The Emotionally Focused Therapy Podcast

The Art, Heart, and Science of EFT
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The Emotionally Focused Therapy Podcast explores the art, heart, and science of EFT. Hosted by EFT Trainers Michael Barnett and Silvina Irwin and EFT Supervisor Michael Preston, each episode offers deep insights and real conversations for therapists learning and leaning into EFT.

  1. Sep 9

    The Supervision Tapes w/ EFT Trainer Sandra Taylor

    EFT externships, LGBTQ+ therapy, and dementia: What therapists need to know! Michael Preston talks with Sandra Taylor of the British Emotionally Focused Therapy Center about what makes EFT externships powerful in person, how to prepare for a four-day training, and what therapists often miss when working with LGBTQ+ couples. Sandra also shares deeply personal, clinically rich reflections on working with couples facing dementia, including grief, connection, and the idea of “rementing.” To Join Sandra, Sarah, and Michael along with the rest of the BEFT Centre Training team in Edinburgh visit: https://www.beftcentre.org/efct-in-person-edinburgh-oct-2026/ To learn more about working with Michael Preston for supervision visit www.michaelprestonlpc.comDon't forget to follow The Emotionally Focused Therapy Podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcast.Attribution:Intro MusicPalms Down by Blue Dot Palms Down by ⁠Blue Dot Session dfrv4qmi

  2. Aug 25 ·  Bonus

    The Supervision Tapes w/ Laurie Watson

    Michael Preston talks with Laurie Watson about why sex belongs in couples therapy from the very first session, how sexual and emotional cycles intersect, and how attachment shapes desire, vulnerability, and repair. Laurie shares a practical EFT lens for understanding sexual pursuer-withdrawer patterns, coercion, shame, affair recovery, and how therapists can normalize sexual conversation without taking over the couple’s work. To Preorder Laurie and George's new book Brave Love, Great Sex visit https://www.amazon.com/Brave-Love-Great-Sex-Relationships/dp/B0G7CTTFTK To learn more about working with Michael Preston for supervision visit www.michaelprestonlpc.com Don't forget to follow The Emotionally Focused Therapy Podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcast.

  3. Aug 11 ·  Bonus

    The Supervision Tapes w/Kelly Bourque!

    EFT Intensives with Kelly Bourque Michael Preston talks with Kelly Bourque, resident EFT intensive specialist, about how to screen couples, structure EFT intensives, and decide whether this model is the right fit for a therapist or a couple. Kelly shares the practical systems she has refined over years of doing intensives full time, plus the pacing, safety, and follow-up work that make the model effective.In this episode, they focus on what actually changes in an intensive, what does not change, and why clarity matters more than trying to force a breakthrough. Kelly also explains how her training and e-course help therapists prepare with paperwork, consult structure, and realistic expectations. To learn more about attending Kelly's EFT intensives trainings visit www.RedTherapyGroup.com As always to work with EFT Trainers Michael Barnett or Dr. Silvina Irwin visit their websites: www.MichaelBarnettlpc.com www.DrSilvinaIrwin.com To work with EFT Supervisor Michael Preston visit his website: www.MichaelPrestonLPC.com Attribution:Intro MusicPalms Down by Blue Dot Palms Down by ⁠Blue Dot Session dfrv4qmi

  4. Jul 28 ·  Bonus

    The Supervision Tapes W/ Katharina Sandizell

    In this episode of the Emotionally Focused Therapy Podcast, Michael Preston and Katarina Sandizell explore the nuances of integrating psychoeducation within EFT sessions while maintaining emotional engagement. They discuss strategies for therapists to stay authentic, avoid over-explaining, and foster client vulnerability—all while navigating their own personal and attachment patterns. LINKS To Learn more about Joining the EFT Deliberate Practice Group that will start in September, Go to: www.michaelprestonlpc.com/tango To learn about working with Katarina visit www.lovefrontiertherapy.com As always to work with EFT Trainers Michael Barnett or Dr. Silvina Irwin visit their websites: www.MichaelBarnettlpc.com www.DrSilvinaIrwin.com To work with EFT Supervisor Michael Preston visit his website: www.MichaelPrestonLPC.com Attribution:Intro MusicPalms Down by Blue Dot Palms Down by ⁠Blue Dot Session dfrv4qmi

  5. Jul 14 ·  Bonus

    The Supervision Tape W/ Matthew Harris

    Navigating EFT with the LGBTQIA+ Community: Insights from Matthew HarrisIn this episode, Michael Preston is joined by Matthew Harris, an EFT supervisor with a rich background in working with LGBTQIA+ clients. They explore how EFT can be adapted to better serve sexual and gender minority populations, emphasizing authenticity, curiosity, and cultural humility. Whether you're new to this community or seeking to deepen your practice, this conversation offers practical insights and inspiring reflections. LINKS To Learn more about Joining the EFT Deliberate Practice Group that will start in September, Go to: www.michaelprestonlpc.com/tango To learn about working with Matthew Harris visit www.matthewharrismft.com As always to work with EFT Trainers Michael Barnett or Dr. Silvina Irwin visit their websites: www.MichaelBarnettlpc.com www.DrSilvinaIrwin.com To work with EFT Supervisor Michael Preston visit his website: www.MichaelPrestonLPC.com Attribution:Intro MusicPalms Down by Blue Dot Palms Down by ⁠Blue Dot Session dfrv4qmi

  6. Jun 30 ·  Bonus

    The Supervision Tapes w/Dr. Lisa Blum

    Breaking Down Barriers: Integrating Sexuality & EFT — An Expert Conversation. In this discussion, Lisa Blum shares her insights on how EFT therapists can confidently incorporate discussions of sex and intimacy into their practice. We explore practical strategies for normalizing conversations around sexuality, addressing desire discrepancies, and enhancing relational safety in therapy. LINKS To Learn more about Joining the EFT Deliberate Practice Group that will start in JULY, Go to: www.michaelprestonlpc.com/tango To learn about Lisa and Sil's Hold Me Tight Weekend or working with Dr. Blum as a Supervisor visit www.drlisablum.com https://www.eftresourcecenter.com/ As always to work with EFT Trainers Michael Barnett or Dr. Silvina Irwin visit their websites: www.MichaelBarnettlpc.com www.DrSilvinaIrwin.com To work with EFT Supervisor Michael Preston visit his website: www.MichaelPrestonLPC.com Attribution:Intro MusicPalms Down by Blue Dot Palms Down by ⁠Blue Dot Session dfrv4qmi

  7. Jun 16 ·  Bonus

    The Supervision Tapes w/ Sarah McConnell

    Navigating Family Dynamics and Therapist Self-Care in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)In this insightful episode, Michael Preston and EFT trainer Sarah McConnell explore the nuances of working with family systems, shifting from couple to family therapy, and maintaining therapist resilience. This conversation offers practical frameworks and reflections for therapists seeking to deepen their understanding and effectiveness in EFT.Main Topics: Transitioning from couples to family therapy: hierarchy vs. equalityStages of EFFT and their focus on caregiver availability and child blocksValidating behaviors in family sessions: tracking and understanding responsesManaging self-awareness and self-care as a therapist in complex sessionsSimplifying EFT process for ongoing growth and managing messy sessionsRecognizing and working with pursuer and withdrawer cyclesBuilding secure attachment through responsive caregivingResources and upcoming trainings in EFT and EFFT modelsSarah shares her perspective on shifting from couple to family models and the importance of understanding stages in EFFTDiscussion on how attachment principles underpin family work, emphasizing caregiver availabilityTechniques for validating different behaviors and keeping the focus on process during family sessionsPractical advice for therapists to stay grounded and self-compassionate when sessions become complicatedThe significance of ongoing practice, reflection, and community engagement in mastering EFT skills To Learn more about Joining the EFT Deliberate Practice Group that will start in JULY, Go to: www.michaelprestonlpc.com/tango To learn about working with Sarah McConnell visit: https://www.beftcentre.org/ As always to work with EFT Trainers Michael Barnett or Dr. Silvina Irwin visit their websites: www.MichaelBarnettlpc.com www.DrSilvinaIrwin.com To work with EFT Supervisor Michael Preston visit his website: www.MichaelPrestonLPC.com Attribution:Intro MusicPalms Down by Blue Dot Palms Down by ⁠Blue Dot Session dfrv4qmi

  8. Jun 2 ·  Bonus

    The Supervision Tapes w/ Rachel Chiu

    Join Michael Preston and Rachel Chiu as they explore the impact of patriarchy and misogyny on emotional health, gender roles, and relationships. This conversation offers deep insights into how systemic oppression shapes personal experiences and therapeutic practices. keywords patriarchy, misogyny, gender roles, emotional health, systemic oppression, EFT, therapy, cultural narratives, gender equality key topics Impact of patriarchy and misogyny on emotional healthHow systemic oppression influences gender roles and relationshipsStrategies for therapists to address cultural narratives in session To Reach out for Supervision with Rachel Chiu visit her website: https://www.restoretherapysc.com/eft-supervision To Learn more about EFT Triage 2026 in Los Vegas visit: https://efttriage.com/ As always to work with EFT Trainers Michael Barnett or Dr. Silvina Irwin visit their websites: www.MichaelBarnettlpc.com www.DrSilvinaIrwin.com To work with EFT Supervisor Michael Preston visit his website: www.MichaelPrestonLPC.com To join Michael's Tango Class waitlist visit: WWW.MichaelPrestonLPC.com/tangowaitlist Attribution:Intro MusicPalms Down by Blue Dot Palms Down by ⁠Blue Dot Session dfrv4qmi

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The Emotionally Focused Therapy Podcast explores the art, heart, and science of EFT. Hosted by EFT Trainers Michael Barnett and Silvina Irwin and EFT Supervisor Michael Preston, each episode offers deep insights and real conversations for therapists learning and leaning into EFT.

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