Home After 50™

Juli Ford
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Home After 50™ is the podcast for women over 50 navigating midlife, aging parents, and the new shape of family and home. Host Juli Ford has lived in a multigenerational home for more than eleven years. She is a Certified Senior Advisor®, a real estate broker, and a trusted voice on multigenerational living, featured on Fox & Friends and in Business Insider, Newsweek and The New York Times. Each week, Juli shares honest stories and practical strategy for Gen X women and the sandwich generation: caring for aging parents, sharing a home with three generations, financing a multigenerational home or ADU, navigating hard family conversations, embracing the empty nest, and reinventing life after 50. If you're a woman 50+ wondering what comes next for your home, your family, and yourself, you'll feel right at home here. Follow and subscribe for new episodes every week, and download Juli's free Multi-Generational Living Guide and other resources at juliford.com.

  1. Oct 24

    Multigenerational Living Q&A: Who Makes Dinner, and Can Friends Move In Too?

    Who is responsible for dinner in a multi-gen home? And can the same principles work when friends, not family, share a house? Juli continues her October series answering real questions from her community. Erin, who commutes 40 minutes four days a week, asks for help with meal prep, the main pain point in her home with her parents. Mary asks whether the Real Math of Multi-Generational Living applies to friends living together. Juli shares honest stories from her own family table and the planning that protects everyone's future. What Juli covers: - Why stepping away is hard when you care for aging parents, and why asking for help matters - Why dinner is not one person's job, even in a multi-gen home - Ways to share the cooking: weekend batch prep, a night for each person, and resetting expectations - How the same money, legal, and boundary principles apply when friends share a home - What happens to a shared home if one owner passes away and her children inherit her share - Planning for relatives who are not in the household but may be affected later "It is not one person's responsibility to make sure there's dinner on the table every night." Juli Ford Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to Home After 50 00:29 A soul-nourishing weekend with friends in Maine 01:52 Caring for aging parents and asking for help 02:55 Real questions from the audience 03:22 Erin asks: who handles meal prep in a multi-gen home? 08:22 Mary asks: does the Real Math of Multi-Gen Living work with friends? 11:08 Inheritance, estate planning, and the children of co-owners 12:50 Wrap-up Thinking about sharing a home with family or friends? Leave a comment or email juli@juliford.com. Juli may share your question on a future episode. Resources: - The Multi-Gen Money Guide and all multi-gen resources: juliford.com/multi-gen - Book a Clarity Call: juliford.com/consult - Follow Juli on Instagram: @itsjuliford - Watch or listen to the Home After 50 Podcast - Explore more resources: juliford.com - Email Juli directly: juli@juliford.com

  2. Oct 17

    Multigenerational Living: Close Enough to Help, Far Enough for Peace

    How do you live close enough to help without giving up your privacy? Juli continues her audience questions series, this time straight from her inbox. Roberta wants separate spaces near her married daughter's family. A longtime listener shares why her family's multi-gen move ended after six months, and why she's still glad they tried. And Ellen asks what to do when parents say yes to everything but never act. What Juli covers: ●      Three ways to create privacy: a backyard ADU (around $400,000 in Massachusetts), a basement apartment, or a private suite ●      How her own family handled noise, including Bluetooth hearing aids connected to the TV ●      Using short, time-boxed family meetings to ease money tension ●      Why a multi-gen move that ends isn't a failure, and how to "try it on" first ●      The Medicaid five-year look-back and why to work with an elder law attorney ●      Why parents agree to a plan but never act, and the emotions underneath "Sometimes we think it's the logistics that are slowing us down from decisions, but sometimes it's actually the emotions that are at the root of holding us back from actually taking action." Juli Ford Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to Home After 50 00:29 Why Juli stopped waiting for perfect 01:25 Real questions from Juli's inbox 02:08 Question 1: Close enough to help, far enough for peace 02:50 Privacy options: ADU, basement, or a private suite 05:56 Money tension and family meetings 08:15 Question 2: When multi-gen living doesn't work out 09:47 Try it on before you commit 10:56 Question 3: Parents open to everything but never do anything 11:27 The Medicaid look-back and elder law attorneys 13:36 Why parents say yes but never act 16:48 What's coming up next Have a question about your own multi-gen home? Leave a comment or email juli@juliford.com. Juli may answer it on a future episode. Resources: ●      Find an elder law attorney near you https://www.naela.org/Web/Shared_Content/Directories/Find-a-Lawyer.aspx ●      The Multi-Gen Money Guide and all multi-gen resources: juliford.com/multi-gen ●      Book a Clarity Call: juliford.com/consulting ●      Follow Juli on Instagram: @itsjuliford ●      Watch or listen to the Home After 50 Podcast on YouTube ●      Explore more resources: juliford.com ●      Email Juli directly: juli@juliford.com

  3. Oct 10

    Will the Housework All Fall on the Woman? Fairness in a Multigenerational Home

    You love the idea of multi-gen living, but what if the work lands on you? Juli continues her series answering real comments from her community. Pam worries the lion's share of the housework will fall on the woman, no matter the generation. Dana asks about home maintenance, contributions, and the long-term care phase most families never plan for. Juli shares practical ways to make a shared home feel fair, balanced, and built to last. What Juli covers: Why women still worry about carrying most of the housework, and how adding aging parents or grandchildren can make it feel heavierHaving the conversation before anyone moves inFinding an advocate in the family before the family meetingMoney and energy: why one generation often brings more of each, and how to value non-financial contributionsRemembering that taxes, insurance, and repairs grow over time, and why an annual cost check-in helpsThe care phase for aging parents (a full episode is coming soon) "It's one thing to set up your multi-generational home financially and get it started. It's another thing to make sure you can keep it running." Juli Ford Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to Home After 50 00:29 Introduction and Podcast Tech Updates 01:28 Engaging with Audience Comments 03:24 Are women expected to do most of the housework in a Multi-Generational Home? 09:40 Maintenance and Contributions in Multi-Generational Homes 12:22 Long-Term Care Planning for Aging Parents Navigating this in your own home? Leave a comment or email juli@juliford.com. Juli may share your story on a future episode. Resources: The Multi-Gen Toolkit: 98 conversation prompts and family meeting templates and all multi-gen resources, including The Multi-Gen Money Guide: juliford.com/multi-genBook a Clarity Call: juliford.com/consultFollow Juli on Instagram: @itsjulifordWatch or listen to the Home After 50 Podcast on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple PodcastsExplore more resources: juliford.comEmail Juli directly: juli@juliford.com

  4. Oct 4

    Multigenerational Living and Siblings: Do You Need a Trust Fund to Keep It Fair?

    Juli kicks off season five on an unseasonably warm October day in Massachusetts with a format she plans to return to often this fall: answering the comments and questions that land in her inbox every day. She takes on two of the biggest hesitations families bring to her clarity calls and monthly coffee chats. The first is about siblings, fairness, and inheritance when one adult child buys a home with their parents. The second is about land, zoning, and whether a property can legally hold more than one dwelling. Both answers come back to the same truth: these things are complex, but rarely impossible when families do the work together. What Juli CoversA new season and a new format: What Juli has planned for October through December, and why she is starting the season by answering real audience messages."It won't work without a trust fund": Juli responds to an Instagram comment claiming multigenerational living fails unless parents can equalize the inheritance for siblings who are not moving in, and explains where that claim misses the mark.The first question she asks every family: Are there other siblings who will not live in the home or hold an ownership stake, and have you talked with them yet?How Juli's own family handled it: Her mom contributed a little more than half of the 20% down payment eleven years ago, viewed as roughly five years of rent, with a family agreement on how her estate would be adjusted if she passed before that time was up.Why many siblings are grateful, not resentful: In many families Juli works with, siblings are glad to step back from the financial side in exchange for knowing their parents are cared for close by.Put it in writing: Healthy family dynamics matter, and so does legal documentation.Finding land that allows more than one dwelling: Why zoning and financing need a hyper local lens, even though family agreements and boundaries apply almost anywhere in the world.Massachusetts ADU rules: How the Affordable Homes Act made accessory dwelling units allowed by right on single family properties, plus the setbacks, septic, sewer, and building code realities that still apply.Make friends with your building department: Why Juli recommends starting at city or town hall, and why checking state law matters when small towns are still catching up to new rules.Coming next week: More audience questions on financing and family relationships.A Moment Worth Remembering"Of course there are complexities, but many, many solutions can be found if families are willing to work together." Juli Ford Resources MentionedFree Clarity Call for families exploring multi-gen living: juliford.com/inquiryMonthly Multi-Gen Coffee Chat, a free Zoom call usually held the last Friday of the month, 12 to 1 pm Eastern. Check the calendar and register at juliford.com/eventsMassachusetts Affordable Homes Act and ADU regulations https://www.mass.gov/info-details/accessory-dwelling-unitsMore of Juli's ResourcesThe Multi-Gen Money Guide and all multi-gen resources: juliford.com/multi-genFollow Juli on Instagram: @itsjulifordExplore more resources: juliford.comEmail Juli directly: juli@juliford.com

  5. Aug 29

    Wrapping Season 4 and Helping Aging Parents from a Distance

    Juli closes out season four before she takes her usual break between seasons, a rhythm she has built in every eight to twelve episodes to rest and come back renewed. This time the break is focused on producing her long awaited Multi-Gen Money Course, alongside a few new brand partnerships and a girls' weekend on Cape Cod to celebrate a close friend's upcoming wedding and move to Ireland. She also opens up about the loss of Dolly Parton this week and the way it has her reflecting on generosity and compassion, before sharing a practical, geriatrician backed list of ways adult children can support aging parents from a distance. What Juli CoversThe season break, explained: Why Juli pauses the podcast for a few weeks between seasons, and what she is working on during this one, primarily her multi-gen money course, with a possible second course in the works, targeted for early September.New brand partnerships: A quick note on the products and brands Juli is excited to be working with, and her rule that she only represents things she genuinely uses and would recommend to friends and family.A girls' weekend send-off: Juli heads to Cape Cod with four close friends to celebrate one of them who is moving to Ireland to get marriedRemembering Dolly Parton: Juli reflects on Dolly's legacy of generosity, compassion, and warmth, and the question it has left her asking herself: how can she be more like Dolly in her own life.Tasks long-distance adult children can take over: Juli shares a list from Instagram accounts The Millennial Sandwich and geriatrician Dr. Anita, covering appointments, medications, bills and paperwork, groceries and household supplies, home maintenance, transportation, care coordination, and emergency planning.Real examples from home: Juli shares how her mom manages her own Instacart orders to stay independent, how her cousin places grocery orders for her great uncle from another state, and how her brother coordinated a life alert system for their mom.Looking ahead to season five: Juli previews her return toward the end of September, with a season that will carry listeners through the holidays and include more guest conversations.Resources Mentioned@themillenialsandwich and @itsdoctoranita (geriatrician) on Instagram, source of the long-distance caregiving task list The Multi-Gen Money Guide and the Multi-Gen Money Course (coming soon) juliford.com/multi-genStay ConnectedIf this episode gave you a few new ideas for supporting an aging parent from a distance, or just made you feel a little less alone in it, follow and subscribe to Home After 50™ so you are ready when season five begins. And if you have been dreaming about multigenerational living, grab Juli's Multi-Gen resources at juliford.com/multi-gen Juli's ResourcesThe Multi-Gen Money Guide and all free multi-gen resources: juliford.com/multi-genBook a Clarity Call: juliford.com/scheduleFollow Juli on Instagram: @itsjulifordWatch or listen to the Home After 50™ PodcastExplore more resources: juliford.comEmail Juli directly: juli@juliford.com

  6. Aug 22

    Multigenerational Home Financing Q&A - 4 Real Life Scenarios

    In this episode, Juli is diving into four real scenarios pulled straight from the live Q&A at her Multi-Gen Financing Workshop, hosted with her lending partner Michael Pankow. Nearly 170 people registered for the live session, and Juli says the Q&A portion is always her favorite part, hearing exactly how families are trying to make multigenerational living work for their unique situation. What Juli CoversScenario 1, the family compound: An older generation who owns their home outright and three adult children who each own homes with mortgages want to buy 10 acres and build four separate homes. Juli walks through why timing all four sales and builds at once is risky, and why tackling it one family member at a time, starting with the equity-rich parents, is the more workable path.Scenario 2, expanding an ADU on Social Security income: A 66 year old, mortgage-free homeowner wants to expand his existing 500 square foot ADU as his adult child's family grows, but his only income is Social Security. Juli explains why a reverse mortgage could be a strong option here, since qualification is based on age, home value, and equity rather than income.Scenario 3, one parcel and three ADUs: A family wants to build a primary home plus three ADUs on one property, with each adult child holding a separate loan for their own unit. Juli explains why lenders will not treat one parcel as four separate properties, and what options exist instead, including multiple co-borrowers on a single loan.Scenario 4, selling in one state to buy in another: A more complex scenario involving a bundled property purchase and existing rental income, where the homeowner is counting on a home sale that has been stalled on the market for months to help fund the purchase. Juli and Michael discuss a DSCR (debt service coverage ratio) loan as a possible path forward, and why keeping every agent, attorney, and lender on the same team, communicating together, matters most when a plan has this many moving parts.A Moment Worth Remembering"Just because your situation is unusual doesn't mean it's impossible. It might feel overwhelming, but it's also exciting.Tap back into your reasons for doing this, most often it's because of your family, their emotional needs, their care needs, their financial needs. You're really trying to make a better life for you and your family together." - Juli Ford Resources MentionedWatch the full recording of the Multi-Gen Financing Workshop: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BWeEpoR4PTc&t=4880sStay ConnectedIf this episode gave you a new way to think about your own multigenerational plans, follow and subscribe to Home After 50™ so you never miss an episode. And if any of these four scenarios sounded a little too familiar, Juli's Multi-Gen Money Guide is a great next step, or you can book a Clarity Call directly with Juli to start mapping out your own plan. Juli's ResourcesThe Multi-Gen Money Guide and all multi-gen resources: juliford.com/multi-genBook a Clarity Call: juliford.com/scheduleFollow Juli on Instagram: @itsjulifordWatch or listen to the Home After 50™ PodcastExplore more resources: juliford.comEmail Juli directly: juli@juliford.com

  7. Aug 15

    The Multigenerational Home Money Questions Every Family Should Ask

    In this episode, Juli addresses the part of multigenerational living planning that tends to create the most stress for families, money. She shares that nearly everyone she works with is navigating this for the first time, without prior experience to lean on, which is often where the overwhelm comes from. She then walks through five questions she believes every family should ask when planning a multigenerational home. What Juli covers: Whether a standard mortgage is really the only path to funding a multigenerational home, and why that assumption keeps families from exploring options that could work for them Why the structure of a parent's financial contribution needs to be carefully considered, and why getting it wrong can affect lending options, taxes, retirement planning, health care costs, and family dynamics down the road What it really costs to live apart versus live together, including the less obvious costs families often forget to factor in, like the time, gas, and energy spent traveling to check on aging parents Whether a parent contributing more money means they should own more of the house, and how Juli reframes the idea of "fair" versus "equal" when contributions are not all financial What happens if something changes down the road, and why having that hard conversation early is one of the most loving things a family can do A moment worth remembering: "Fair is not the same as equal... when families are coming together, some part of the family usually has more financial resources than the other. But what is also true is that in general, someone in the family may also have different kinds of resources they bring to the picture." - Juli Ford Resources mentioned: Multi-Gen Finance Workshop Thursday, August 20th at 11am Pacific / 2pm Eastern, free to attend live with a recording available afterward: juliford.com/multi-gen Stay connected: Follow Home After 50 for more conversations on multigenerational living, aging parents, and reinvention after 50. If the money questions in this episode feel familiar, join Juli for the free Multi-Gen Finance Workshop on August 20th at juliford.com/multi-gen, where she will cover more than nine ways families can fund a multigenerational home. JULI'S RESOURCES The Multi-Gen Money Guide and all multi-gen resources: juliford.com/multi-gen Book a Clarity Call: juliford.com/consult Follow Juli on Instagram: @itsjuliford Explore more resources: juliford.com Email Juli directly: juli@juliford.com

  8. Aug 7

    Respecting Aging Parent Decisions in Multi-Generational Homes

    This week, Juli tackles a topic that touches nearly every family navigating multi-generational living: how to respect an aging parent's right to make their own decisions, even when those decisions cause worry. The conversation was sparked by a comment on one of Juli's social media posts, and it sent her down a research rabbit hole that led to a recently published academic framework she found genuinely helpful. Using her own experience with her mother's stairs, a declined suggestion for a chairlift, and a recently accepted medical alert device, Juli walks through what it looks like to hold safety and autonomy together instead of choosing one over the other. What Juli covers: Why Juli shared a personal story about her mom declining a chairlift, twice, and why she still believes it was right to respect that decisionA pushback comment Juli received on social media, and how she responded to itThe difference between respecting a parent's decisions when there is no cognitive diagnosis versus when dementia or cognitive decline is presentA breakdown of the Safety-Autonomy Grid from a journal article published in The Gerontologist, a new framework by researchers Kelly Marnfeldt,MSG, and Kate Wilber, PhDAll four quadrants of the grid: balanced independence, independence at all costs, neglected independence, and safety at all costsHow ageism shapes the way families make decisions for aging parents, often without realizing itThe recent conversation in Juli's own family about getting her mom a medical alert device, and how that compromise came togetherWhy the balance between safety and autonomy looks different for every family, and what that balance can look like in practice Resources mentioned: The Safety-Autonomy Grid: A Flexible Framework for Navigating Protection and Independence for Older Adults, by Kelly Marnfeldt, MSG and Kate Wilber,PhD, The Gerontologist (Vol. 65, Issue 6, June 2025): https://academic.oup.com/gerontologist/article/65/6/gnaf111/8082030 If this conversation resonated, Juli would love to hear from you. Follow Home After 50™ for more honest conversations about navigating multigenerational life, and grab The Multi-Gen Money Guide for practical next steps if you are building or adjusting a multigenerational home. Juli's ResourcesThe Multi-Gen Money Guide and all multi-gen resources: juliford.com/multi-genBook a Clarity Call: juliford.com/scheduleFollow Juli on Instagram: @itsjulifordWatch or listen to the Home After 50@ PodcastExplore more resources: juliford.comEmail Juli directly: juli@juliford.com

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Home After 50™ is the podcast for women over 50 navigating midlife, aging parents, and the new shape of family and home. Host Juli Ford has lived in a multigenerational home for more than eleven years. She is a Certified Senior Advisor®, a real estate broker, and a trusted voice on multigenerational living, featured on Fox & Friends and in Business Insider, Newsweek and The New York Times. Each week, Juli shares honest stories and practical strategy for Gen X women and the sandwich generation: caring for aging parents, sharing a home with three generations, financing a multigenerational home or ADU, navigating hard family conversations, embracing the empty nest, and reinventing life after 50. If you're a woman 50+ wondering what comes next for your home, your family, and yourself, you'll feel right at home here. Follow and subscribe for new episodes every week, and download Juli's free Multi-Generational Living Guide and other resources at juliford.com.

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  • Creator
    Juli Ford
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    47
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Juli Ford
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    Home After 50™

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