26 episodes

Best Friends, Kristin and Tessa, have been through a lot in their 12 years of friendship. Now that they are unexpectedly living together again in a mommune as single, divorced, mom's they want to share what they've learned on this new, deep, healing journey they are on, in hopes that it will help you on your healing journey...or help you make better choices for your life!

Join us each week as we share how to GROW through it while you’re going through it.

Let's Grow Through it Kristin and Tessa

    • Education
    • 5.0 • 31 Ratings

Best Friends, Kristin and Tessa, have been through a lot in their 12 years of friendship. Now that they are unexpectedly living together again in a mommune as single, divorced, mom's they want to share what they've learned on this new, deep, healing journey they are on, in hopes that it will help you on your healing journey...or help you make better choices for your life!

Join us each week as we share how to GROW through it while you’re going through it.

    26. Why you Should NOT take your ex back!

    26. Why you Should NOT take your ex back!

    On the final episode of season 1 we are celebrating a divorce, a new baby, and sharing a few ways and reasons why you SHOULD NOT TAKE YOUR EX BACK WHEN THEY ARE BEGGING YOU.

    Thank you for an amazing season 1, we are so thankful for all of you and we are excited to continue to grow and heal with you all in season 2!



    Let's be Friends: follow us on socials @letsgrowthroughit

    • 41 min
    25. The Art of Being Alone, But Not Lonely

    25. The Art of Being Alone, But Not Lonely

    In this episode Kristin in Solo and is talking about how to be alone, but not lonely and touching on how you can be more lonely in a relationship than you are when you are single. She shares 13 different ways to find more happiness when you are alone. This episode it told through the lens of a single women, but a lot of the information could be applicable to anyone.





    Let's Be Friends! Find us on Instagram and Tiktok @letsgrowthroughit

    • 49 min
    24. That's Not Your Soulmate, That's Your Trauma Bond!

    24. That's Not Your Soulmate, That's Your Trauma Bond!

    After marrying and building a life with our trauma bonds (that we confused for soulmates) and watching those relationships end in divorce and even MORE trauma, we are sharing what we learned from examining our childhood trauma and seeing the patterns we subconsciously recreated in our relationships.

    In this episode we dive deep into trauma bonds and soulmates and how to identify the difference between the two. We also touch on red flags and rebuilding trust with yourself during your healing so that you find the idea of ever dating a trauma bond so unattractive.

    • 46 min
    23. Don't Let Past You Ruin Life for Present You

    23. Don't Let Past You Ruin Life for Present You

    In this episode Kristin is solo and shares a little epiphany she had, and dives into and tries to answer the question "Does present you really care about x,y, and z, or is a past version of you getting triggered right now?"



    Then she goes on to share how you can use this question to help let go of things from the past, live in the present, and make choices that will get you to the future your desire.



    She shares a real life experience that recently happened where a past version of her got triggered and tried to mess up the present moment, but she lovingly noticed this and was able to move through it in a healthy way.



    Let's Be Friends: search @letsgrowthroughit on IG & Tiktok

    • 36 min
    22. 4 Ways to Cope with Betrayal

    22. 4 Ways to Cope with Betrayal

    Coping with the after math of betrayal in a relationship is quite possibly one of the hardest things you will ever have to work through, but there is light...so much light and beauty after betrayal! In this episode Kristin shares 4 ways that helped her cope in the early stages after finding out she had been getting cheated on for an entire year.



    Let's be friends! Find us on socials by searching @letsgrowthroughit

    • 49 min
    21. Ways to Process Hard Emotions after Getting Cheated on That Aren’t Journaling or Meditating.

    21. Ways to Process Hard Emotions after Getting Cheated on That Aren’t Journaling or Meditating.

    In this episode Kristin and Tessa share a few different ways to process hard emotions after getting cheated on, that aren’t journaling and meditation. We had a listener reach out and say that journaling and meditation are the main recommendations she can find and that she is not able to connect with herself that way.

    Through a little therapy session with each other we came up with several alternatives that may help you process those hard emotions in a different way and start healing and letting go of those hard emotions you face after betrayal.



    If you like the show please leave a positive review and if you want to be friends please follow us on IG & Tiktok: @letsgrowthroughit

    • 39 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
31 Ratings

31 Ratings

EmilyBCreates ,

Practical and Encouraging

I love this podcast! Tessa and Kristin give such good practical and encouraging advice. Their real life stories have made me feel less alone in my divorce/single mom journey. Their content is relatable and easy to digest/understand. They are living proof that beauty can be found on the other side of divorce. I ALWAYS feel encouraged and more understanding and loving of myself after one of their episodes! And the practical tips they give make it so easy to practice self care and mindset shifts. So very grateful to have found this podcast in this season of my life!

Dalybeth ,

So helpful! Therapeutic

Reminds me of when I went through my divorce also with small children. I’m blessed to also have a best friend that’s my soul sister that lives a parallel life. The suport is invaluable! As a therapist for over 23 years I feel your podcast and content is very therapeutic for others going through a similar journey. Thank you for sharing your stories and being vulnerable to help others. You give hope that there is life after betrayal and loss.

Kelseyxo123 ,

The best podcast for growth!!

This podcast isn't just about going through divorce. Kristin and Tessa share useful tips to help anyone going through a hard time, and share how you can become stronger through it all. You can tell they've been friends for years because they bounce so well off of each other and are hilarious. My new favorite podcast 💛

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