Conversations with Shloimie

Shlomo Rappoport

Conversations with Shloimie is a raw and real space where mental health, personal growth, and spirituality intersect. Each episode dives deep into the human experience: From stories of struggle and healing to meaningful conversations with guests who aren’t afraid to go there. Whether you're a therapist, a seeker, or part of the Jewish community looking for honest dialogue, this podcast invites you to listen in, reflect, and grow. No fluff. Just heart, depth, and the courage to be real.

  1. FEB 8

    Dr. Elka Pinson: Why Wasting Time Is A Myth - Insights from Decades of Therapy Practice

    In this conversation, Dr. Elka Jacobs-Pinson shares her extensive experience in psychotherapy, discussing the evolution of therapeutic practices, the importance of integrating past experiences, and the role of self-acceptance in personal growth. She emphasizes that therapy is not just about feelings but also about processing information and learning from experiences. The discussion touches on the necessity of support and validation, the impact of parental anxiety on children, and the balance between therapy and independence. Dr. Jacobs-Pinson also highlights the significance of hobbies and curiosity in maintaining mental well-being, concluding with a message that everyone faces challenges, and it's essential to recognize that we are not alone in our struggles.Takeaways- Therapy integrates past experiences into a cohesive self-understanding.- Nothing is wasted; every experience contributes to personal growth.- Art therapy can be a powerful tool for healing and expression.- The evolution of psychotherapy reflects changing societal needs.- Information processing is as crucial as emotional understanding in therapy.- Not everyone needs therapy, but everyone needs support and validation.- Parental anxiety can impact children's resilience and coping skills.- Therapy should empower clients to become independent and self-sufficient.- Self-acceptance is a key component of personal growth and healing.- Long-term therapy can lead to profound transformations, even if not immediately visible.Keywords:therapy, psychotherapy, self-acceptance, resilience, EMDR, IFS, mental health, art therapy, personal growth, parental anxiety

    1h 11m
  2. JAN 12

    Part 2: "Sex Addiction is Not About Sex" - Dr. Akiva Perlman on Healing Shame, Reclaiming Intimacy

    Summary In this conversation, Dr. Akiva Perlman discusses the complexities of sex addiction, emphasizing that it often stems from deeper issues of self-worth and connection rather than mere sexual behavior. He explores the impact of shame, particularly in religious communities, and the importance of understanding sexuality as a relational issue. The dialogue also touches on the journey of self-discovery, the significance of love and acceptance, and the need for a more nuanced approach to sexuality and addiction. Takeaways Sex addiction is often more about emotional connection than sexual behavior.Shame and guilt are significant factors in sexual struggles, especially in religious contexts.Understanding one's self-worth is crucial in addressing sexual addiction.Sexuality should be viewed through a relational lens, not just a behavioral one.The journey of self-discovery is essential for personal growth and healing.Acknowledging and facing shame can lead to healthier relationships with oneself and others.Parents should foster an environment of understanding and acceptance regarding sexual struggles.Life is a continuous journey of growth, not a destination to reach.Love and compassion towards oneself are vital in overcoming struggles.The conversation around sexuality needs to evolve beyond black-and-white narratives.Sound bites "Sex addiction has very little to do with sex." "Sexuality is attachment, it is relational." "Life is a journey, not a destination." Keywords sex addiction, healthy sexuality, shame, self-worth, vulnerability, intimacy, relational issues, mental health, therapy, community

    55 min
  3. 12/28/2025

    "Rehab is the beginning of a longer process." w/ Devora Shabtai

    Summary In this conversation, Shlomo Rappoport speaks with Devora Shabtai, the Director of Specialty Programming at Beachway Therapy Center, about the complexities of rehab for addiction and trauma. They discuss the importance of understanding the rehab experience, the role of family involvement, cultural influences, and the significance of peer relationships. The conversation emphasizes that rehab is not a quick fix but the beginning of a longer journey towards recovery, highlighting the need for ongoing support and aftercare. They also touch on the financial realities of rehab and the importance of choosing the right program for individual needs. Takeaways Rehab is the beginning of a longer process.Cultural identity plays a significant role in the rehab experience.Family involvement is crucial for successful recovery.Rehab is not a quick fix; it requires ongoing support.Peer relationships can have both positive and negative impacts in rehab.Understanding the individual needs of clients is essential.The cost of rehab can be a barrier to access.Aftercare is critical for sustained recovery.Psychedelics are not a one-size-fits-all solution in treatment.The journey of recovery is more important than the outcome. Keywords rehab, addiction, trauma, family involvement, cultural influences, peer relationships, sexuality, aftercare, mental health, recovery, jewish, shabbos,"Understanding individual needs is essential.""The cost of rehab can be a barrier to access." Contact Devora Shabtai @ Devora.s@beachway.com

    1h 21m
  4. 12/14/2025

    The Unfiltered Jew: Navigating the Charedi-Liberal Divide w/ Chaya Leah Sufrin

    SummaryIn this conversation, Shloimie and Chaya Leah discuss her journey as a Jewish educator and podcaster, navigating the complexities of her identity as a Chabad woman in a liberal Jewish world. She reflects on the impact of politics, the Holocaust, and anti-Semitism on Jewish identity, as well as the importance of community and family. The podcast 'Ask a Jew' serves as a platform for open dialogue about these issues, emphasizing the need for unity and understanding within the Jewish community. In this conversation, Chaya Leah discusses the fears and challenges faced by the younger generation, including loneliness and financial insecurity. She reflects on the lack of optimism in today's world compared to the past and emphasizes the importance of community and relationships. The discussion also touches on the crisis of meaning, particularly regarding parenthood, and the role of humor in Jewish identity. Chaya Leah shares personal anecdotes about family dynamics, the significance of mourning and memory, and the need for courageous leadership within the Jewish community. Ultimately, she encourages individuals to take initiative in building their lives and communities.Takeaways - Chaya Leah's journey reflects a blend of Chabad and liberal Jewish values.- The podcast 'Ask a Jew' serves as a platform for discussing Jewish identity.- Living between two worlds can be both challenging and enriching.- Political engagement is crucial for modern Jewish identity.- The Holocaust's impact on Jewish identity is profound and ongoing.- Anti-Semitism remains a significant concern for the Jewish community.- October 7th has reshaped conversations around Jewish identity and unity.- The importance of community and family in Jewish life is emphasized.- Navigating differences in Jewish identity is essential for unity.- The future of Jewish identity will require open dialogue and understanding. - Young people fear loneliness and financial insecurity.- The current generation lacks mechanisms for building friendships.- There is a crisis of meaning regarding parenthood.- Humor plays a crucial role in Jewish identity and healing.- Family dynamics often avoid deep emotional conversations.- Mourning and memory are essential for healing.- Courageous leadership is needed in the Jewish community.- Institutionalizing days of mourning can help process trauma.- Community and relationships are vital for a fulfilling life.- Individuals should take initiative to create their own community.KeywordsChaya Leah, Sufrin, Jewish identity, Haredi community, liberal Judaism, podcast, Ask a Jew, anti-Semitism, Holocaust, October 7th, Jewish unity, youth fears, community, optimism, climate change, parenting crisis, humor, Jewish identity, emotional expression, mourning, leadership

    1h 36m
5
out of 5
5 Ratings

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Conversations with Shloimie is a raw and real space where mental health, personal growth, and spirituality intersect. Each episode dives deep into the human experience: From stories of struggle and healing to meaningful conversations with guests who aren’t afraid to go there. Whether you're a therapist, a seeker, or part of the Jewish community looking for honest dialogue, this podcast invites you to listen in, reflect, and grow. No fluff. Just heart, depth, and the courage to be real.

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