Trauma Meets Recovery Podcast

Dr Mark McNear

Dr. McNear, Licensed Psychotherapist, sits down with best-selling authors, courageous survivors, and leading global experts to dismantle the stigma of trauma and offer actionable insights for healing. Whether you are a survivor finding your words, a clinician seeking deeper perspectives, or a supporter of someone in pain, join us for honest conversations that prove beauty can be found in the broken places.

  1. 1d ago

    J.S. Park on Trauma, Identity & Finding Your Way Back to Yourself

    In this deeply personal episode, Dr. Mark McNear sits down with J.S. Park, MDiv, BCC — hospital chaplain, author, and grief & trauma educator — for a conversation about identity, family, culture, grief, and the stories we carry. J.S. reflects on growing up between cultures, losing connection to parts of his Korean language and identity after a painful childhood experience, and the ways therapy has helped him recognize what he once considered “normal.” He also shares why healing can be lifelong work while still being possible. mark-joon-01 mark-joon-01 Together, they explore family dynamics, grief, intergenerational trauma and treasure, and what it means to reconnect with parts of ourselves that may have become harder to reach. J.S. also shares insight from his work as a hospital chaplain and his upcoming book, We Are Made of Us: Uncovering Our Hidden Family Dynamics, Rewriting Our Stories, and Returning to Ourselves, releasing October 20. J S Park Promo Whether you’re navigating family history, identity, grief, or simply trying to better understand your own story, this conversation offers a reminder that healing does not require erasing where you came from. Connect with J.S. Park: Website: jspark3000.com Instagram & Threads: @JSPark3000 Facebook: J.S. Park J S Park Promo Connect with Trauma Meets Recovery: https://traumameetsrecovery.com Follow us on Social Media: Facebook & Instagram: @traumameetsrecoverypodcast Learn more about Dr. Mark McNear: https://drmarkmcnear.com/ Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy, medical advice, or crisis support. If this topic feels activating, please pause, take care of yourself, and reach out to a trusted professional or support system. Be kind and gentle with yourself.

  2. Oct 1

    New Conversations, Renewed Hope: Welcome to Season 2

    A new season. New voices. More opportunities for connection, understanding, and hope. As Trauma Meets Recovery begins its second season, Joe Schweighardt, LPC, joins Dr. Mark McNear for a special conversation reflecting on the journey so far and looking ahead to what’s next. Together, they revisit the lessons and meaningful moments of Season 1, explore why healing is an ongoing journey rather than a destination, and discuss the importance of compassion, connection, and finding hope along the way. Dr. Mark McNear also shares personal reflections on his own recovery and the encouragement he’s received from listeners and guests. With new voices, diverse perspectives, and more conversations ahead, Season 2 continues the mission of creating a space where stories of trauma meet stories of recovery. Whether you’re returning or discovering us for the first time, welcome. Be kind and gentle with yourself. Visit traumameetsrecovery.com to explore previous episodes and connect with us.  Connect with Trauma Meets Recovery: https://traumameetsrecovery.com Follow us on Social Media: Facebook & Instagram: @traumameetsrecoverypodcast Learn more about Dr. Mark McNear https://drmarkmcnear.com/ Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy, medical advice, or crisis support. If this topic feels activating, please pause, take care of yourself, and reach out to a trusted professional or support system.

  3. Sep 3

    How to Feel Safer Within Yourself: Healing Is Possible | Dr. Alison Cook

    How can we become a safer, more compassionate presence for ourselves—especially when old wounds, shame, or protective patterns still shape how we respond? In the Season 1 finale of Trauma Meets Recovery, Dr. Mark McNear welcomes therapist, author, and The Best of You Podcast host Dr. Alison Cook for a hopeful conversation about healing from within. Drawing from her new book, The Secure Soul, Dr. Alison explores the wounds created not only by what happened to us, but also by the comfort, attention, or emotional presence that may have been missing. She explains how these experiences can follow us into adulthood through people-pleasing, perfectionism, overfunctioning, emotional numbing, and a harsh inner critic. Together, they discuss: • Wounds of absence and the pain of feeling unseen • Attachment and the importance of a secure base • Understanding protective parts without labeling them as bad • Responding to hurt with curiosity instead of shame • The “Recognize and Return” practice • Creating greater safety within yourself • The relationship we have with ourselves, others, and God • How self-compassion can strengthen our capacity to love others Healing is not about rejecting or eliminating parts of yourself. It begins by understanding what those parts have been trying to protect—and meeting your inner world with curiosity, compassion, and loving presence. “Your inner life is worth tending. It’s worth knowing.” — Dr. Alison Cook 🌐 Learn more about Dr. Alison Cook: https://www.dralisoncook.com 📖 Explore The Secure Soul: https://thesecuresoulbook.com 🌐 Connect with Trauma Meets Recovery: https://traumameetsrecovery.com Follow us on Social Media: Facebook & Instagram: @traumameetsrecoverypodcast 🌐 Learn more about Dr. Mark McNear https://drmarkmcnear.com/ #TraumaMeetsRecovery #DrAlisonCook #TheSecureSoul If this conversation encouraged you, please Like, Subscribe, and Share it with someone who may need this reminder: Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy, medical advice, or crisis support. If this topic feels activating, please pause, take care of yourself, and reach out to a trusted professional or support system. Subscribe to Trauma Meets Recovery Podcast for real stories of trauma, healing, and hope.

  4. Aug 20

    Connect Instead of Correct: Healing Shame and Finding Joy | Andy Carlson

    What if healing is not another demand to correct yourself - but an invitation to connect with yourself differently? In this episode of Trauma Meets Recovery, Dr. Mark McNear sits down with Andy Carlson, a trauma-informed coach, group facilitator, LIFT Online Learning Facilitator + Coach, and co-host of the Time with Tim Fletcher podcast. Andy shares a candid perspective on growing up with constant correction, the nervous-system responses that can remain long after the original experiences, and the shift he describes as “connect instead of correct.” The conversation also explores humiliation trauma, shame, discomfort, self-compassion, internal safety, and why joy can begin to appear more often when we stop forcing ourselves to chase it. In this conversation: - how chronic correction can shape self-perception and nervous-system responses - the difference Andy sees between shame and humiliation trauma - learning to notice pain without immediately shutting down or running away - replacing self-rejection with curiosity and connection - rebuilding agency, boundaries, compassion, and room for joy Healing is not about denying what happened. It is about discovering that what happened does not have to determine every next step. If this conversation encouraged you, please Like, Subscribe, and Share it with someone who may need this reminder: Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy, medical advice, or crisis support. If this topic feels activating, please pause, take care of yourself, and reach out to a trusted professional or support system. 🌐 Learn more about Andy Carlson: Andy Carlson is a trauma-informed coach, group facilitator, and co-host of the Time with Tim Fletcher podcast. His work focuses on helping people understand trauma, rebuild internal safety, and grow skills in boundaries, agency, and self-compassion. Andy's team profile: https://www.timfletcher.ca/our-team Time with Tim Fletcher Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@TimeWithTimPodcast Tim Fletcher Co.: https://www.timfletcher.ca 🌐 Learn more about The Trauma Meets Recovery Podcast: www.traumameetsrecovery.com Follow us on Social Media: Facebook & Instagram: @traumameetsrecoverypodcast 🌐 Learn more about Dr. Mark McNear https://drmarkmcnear.com/ Subscribe to Trauma Meets Recovery Podcast for real stories of trauma, healing, and hope.

  5. Aug 6

    Finding Joy: Learning to Play After Trauma | Sam Jolman, LPC

    Can learning to play again become part of healing? Many people think of trauma recovery as processing painful memories—but what if healing also includes rediscovering joy, trust, connection, and the freedom to simply be alive? In this episode of The Trauma Meets Recovery Podcast, Dr. Mark McNear sits down with Sam Jolman, LPC, therapist, author, and speaker, for a thoughtful conversation about the surprising role that play can have in trauma recovery. Together they explore how betrayal and trauma can change the way we experience relationships, healthy risk, and joy, why shame often keeps us from trying new things, and how healing can gently expand our ability to trust ourselves and others again. Rather than pushing through fear, Sam encourages listeners to honor their own nervous system, take meaningful but manageable risks, and discover that recovery is not just about surviving—it is also about learning to live fully. In this episode: Why trauma often makes play feel difficultThe connection between betrayal, shame, and trustHow healthy risk expands our "window of tolerance"Why healing happens through safe relationshipsReclaiming joy after traumaPractical ways to begin practicing play againEncouragement for anyone who feels stuck in survival modeIf this conversation encouraged you, please Like, Subscribe, and Share it with someone who may need this reminder: Healing isn't only about recovering from what happened. It's also about rediscovering the parts of yourself that trauma tried to steal. Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy, medical advice, or crisis support. If this topic feels activating, please pause, take care of yourself, and reach out to a trusted professional or support system.  🌐 Learn more about Sam Jolman, LPC:   Author of The Sex Talk You Never Got  https://samjolman.com  🌐 Learn more about The Trauma Meets Recovery Podcast: www.traumameetsrecovery.com Follow us on Social Media: Facebook & Instagram: @traumameetsrecoverypodcast 🌐 Learn more about Dr. Mark McNear https://drmarkmcnear.com/ Subscribe to Trauma Meets Recovery Podcast for real stories of trauma, healing, and hope.

  6. Jul 23

    Your Body Is Not Broken: How Healing Begins After Trauma | Dr. Aimie Apigian

    Why can the body continue to feel unsafe—even after the danger has passed? In this episode of Trauma Meets Recovery, Dr. Mark McNear speaks with Dr. Aimie Apigian, a double board-certified physician, trauma expert, and bestselling author of The Biology of Trauma, about the connection between unresolved trauma, the nervous system, and physical health. Dr. Aimie Apigian explains that trauma is not only about what happened. It is also about whether an experience overwhelmed the body’s ability to respond, recover, and return to safety. This conversation explores how stored trauma may affect: -The nervous system and emotional regulation -Energy, metabolism, and chronic fatigue -Digestion, inflammation, and immune function -Disconnection, shutdown, and feeling stuck -The body’s ability to experience safety and repair Dr. Aimie Apigian also explains five common patterns of stored trauma: disconnection, disruption, depletion, dysregulation, and disease. You’ll hear why insight and talk therapy may not always be enough on their own—and why healing may involve working with the mind, the body’s somatic responses, and the underlying biology. The episode also includes simple practices that may help the nervous system experience greater safety, including gentle movement, creating physical space, humming, and vibration. Your body is not broken. It may be responding in ways it once learned were necessary for survival. #TraumaHealing #DrAimieApigian #BiologyOfTrauma #NervousSystemHealing #SomaticHealing #TraumaRecovery Subscribe to Trauma Meets Recovery Podcast for real stories of trauma, healing, and hope. Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy, medical advice, or crisis support. If this topic feels activating, please pause, take care of yourself, and reach out to a trusted professional or support system. 🌐 Learn more about Dr. Aimie Apigian: BiologyofTrauma.com: Instagram :@draimie Facebook: @aimie.apigian YouTube:  @DrAimieApigian   🌐 Learn more about The Trauma Meets Recovery Podcast: www.traumameetsrecovery.com Follow us on Social Media: Facebook & Instagram: @traumameetsrecoverypodcast 🌐 Learn more about Dr. Mark McNear https://drmarkmcnear.com/

  7. Jul 9

    Reclaiming Life After Childhood Abduction | Tim Smith’s Story

    In this episode of Trauma Meets Recovery, Tim Smith shares his story of surviving childhood abduction and reclaiming his life after trauma. Tim’s story is not only about what happened to him, but about what it took to reclaim his life afterward. From fragmented memories and early trauma to the long road of healing, identity, and recovery, this conversation offers a meaningful look at how trauma can shape a life — and how hope can still be found on the other side. Joining the conversation for this episode is guest host Joe Schweighardt, bringing thoughtful presence and support to this important discussion. This episode is a reminder that recovery is not about pretending the past did not happen. It is about finding the courage to face what was lost, rebuild what was broken, and step into life with renewed strength. In this episode, we discuss: Childhood abduction and its lasting impact Fragmented memories and trauma survival The process of reclaiming identity Family wounds, resilience, and recovery Finding hope after painful early experiences Subscribe to Trauma Meets Recovery Podcast for real stories of trauma, healing, and hope. Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy, medical advice, or crisis support. If this topic feels activating, please pause, take care of yourself, and reach out to a trusted professional or support system.   Learn more about Tim Smith: Instagram: @tim.smith.writes www.faultlinememoir.com Learn more about The Trauma Meets Recovery Podcast: www.traumameetsrecovery.com Follow us on Social Media: Facebook & Instagram: @traumameetsrecoverypodcast Learn more about Dr. Mark McNear https://drmarkmcnear.com/

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Dr. McNear, Licensed Psychotherapist, sits down with best-selling authors, courageous survivors, and leading global experts to dismantle the stigma of trauma and offer actionable insights for healing. Whether you are a survivor finding your words, a clinician seeking deeper perspectives, or a supporter of someone in pain, join us for honest conversations that prove beauty can be found in the broken places.

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