i am puzzled how many of the participants expect to or want to feel “turned on” by those they meet. and my question to them is how did that method of picking a partner work for you in the past? how much time did the sexy partner get before s/he became a jerk? if by a number of dates there’s not even an inkling of romance, re-evaluate. 43 yrs ago my husband called me for a date and reminded me we had met at a graduate school party. i did not remember him and i said so. he skipped over that and invited me to a baseball game. (most people have watched enough sports to get that there is a ball, usually, and you keep your eye on it and i actually liked baseball )That was an excellent first date—focus on the game a little on each other a little. Had i remembered him from the aforementioned party —vaguely as i watched him walking up the sidewalk to my apartment. i did notice that his clothes were wrinkled —a minor distraction. within a month the deal was signed sealed and ready to deliver to the huppah —-two years later one helpful trait both of us seemed to have was to be oblivious to what each of us thought were our own detriments i am 71 and married to my besherit for 41 yrs. a new (young) friend saw our wedding picture and commented that she never would have recognized us from our appearance now! i told my husband and we both laughed—each of us thinks we look exactly like that 41 yr old photo. our courtship is a long, sometimes difficult story (i was not born Jewish—now i have been living almost twice as many years as a Jew).

This is an honest podcast that answers questions from two people’s points of view instead of just one and you always learn something that makes you think and see things about relationships with a new and positive perspective. After listening to this, the world of dating doesn’t feel so daunting anymore. Very refreshing!

Love this podcast! Amazing, helpful, and sincere advice for searching for and being in a healthy relationship! Appreciate the humor, as anyone in the dating pool knows…it is needed! The hosts are the perfect balance together on this podcast and the topics covered/questions answered are exactly what we need for our modern dating society!

Aleeza is absolutely hysterical but beyond her dazzle and charm is some of the best relationship advice I’ve ever heard! She is witty, enthusiastic and covers some seriously uncharted dating territory! You won’t want to miss this podcast! Her dialog with the Love Rabbi, Rabbi Bernath will leave you in stitches. They are clearly the perfect match! No wonder it’s called matchmaker matchmaker!