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What’s the secret to a happy life? The research says it’s your relationships! But how do you create the connection, joy and ease you crave? You’ve got to think about your relationships in a whole new way.

Armed with humor, a ton of research and over 30 years of hands-on experience Dr. Abby Medcalf will teach you simple, actionable tools and strategies that you can use today to make all your relationships the best they’ve ever been (including the one with yourself)!

Abby’s a Relationship Maven, best-selling author and psychologist, who loves telling you what to do each week on her Relationships Made Easy Podcast. In her free time (what’s that?) Abby’s invested in loving up the people in her life whether that means cooking for them, spending quality time, or trying to control them (hey, she never said she was perfect).

Learn more about Abby, sign up for the newsletter, read the blog, listen, take a course, or connect directly at www.abbymedcalf.com.

Relationships Made Easy Dr. Abby Medcalf

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.8 • 339 Ratings

What’s the secret to a happy life? The research says it’s your relationships! But how do you create the connection, joy and ease you crave? You’ve got to think about your relationships in a whole new way.

Armed with humor, a ton of research and over 30 years of hands-on experience Dr. Abby Medcalf will teach you simple, actionable tools and strategies that you can use today to make all your relationships the best they’ve ever been (including the one with yourself)!

Abby’s a Relationship Maven, best-selling author and psychologist, who loves telling you what to do each week on her Relationships Made Easy Podcast. In her free time (what’s that?) Abby’s invested in loving up the people in her life whether that means cooking for them, spending quality time, or trying to control them (hey, she never said she was perfect).

Learn more about Abby, sign up for the newsletter, read the blog, listen, take a course, or connect directly at www.abbymedcalf.com.

    Are Relationship Doubts Normal? Four Questions to Get Your Answer

    Are Relationship Doubts Normal? Four Questions to Get Your Answer

    The short answer is “yes,” but the real question is, “When should I listen to my relationship doubts and when should I ignore them?” Whether you’re deciding to move in together and having doubts, or you’ve been together for ten years and wondering if it’s time to go your separate ways, relationship doubts can crop up at any point in a relationship. So how do you separate normal doubts from an inner voice you should listen to? Today, I’m bringing you the top four questions you need to ask yourself (and answer, of course) to stop doubting and start being sure.
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    Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/are-relationship-doubts-normal-four-questions-to-get-your-answer

    Want to feel happier and more connected in your relationship? Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book
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    Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast and https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find every single episode.

    Subscribe today to get my love letter to you! This biweekly reminder will keep you on the path to creating connected, happy relationships (especially the one with yourself!). https://abbymedcalf.com

    For more quick tips, subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube 

    Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop 

    A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get yourself a t-shirt, mug, tote bag or notebook with that daily reminder that you’ve got this! https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

    Say hello on social:
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    • 37 min
    Learn to Hold Your Boundaries with Healthy Selfishness

    Learn to Hold Your Boundaries with Healthy Selfishness

    You’ve tried to draw a boundary with your partner, boss or best friend, but they call you selfish, self-absorbed or even narcissistic! How could dare you prioritize yourself over what they want? In my new book, Boundaries Made Easy (which is dropping in just a couple of weeks on 12/5/23), I dispel the myth that holding a boundary is selfish and explain what healthy selfishness is all about. Today, I’m giving you a sneak peek into what selfishness really is and how you can learn to hold your boundaries with healthy selfishness.  
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    Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/learn-to-hold-your-boundaries-with-healthy-selfishness 
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    A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get a t-shirt, mug, tote bag or notebook this holiday season with that daily reminder that you’ve got this! https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

    Want to feel happier and more connected in your relationship? Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book 

    Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast and https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find every single episode.

    Subscribe today to get my love letter to you! This biweekly reminder will keep you on the path to creating connected, happy relationships (especially the one with yourself!). https://abbymedcalf.com 

    For more quick tips, subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube 

    Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop 

    Say hello on social:
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/abbymedcalf 
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthriving 
    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthriving 
    YouTube:  https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube 

    • 23 min
    What to Do if Your Partner is Friends with Past Partners or Hookups

    What to Do if Your Partner is Friends with Past Partners or Hookups

    Your current partner is friends with one or more of their past partners or hookups, and you don’t like it. You’ve told them you’re uncomfortable, but they say they’re just friends and you’re overreacting. Does it mean you have to break up? Should you push the issue or just grin and bear it? Today, we’ll be talking about the real reason you’re upset and what you can do about it. 
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    Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/what-to-do-if-your-partner-is-friends-with-past-partners-or-hookups
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    Want to feel happier and more connected in your relationship? Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book

    Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast and https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find every single episode.

    Subscribe today to get my love letter to you! This biweekly reminder will keep you on the path to creating connected, happy relationships (especially the one with yourself!). https://abbymedcalf.com 

    For more quick tips, subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube 

    Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop 

    A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get yourself a t-shirt, mug, tote bag, or notebook with that daily reminder that you’ve got this! https://abbymedcalf.com/shop 

    Say hello on social:
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/abbymedcalf 
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthriving 
    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthriving 
    YouTube:  https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube 

    • 25 min
    How to Keep Your Boundaries Around the Holidays

    How to Keep Your Boundaries Around the Holidays

    How do you not let your family drive you crazy this holiday season? Boundaries. How can you find peace even though there’s so much going on during November and December? Boundaries. How can you enter the new year feeling refreshed and energized? Boundaries once again! If you’re looking for ease and joy this holiday season, I can help you get there, and there’s only one thing you need to focus on (you guessed it), boundaries! Today, I’m going to teach you my best tips for not just surviving, but thriving this holiday season. 
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    Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/how-to-keep-your-boundaries-around-the-holidays

    Grab my FREE Mindfulness Starter Kit: https://abbymedcalf.com/product/mindfulness-starter-kit
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    Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast and https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find every single episode.

    Subscribe today to get my love letter to you! This biweekly reminder will keep you on the path to creating connected, happy relationships (especially the one with yourself!). https://abbymedcalf.com

    For more quick tips, subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube 

    Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

    A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get yourself a t-shirt, mug, tote bag, or notebook with that daily reminder that you’ve got this! https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

    Say hello on social:
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/abbymedcalf 
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthriving 
    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthriving 
    YouTube:  https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube 

    • 51 min
    How Do You Know When a Relationship is Over?

    How Do You Know When a Relationship is Over?

    Have you been thinking it’s time to call it quits in your relationship, but maybe you’re wondering if you’re quitting too soon or wanting to leave for the wrong reasons? It can be hard to know when a relationship “should be” over. Today I’ll be sharing the top five signs that a relationship might be over. 
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    Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/how-do-you-know-when-a-relationship-is-over

    Want to feel happier and more connected in your relationship? Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book 
    ____________________________
    Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast and https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find every single episode.

    Subscribe today to get my love letter to you! This biweekly reminder will keep you on the path to creating connected, happy relationships (especially the one with yourself!). https://abbymedcalf.com

    For more quick tips, subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube

    Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop 

    A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get yourself a t-shirt, mug, tote bag, or notebook with that daily reminder that you’ve got this! https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

    Say hello on social:
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/abbymedcalf 
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthriving 
    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthriving 
    YouTube:  https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube 

    • 43 min
    What You Need to Know About Defense Mechanisms

    What You Need to Know About Defense Mechanisms

    Defense mechanisms are your brain’s (mostly unconscious) way of avoiding conflict, anxiety or upset. Although they get a bad rap, defense mechanisms are a necessary part of your psychology, and some are even considered healthy! Today, you’ll gain some self-awareness as you learn all about defense mechanisms and where you fit. 
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    Full blog and show notes: https://abbymedcalf.com/what-you-need-to-know-about-defense-mechanisms

    Grab my FREE Grounding Exercises: https://abbymedcalf.com/grounding
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    Want to feel happier and more connected in your relationship? Buy my #1 bestselling book on Amazon, Be Happily Married: Even If Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing: https://abbymedcalf.com/book

    Looking for past episodes of the Relationships Made Easy Podcast? Head over to https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast and https://abbymedcalf.com/podcast-the-archives where you’ll find every single episode.

    Subscribe today to get my love letter to you! This biweekly reminder will keep you on the path to creating connected, happy relationships (especially the one with yourself!). https://abbymedcalf.com 

    For more quick tips, subscribe to my YouTube channel: https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube 

    Ready to dig deeper? Take one of my online courses (some are FREE!) or grab a workbook: https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

    A great idea to stay motivated and keep your head in a positive direction is to buy some of my fabulous, inspirational merchandise. Get yourself a t-shirt, mug, tote bag, or notebook with that daily reminder that you’ve got this! https://abbymedcalf.com/shop

    Say hello on social:
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/abbymedcalf 
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abbymedcalfthriving 
    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/abbymedcalfthriving 
    YouTube:  https://abbymedcalf.com/youtube 

    • 55 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
339 Ratings

339 Ratings

Shah128 ,

She deserves a million stars !!!!!! But I will start with 5

The day I discovered Abby’s podcast, thank you Lauren, is the day my life changed.
It always crushes me how much she cares, she loves and empowers. She always makes me feel better about myself. She is a game changer.

SkyCap750 ,

Best Relationship Podcast

Abby absolutely crushes it in every subject she touches on. I’ve been blown away at how distinctly she speaks on relationships and how deeply true her knowledge and experience permeates into my own experiences. Spot on, can’t wait to read her books too.

trinawes ,

Full of love and tips

Abby’s lovely personality shines through, plus her enthusiasm and obvious expertise in her field. She is the wise and caring auntie you’ve been looking for.

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