Out Loud & Laughing

Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz
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Out Loud & Laughing is a hilarious and heartfelt podcast where queer cousins Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz share their unique perspectives on life, love, and everything in between. Through a comedic lens, they dive into hot topics, life lessons, and the highs and lows of growing up queer. With laughter as their compass, Bryan and Jon create a space where identity and humor intersect, fostering connection, self-expression, and unapologetic joy. Whether you're here for the laughs, the relatability, or a mix of both, this is the show that celebrates being your authentic self—out loud and laughing.

  1. 3d ago

    The Art of Belonging & How Democracy Demands the Queer Existence with Gui Mohallem

    Most artists wouldn't dare turn their activism into a movement for democracy—Ghee Mohlim does it with stunning visuals and unapologetic courage. His work doesn’t just document; it demands action. From capturing the raw realities of queer kinship to fighting for representation in Brazil's political landscape, Ghee proves that art is a powerful weapon in shaping society’s future. In this episode, you'll discover how Ghee turned personal displacement into a global platform for change. He shares his journey from a small mountain town in Brazil to the world's stage, revealing how belonging, identity, and resistance intertwine through his art and activism. We break down his groundbreaking Vote LGBT project, which has elevated queer political participation from three to over three thousand candidates, and his powerful work advocating for intersectional inclusion in democracy. Ghee discusses the emotional and therapeutic role of art—how vulnerability fuels his creativity and activism. You’ll hear about his latest projects, including a poignant return to a rural queer sanctuary, and how his art transforms spaces of harm into sites of community and resistance. His insights on resilience vividly illustrate how, even in the face of global setbacks, the queer community’s collective strength and innovative spirit refuse to be silenced. This episode matters because in a world actively attempting to erase our safety and joy, courage isn’t the absence of fear—it’s doing the work regardless. Ghee’s story is a rallying cry for anyone fighting for visibility, democracy, and love against all odds. Whether you're an artist, activist, or simply passionate about social change, this conversation will inspire you to turn vulnerability into power. Perfect for creatives, organizers, and anyone committed to building a more inclusive, brave world. Tune in to be moved, challenged, and motivated—because the revolution starts with a single image, a single voice, and a heart open enough to love loudly. Instagram: @gui.mohallem Instagram: @votelgbt Website: guimohallem.com YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Ghee Mohallem 04:23 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Art 08:11 Themes of Belonging and Identity 11:44 Recognition and Activism in the Queer Community 14:30 Vote LGBTQ Project and Political Representation 18:55 Courage in the Face of Adversity 22:58 Art as a Sanctuary and Community Engagement 29:01 The Joy of Connection in Art 29:53 Natural Beauty Over Perfection 31:10 The Importance of Authentic Encounters 32:17 Creative Preferences: Light vs. Dark 33:23 Heart Over Art: The Legacy of Love 34:32 Art, Activism, and Community Engagement 35:20 Celebration of Courage awards and gala 2026_1080p.mp4 art, activism, LGBTQ, belonging, democracy, Brazil, queer rights, social change, visual art, political organizing —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    The Art of Belonging & How Democracy Demands the Queer Existence with Gui Mohallem

  2. 5d ago

    Directing the Heartbeat in Every Frame – From Ghosting to A-List Movie Sets with Matt Sparks

    Most people don’t realize that behind viral sketches and bold creativity, there’s a filmmaker who’s been crafting stories since childhood—and is now using those skills to parody dating, explore identity, and connect through humor. Meet Matt Sparks, the visionary behind some of the most hilarious queer content online, from viral ghosting parodies to a hilarious rescue shelter for future boyfriends. In this episode, Matt opens up about how he turned childhood passion into a career, working alongside A-list stars like Tilda Swinton and Julio Torres, all while staying grounded with the same sense of fun he had as a kid filming in his backyard. You’ll discover how Matt’s comedic sketches spring from personal experiences—feeding off honest frustrations and contradictions that resonate with a collective queer exhaustion about dating and self-identity. We break down the art of blending vulnerability with humor, how AI experiments turned viral, and why staying true to your authentic voice is the ultimate creative power move. Plus, Matt shares behind-the-scenes stories: working with mega-celebrities like RuPaul, Martha Stewart, and Casey Musgraves, and how he manages the pressure of industry expectations without losing his sense of play. This episode matters because it reveals the unconventional mindset that fuels authentic, boundary-pushing content—reminding creators and audiences alike that humor, sincerity, and a little chaos lead to real connection. Whether you’re a filmmaker, a content creator, or someone navigating modern relationships, Matt’s journey is a masterclass in turning personal truth into compelling storytelling. Perfect for anyone craving insider tips, laughs, and a reminder to stay messy and authentic in a polished world. Craving unapologetic creativity and a fresh perspective on comedy and community? Hit play—this is one episode you won’t want to miss. Filmmaking, Viral Sketches, Personal Stories, Celebrity Encounters, Creative Process, Humor, LGBTQ+ Content, TikTok, Instagram, Hollywood, Matt Sparks Website: https://www.themattsparks.com/ YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Matt Sparks 02:54 The Early Days of Filmmaking 05:44 Navigating the Big Leagues 08:50 The Creative Process Behind Viral Content 11:52 Personal Reflections on Comedy and Vulnerability 14:51 Memorable Collaborations with Celebrities 17:53 Rapid Fire Questions and Fun Insights —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    Directing the Heartbeat in Every Frame – From Ghosting to A-List Movie Sets with Matt Sparks

  3. Jul 16

    Rebuilding Life on Your Own Terms: Stress, How to Manage it, and How to Do it Authentically with Dr Chris Biddix, PHD

    Most people think “blowing up your life” means losing everything — but for Dr. Chris Biddix, it was the radical transformation that led him to his true self. From the hyper-conservative halls of Liberty University to becoming a Gen Z wellness expert, a proud gay dad, and founder of My Best Stress, his journey defies expectations and rewrites what it truly means to live authentically. If you’re stuck feeling like you’re in a box you don’t fit, this episode is your blueprint to break free—to find honesty, healing, and joy on the other side of upheaval. Dr. Chris shares the raw, powerful turning points that helped him transcend societal and religious pressures, including a heartbreaking divorce, the challenge of navigating family and faith, and the daring decision to embrace his identity. You’ll discover how honesty with himself and his loved ones unlocked a new life — one filled with radical love, radical vulnerability, and a new definition of success. We break down the lessons learned from his recent life explosions, including the pivotal role of mental health, the power of radical honesty, and how to turn stress into a tool for resilience. We explore the unique stressors faced by Gen Z and how traditional leadership and mental health advice fail them — and why shifting from crisis management to stress mastery is essential. Dr. Chris reveals unconventional tactics to train teachers, parents, and leaders to handle trauma and chaos without losing their minds. This episode is perfect for anyone tired of societal expectations, craving radical honesty, and ready to rebuild on their own terms. Whether you're navigating family, faith, work, or dating, Dr. Chris’s story proves that breaking everything down is often the first step to building something better. My best stress, stress management, authenticity, leadership, Gen Z, mental health, personal growth, DEI, parenting, LGBTQ+, Chris Biddix, coming out Purchase Book: ⁠https://shorturl.at/ibh6M⁠ My Best Stress on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mybeststress YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dr. Chris Biddix 01:36 Choosing Authenticity Over Conformity 05:30 Navigating Family Dynamics and Personal Growth 09:45 The Impact of Professional Life on Personal Identity 11:38 The Journey of My Best Stress 19:37 Understanding Gen Z in the Workplace 20:47 Crisis Management and Gen Z's Emotional Landscape 21:55 Building Trust and Relationships with Gen Z 25:07 Understanding Gen Z's Unique Perspectives 25:30 The Hot Seat: Fun and Games with Dr. Chris 31:32 Closing Thoughts and Resources for Gen Z —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    Rebuilding Life on Your Own Terms: Stress, How to Manage it, and How to Do it Authentically with Dr Chris Biddix, PHD

  4. Jul 14

    The Modern Guide to Elevated Living and Bringing the Chaos to Classic Luxury with AJ Hernandez

    Most people see AJ Hernandez as Boston’s stylish lifestyle guru—an impeccably curated content creator with a razor-sharp, unapologetically queer sense of humor. But what if beneath that polished surface, he’s also a deeply resonant voice redefining representation and joy for LGBTQ+ communities? In this episode, AJ openly shares how he’s transforming Boston’s conservative reputation into a vibrant, inclusive hub, simply by showing up with his authentic, joyous self. AJ’s journey from California’s sunny suburbs to becoming Boston’s go-to lifestyle and culture voice is a story of courage, authenticity, and intentional visibility. He reveals how social media — initially just a digital diary — blossomed into a powerful movement for queer joy and representation. You’ll discover the surprising ways AJ balances a curated aesthetic with raw humor and vulnerability, illustrating that one’s digital presence can be both aspirational and deeply real. We break down AJ’s insights on the importance of embracing your identity in spaces where it isn’t always welcomed, how representation heals, and why sharing mundane, intimate moments is a revolutionary act. He discusses his recent marriage, the importance of keeping parts of your life sacred online, and the ongoing challenge of combating stereotypes in gay culture. AJ also highlights how breaking down barriers in a city like Boston creates opportunities for others to participate, thrive, and feel seen. This episode isn’t just about one man’s journey; it’s a blueprint for anyone eager to live out loud, push boundaries, and celebrate their true self. Perfect for LGBTQ+ creators, allies, or anyone seeking practical inspiration to lead with authenticity. Whether you need a confidence boost, a reminder that your story matters, or insights on elevating your digital presence, AJ Hernandez shows us how being unapologetically yourself is the most radical, powerful choice of all. LGBTQ+, queer joy, social media influence, Boston lifestyle, queer representation, marriage, authenticity, personal growth, community, culture Follow AJ Hernandez on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aj_hernandez YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to AJ Hernandez 01:50 AJ's Journey from California to Boston 03:55 Becoming Boston's Lifestyle Expert 05:47 Balancing Aesthetics and Humor in Content Creation 07:49 The Importance of Representation in Media 09:38 Navigating Family Dynamics and Coming Out 13:45 Celebrating Marriage and Queer Joy 19:48 Authenticity in Social Media Content 21:38 Fun and Games: This or That with AJ 22:28 Espresso Martinis and Trends in Drinks 23:57 Personal Preferences: Scruff vs. No Scruff 24:44 Morning Routines: Gym vs. Sleep 25:37 Utility Players: Sports and Preferences 26:42 Fashion Choices: Bold vs. Classic 27:37 Dinner Party Dynamics and Authenticity —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    The Modern Guide to Elevated Living and Bringing the Chaos to Classic Luxury with AJ Hernandez

  5. Jul 9

    From AIDS to Integrative Oncology – Healing Beyond Disease with Dr Donald Abrams

    Join Dr. Donald Abrams, a pioneer in integrative oncology, as he shares his journey from the AIDS crisis front lines to championing holistic healing. Discover how he blends science with soulful care, redefining health through cannabis research and integrative medicine. Explore tangible habits for mental well-being and the power of community and nature in resilience. This episode is a must-listen for those seeking deeper connections and evidence-based healing. Tune in for wisdom and courage that can change lives. Integrative Medicine, Holistic Healing, Cannabis Research, Mind Body Spirit, Health And Wellness, Dr Donald Abrams, HIV Awareness, Healing Journey, Resilience, Community Care About Dr Abrams: https://www.ucsfhealth.org/providers/donald-abrams YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dr. Donald Abrams 02:45 Navigating the AIDS Epidemic 05:35 The Shift in Community and Medicine 07:28 Integrative Medicine and Holistic Healing 10:33 Personal Stories and Relationships 13:33 Reflections on Gay Culture and Community 16:26 Rapid Fire Questions and Closing Thoughts —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    From AIDS to Integrative Oncology – Healing Beyond Disease with Dr Donald Abrams

  6. Jul 7

    From South to Stage: The Journey of Satire and Storytelling with Caleb Zeringue

    Most comedians turn news cycles into punchlines — Caleb Zeringue takes it further, transforming chaos into award-winning theater that shouts queer stories from the rooftops. From viral musicals to hilarious history lessons about America’s most fabulous gay generals, Caleb's work challenges the norms and reclaims the past with wit, sass, and unapologetic honesty In this episode, Caleb dives into his wild journey from Leesville, Louisiana, to the bright lights of New York and San Francisco, revealing how humor became his armor during turbulent times like military service and personal upheaval. You'll discover how he's turning rebellious history into bold stage productions, like the viral Luigi the Musical, and how comedy acts as a bridge for healing, activism, and cultural change. We break down Caleb’s provocative takes on the founding fathers—and their orgies—plus his unique approach to blending standup with theatrical storytelling. You’ll hear about his fearless method of producing art independently when rejection is inevitable, and how he’s building a new kind of Broadway that embraces truth, absurdity, and radical queer history. Caleb shares why leaning into chaos—even in a conservative city like Colorado Springs—can unlock your authenticity and power. This episode is perfect for anyone craving a fresh perspective on history, art, and identity. If you believe humor is the most revolutionary tool we have—whether in standup, theater, or activism—Caleb Zeringue’s story will inspire you to create fearlessly and speak loudly. Caleb Zeringue, queer history, satire, theater, comedy, activism, Luigi the Musical, revolutionary history, LGBTQ+ art, storytelling Caleb Zeringue Website: www.calebzeringue.com/ Caleb Zeringue Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/calebczeringue/ YouTube Channel:⁠ https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1⁠ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Caleb Zeringue 00:55 Growing Up in the South 02:31 Military Background and Its Impact 05:49 Finding His Voice After Divorce 06:56 Using Comedy to Bridge Queer History 11:23 Balancing Humor with Serious Topics 12:59 Creating Your Own Platform 16:25 Comparing Queer Comedy Scenes 17:50 Nostalgia and Connection to New Orleans 20:21 Cultural Experiences and Family Traditions 23:51 This or That: New Orleans Edition 26:25 The Journey of a Leading Man 27:57 Closing Thoughts and Future Endeavors —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9⁠

    From South to Stage: The Journey of Satire and Storytelling with Caleb Zeringue

  7. Jul 2

    Guerrilla Filmmaking, Writing Your Own Roles, and a Little Jumpity Doo with Alex Ringler

    Most creators wait for the industry to give them a stage — but Alex Ringler built his own. From Broadway hits to provocative web series, this multi-hyphenate actor, dancer, choreographer, and writer reveals how he’s forging his own path in a world that often limits LGBTQ+ voices. If you're tired of waiting for opportunities to find you, this episode will inspire you to create them yourself. Alex shares the raw, behind-the-scenes stories behind his high-energy drag performances in Provincetown’s Icons, where dance became a revolution for non-traditional performers in an industry too often rigid in its standards. He discusses how working in that environment reshaped his storytelling, pushing him to craft performances that are unapologetically bold and authentic. Plus, you'll get an insider look at how genres like dance, comedy, and drama intersect in his diverse projects — from self-produced COVID series Annoyingly Fit Neighbor to the nude resort drama Laid Bare. Discover how his ability to wear multiple hats—acting, writing, producing—has not only kept his career afloat but made him unstoppable. You'll break down the mindset behind building your own stages: how to turn constraints into creative fuel, why self-produced content is more vital than ever, and how to navigate the physical toll of a life in performance while bAllancing mental health and personal growth. Alex's insights teach you that success isn’t linear — it’s about resilience, embracing your authenticity, and redefining what it means to be creative in today’s shifting landscape. Perfect for aspiring artists, LGBTQ+ creatives, and anyone feeling stuck in waiting mode, this episode will empower you to step into the spotlight on your own terms. Plus, get Alex’s tips for maintaining peak physical and mental health as a performer, the truth behind industry expectations, and what it really takes to turn your passion into a sustainable career. Whether you're dreaming of Broadway, YouTube fame, or just carving out space for your unique voice, this conversation unlocks the mindset and tools needed to make it happen. Follow Alex Ringler: https://www.instagram.com/alexringler/?hl=en Alex Ringler Website: https://alexringler.com/ Alex Ringler, Broadway, independent filmmaking, self-production, dance, acting, LGBTQ+ representation, seeking series, Laid Bare, Provincetown YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Alex Ringler 02:00 The Birth of Icons in Provincetown 05:19 Creating Opportunities in Acting 08:37 The Freedom of Nudity in Performance 12:28 BAllancing Creativity and Personal Life 15:29 Navigating the Chaos of Creativity 18:51 Fitness and Aging in the Arts 21:10 The Pressure of Performance and Health 25:59 The Game: This or That 29:15 Creative Process and Writing Habits 32:05 Closing Thoughts and Future Endeavors —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    Guerrilla Filmmaking, Writing Your Own Roles, and a Little Jumpity Doo with Alex Ringler

  8. Jun 30

    Heart and Spade in the Pocket – Building an Independent PR for Queer Voices Everyone Knows and Loves with Matt Gross

    Most PR firms spin stories, but Matt Gross built Heart Spade PR from pure heart and grassroots hustle—centered on authentic queer voices in a crowded, commercialized landscape. Discover how he turned a passion for visibility and integrity into a thriving, values-driven agency that defies industry norms. In this episode, Matt shares his remarkable journey from Brooklyn music blogger to a powerhouse in LGBTQ advocacy and entertainment PR. You'll learn how he navigates a busy career without losing his peace—protecting personal time amid the relentless demands of client work and social media. His story reveals the importance of staying true to your values, especially when the industry’s spotlight often favors superficial partnerships like rainbow washing. We break down actionable insights: how to build a grassroots brand with heart, the pitfalls of corporate red tape, and practical tips for maintaining mental peace in a high-stakes world. Matt also discusses the shift in PR strategies—from traditional deep dives to viral moments—and why long-term relationships, authenticity, and community matter more than ever. His work with beloved LGBTQ icons like Jinx Monsoon and Isaac Mizrahi exemplifies a commitment to passion projects that truly make a difference, not just headlines. Why does this matter? Because in a landscape filled with performative allyship, real impact requires courage, consistency, and a deep understanding of community needs. This episode offers a blueprint for anyone who wants to create meaningful change, whether you're a PR pro, an entrepreneur, or simply looking to amplify authentic voices in your world. Matt Gross is the founder of Heart Spade PR, championing LGBTQ voices in entertainment and culture through strategic storytelling rooted in authenticity. Get inspired by a founder whose hustle is fueled by heart, and learn how you can align your work with your values—making a difference from the grassroots up. Heart Spade PR: https://www.heartspadepr.com/ Heart Spade PR Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heartspadepr/ Matt Gross, Gay PR, LGBTQ advocacy, PR, entrepreneurship, queer voices, entertainment industry, grassroots efforts, brand authenticity YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Matt Gross and Heart Spade PR 02:23 The Journey of Building a PR Empire 05:50 The Shift from Corporate to Personal 08:19 The Meaning Behind Heart Spade PR 12:11 Navigating Rainbow Washing in PR 14:56 Highlighting Grassroots LGBTQ Advocacy 17:16 Proud Projects and Long-Term Collaborations 18:17 Reflections on a Career in Entertainment 20:17 This or That: A Fun Game with Matt 25:31 Closing Thoughts and Future Connections —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    Heart and Spade in the Pocket – Building an Independent PR for Queer Voices Everyone Knows and Loves with Matt Gross
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Out Loud & Laughing is a hilarious and heartfelt podcast where queer cousins Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz share their unique perspectives on life, love, and everything in between. Through a comedic lens, they dive into hot topics, life lessons, and the highs and lows of growing up queer. With laughter as their compass, Bryan and Jon create a space where identity and humor intersect, fostering connection, self-expression, and unapologetic joy. Whether you're here for the laughs, the relatability, or a mix of both, this is the show that celebrates being your authentic self—out loud and laughing.

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  • Creator
    Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    157
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2024
  • Show Website
    Out Loud & Laughing

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