Men Worth Dating

Rafael Gomez
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(Formally Women on Men Podcast) Every man says he’s a good guy. Not one of them can prove he’s done the work. You can.I’m Rafael Gomez. There are ten standards that make a man worth dating: like women as people, know yourself, decide what you want, look after yourself, have a full life, go after what you want, keep your promises, be safe to be around, be kind not nice, be good company.Not one of them is a trait you either have or you don’t. All ten are learnable, and working on any one of them improves your chances.Here you’ll find teardowns of the advice men are being sold, interviews with women about what actually moves them, and the work itself.Find out if you’re worth dating: menworthdating.com

  1. Oct 30

    “Men Need Better Men” | Megan Lucky on the Advice Men Are Getting Online

    Megan Lucky went viral twice for chugging a beer at the US Open, and the internet decided it knew who she was. She’s now training to be a therapist.We get into being labeled at 22, why she used to choose men she looked up to over men who treated her well, what people pleasing actually costs you, and her read on the advice men are getting online right now. Her answer on confidence is the best thing anyone has said on this show.

  2. Oct 21

    Your Loneliness Has Nothing To Do With Women | YV Edit

    YV has been reading the manosphere since before most of its audience found it. She was deep in TheRedPill subreddit fifteen years ago, before it was quarantined, and she has been tracking it ever since. She also happens to have been happily married for fifteen years, which surprises most of the men who find her. We covered: Why she thinks men in the comments are lonely for a connection with themselves rather than for a woman The four questions she wants men to sit with, and why she calls it shadow work What a real hypergamy would actually look like, and why men would hate it The 80/20 rule, and the one search that takes it apart Why a man who has nothing to offer but employment and a vague promise of protection is in trouble Growing up in the former Soviet Union, where every doctor she had was a woman Why she tells American women to get more unlikable Porn brain, and what women are reporting about how it shows up on dates Follow YV Edit: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_yv_edit

  3. Oct 16

    Hypergamy Goes Both Ways | Therapist Jamie Lynn on the Red Pill’s Favorite Word

    A licensed therapist went on a red pill podcast, didn’t like what she heard, and built the opposite. Jamie Lynn on why the techniques don’t survive contact with an actual relationship, why “keep her guessing” works the way a slot machine works, and why hypergamy only ever gets pointed one direction. Are you worth dating? Find out on menworthdating.com

  4. Sep 17

    Everything The Red Pill Swears She Can't Be | Jade Greene

    Buy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontraining Join me live every Thursday on TikTok (@women.on.men) and Instagram (@women_on_men) Jade Greene funded a business degree with pageant winnings, worked as a financial analyst, and now writes erotica and works in the adult industry. She went on Fresh & Fit in 2025 and told Myron and Walter to their faces that what they were selling was garbage. She has been with her husband for thirteen years. We covered: The Miami bubble problem with red pill dating advice  The question she asked Myron and Walter that nobody could answer  Why her husband thought he looked his worst the night she met him  Her dating history, and what it says about a single attractiveness hierarchy  The friend zone reframe she used on an incel friend  Why the provider frame is a bad bet  What the red pill gets wrong about female desire  Why she feels sorry for Gen Z  Her closing message to men who keep getting rejected If you have been told a woman like this does not exist, this episode is going to be uncomfortable. Follow Jade on Instagram: @authorjadegreene

  5. Aug 3

    The Cambridge Debate Master Takes Apart The Red Pill | Tilly Middlehurst

    Buy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontraining Join me live every Thursday on TikTok (@women.on.men) and Instagram (@women_on_men) Tilly Middlehurst went viral at 19 as the Cambridge student who debated Charlie Kirk. She has coached debate at the highest level, writes on feminism and contemporary fascism, and she has thoughts on the red pill that no one else in this space is bringing. We covered: The vegan writing a restaurant review analogy she used to describe Myron dispensing dating advice  How she slid into her boyfriend's DMs and why him not knowing who Andrew Tate was sealed the deal  The UK schools anti misogyny debate and why the right blocked it while claiming to hate misogyny  How MAGA weaponized gender as the underbelly of every other political fight  Her framework for spotting red pill language in men who claim not to be red pill  Her breakdown of Andrew Tate's own on record statements  Why she calls the red pill an abuse tutorial  The Plato mic drop, why the red pill version of masculinity was already refuted 2000 years ago  Her closing message to men who feel rejected by women for their beliefs If you think the red pill is philosophically edgy or intellectually serious, this episode is going to be uncomfortable. Follow Tilly on Instagram: @tilllllly.y

  6. Jul 29

    She Went On Fresh & Fit & Exposed Their Manipulation Playbook | Mac Lawson

    Buy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontraining Join me live every Thursday on TikTok (@women.on.men) and Instagram (@women_on_men) Mac Lawson is a stand up comedian, roast battle host, and one of the few women who has been on Fresh & Fit twice. She has stories most guests won't tell and receipts on how that show actually operates. We covered: Her backstory as a Christian virgin until 22 and why the church rejected her for waiting  The narcissist ex who worked in government and wouldn't let her work  Her current relationship with a 28 year old who reset the standard for how she wants to be treated  The Fresh & Fit manipulation playbook, from seat selection to the giant screen zoomed on your face  How Fresh & Fit bans positive comments in their chat so only hate gets through  The karma story of the guy who bullied her on a spinoff show and got exposed as a woman beater the next day  The moment she called Myron out on his own show and turned the chat against him  Her theory on why Myron does what he does and whether he believes any of it  The contradiction at the heart of red pill logic  Her closing advice to men on emotional regulation and being the best version of yourself If your first exposure to this space was a Fresh & Fit clip, this is the counter narrative. Follow Mac on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bigmaclawson

  7. Jun 24

    The Flirting Crisis Killing Men's Dating Lives | Marni Kinrys

    Buy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontraining Join me live every Thursday on TikTok (@women.on.men) and Instagram (@women_on_men) Marni Kinrys is the founder of the Wing Girl Method and one of the most trusted voices in this space. She was the first woman to run a business inside the original pickup artist world, she's coached millions of men over 23 years, and she has interviewed over 10,000 women on what they actually respond to. We covered: What the flirting crisis is and why men are wearing a friend mask instead of flirting  The OSHA method for starting conversations anywhere (observe, share, ask)  Why online dating is where women shop for ideals and real life is where attraction actually happens  The story of how she met her husband and why she wasn't attracted until the third meeting  Why people pleasing and being an a*****e are two sides of the same insecure coin  The Robert Glover blurt it out lesson from No More Mr. Nice Guy  The small intentions approach to taking pressure off cold approaches  The playful assumption texting framework with real examples  Her response to the "don't ask a fish how to catch a fish" line  The heart rate monitor analogy for what women actually want in a long term relationship If you've never been taught how to flirt, this episode is the unlock. Marni's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@marnikinrys

  8. May 14

    The 4 Red Flags Women Won't Forgive (And Why Red Pill Tactics Backfire) | Amy Rushworth

    Buy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontraining Join me live every Thursday on TikTok (@women.on.men) and Instagram (@women_on_men) Amy Rushworth is a women's empowerment educator and creator of the Red Flag Handbook. She helps women heal attachment trauma and build secure, lasting relationships, and she had plenty to say to the men listening too. We covered: Her backstory growing up around abuse and how it shaped her early dating The breakup and betrayal that triggered her healing journey How she met her husband on Bumble and what he did differently from every other guy The four red flags she says women should never overlook Why 99 percent of partner femicide cases involve coercive control The eight date rule and why she stands by it The steroids versus gym analogy for red pill dating tactics Why men shouldn't take female criticism so personally If you want a real relationship instead of running game, this episode is worth your time. Follow Amy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thisisamyrushworth

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(Formally Women on Men Podcast) Every man says he’s a good guy. Not one of them can prove he’s done the work. You can.I’m Rafael Gomez. There are ten standards that make a man worth dating: like women as people, know yourself, decide what you want, look after yourself, have a full life, go after what you want, keep your promises, be safe to be around, be kind not nice, be good company.Not one of them is a trait you either have or you don’t. All ten are learnable, and working on any one of them improves your chances.Here you’ll find teardowns of the advice men are being sold, interviews with women about what actually moves them, and the work itself.Find out if you’re worth dating: menworthdating.com

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  • Creator
    Rafael Gomez
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    22
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Men Worth Dating
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