It's So Complicated

ItsSoComplicated

I am not here to tell you how to live your life. There are enough people on the internet telling women what they should be doing, what they are doing wrong, and all the ways they could be doing better. I am here to talk about everything we are all already going through anyway. Relationships, friendships, your 20s, faith, body image, growing up, changing your mind, and everything in between. The stuff that feels so personal until you realize, it isn’t. Maybe we will figure some things out. Or maybe we won't. Turns out, It's So Complicated.

Episodes

  1. 3d ago

    your 20-somethings

    we're literally just 20 something. there's absolutely no reason to act like we're supposed to know what we're doing already. stop letting life happen to you, stop letting it pass you by. that isn't serving you at all. go make some memories, be delusional, get it wrong, and just stop worrying so much. you can't mess this up even if you tried.

  2. Nov 1

    Let's Just Exist for a Sec

    Not every second of your life needs to be spent growing, changing, or becoming a better version of yourself. Sometimes you can just exist. This week we're talking about being kinder to ourselves, the pressure to constantly improve, and why it's important to check in on the people around us, especially those who struggle to step outside of their routines. I also talk about Ashlyn from Heart Led Wellness (@heart.led.wellness on Instagram) and her program, Heart Led Eating. Use code MATLYN for a discount! 🤎

  3. Oct 25

    What's a Target Audience?

    This week, we're talking about why it's so important to be confident in who you are, your opinions, values, and beliefs, while still being open to perspectives that challenge them. I am chit chatting about the many different sides of my personality and how they all play a role in who I am. You weren't put on this earth to please everyone all the time, and frankly, who wants to do that anyway?

  4. Oct 18

    A Whole Lot of Nothing

    i was hungover, tired, and apparently had a lot of opinions this week. none of them are particularly important, but that didn't stop me from talking about them for an entire episode. honestly, i don't even know what this episode is about. enjoy🤎

  5. Oct 11

    You Don't Have to Get It to Support It

    Being single in 2026 is complicated enough without feeling like you have to defend how you're choosing to live your life. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE my friends in long-term relationships, but sometimes they just don't get it. And that's okay!! The truth is, we don't always understand what our friends are going through, especially when we're in completely different stages of life. Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, I think we could all do a better job of showing up for each other without judgment. Women already carry enough pressure to do everything the "right" way, and our friendships should be a place where we feel supported, not questioned. Because supporting each other shouldn't depend on whether you'd make the same choices they do🤎

  6. Oct 4

    Maybe It's Both

    Sometimes two things can be true at the exact same time. You can be happy and sad, love someone and know they aren’t right for you, miss something and still know you made the right decision. This week, we’re talking about ambivalence, getting comfortable in the in-between, and replacing “but” with “and.” Because maybe not everything needs one clear answer.

  7. Sep 27

    Let's Get Into It

    Well… I finally did it. In this first little episode I’m introducing myself, talking about why I’ve wanted to start a podcast for so long, and what I hope It’s So Complicated can become. I definitely don’t have all the answers, and I don’t want to be another person on the internet telling you what you should or shouldn’t be doing with your life. I really just want to talk about the things we’re all going through and hopefully make you feel a little less alone in them. Anywayyyy, welcome to It’s So Complicated. I am so grateful you’re here🤎

  8. Sep 25

    It's So Complicated Trailer

    A little sneak peek First episode Sunday🤎

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I am not here to tell you how to live your life. There are enough people on the internet telling women what they should be doing, what they are doing wrong, and all the ways they could be doing better. I am here to talk about everything we are all already going through anyway. Relationships, friendships, your 20s, faith, body image, growing up, changing your mind, and everything in between. The stuff that feels so personal until you realize, it isn’t. Maybe we will figure some things out. Or maybe we won't. Turns out, It's So Complicated.

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  • Creator
    ItsSoComplicated
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    8
  • Rating
    Explicit
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