[EP0092] 50+Connie大嬸 x 從 GQ、BAZAAR 到劇場新人:Jerry 的第二人生,最難的是放下「我曾經很厲害」 (下) 用劇場服裝設計把 "老, 病, 失智, 死亡與記憶" 變得可感又可談 : 不把人畫成 "病人 ", 而是讓角色在破碎與美麗之間, 繼續保有人生的質地. 1 Jerry 分享他最近服裝設計的作品. 兩部新劇 : "孃孃狂言" 和 "你來的時候 " 2 兩個人 (尤其兩位女性) 一輩子住在一起, 不必然等於同性伴侶 : 也可能是相扶相持的同伴/好友 3 談失智與老去, 不一定要用 "衰敗感" 做視覺符號. 呈現失智長者時, 服裝不必把人做成 "生病的人" ; 可以用更藝術, 更尊嚴的方式去表達心理狀態與記憶碎片 4 熟齡愛情與性生活是可被討論的 "人生議題", 不是禁忌. 另一半離開後, 仍可以追求下一段幸福, 年紀大了, 也未必就不能談戀愛或者有性生活 5 面對死亡更務實 : 把自己照顧好, 把後事說清楚, 是對家人最大的愛. 人老了, 最重要是把自己照顧好, 不要造成家人負擔, 並且可以更早談後事安排 6 Jerry 分享參加好朋友父親的告別, 感受到 "不一定要哭喊與繁複儀式". 回家後, 就主動問母親想要怎麼辦, 發現其實家人也願意談, 他也和母親分享了他自己想要怎麼辦的想法 7 Why not ? 難道人老了....... 就不能談戀愛了嗎? 8 棺材裝的是死人, 不是老人 9 我們常說來日方長, 但是來日真的方長嗎? 10 Jerry 的服裝作品可以在兩部即將上映的新劇裡面看到. Jerry 說若要看這兩部戲, 提醒來賓要帶手帕和衛生紙 工商一下, Jerry 的作品來囉 https://kham.com.tw/application/UTK02/UTK0201_.aspx?PRODUCT_ID=P19CQHU9 img style="text-align:center;" 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