Married Game Podcast

Keith Yackey

Sex in marriage is a tricky game. If you are like me, I got frustrated when the woman of my dreams stopped initiating or only had sex with me to service my needs. Deep down you want to be wanted. You want your wife to desire you again. The bottom line is she is no longer attracted to you. The good news is you can fix this, without having the "talk" with her. This podcast is all about helping you become the most attractive version of you again. Let's dive in and get you laid! Hosted by Keith Yackey & Jesse Joy

  1. 3D AGO

    Why Valentine’s Day Fails Most Marriages

    In this episode of the Married Game Podcast, we take a completely different angle on Valentine’s Day and break down why so many men feel frustrated, unappreciated, or let down… even when they “do everything right.” This isn’t another list of date ideas or gift recommendations.This is about what Valentine’s Day actually teaches your marriage — for better or worse. We unpack: Why expectation is the fastest way to kill romance The hidden trap men fall into when effort is rare instead of standard Why “I hope she notices” quietly sabotages attraction What women really want Valentine’s Day to represent (even if they never say it) How pressure, performance, and validation-seeking backfire Why leadership in marriage has nothing to do with control — and everything to do with influence The one mindset shift that keeps a man grounded even when his wife is critical or emotional Valentine’s Day acts like a magnifying glass.If your connection is strong, it deepens intimacy.If it’s fractured, it amplifies resentment. This episode shows men how to stop treating romance like a once-a-year event and start living by a standard that creates desire year-round. If you’ve ever thought: “She doesn’t appreciate me” “Why is this never enough?” “I’m trying, but it keeps missing the mark” …this conversation will hit home. This isn’t about getting Valentine’s Day right.It’s about not teaching your marriage the wrong lesson. Share this with a man who needs to hear it before Valentine’s Day — not after. 👉 Learn more at marriedgame.com

    38 min
  2. FEB 6

    Why Even Successful Men Still Feel Rejected

    What if the thing wrecking your marriage isn’t your wife… but a wound you’ve been carrying since childhood? In this episode, we go deep into core wounds—especially rejection—and how they silently run men’s emotions, reactions, leadership, and intimacy. From feeling rejected over something small, to blaming or shaming your partner, to chasing sex, validation, or respect without knowing why—this episode breaks down what’s actually happening beneath the surface. We talk about: Why even confident, successful men still feel rejected How childhood experiences program your nervous system and reactions Why logic knows better, but your body still reacts The difference between leadership, control, and emotional fragility How core wounds sabotage sex, attraction, and respect at home Why “fixing your wife” never works—and what actually does You’ll hear real stories, real admissions, and real breakthroughs—from realizing how rejection gets triggered in everyday moments, to understanding how men unknowingly project shame and blame onto the people they love most. We also break down real Marriage Mailbox questions from men who feel: Unwanted, untouched, or dismissed Disrespected at home despite being leaders at work Confused about whether they’re “being needy” or something is truly wrong This episode isn’t about becoming soft.It’s about becoming free. If you’ve ever felt rejected, unseen, disrespected, or like you’re constantly walking on eggshells in your marriage—this conversation will hit home. And more importantly, it will show you where the real work begins.

    50 min
  3. JAN 23

    Grief, Leadership, and Becoming the Man Your Marriage Needs

    This week’s episode of the Married Game Podcast is unlike anything we’ve recorded before. After losing his father, Keith slow things down and talk honestly about grief, leadership, masculinity, and what actually holds a marriage together when life hits hard. Instead of avoiding the pain, Keith talks about what happens when a man chooses to sit with it — and how that choice reshapes how he shows up as a husband, father, and leader. From there, Keith and Jesse break down the real meaning behind the phrases men keep repeating in their marriages, like: “My wife isn’t affectionate anymore” “No matter what I do, it’s never enough” “We just don’t have chemistry” “I don’t feel like a man in my own house” Keith and Jesse unpack what’s actually happening underneath those stories — not the excuses, not the surface emotions, but the loss of frame, leadership, and self-trust that quietly erodes attraction over time. You’ll also hear: Why a happy woman doesn’t just leave The difference between control vs release in masculine energy Why men lose attraction when they outsource their worth How tribe, risk, and truth restore polarity in a marriage What it really means to become a trophy husband Why sitting with grief can make you more powerful — not weaker This episode is for the man who knows something is off in his marriage…but is finally ready to stop blaming, stop coping, and start leading himself again. If you’ve ever thought “I’m doing everything and it’s still not working” — this conversation will change how you see everything. 🎯 Want to go deeper? Get the book: The Married Game Watch a free breakdown of what’s actually sabotaging your marriage at MarriedGame.com

    46 min
  4. JAN 16

    The $30,000 Conversation That Changed Everything

    In this week’s episode of The Married Game Podcast, Keith sits down with Garrett Gunderson — New York Times & Wall Street Journal bestselling author, founder of Wealth Factory, and one of the most influential thinkers in modern personal finance — to unpack an experience that reshaped his life, business, and relationship with money. Garrett isn’t your typical finance expert. He built and sold an Inc. 500 financial firm, authored 10 bestselling booksincluding Killing Sacred Cows, and has spent decades helping entrepreneurs and high-performing families make, keep, and grow wealth while living lives they don’t want to retire from. What happens when a man pays $30,000 for one day of unfiltered conversation with someone like Garrett — inside his Cash Cabin immersion — isn’t just financial clarity. It’s a deep internal reckoning around fear, worthiness, visibility, faith, ambition, and the stories men quietly carry about money and success. In this episode, we explore: Why high-achieving men are often embarrassed about their money The hidden fear many men have of being fully seen and judged How money is emotional — not logical — and why avoidance keeps men stuck The difference between coaching and true mentoring Why suppressing desire creates scarcity, and telling the truth creates freedom How faith, masculinity, ambition, and provision intersect Why many men lose intimacy by trying to create security How speaking what you’ve never said out loud instantly restores power This isn’t a conversation about budgeting or investment tactics.It’s a raw discussion about identity, truth, masculinity, and how money simply amplifies who you already are. If you’re driven but restless…Successful but unsatisfied…Or confident on the outside while constrained on the inside… This episode will hit. Websitegarrettgunderson.com Social PlatformsInstagram: GarrettBGundersonYouTube: Garrett GundersonX (Twitter): Wealth Factory

    52 min
  5. JAN 7

    The Barista Test: The Brutal Truth About Attraction in Marriage

    On this week’s episode of The World’s Most Expensive Relationship Coach, we break down a brutal but necessary truth most married men refuse to face. Does your wife believe other women would want you?Or does she know they wouldn’t? This episode introduces The Barista Test—a simple but confronting way to measure long-term attraction in your marriage. Not cheating. Not flirting. Not validation-seeking.Perception of options. When you were single, women wanted you.Your wife felt chosen.She brought her best energy. Then marriage happened—and many men dropped their standard. In this episode, we unpack: Why attraction dies after marriage for most men The difference between short-term attraction and long-term desire Why your wife subconsciously knows if you don’t have options How living at a radically high standard reignites respect, desire, and intimacy This isn’t about playing games.It’s about becoming the man other women would want—so your wife is proud she’s with you. If you’ve ever felt unwanted, tolerated, or like the spark is gone…This episode will hit hard—and show you exactly what needs to change. 👉 Learn more at MarriedGame.comOn this week’s episode of The World’s Most Expensive Relationship Coach, we break down a brutal but necessary truth most married men refuse to face. Does your wife believe other women would want you?Or does she know they wouldn’t? This episode introduces The Barista Test—a simple but confronting way to measure long-term attraction in your marriage. Not cheating. Not flirting. Not validation-seeking.Perception of options. When you were single, women wanted you.Your wife felt chosen.She brought her best energy. Then marriage happened—and many men dropped their standard. In this episode, we unpack: Why attraction dies after marriage for most men The difference between short-term attraction and long-term desire Why your wife subconsciously knows if you don’t have options How living at a radically high standard reignites respect, desire, and intimacy This isn’t about playing games.It’s about becoming the man other women would want—so your wife is proud she’s with you. If you’ve ever felt unwanted, tolerated, or like the spark is gone…This episode will hit hard—and show you exactly what needs to change. 👉 Learn more at MarriedGame.com

    14 min
4.5
out of 5
55 Ratings

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Sex in marriage is a tricky game. If you are like me, I got frustrated when the woman of my dreams stopped initiating or only had sex with me to service my needs. Deep down you want to be wanted. You want your wife to desire you again. The bottom line is she is no longer attracted to you. The good news is you can fix this, without having the "talk" with her. This podcast is all about helping you become the most attractive version of you again. Let's dive in and get you laid! Hosted by Keith Yackey & Jesse Joy

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