Married Game Podcast

Keith Yackey
  • 4.5 (56)
  • Relationships
  • Updated Weekly

Sex in marriage is a tricky game. If you are like me, I got frustrated when the woman of my dreams stopped initiating or only had sex with me to service my needs. Deep down you want to be wanted. You want your wife to desire you again. The bottom line is she is no longer attracted to you. The good news is you can fix this, without having the "talk" with her. This podcast is all about helping you become the most attractive version of you again. Let's dive in and get you laid! Hosted by Keith Yackey & Jesse Joy

  1. 4d ago

    What My Wife Taught Me About Real Leadership

    In this episode of The Married Game Podcast, Keith sits down with entrepreneur, author, and founder of Chandler Bolt, one of the leading voices in self-publishing and business growth. Chandler is the bestselling author of Published and has helped thousands of entrepreneurs, experts, and leaders turn their ideas into books while building multiple successful companies along the way. But this conversation goes far beyond business. Chandler opens up about the personal struggles most successful men never talk about—the pressure of leadership, losing your confidence, feeling responsible for everyone around you, and the moment he sat across from his wife and admitted, “I don’t know if I can do this.” Together, Keith and Chandler unpack why vulnerability is actually a superpower, how purpose fuels a man's life, and what every husband needs to understand about leadership at home. They also dive into: Why successful men often struggle in relationshipsThe difference between vulnerability and victimhoodHow Chandler’s wife nearly walked away before they got marriedThe hidden burden of always being the leaderWhy purpose matters just as much as money and sexHow to stop chasing perfection in your marriageThe power of surrounding yourself with the right peopleIf you've ever felt the weight of leadership, questioned your purpose, or wondered why success still doesn't feel like enough, this episode is for you. Learn more about The Married Game and upcoming events at MarriedGame.com.

    58 min

  2. 6d ago

    The First Sign Your Marriage Is Falling Apart

    Most men don’t see the warning signs until it’s too late. In this Q&A episode, Keith breaks down the first indicators that a marriage is heading in the wrong direction, why emotional disconnection often shows up before bigger problems, and the subtle signs your wife may be pulling away. He also shares the painful lessons he learned when his own marriage was on the brink—and how being defensive can keep men blind to what’s really happening. Plus, Keith tackles a question many couples struggle with: Why does sex become awkward in marriage? From emotional connection and attraction to leadership, confidence, and mindset, he unpacks the real reasons intimacy can start to fade—and what you can do about it. If you've ever felt like something is off in your marriage but couldn't quite put your finger on it, this episode is for you. In this episode:• The first sign your marriage may be falling apart• Why women withdraw emotionally and physically• The danger of defensiveness in relationships• How emotional neglect impacts attraction• Why sex becomes awkward in marriage• The connection between leadership and intimacy• Keith’s personal story of nearly losing his marriage• Small mindset shifts that can change everything Get your free copy of the Married Game Book:MarriedGameBook.com Learn more about coaching and events:

    14 min

  3. May 29

    Why Your Wife Feels More Like Your Mother Than Your Lover

    Most men think their marriage problems start in the bedroom. They don’t. In this episode, Keith and Jesse unpack one of the biggest blind spots men have in relationships: treating their wife like their mother. From seeking permission and needing approval to over-explaining every decision, they break down how the “Mom Matrix” quietly destroys attraction, confidence, and connection inside a marriage. They also introduce a brand-new AI version of Coach Keith, discuss why playful banter matters more than most couples realize, and reveal why the strongest men don't feel the need to explain themselves to everyone around them. Plus, the debut of a new segment, Unfinished Business, where Keith and Jesse tackle the relationship dynamics that most couples never talk about. In this episode: • The hidden reason many men lose their edge after marriage• Why seeking approval kills attraction• The difference between leading yourself and controlling others• How playful banter creates long-term chemistry• Why women test men (and what they're really looking for)• The truth about the “Mom Matrix” and how it impacts relationships• How to stop reacting and start responding with confidence• Why strong marriages are built on autonomy, trust, and connection If you've ever felt like your marriage has become more about managing conflict than creating connection, this episode is for you. Learn more at MarriedGame.com

    46 min

  4. May 15

    Interdependence: The Secret To Lasting Attraction

    What if the key to a stronger relationship isn’t spending more time together… but learning how to maintain your individuality inside the relationship? In this episode of the Married Game Podcast, Keith and Jesse dive deep into the concept of interdependence — the balance between connection and independence that keeps attraction, desire, and emotional intimacy alive long-term. They unpack why so many couples unintentionally lose themselves inside their relationships, how codependency slowly kills attraction, and why creating healthy space can actually make you miss, appreciate, and desire each other more. From Disney love stories to separate bedrooms, solo trips, masculine leadership, autonomy, and the psychology behind attraction, this conversation challenges nearly everything modern relationships teach about love and marriage. This episode isn’t about caring less.It’s about becoming two fully alive people who choose each other — instead of two people slowly losing themselves trying to become one. In this episode: Why “doing everything together” can backfireThe difference between codependence, independence, and interdependenceHow space creates longing and attractionWhy many men lose themselves in relationshipsThe hidden problem with needing constant approvalWhy healthy couples still maintain separate identitiesThe role autonomy plays in desire and respectHow intentional time apart can strengthen connectionIf you’ve ever felt like your relationship became stagnant, overly dependent, or lost its spark… this episode will completely shift the way you think about attraction, intimacy, and partnership. 👉 Learn more at: MarriedGame.com 👉 Get the book: MarriedGameBook.com

    36 min

  5. May 9

    Why Sex Feels Like an Afterthought in Your Marriage

    Who’s Lying in Your Marriage? Most couples don’t lie out loud…they hide behind things that sound true. “I’m just tired.”“I don’t feel that pull anymore.”“I don’t know why I feel this way.” But if you take those at face value, you’ll miss what’s actually breaking your relationship. In this episode, we rip the mask off the most common phrases in marriage and decode what’s really being said underneath—because the issue isn’t what’s being said… it’s what’s being avoided. We get into: Why attraction doesn’t just “fade”… it gets shut offWhat she actually means when she says she feels disconnectedThe real reason sex becomes an afterthoughtWhy “I don’t know why” is usually not the truthHow men unknowingly kill desire without realizing itAnd the shift that brings connection, polarity, and excitement backThis isn’t about blaming men or women.It’s about seeing clearly—so you can actually fix what’s broken. Because when you understand what’s real…you stop reacting to surface-level problems and start leading your marriage the right way. If your relationship feels off, distant, or stuck in the same patterns—this episode will show you exactly why. Apply to work with us:MarriedGame.com Get the book:MarriedGameBook.com And if this hit you, send it to a man who needs to hear it—because most guys are guessing… and it’s costing them everything.

    34 min

  6. May 6

    Q&A: Did You Bait & Switch Your Wife?

    In this episode of the Married Game Podcast, we break down a brutal—but necessary—question: 👉 Did you sell one version of yourself… and deliver another? At the beginning, you were driven.Disciplined.Fun.Focused on a future. Now? You’re tired. Comfortable. Reactive.And wondering why she’s not as attracted to you anymore. This episode exposes the 3 signs you may have bait & switched your wife: You’ve let your body goYou’ve lost your drive and ambitionYour energy shifted from fun and engaging… to passive and checked outAnd here’s the truth most men don’t want to hear: She didn’t stop choosing you…You stopped becoming the man she chose. We also dive into: Why she won’t tell you the full truth (and what her actions are really saying)How your lack of self-leadership is killing attractionWhy “I’ll start Monday” is the exact reason nothing changesThe only way to rebuild trust, respect, and desire—starting now🔥 Ready to stop drifting and start leading again?👉 Go to MarriedGame.com👉 Watch the video and apply for a call Because if you don’t choose yourself…Why would she?

    10 min

  7. May 2

    From Pitbull to Prodigy: How This Father Built a Warrior

    This week on The Married Game Podcast, we sit down with a father-son duo that doesn’t just talk about discipline, leadership, and legacy… they live it. Meet Steve Eckert—a coach, entrepreneur, and leader who built his life the hard way—and his son Tyson Eckert, a 14-year-old fighter already stepping into the cage with a level of confidence, discipline, and mindset most grown men never reach. Tyson didn’t grow up on video games and distractions… he grew up in a gym. Raised alongside fighters, mentored by high-level men, and trained daily in boxing, jiu-jitsu, and MMA, he’s now proving what happens when a young man is led the right way. But this episode isn’t just about fighting… It’s about the moment Steve realized he was becoming the kind of father he never wanted to be—and the decision that changed everything. It’s about what it really means to lead your family, stop neglecting what matters most, and build a life where your kids don’t run away from you when you walk in the door… they run toward you. We break down: Why most men are failing their families without even realizing itThe difference between building a business… and building a legacyHow discipline, environment, and brotherhood shape a young manWhy your son is watching everything you do (and becoming it)The exact mindset that creates confidence, dominance, and leadershipIf you’ve ever wondered what it looks like to actually walk the walk as a man, a father, and a leader… this episode will hit you hard. This isn’t theory. This is the standard. 🎧 Listen now and start leading the way you were meant to. 👉 More at MarriedGame.com👉 Grab the book at MarriedGameBook.com

    55 min

  8. Apr 29

    Q&A: Why Is It So Important to Date My Wife?

    If your wife doesn’t want to go on a date with you…that’s not a scheduling problem—it’s a reflection. In this Q&A episode, Keith answers a question a lot of men are asking—but most are avoiding the real answer to:“Why is it so important to date my wife?” And he doesn’t sugarcoat it. This episode calls out the fantasy most men live in—thinking they’re a catch while the one woman they actually committed to doesn’t want to spend time with them. If she’s bored, disconnected, or uninterested… Keith makes it clear: that’s your report card. Inside this episode: Why your wife not wanting to go on dates is feedback—not rejectionThe brutal truth about “I could get other women” thinkingHow defensiveness, low effort, and lack of leadership kill attractionWhy you can’t convince her you’re fun—you have to become funThe shift from “date night” → to living a full date lifeKeith also breaks down the 4 phases of creating real attraction:Preparation. Anticipation. Execution. Culmination.—and why most men skip all of them and still expect results. Plus: Why doing things only to get sex backfires every timeHow going out and creating fun without her changes everythingThe role of energy—and why it’s the real game-changer in dating and marriageThe little things that instantly kill attraction (being cheap, boring, or transactional)The core message is simple—but hard to accept:You are the problem. And you are the solution. If you’re ready to stop guessing and start actually fixing your marriage:👉 Go to MarriedGame.com to learn how to apply this in your real life📘 And grab the book at MarriedGameBook.com to see exactly what you’re doing wrong—and how to turn it around

    42 min
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Sex in marriage is a tricky game. If you are like me, I got frustrated when the woman of my dreams stopped initiating or only had sex with me to service my needs. Deep down you want to be wanted. You want your wife to desire you again. The bottom line is she is no longer attracted to you. The good news is you can fix this, without having the "talk" with her. This podcast is all about helping you become the most attractive version of you again. Let's dive in and get you laid! Hosted by Keith Yackey & Jesse Joy

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  • Creator
    Keith Yackey
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    170
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Keith Yackey
  • Show Website
    Married Game Podcast

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