Aligned

Molly Rubesh and Anna Goff
  • 5.0 (9)
  • Relationships

Aligned, a Whole Life Podcast where we talk all things Health, Wealth, and Relationships. We go there, we talk about the things you are thinking but cannot say out loud. We will support you on your journey to rebuild your marriage or to leave it. This space is one for being seen and heard. As women who have been married, divorced, found new love, and blended families, we speak openly about life. We are human too, so we don't have all the answers, but one thing we are certain of is that, no matter what you're going through... you will be okay! We are glad you are here. Hosts Anna Goff and Molly Rubesh

  1. 5d ago

    A Discussion Around The Cornell 7

    In this episode of the Aligned Podcast, hosts Anna Goff and Molly Rubesh discuss the Cornell 7 incident, focusing on the impact of sexual violence on victims and the societal responsibilities to prevent such occurrences. They emphasize the importance of teaching boys to respect and advocate for women, the fear women face in daily life, and the need for accountability from institutions. Takeaways Empathy for victims is crucialTeach boys to respect women Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Cornell 7 Incident01:34 Empathy for Victims and Collective Responsibility05:05 Teaching Boys to Advocate for Women08:44 The Power Dynamics Between Men and Women12:48 The Fear Women Experience in Everyday Life15:34 The Role of Social Media in Advocacy18:05 Accountability of Universities and Fraternities20:01 The Need for Societal Change25:33 Conclusion and Call to Action

  2. Sep 24

    Conflict Resolution and the Stories We Tell Ourselves

    The conversation explores the theme of repairing and maintaining a healthy marriage through effective conflict resolution and communication. It emphasizes the importance of making micro changes, understanding love languages, and bridging emotional disconnect. The discussion also addresses the decision-making process around divorce and the value of giving a relationship a genuine effort before considering divorce. Takeaways Micro changes in communication can soften conflict and repair emotional disconnect.Understanding and expressing love languages can improve intimacy and connection in a marriage. Chapters 00:00 Repairing and Maintaining a Healthy Marriage01:19 The Importance of Communication and Connection02:27 The Story I'm Telling Myself Is04:11 Navigating Vulnerabilities and Triggers05:11 Bridging Emotional Disconnect06:07 Making Micro Changes for Connection20:13 Considering Divorce and Giving It a Genuine Effort

  3. Sep 17

    The Pastor's Wife and Coercive Control

    The conversation delves into the Micah Miller story and explores the themes of coercive control, power dynamics in relationships, and the challenges faced by women in abusive marriages. It also discusses the legal and financial obstacles that prevent women from leaving abusive relationships and provides empowering advice for those seeking to escape such situations. Takeaways Coercive control and power dynamics in relationshipsLegal and financial obstacles for women in abusive marriages Chapters 00:00 The Micah Miller Story01:15 Coercive Control and Power Dynamics04:03 Legal and Financial Obstacles08:24 Empowering Women to Leave Abusive Relationships22:27 Planning for a Better Future

  4. Sep 10

    Strategies to Survive Divorce with Attorney Kena Hollingsworth

    The conversation with Kena Hollingsworth covers the mission behind her firm, the importance of collaborative divorce, alternative dispute resolution, financial and custody discrepancies, court settlements, custody arrangements, rebuilding life after divorce, and preparation before divorce. Additionally, the significance of emotional support during divorce is highlighted. The conversation covers the emotional and practical aspects of divorce, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing key issues, understanding the emotional toll, and protecting oneself during negotiations. It also explores the impact of divorce on children and provides advice for the divorce process, including working with a divorce coach and selecting a divorce attorney. Takeaways Collaborative approach to divorceUnderstanding financial situation before divorceEmotional support during divorce Prioritizing key issuesEmotional impact of divorce Chapters 00:00 Emotional Support During Divorce27:26 Working with a Divorce Coach28:50 Prioritizing Key Issues29:45 Emotional Toll of Divorce31:05 Communication and Understanding33:05 Impact on Children37:39 Selecting a Divorce Attorney41:03 Advice for Divorce Process42:11 Protecting Yourself During Negotiations45:20 Surviving and Moving Forward

  5. Sep 3

    The Cost of A Stay At Home Mom

    The conversation delves into the controversial topic of the value of a stay-at-home mom, discussing the financial implications, protection, and transparency within a marriage. It emphasizes the importance of open communication and financial security in strengthening a marriage. Takeaways The financial implications of being a stay-at-home momThe importance of financial transparency and open communication in marriage Chapters 00:00 The Value of a Stay-at-Home Mom02:15 Assigning Monetary Value to the Role03:12 Financial Protection for Stay-at-Home Moms11:31 Marital Contracts and Financial Transparency23:16 Quarterly Financial Meetings and Open Communication25:14 The Impact of Financial Security on Marriage

  6. Aug 27

    The Hardest Man To Divorce

    The conversation delves into the complexities of divorce, exploring the emotional and psychological challenges faced by women in difficult marriages. It highlights the journey of healing, the impact on children and family, and the fear of being perceived as selfish. The discussion emphasizes the importance of emotional support and the value of journaling as a tool for self-reflection and affirmation. Takeaways The emotional and psychological impact of divorce on womenThe importance of emotional support and self-reflection in the divorce journey Chapters 00:00 The Most Difficult Man to Divorce01:23 The Confusion Spiral02:11 The Journey of Healing03:05 The Trap of In-Between04:03 The Definition of a Good Guy05:25 The Impact on Children and Family06:09 The Fear of Being Selfish07:27 The Mountain of Divorce09:40 The Emotional Support Needed25:13 The Importance of Journaling

  7. Aug 13

    A Shift In Being with Max Trombly

    Max Trombley shares his journey of self-discovery and personal growth, leading to the creation of meaningful connections and the application of ancient wisdom in modern relationships. He discusses the evolution of relationships, the importance of choosing the right partner, and navigating divorce and second marriages with intention and grace. The conversation delves into the importance of building real relationships, the significance of financial security and safety in relationships, the concept of emotional sovereignty and relational dynamics, and the process of creating vital and fulfilling relationships. Takeaways Self-discovery leads to meaningful connectionsAncient wisdom can enhance modern relationships Real relationships require emotional sovereignty and relational competence.Financial security and safety are crucial for long-term relationship success. Chapters 00:00 The Journey to Self-Discovery03:03 Creating Meaningful Connections06:56 Ancient Wisdom in Modern Relationships10:53 The Evolution of Relationships19:59 Choosing the Right Partner24:00 Navigating Divorce and Second Marriages27:08 Building Real Relationships31:01 Financial Security and Safety in Relationships37:06 Emotional Sovereignty and Relational Dynamics42:30 Creating Vital and Fulfilling Relationships

  8. Aug 6

    Divorce and Complicated Grief

    Please welcome Amanda Hendershot with Matriarch Alchemy. The conversation delves into the emotional and practical aspects of dealing with the death of an ex-spouse. It explores the grief experienced by the surviving partner and children, as well as the challenges of managing the deceased ex-spouse's estate. Additionally, it touches on the process of grieving the relationship itself. The conversation delves into the impact of leaving an abusive relationship, protecting children from abuse, coping with grief, and embracing resilience. It also explores the importance of honoring the memory of deceased loved ones and empowering young women to build positive relationships. Takeaways Grieving an ex-spouse's deathHandling the estate of a deceased ex-spouse Protecting children from abuse is a top priorityResilience and healing are essential after traumatic experiences Chapters 00:00 The Grief of Losing an Ex-Spouse08:00 Dealing with the Estate20:00 Grieving the Relationship20:07 Finding Peace and Self-Care After Leaving an Abusive Relationship21:35 Long-Term Impact on Children and the Importance of Leaving Sooner23:00 Protecting Children from Abuse and Alcoholism24:01 Demonstrating Resilience and Healing for Children25:30 Honoring the Memory of a Deceased Parent and Coping with Grief26:12 Reflecting on the Past and the Impact on Children's Perception27:12 The Importance of Continuing to Talk About Deceased Loved Ones29:30 Passing Down Family Stories and Memories to Future Generations30:26 The Impact of Sudden Loss and Coping with Grief32:33 Accepting Loss and Embracing Positive Memories34:01 Understanding the Root of Relationships and Family Dynamics35:16 Recognizing and Addressing Abusive Behaviors in Relationships37:42 The Influence of Personal Experiences on Perception and Behavior39:51 Embracing Resilience and Growth After Trauma41:20 Empowering Young Women and Encouraging Positive Relationships

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Aligned, a Whole Life Podcast where we talk all things Health, Wealth, and Relationships. We go there, we talk about the things you are thinking but cannot say out loud. We will support you on your journey to rebuild your marriage or to leave it. This space is one for being seen and heard. As women who have been married, divorced, found new love, and blended families, we speak openly about life. We are human too, so we don't have all the answers, but one thing we are certain of is that, no matter what you're going through... you will be okay! We are glad you are here. Hosts Anna Goff and Molly Rubesh

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  • Creator
    Molly Rubesh and Anna Goff
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    20
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Molly Rubesh and Anna Goff
  • Show Website
    Aligned

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