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Relationships are complex. They are filled with ups and downs, highs and lows. And sometimes, it can feel like you're struggling just to keep your head above water. If you're feeling like this, then it's important to reach out for help. That's where Tom and Staci Bartley come in. As relationship experts, they have helped countless couples overcome the challenges that they're facing. And now, they're here to help you. The Love Shack Live Show is filled with advice and tips that will help you get your relationship back on track. So if you're struggling in your relationship, make sure to tune in, it could be the best decision you ever make.

Love Shack Live: Helping Couples Rescue Their Relationships Staci Bartley, Relationship Expert

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 43 Ratings

Relationships are complex. They are filled with ups and downs, highs and lows. And sometimes, it can feel like you're struggling just to keep your head above water. If you're feeling like this, then it's important to reach out for help. That's where Tom and Staci Bartley come in. As relationship experts, they have helped countless couples overcome the challenges that they're facing. And now, they're here to help you. The Love Shack Live Show is filled with advice and tips that will help you get your relationship back on track. So if you're struggling in your relationship, make sure to tune in, it could be the best decision you ever make.

    #170: Speaking Your Truth: The First Step to Healing Conversations in Relationships (Part Two)

    #170: Speaking Your Truth: The First Step to Healing Conversations in Relationships (Part Two)

    Have you ever found yourself lying awake at night, pondering, "Why don't we talk anymore?" In the silence that has crept into your relationship, there's a longing for the days when conversations flowed effortlessly, and your hearts felt undeniably close.

    Welcome to this pivotal episode of Love Shack Live, where we delve into the complexities of communication. Today, we're exploring the transformative power of something we whimsically call "fairy dust" and the courage it takes to "Call It Out" – revealing your inner world with vulnerability and honesty. But what exactly is this fairy dust, and how can it shift your conversations from battlegrounds to bridges of connection?

    In this episode, we not only recap the emotional foundations laid in part one of our series but also guide you through the first crucial steps of opening up a conversation that matters. We'll unravel how fairy dust – the essence that makes every word count – can envelop your attempts to connect, offering a gentle embrace of empathy and care. And as we venture into the heart of today's journey, we uncover the power of calling it out, transforming shadows of misunderstanding into beacons of clarity.

    How can you shift from accusing to sharing your experience in a way that softens hearts and opens doors to deeper connection? And imagine the difference it makes when you not only share your feelings but also invite your partner to share theirs, creating a dialogue that's as nourishing as it is healing.

    If you're seeking to rediscover the closeness you once shared, to sprinkle your interactions with the magic of understanding and genuine connection, then you're in the right place. Together, let's explore how fairy dust and the courage to call it out can illuminate the path to a deeper, more fulfilling partnership. Join us on Love Shack Live as we lay down the first piece of bread in our communication sandwich, setting the stage for conversations that truly matter.

    Episode Links:
    Sign up to be notified when The Communication Cure For Couples is ready: https://stacibartley.com/communication/Enrollment for April's Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap is now open: http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/Need support? Join our new Love In Limbo: Separation Support Sessions. Learn more here: http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-up - tired of re-hashing your issues with your partner without making progress? Schedule your check-up today!Check out our Love Shack Live Playlist for all the songs we play on the show.

    • 53 min
    #169: From Arguments to Understanding: Transforming Our Communication In Relationships (Part One)

    #169: From Arguments to Understanding: Transforming Our Communication In Relationships (Part One)

    Feeling utterly alone even when you're just inches away from your partner is a heart-wrenching reality many of us face.  It's like shouting into a void, desperately hoping for an echo, only to be met with silence. This profound sense of disconnection, where heartfelt conversations once flourished, now replaced by an invisible barrier, is a pain point many couples face. The arguments that seem to endlessly circle, the words choked back by a mixture of pride and fear, and the feeling of walking on eggshells—these are not just trivial disagreements but symptoms of a deeper, unspoken rift that has stealthily crept into the heart of your connection.

    This podcast is a haven for listeners who find themselves at a daunting relationship crossroads, embroiled in daily conflicts and witnessing the emotional gap between them widen day by day, yet cling to the hope of rekindling a bond that feels authentic and enduring. Today, we are excited to announce the beginning of a three-part series on communication—a journey that promises to venture far beyond the conventional wisdom on how to exchange words more effectively. Instead, we aim to delve into the emotional barricades that inhibit us from truly listening and empathizing with each other.

    "Why do we keep misunderstanding each other?" "How can we talk without it turning into a fight?" "What happened to us?" These are the kinds of questions we seek to explore. This series is not just about tweaking our actual dialogue but about confronting the hidden barriers to our emotional connectivity. Join us as we courageously peel back the layers of frustration, misunderstanding, and silent battles that have overshadowed the love we once celebrated.

    We challenge you to remain open and curious as we dissect not only the methods but the underlying reasons behind our communicative breakdowns. This is your invitation to uncover the tools and insights necessary to bridge the emotional chasms, to heal the wounds of miscommunication, and to cultivate a relationship imbued with deeper understanding, empathy, and unconditional love. Welcome to a transformative exploration that seeks to not just change how you talk, but to revolutionize the very essence of your interactions and connection with your partner.

    Episode Links:
    Sign up to be notified when The Communication Cure For Couples is ready: https://stacibartley.com/communication/Enrollment for April's Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap is now open: http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/Need support? Join our new Love In Limbo: Separation Support Sessions. Learn more here: http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-up - tired of re-hashing your issues with your partner without making progress? Schedule your check-up today!Check out our Love Shack Live Playlist for all the songs we play on the show.

    • 1 hr 5 min
    #168: When Trust Falls Apart: A Journey from Betrayal to Healing

    #168: When Trust Falls Apart: A Journey from Betrayal to Healing

    Have you ever felt the ground give way beneath you when trust is shattered? "I don't trust you anymore" - these five words can mark the beginning of a heart-wrenching journey through doubt and pain. But what if it could also mark the start of a beautiful quest towards healing and understanding?
    Welcome to Love Shack Live, your sanctuary for navigating the stormy seas of love and trust. Join us as we delve into the delicate art of weaving trust back into the fabric of our relationships. In this episode, we're not just exploring trust; we're embarking on a profound journey from betrayal to healing, uncovering the invisible yet unbreakable threads that can bind hearts together again.

    How do we rebuild trust when it feels like the foundation of our love has crumbled? Today, we uncover the essence of trust - how it's formed, the impact of its loss, and the most crucial question: how can we restore it once it's been broken?

    With real stories, expert insights, and practical tools, we're here to guide you through the complexities of mending trust. Whether you're grappling with doubts, navigating through conflict, or yearning to bridge an emotional gap, this episode offers a beacon of hope.

    Dive into an exploration of the heart's capacity for healing, the soul's quest for understanding, and the profound strength found in vulnerability. As we traverse the rugged terrain of human emotion and connection, we'll offer you the tools, wisdom, and heartfelt advice needed to mend the intricate tapestry of your relationships.

    Tune in and allow us to accompany you back to a place where trust is not just rebuilt, but reborn, where every scar tells a story of survival and every step forward marks a victory of the heart.

    Episode Links:
    Get the worksheet to explore the unspoken agreements in your relationship here: https://stacibartley.com/feeling-alone-together-unspoken-expectations-relationships/Enrollment for April's Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap is now open: http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/Need support? Join our new Love In Limbo: Separation Support Sessions. Learn more here: http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-up - tired of re-hashing your issues with your partner without making progress? Schedule your check-up today!Check out our Love Shack Live Playlist for all the songs we play on the show.

    • 1 hr 13 min
    #167: You Asked: Real Answers to Your Questions on Space in Relationships

    #167: You Asked: Real Answers to Your Questions on Space in Relationships

    In the dance of love, the steps aren't always in sync. Are you and your partner finding yourselves on a tightrope, balancing the need for closeness with the necessity of space? Welcome to Love Shack Live, a sanctuary for those standing at the crossroads of their relationship, seeking to mend the growing gaps and reignite a flame that burns true and bright.

    In today's episode, we delve into the heart of your concerns and explore the nuanced ebb and flow of commitment, the delicate balance between intimacy and independence, and the transformative power of facing emotional baggage head-on. How do you support a partner teetering between closeness and solitude? 

    We're tackling these questions and more, offering personalized advice and strategies grounded in empathy and experience. From turning in-home separations into journeys of growth to navigating the challenges of passive communication and ensuring the emotional safety of all involved, we've got you covered.

    Join us as we illuminate the path to a more understanding, respectful, and loving relationship. Through expert advice and heartfelt stories, we're here to transform the trials of space and separation into stepping stones toward the connection you've always desired.

    Because at Love Shack, we believe every challenge is a chance for growth. Let's embark on this journey of love and discovery together.
    Episode Links:
    Get the worksheet to explore the unspoken agreements in your relationship here: https://stacibartley.com/feeling-alone-together-unspoken-expectations-relationships/Enrollment for April's Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap is now open: http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/Need support? Join our new Love In Limbo: Separation Support Sessions. Learn more here: http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-up - tired of re-hashing your issues with your partner without making progress? Schedule your check-up today!Check out our Love Shack Live Playlist for all the songs we play on the show.

    • 40 min
    #166: The Intimacy Gap: Topaz Adizes Unveils the 12 Questions That Transform Love

    #166: The Intimacy Gap: Topaz Adizes Unveils the 12 Questions That Transform Love

    Do you feel a growing emotional gap in your relationship, a sense that the deep, intimate connection you once shared is slipping away? In the hustle of daily life, it's easy to find ourselves longing for a bond that goes beyond the surface, yet feeling unsure how to reclaim that profound closeness we crave.

    This longing for deeper intimacy isn't just about being understood; it's about being truly received by another—heart and soul. But the path to rekindling this connection often feels shrouded in mystery, leaving us to wonder if it's possible to ever truly grasp it again. As days turn into years, the challenge of maintaining and deepening intimacy can seem like an insurmountable task.

    Welcome to Love Shack Live, your sanctuary for navigating the complexities of relationships at a crossroads. Today, we're joined by Topaz Adizes, an award-winning filmmaker and the mind behind a brand new book called "12 Questions for Love," to guide us through this labyrinth. With insights gained from 1,200 couples around the globe, Topaz reveals how the art of asking thoughtful, strategic questions in an environment of emotional safety can transform our relationships.

    How can strategic questioning and relentless curiosity rejuvenate our relationships? How do we maintain, and more importantly, deepen the connection we share with our partners over time? These are the transformative questions we're unpacking today.

    Join us as Topaz shares his insights from working with couples globally, revealing that the key to lasting intimacy is not just in the asking but in the sharing of emotions and creating an environment of emotional safety. Discover how well-crafted questions can lead us closer than ever before, turning each shared moment into a step toward a more profound connection.

    So, if you're searching for that elusive treasure of deep intimacy, tune in. Let's unravel the mystery together and learn how the power of inquiry and unwavering curiosity can breathe life into our relationships. Welcome to a journey of discovery, where each question asked is a door opened to a deeper understanding of ourselves and our partners.

    "What does it truly take to create lasting intimacy? How do the subtleties of communication shape our deepest connections?" These are the questions at the heart of today's episode. Prepare to be inspired, challenged, and ultimately transformed.

    Episode Links:
    Learn more about Topaz and his work here: theskindeep.comEnrollment for April's Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap is now open: http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/Need support? Join our new Love In Limbo: Separation Support Sessions. Learn more here: http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-up - tired of re-hashing your issues with your partner without making progress? Schedule your check-up today!Check out our Love Shack Live Playlist for all the songs we play on the show.

    • 51 min
    #165: Feeling Alone Together: How Unspoken Expectations Are Speaking Volumes in Your Relationship

    #165: Feeling Alone Together: How Unspoken Expectations Are Speaking Volumes in Your Relationship

    Are you waking up each day, feeling like you're walking on eggshells, sharing a home but not a life with your partner? The reality for many of us is a relationship filled with daily conflicts and a growing emotional gap, where silent expectations and unvoiced agreements cast a shadow over our once vibrant connection.

    Welcome to Love Shack Live, a beacon of hope for those at a relationship crossroads, craving a connection that feels true and heartfelt. I'm Stacey Bartley, joined by my co-host and lover, Tom, and our insightful daughter, Brooke. Together, we delve into the essence of relationships, guiding you from the shadows of the unsaid to a bond built on mutual understanding and deep intimacy. But how do we bridge the gap when silent forces, nestled close to our hearts, shape our relationships in ways we can't see?

    In this transformative episode, we unfold layers of unspoken agreements, exploring the delicate dance of expectations that silently govern our interactions. We dive into the heart of emotional safety, revealing how to craft a sanctuary where hearts are open, and communication flows freely. It's time to transform the silence that separates into dialogues that unite, showcasing the strength of empathy and understanding.

    What if the key to reuniting the love that first brought you together was not in finding new ways to communicate but in uncovering and addressing the silent agreements that have been guiding your relationship all along?

    Today, inspired by a roadmap member's journey, we navigate the silent corridors of love and expectation, illuminating the path to a relationship enriched with laughter, love, and the profound comfort of truly knowing and being known by your partner. Join us as we traverse these uncharted territories, shining a light on the silent agreements that could be the key to unlocking a deeper connection with your loved one.

    Episode Links:
    Get the worksheet to explore the unspoken agreements in your relationship here: https://stacibartley.com/feeling-alone-together-unspoken-expectations-relationships/Enrollment for April's Love In Limbo: 30-Day Roadmap is now open: http://loveinlimboroadmap.com/Need support? Join our new Love In Limbo: Separation Support Sessions. Learn more here: http://loveinlimbo.com/Relationship Check-up - tired of re-hashing your issues with your partner without making progress? Schedule your check-up today!Check out our Love Shack Live Playlist for all the songs we play on the show.

    • 1 hr 5 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
43 Ratings

43 Ratings

Klc2160 ,

This podcast is helping me save my relationship

After listening to the series on love in limbo, I’ve been able to approach space with empathy, compassion, and a renewed sense of self. It got me through the immediate heartbreak and emotional storm and into a place of understanding and security. I know there’s a mountain still ahead but I feel so much more prepared to tackle it now.

Merr** ,

Really Great and Refreshing!

I have been listening to many relationship related podcasts. I had to hit pause because so many of them started to become too mainstream and a little all over the place, totally okay but not my thing. This podcast is a really great voice of reason and reminder of perspective when I’m taking a pause in therapy, which is something that I really appreciate.
THANK YOU 😊

Samandz ,

Very centered on their own experience

I sometimes listen to non therapists with the thought of gaining insight from others that have gone through a similar situation and what helped. Estrangement episode talked about their own family experience in depth which involved no estrangement. No need to add and amplify a personal story that doesn’t add to the topic of discussion.

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