE Workbook: Not sure where to get started with somatic healing? Sarah created a FREE trauma-informed workbook called "How To Gain Control Over How You Feel" to help you step toward a life filled with more freedom, ease, and empowerment. Click the link below to download:https://bit.ly/yms-sp-workbook Connect with Sarah on: Email Community — bit.ly/yms-sp-newsletter Instagram — instagram.com/sarahbcoaching Website — sarahbaldwincoaching.com Submit a Question:sarahbaldwin1.typeform.com/podcast Quotes: “Healing is embodied.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:02:36] “The truth of the matter is when we over-pathologize, we inhibit our healing.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:03:12] “So much of the challenges and suffering we are experiencing is rooted in our nervous system not knowing that the past is over and not knowing that we are safe.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:07:28] “Your system knows how to heal, it just needs to be shown the way.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:40:17] “Healing truly is the most beautiful love story.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:42:34]

  8. Aug 25

    The Fundamentals of Nervous System Regulation

    You’ll learn about the four primary states of your autonomic nervous system and how each one directly impacts your lived experience. Then, Sarah will guide you through gentle steps to begin accessing your ventral vagal complex, which is the key to living a more free, empowered life. This conversation is a starting point to finding tools and support that lead to lasting change. If there’s an episode not to skip, it might be this one.  Episode Highlights:  • [00:00] Introduction  • [02:50] Understanding your autonomic nervous system • [06:52] Ventral - your state of regulation • [10:57] Sympathetic - your state of mobilization • [15:59] Dorsal - your state of shut down • [17:21] The love story of your nervous system • [23:26] Freeze - your state of tonic immobility • [26:02] Why am I dysregulated when I’m actually safe? • [31:32] The importance of consistent neural exercises • [36:58] Question 1 - Can everyone benefit from a somatic approach?  • [52:13] Question 2 - How can we help our younger parts if we are not regulated?  • [59:06] Question 3 - Where is the best place to start in Sarah’s programs?  RSVP to Sarah’s FREE Live Training + Q&A Series: Ready to take the next step with nervous system healing? Join Sarah for “Unlock the Life You Desire,” a 2-part somatic healing series to help you experience more joy and aliveness, and step toward the purpose that’s calling you. Click below to save your spot (limited time replays available!):http://bit.ly/sp-live-training Navigating Your Nervous System is NOW ENROLLING: Want to work with Sarah in a live capacity? The doors are now open to her 6-week live program, Navigating Your Nervous System, designed to help you get into the driver’s seat of your experience and start feeling better on a daily basis. Click below to learn more:https://bit.ly/sp-nyns Connect with Sarah on: Email Community — bit.ly/yms-sp-newsletter Instagram — instagram.com/sarahbcoaching Website — sarahbaldwincoaching.com Submit a Question:sarahbaldwin1.typeform.com/podcast Quotes: “Your entire lived experience is rooted in what is happening in your nervous system.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:06:15] “The foundation, not just of all healing, but of a happy life, is that we are primarily anchored in our ventral vagal complex.” —  Sarah Baldwin [0:10:05] “Your nervous system is your most loyal companion. It has never left your side. It is a true and utter love story.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:17:22] “If you’re finding yourself primarily rooted in dysregulation, it is not unsolvable. It is not happening because something is wrong with you.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:29:52] “There is no one size fits all for the healing journey.” — Sarah Baldwin [0:37:48]

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You Make Sense is a manual to understanding your human experience, so that you can navigate the world with freedom, ease, and empowerment. Using the latest neuroscience and trauma research, this podcast will equip you with powerful somatic tools to help you get unstuck and create the life you desire. Sarah Baldwin, SEP, is an expert in trauma resolution, attachment, parts work, and nervous system regulation. But before she was a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and trained in Polyvagal interventions, she first came to this work as someone struggling to find relief. It was through her own healing that led her to become a trained professional, now helping thousands of people across her programs, courses, and classes to do the same.

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  • Creator
    Sarah Baldwin
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    108
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    © 2024 You Make Sense
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