Kissing Frogs with Dr. Molly Burrets

Molly Burrets

Kissing Frogs is a podcast about relationships and the surprising ways they shape our lives. Guided by clinical psychologist, relationship expert, and USC professor Dr. Molly Burrets, guests share honest, heartfelt stories about an important relationship—from the first spark to the messy middle to whatever came next—and reflect on how it changed them along the way. With warmth and curiosity, the conversations explore love, lust, loss, heartbreak, grief, betrayal, and failure, while also making space to laugh, reflect, and find meaning in the journey.

  1. Aug 4

    012. She Bet Everything and Lost - How Dr. Patrice Turned Her Own Heartbreak into a Comeback Story for the Ages

    In this heartfelt episode of Kissing Frogs, Dr. Patrice Le Goy joins Dr. Molly for a candid exploration of how formative relationships shape our sense of self, trust, and the very core of the connections we build later in life. Drawing from her experience as an international psychologist, marriage and family therapist, and host of the podcast Like Minded with Dr. Patrice, Dr. Patrice opens up about a transformative young love—a relationship that led her to take life-altering risks and ultimately taught her the power of discernment, communication, and self-compassion. Topics Covered - How youthful optimism and naiveté can lead us to ignore red flags in relationships - The danger of “filling in the blanks” with hope instead of earned trust - Moving for love: When following your heart can mean blowing up your life—and how to recover - The hard-won wisdom of learning to communicate directly and require clarity in our connections - Building resilience through painful choices—and finding your way back home With vulnerability and grace, Dr. Patrice discusses how a personal romantic disappointment became the foundation for her grit, professional wisdom, and her approach as a parent and partner. She and Dr. Molly reflect on the importance of learning from heartbreak, practicing self-compassion, and modeling open communication for the next generation. Dr. Patrice is an international psychologist, licensed marriage & family therapist, and host of the mental health & pop culture podcast “Like Minded with Dr. Patrice.” She blends her clinical expertise with personal experience to support clients and audiences in building authentic, resilient, and compassionate relationships. --- Connect with Dr. Patrice   Instagram: @drpatricelagoy   Podcast: Like Minded with Dr. Patrice Connect with Dr. Molly   Instagram: @drmollyburrets @KissingFrogsPod   Website: www.drmollyburrets.com   Substack: @drmollyburrets

  2. Jul 21

    011. Don’t Let the Wedding Steal the Marriage: The EveryGirl Josie Santi’s Strategy for a Joyful Engagement 

    In this episode of Kissing Frogs, Dr. Molly welcomes Josie Santi—wellness creator and host of The EveryGirl podcast—for a candid and inspiring conversation centered on engagement, partnership, and building a meaningful future. With openness and humor, Josie shares what makes her engagement special: a conscious choice to slow down and savor this unique season, refusing to let wedding stress overshadow the joy of commitment. She describes her nine-year relationship with fiancé Joey, from their early days of deep conversations and long-distance connection, to planning a dramatic, creative wedding in Chicago’s Opera House. Together, they explore how to intentionally nurture friendship, embrace imperfection, and keep choosing each other as life changes. Topics Covered:  - Why Josie celebrates a long engagement rather than rushing to the altar   - Letting go of wedding stress and focusing on building the relationship   - Staying best friends and keeping connection alive   - Seeing engagement as more than a waiting room—making it a meaningful chapter   - Letting go of perfectionism and learning to return to each other, again and again Josie Santi inspires thousands to live intentionally and love bravely. Her journey proves that engagement is more than a milestone—it's a time for joyful growth, reflection, and building the foundation for a lasting marriage. Connect with Josie Santi Instagram: @josiesanti   Podcast: The EveryGirl Podcast   TikTok: @josiesanti Connect with Dr. Molly: Instagram: @DrMollyBurrets @KissingFrogsPod   Website: www.drmollyburrets.com

  3. Jul 14

    010. From Heartbreak to Sobriety: Kendra Allen Recovers from Toxic Love and Addiction

    In this powerful episode of Kissing Frogs, Kendra Allen joins Dr. Molly to share an unfiltered account of surviving a toxic first love, overcoming addiction, and ultimately transforming heartbreak into purpose. Now a renowned breakup coach, podcast host, and author of The Breakup Workbook, Kendra Allen opens up about how losing herself in a controlling, emotionally abusive relationship set her on a path to profound healing and lifelong sobriety. Topics Covered: - Navigating a first love marked by a significant age gap and power imbalance - Recognizing red flags: isolation, gaslighting, and weaponized vulnerability - The parallels between breakup grief and addiction recovery - How speaking her truth and seeking support cracked open the door to healing - Practical ways to reclaim self-esteem and rebuild life after heartbreak - Why “no contact” and true self-work are non-negotiables for moving on - When healing can create space for new (or renewed) partnerships Kendra Allen is the creator of Breakup Bestie and The Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast. Her new book, The Breakup Workbook, guides readers through actionable exercises to process pain and rediscover self-worth. With over 100k Instagram followers, she’s helped thousands worldwide to rebuild after loss—always blending clinical insight with real-life lessons. Connect with Kendra   Instagram: @yourbreakupbestie   Website: www.breakupbestie.com   Podcast: Heal Your Heartbreak Connect with Dr. Molly   Instagram: @drmollyburrets @KissingFrogsPod   Website: www.drmollyburrets.com   Substack: @drmollyburrets

  4. Jul 7

    009. Relearning Love: What 100 Dates Taught Talia Koren

    In this candid and empowering episode of Kissing Frogs, Dr. Molly sits down with Talia Koren—writer and host of the Dating Intentionally podcast—for an honest conversation about breaking old patterns and learning how to date with purpose. With warmth and vulnerability, Talia Koren shares her story of leaving a six-year relationship, navigating the aftermath with a year of intentional singlehood, and embarking on a quest of 100 dates that would ultimately lead her to genuine self-knowledge—and lasting love. Together, Dr. Molly and Talia Koren unravel toxic beliefs about “working harder” in the wrong relationship, the anxious-avoidant trap, and the power of clarifying your needs. Topics Covered: - The cost of staying in relationships that don’t fit - How therapy and defining “core needs” reshaped her dating life - The anxious-avoidant dynamic and the myth of “fixing” love - Discovering joy and confidence on the other side of heartbreak - Why moving in together doesn’t guarantee security - Turning dating into self-discovery and growth   - The importance of dating intentionally—and not settling for less Talia Koren is a creator and host of the Dating Intentionally podcast. She went on over 100 dates in 1 year, until she met her husband, and had a blast. Now, she helps her 250k+ listeners and community navigate dating with confidence and ease. Connect with Talia Koren:   Instagram: @dating.intentionally   Website: DatingIntentionallyPod.com Connect with Dr. Molly:   Instagram: @DrMollyBurrets @KissingFrogsPod   Website: www.drmollyburrets.com

  5. Jun 23

    008. Know Your Worth: Kamie Crawford Shares Advice For Leveling Up in Your Relationship

    In this vibrant and unfiltered episode of Kissing Frogs, Dr. Molly is joined by Kamie Crawford—a powerhouse host, America’s bestie, and the Webby award-winning voice behind the Relationsh!t podcast—for a candid conversation about love’s many lessons, and the art of manifesting a partnership that truly feels like home. Honest, hilarious, and deeply moving, Kamie pulls back the curtain on her journey from being bullied as a child to an engaged woman who knows her worth, sharing wisdom for anyone navigating the messy middle of dating and relationships. From the trials of wedding planning to overcoming childhood wounds of abandonment, the duo dives into what it really means to grow, claim your power, and show up fully for yourself and your person. Topics Covered: - The highs and chaos of wedding planning—letting go of control and honoring your boundaries - Embracing singlehood after years of serial monogamy and the mindshift of dating with intention - Transforming childhood abandonment and bullying into radical self-worth and intuition - How to set and hold standards in dating (“You’re single until someone claims you!”) - Navigating triggers, conflict, and healing in real time with a loving partner - The myth of “healing before dating” and why real growth happens in relationship - Why specificity and intention are vital when manifesting your ideal partner - Permission to leave relationships that keep you small, and the practical advice for women afraid to walk away About Kamie Crawford:   An acclaimed TV host, Miss Teen USA alum, longtime co-host of MTV’s Catfish, and creator of the hit Relationsh!t podcast, Kamie is renowned for her warmth, wit, and unflinching honesty—amassing millions of listeners and embodying the spirit of the best friend we all wish we had. With a vibrant career, and a love story built on intention and mutual growth, Kamie reveals how, after kissing many frogs, she finally called in—and claimed—the partnership she always deserved. Connect with Kamie:   Instagram: @kamiecrawford   Podcast: Relationsh!t Website: kamiecrawford.com Connect with Dr. Molly:  Website: www.drmollyburrets.com   Instagram: @KissingFrogsPod

  6. Jun 16

    007. Do It With Shaky Hands: Hannah Brown on Healing, Faith, and Finding Love

    In this vulnerable and deeply honest episode of Kissing Frogs, Hannah Brown—former Bachelorette, Dancing with the Stars champion, and bestselling author—joins Dr. Molly for a candid conversation about love after heartbreak, building resilience, and rewriting your own narrative. Hannah Brown opens up about how working through betrayal, therapy, and marriage challenged her to grow in ways she never expected, and why real relationships are never as neat as they look on Instagram. Topics Covered: - The real journey from “quarter-life memoir” to lasting love - How unresolved trauma and heartbreak can shape (and sabotage) new relationships - Why genuine partnership is about healing together, not being fully “fixed” first - Learning to trust yourself again after betrayal—and why it’s still a work in progress - Navigating avoidant, anxious, and secure attachment styles in love and friendship - The power (and discomfort) of choosing the unfamiliar path, in love and life - How faith and therapy ground her marriage with Adam, and why generational emotional “wealth” matters - Behind the scenes of engagement anxiety, wedding ambivalence, and why “what if” questions are normal—even for America’s sweetheart - What it really means to be seen—and to see your partner—on the other side of pain Hannah Brown is a television personality, lifestyle expert and two-time New York Times bestselling author. Brown’s authenticity and charismatic personality have captivated her millions of followers, and she continues to inspire and empower others. Born and raised in Tuscaloosa, Alabama, Brown currently resides in Nashville, Tennessee. Connect with Hannah   Instagram: @hannahbrown TikTok: @hannahkbrown Buy Hannah’s Book: Amazon - HERE Target - HERE B&N - HERE BAM - HERE Connect with Dr. Molly   Instagram: @DrMollyBurrets @KissingFrogsPod   Website: www.drmollyburrets.com

  7. Jun 9

    006. Swipe Smarter: Damona Hoffman’s Blueprint for Finding Love Online

    In this insightful episode of Kissing Frogs, Damona Hoffman joins Dr. Molly to break down the myths of modern dating and offer a new approach to finding meaningful relationships. Drawing from her own path—once a frustrated dater, now a sought-after dating coach—Damona Hoffman shares how letting go of prescribed fairy tales and embracing who you truly are can transform your dating life. Topics Covered: - Why relying on “chemistry” can derail your search for love - The rules for mindful, intentional online dating - Turning what makes you unique into your dating superpower - How partnership supports personal growth, courage, and change - Why relationship “work” should feel collaborative, not draining Celebrity Dating Coach Damona Hoffman has been coaching singles on how to find love online and offline for over 15 years. Damona is the Official Love Expert on The Drew Barrymore Show and a member of Drew’s Crew. Her first book F the Fairy Tale was published in January 2024 and became an instant Amazon #1 bestseller. She’s a regular on-air contributor to NPR and NBC’s Access Daily. Plus, her articles appear regularly in The LA Times and The Washington Post. Damona also starred in two A+E Networks’ TV shows: #BlackLove and A Question of Love. Her weekly podcast Dates & Mates has been featured in Cosmopolitan, HuffPost, Bustle and tops the charts in the Relationships category on the major podcast platforms. Connect with Damona Instagram: @damonahoffman Website: www.damonahoffman.com Podcast on Apple: Dates & Mates Connect with Dr. Molly   Instagram: @drmollyburrets @KissingFrogsPod   Website: www.drmollyburrets.com Substack: @drmollyburrets

  8. Jun 2

    005. Walking Away: Dr. Molly on Leap-of-Faith Breakups and Growing Forward

    In this vulnerable solo episode of Kissing Frogs, Dr. Molly steps into the role of storyteller, opening up about a pivotal relationship from her early twenties—a whirlwind romance set in the heart of post-9/11 Chicago. With candor and warmth, Dr. Molly unpacks the beginning, the bliss, and the heartbreaking end of her connection with “Mr. Chicago”—the man who, through love, loss, and ultimate honesty, changed the course of her life and her understanding of intimacy, grief, and self-worth.Topics Covered: - The myth of the “perfect” relationship expert - Discovering green flags—and true partnership—in her marriage - Pursuing dreams, leaving comfort, and trusting that what’s meant for you won’t miss you - Love as an agent of transformation: From Paris to Chicago, from “safe” to “extraordinary” - Navigating love and grief after profound loss—including living with the memory of a partner’s late fiancée - How who says “I love you” first is less important than how it’s received - The cost of partners who won’t defend you - Why leaps of faith create room for extraordinary relationships - Finding integrity—not just in how we love, but in how we let go - What Dr. Molly would say today to the one who broke her heart—and helped her become herselfA clinical psychologist specializing in women’s mental health and relationships, Dr. Molly brings decades of both professional insight and lived experience to this moving reflection. Her story is an offering to anyone still nursing an old heartbreak, questioning when to leap, or wondering whether it’s ever too late to learn and love again.Connect with Dr. Molly Website: www.drmollyburrets.com Instagram: @DrMollyBurrets @KissingFrogsPodSubstack: @DrMollyBurrets

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Kissing Frogs is a podcast about relationships and the surprising ways they shape our lives. Guided by clinical psychologist, relationship expert, and USC professor Dr. Molly Burrets, guests share honest, heartfelt stories about an important relationship—from the first spark to the messy middle to whatever came next—and reflect on how it changed them along the way. With warmth and curiosity, the conversations explore love, lust, loss, heartbreak, grief, betrayal, and failure, while also making space to laugh, reflect, and find meaning in the journey.