Inner Confidence Podcast

Inner Confidence
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The Inner Confidence Podcast with Robbie Kramer is a weekly podcast that brings you the most cutting edge dating and lifestyle advice for men. Topics include attraction, dating, making friends, fitness, wealth hacking, and lifestyle design.

  1. 3d ago

    Stop Avoiding Female Friends ( Ep 334 )

    Most dating advice tells you to keep female friends at arm's length. Don't get too close, don't be too available, don't become her emotional support guy. Some of that is real, the friend zone exists. But that advice conflates two completely different things: orbiting a girl you're attracted to while doing her emotional labor, and actually having real female friends who are part of your social world. I break down the four things genuine female friendships give you - social proof, warm introductions worth ten to fifty cold approaches, access you can't manufacture alone, and honest feedback you'll never get from women you're trying to impress. Plus how to be a cool friend without becoming a therapist, and a client story showing what changed over six months. If cold approach and the apps feel like grinding, this one gives you a different lens. ─────────────────────────── Free Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/ Book a call with Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community ─────────────────────────── Connect with Robbie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence

  2. Sep 8

    My $15M Client Wanted His Legs Broken for an Extra 2 Inches w/ Dean Raymond ( Ep 333 )

    I've got a client worth over $15 million who was seriously looking into leg lengthening surgery over one OnlyFans girl. My guest Dean Raymond's take: that's just a belief and once a guy holds a belief like that, his brain filters out every piece of evidence that says otherwise. Dean is 45, from a small village in the south of England, and was pushing 265 pounds at his heaviest. Natural introvert, shy, socially awkward. He ranks what makes a man attractive like this: emotional state first, then confidence and self-belief, then charisma, and last, game skill. Most guys work that list backwards and wonder why nothing moves. We get into the guy with the perfect Instagram who turns out to be the biggest anti-climax of her life, why going out specifically to do day game puts you in the worst headspace to approach anyone, and why Dean still approaches at 45 in Spain, Miami, and Amsterdam. If you've been fixing your photos and your jawline and still can't get a second date, this one's going to sting a little. ─────────────────────────── Connect with Dean Raymond: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dean_raymond_dating/ ─────────────────────────── Free Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/ Book a call with Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community ─────────────────────────── Connect with Robbie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence

  3. Sep 1

    Why Being Helpful Gets You Friend-Zoned ( Ep 332 )

    Most guys who keep getting friend zoned think the problem is they're too nice. It's not. The problem is they're running the wrong business model - they're brokers.A broker makes himself useful, available, and helpful. He says yes to everything. And the moment she doesn't need what he's offering, he's gone. I break down the three forms of brokering that kill attraction, the three shifts that turn a broker into a product - a man women actually want to invest in and a real client story that shows exactly what the change looks like.If you've been doing everything right and still can't figure out why it doesn't translate into attraction, this one's for you. ─────────────────────────── Free Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/ Book a call with Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community ─────────────────────────── Connect with Robbie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence

  4. Aug 25

    Why Dating Advice Is Making You Worse With Women w/ @JoeDucard ( Ep 331 )

    "Red pill cuck cope."That's the phrase my guest dropped halfway through this conversation and I haven't stopped thinking about it since.A girl doesn't write you back and you go looking for the reason why. And the reason you land on is always something you can't change. She only dates guys over six feet. There's no good women left in this city.It feels like analysis. What you're actually building is the exact excuse that stops you from talking to the next girl you see.My guest is Joe Ducard. At his heaviest he was just under 350 pounds, 19 years old, been with one girl in his life. He found this stuff while he was still that big, lost over 100 pounds, made Master Instructor at Love Systems, and has run his own coaching company for over a decade.We get into why his best friend is convinced women won't date guys under six feet, the one drop of poison principle for guarding your mindset, why you should never ask a girl why it didn't work out, why making guy friends right now is harder than getting dates, and the client who showed up with a 40-item checklist from another coach.If you've been consuming a ton of dating content and somehow feeling worse about your chances instead of better — this one's for you.───────────────────────────Connect with Joe: https://meetmoregirls.com ─────────────────────────── Free Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/ Book a call with Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community ─────────────────────────── Connect with Robbie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence

  5. Aug 18

    There's One Specific Reason Your Dating Life Isn't Working ( Ep 330 )

    Most men are playing their dating lives like a lottery. They buy a ticket, they wait. And if it doesn't hit, they tell themselves the game is rigged.Smart men play it like poker. And the difference between those two things is the difference between a guy who's been stuck for years and a guy who's actually improving his results every single month.In this episode I break down the 4 concepts every analytical guy needs to internalize - why volume is the only way to get real data, why cold approach, social circle and Instagram each run on completely different math, why your dating life is a funnel you need to find the leak in, and why small edges compound into massive results over time. Plus the stories of Jake and Ryan - two guys, two different tables, same principle.The lottery player waits for his number to come up. The poker player makes good decisions, tracks what's working, and lets the math do the rest. ─────────────────────────── Free Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/ Book a call with Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community ─────────────────────────── Connect with Robbie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence

  6. Aug 10

    Doing Nothing About Your Dating Life Isn't Free

    Every man is paying for his dating life right now. Most of them just don't know it.I hear this constantly from guys on the fence about investing real time and energy into getting good with women. "I can't afford it." "I don't know if it's worth it."I get the hesitation. But doing nothing isn't free. It just means you're paying a different way and you might be paying a whole lot more.In this episode I break down the 4 currencies every man spends on his dating life whether he knows it or not: time, pain, money spent compensating for no game, and the decisions you make from scarcity. Plus the story of Marcus, who spent 8 months and $3,000 figuring it out alone and came out less confident than when he started.There is no free option. You're already paying. The only question is whether you're getting anything back for it. ─────────────────────────── Free Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/ Book a call with Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community ─────────────────────────── Connect with Robbie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence

  7. Aug 3

    If You Have Ever Run Out Of Things To Say, Watch This

    Have you ever been in a conversation with a girl you like, things were going okay, and then you just ran out of things to say? The words dried up and you're standing there in the mental panic spiral trying to come up with anything to keep it going.Meanwhile some other guy has an endless supply of stories and jokes and he's effortless with it. And you're thinking, how does he just have that on demand?Here's the truth. That guy isn't naturally charming. He built a database. And you can too.In this episode I break down what the conversation database actually is, why treating conversation like improv is destroying you, and the 4 ways to build your own, stealing from people cooler than you, living a life worth recalling, running your best stories until they're automatic, and building callbacks from real interactions.The guy you think was born charming wasn't. He just has a bigger database. And you can start building yours right now. ─────────────────────────── Free Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/ Book a call with Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community ─────────────────────────── Connect with Robbie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence

  8. Jul 27

    She's Not Busy. You Already Know That.

    She was texting you every day, making plans, laughing at everything you sent. And then, nothing. One word replies. Something shifted and you have no idea what it was. Here's the problem. Almost everything men do at this exact moment makes every possible version of this situation worse. There are really only 2 reasons this actually happens, and one of them nobody wants to say out loud. In this episode I break down the two most common reactions men have and why both tank you, the two real reasons a girl goes cold and how to tell which one you're in, the difference between going silent and actually icing her, and the only re-engagement move that works either way. Her going cold is never the real test. Your reaction to it is. ─────────────────────────── Free Dating Protocol: https://www.innerconfidence.com/ Book a call with Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community ─────────────────────────── Connect with Robbie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence

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The Inner Confidence Podcast with Robbie Kramer is a weekly podcast that brings you the most cutting edge dating and lifestyle advice for men. Topics include attraction, dating, making friends, fitness, wealth hacking, and lifestyle design.

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  • Creator
    Inner Confidence
  • Years Active
    2015 - 2026
  • Episodes
    326
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