Morrow Marriage | Disrupting Divorce

Cass & Kathryn Morrow

Cass Morrow, Author of DISRUPTING DIVORCE | The NEW ManSaving Struggling Sexless and Toxic MarriagesAvailable on Amazon: https://a.co/d/31vm4bV Saving Struggling, Sexless & Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket FenceKeeping Families TogetherAvailable on Amazon: https://a.co/d/f0diMvp Brings you MORROW MARRIAGE: The NEW Marriage, with Cass & Kathryn.Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of Hell to save their marriage and keep their family together while battling narcissism, emotional abuse, reactive abuse, physical and sexual assault. They learned a lot during these toxic times and the restraining order against Cass... mess up and he would go to jail. Seven separations, two divorce lawyers... HELL. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story. Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today.Inspiring couples around the world...If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and sexless - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse?Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life.Join their exclusive Free Men's Community and Free Women's Community at https://go.morrowmarriage.com Take advantage of all the free resources to support this podcast and their books. 

  1. 3d ago

    Why You Can't Get Past That One Fight | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep479

    Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you! Can’t Save Your Marriage From This One Thing! Three years where nothing could touch you. You got through real grief together. And then one ordinary day, one argument about nothing, and eighteen months later you're still there — still arguing about it, still hurt, still unable to explain why this one thing broke everything. In Ep479, Cass takes a call with a couple living exactly that, and explains why the one thing that started it is the thing you can't get past. 🔑 What we cover: • Why "perfect" years often mean you were each other's rescue, not each other's partner • What actually broke: not the argument, but discovering they could hurt you • Extreme highs and lows — the highs carry you far, the lows level everything • Why explaining yourself calmly is still being defensive • Losing track of who you are, and what that does to a marriage • Why they're still fighting about a decision neither of them cares about • How one thing becomes two, then everything • If you both want the same thing, they probably aren't trying to hurt you 💛 One thing said plainly in this episode: threats are abuse, even if nobody has been touched. If that's your situation, please talk to someone who can help — in the US, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788. It's free, confidential, and open 24/7. 🔗 Start here: • Free training: https://start.morrowmarriage.com/vslshortoptin • Everything else (courses, books, tools): https://www.morrowmarriage.com/resources • Full podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4 🔔 Subscribe — daily marriage help. No filter. #marriageadvice #marriagehelp #conflict #resentment #relationships #repair #communication #husbandandwife #healing #connection #marriagepodcast #CassMorrow #MorrowMarriage #TheNEWMarriage MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.  Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today. Inspiring couples around the world... If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse? Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life. Have your own questions or topics you would like us to cover?  Let us know here: https://forms.gle/7R8GBAdmQRkuZ3NFA

  2. 5d ago

    Can ChatGPT Be Your Therapist? | Using AI For Marriage Advice | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep478

    Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you! Using AI as A Therapist or Coach! You typed the whole thing out at 2am — everything that's happened, everything you've tried — and it gave you a clear, calm, sensible answer. Then you pushed a bit harder, and it agreed with you again. And again. In Ep478, Cass has been putting ChatGPT and Gemini through their paces, and Kathryn had an actual fight with one. Here's where it helps, and exactly where it stops. 🔑 What we cover: • Why it validates everything, and what that has in common with a bad listener • Kathryn's fight with Gemini — it got defensive, then it gave her the silent treatment • Why it can't go deeper than the second question • The materials list for this studio that was short on studs and screws • Why "it gave me steps" isn't the same as it understanding your marriage • Where it's genuinely fine — and where it's still not a lawyer • The situations it has nothing at all for • Why the basic stuff was never your real problem ⚠️ If you're in crisis, please don't use a chatbot. Talk to a person — emergency services, a crisis line, or a professional. That's not what this episode is about. 🤖 Two accuracy notes: asking an AI whether it made something up isn't a reliable check — verify the claim against a real source instead. And a chatbot isn't learning from your individual conversations day to day; what changes is the model itself. 🔗 Start here: • Free training: https://start.morrowmarriage.com/vslshortoptin • Everything else (courses, books, tools): https://www.morrowmarriage.com/resources • Full podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4 🔔 Subscribe — daily marriage help. No filter. #ai #chatgpt #aitherapy #marriageadvice #marriagehelp #relationships #technology #therapy #husbandandwife #coaching #marriagepodcast #CassMorrow #MorrowMarriage #TheNEWMarriage MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.  Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today. Inspiring couples around the world... If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse? Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life. Have your own questions or topics you would like us to cover?  Let us know here: https://forms.gle/7R8GBAdmQRkuZ3NFA

  3. 6d ago

    "Nothing I Do Is Good Enough" Is Manipulation | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep477

    Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you! Nothing I Do Is Ever Good Enough! Thirty days of doing everything right. Then day 31, one thing goes wrong, and it's like none of it happened — the past comes back, everything gets stacked up, and out it comes: "nothing I do is ever good enough." Cass used to say it constantly. In Ep477 he explains why it's the single most self-defeating sentence you can say to your partner — and why it isn't the confession you think it is. 🔑 What we cover: • Day 31 — why one bad day undoes a month of progress • What that sentence is actually asking your partner to do • Why nobody has ever responded to it the way you're hoping • What comes back instead: "you're right, nothing you do is" • The same move in disguise: "fine, I want a divorce," "you never help with the kids" • Inconsistent love — why the gifts and dropping-everything don't land • If you know what you want, why do the things that can't produce it? • The man who couldn't train because he was up every night — and the plan that worked • Kathryn on when to take Cass literally, and when not to You can't guilt someone into appreciating you. Here is what to do instead. 🔗 Start here: • Free training: https://start.morrowmarriage.com/vslshortoptin • Everything else (courses, books, tools, the free community): https://www.morrowmarriage.com/resources • Full podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4 🔔 Subscribe — daily marriage help. No filter. #feelingunappreciated #marriageadvice #marriagehelp #communication #blameshifting #relationships #effort #connection #husbandandwife #selfawareness #marriagepodcast #CassMorrow #MorrowMarriage #TheNEWMarriage MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.  Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today. Inspiring couples around the world... If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse? Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life. Have your own questions or topics you would like us to cover?  Let us know here: https://forms.gle/7R8GBAdmQRkuZ3NFA

  4. Aug 25

    Can't Afford Marriage Counseling? Read This First | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep475

    Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you! Can't Afford Marriage Counseling, Coaching Or Help! "I can't afford it." Cass and Kathryn have heard this objection thousands of times. While financial distress can be real, the more critical question is: what are people spending money on instead to try to fix their relationship? The $100k truck, the kitchen renovation, the Disney trip—none of it worked. In Ep475, Cass and Kathryn Morrow break down why you cannot buy your way out of a marriage problem, what the real wall is when it isn't money, and how to get truly unstuck. 🔑 What we cover in this episode: • What every man who claims he's broke spent money on that week • Getting unstuck vs. remaining stuck: Kathryn on true resourcefulness • The man who cancelled his call to go to Disney—and why the fights followed • The $100,000 truck: why buying gifts cannot heal broken patterns • "It's not the cup in the sink and it's not the kitchen renovation" • What Kathryn did to build happiness when there was no money and no help • Turning down clients: why readiness matters more than budget • What you actually can't afford: having no one check your blind spots 💛 If money is genuinely the wall right now: Start with our free tools. The podcast is free, the community is free, and our books exist specifically to provide structured help for those who cannot afford coaching. Nothing shared here is financial advice or a recommendation to take on debt. 💬 Free training — rebuild trust, intimacy & leadership (start here): 👉 https://start.morrowmarriage.com/vslshortoptin 🔗 Courses, tools, books & resources: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/resources 🎙️ Full podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4 🔔 Subscribe — daily marriage help. No filter. #marriageadvice #marriagehelp #marriagecounseling #money #relationships #accountability #savingyourmarriage #husbandandwife #investinyourself #mindset #marriagepodcast #CassMorrow #MorrowMarriage #TheNEWMarriage MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.  Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today. Inspiring couples around the world... If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse? Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life. Have your own questions or topics you would like us to cover?  Let us know here: https://forms.gle/7R8GBAdmQRkuZ3NFA

  5. Aug 24

    How To Apologize To Your Wife So She Believes You | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep474

    Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you! The Best Way To Apologize! You apologized. You explained what you learned, how you've grown, and how much you understand now. And she looked at you like she's heard it all before—because she has. In Ep474, Cass and Kathryn Morrow reveal the method they are running with clients right now. The first instruction is the one nobody expects: stop talking. 🔑 What we cover in this episode: • Why explaining your growth is the exact thing killing your apology • The one line to say before playing the song—and why you must stay silent afterwards • How letting her arrive at the recognition herself changes everything • What to do when your spouse doesn't believe your changes are real • Remorse vs. Repentance: the critical distinction that determines if an apology holds • The "Validation Hole": why active listening alone can make your partner feel therapized rather than cared for • Which songs to use, and how women can flip the gender roles to use them for their husbands • How to submit an apology video for direct coaching feedback 📕 Songs featured in this episode: • She's Invisible To You • She Doesn't Believe My Changes Are Real • She's Carrying All The Loads • How Can This Be Real 📜 Read full lyrics & access tracks: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/album/disrupting-divorce/lyrics/ 🔒 Submission & Privacy Disclaimer: If filming an apology to submit for feedback, ensure both partners are fully aware and mutually consent to being recorded. Submitted recordings remain 100% confidential, are viewed exclusively by our coaching staff for evaluation, and will never be published publicly without separate written consent from both spouses. 💬 Free training — rebuild trust, intimacy & leadership (start here): 👉 https://start.morrowmarriage.com/vslshortoptin 🔗 Courses, tools, books & resources: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/resources 🎙️ Full podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4 🔔 Subscribe — daily marriage help. No filter. #apology #howtoapologize #remorse #marriageadvice #marriagehelp #forgiveness #repairing #connection #husbandandwife #empathy #marriagepodcast #CassMorrow #MorrowMarriage #TheNEWMarriage MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.  Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today. Inspiring couples around the world... If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse? Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life. Have your own questions or topics you would like us to cover?  Let us know here: https://forms.gle/7R8GBAdmQRkuZ3NFA

  6. Aug 20

    Should You Break Up To Work On Yourself? | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep473

    Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you! I Broke Up To Grow Faster! "I left so I could grow faster." It sounds like maturity. It sounds like the healthy thing that everyone online tells you to do: take space, work on yourself, and come back whole. In Ep473, Cass and Kathryn Morrow dismantle that justification with a man who separated two months ago specifically to work on his insecurity. Cass asked him the obvious question: how are you going to work on insecurity with nobody around to be insecure about? 🔑 What we cover in this episode: • If you can't do the work with the person who hurts you most, why would the next relationship be any different? • The cheeseburger and the tacos: why changing every variable except the common denominator fails • Why you cannot test a personal change in a room where nothing triggers you • "You didn't lose her. You gave her away." • Why wanting to heal in a vacuum is itself a form of insecurity • What giving someone space actually teaches them about life without you • Kathryn: what the first time using your training under pressure is really like • Pressure makes the diamond: why real growth requires tension • Why every therapist, coach, and counsellor works with people while they're still in the fire • The two-month reality check: what growing alone actually produced If you are being told that leaving is the healthy choice, watch this before you step out of the room. 💬 Free training — rebuild trust, intimacy & leadership (start here): 👉 https://start.morrowmarriage.com/vslshortoptin 🔗 Courses, tools, books & our story: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/resources 🎙️ Full podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4 🔔 Subscribe — daily marriage help. No filter. #relationships #selfimprovement #takingspace #marriageadvice #marriagehelp #insecurity #separation #healing #husbandandwife #growth #marriagepodcast #CassMorrow #MorrowMarriage #TheNEWMarriage MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.  Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today. Inspiring couples around the world... If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse? Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life. Have your own questions or topics you would like us to cover?  Let us know here: https://forms.gle/7R8GBAdmQRkuZ3NFA

  7. Aug 18

    Why Self-Help Books Don't Fix Marriages | Don't Read My Book | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep472

    Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you! Don't Read My Book! You read the book. It made sense. You made real progress. And then you slid backwards, and now you're wondering whether any of this works — or whether it just doesn't work for you. In Ep472, Cass and Kathryn explain why reading a self-help book is never a substitute for real-time accountability, and why using a book as proof that you "tried everything" is a dangerous trap. 🔑 What we cover in this episode: • The two men: one who wanted a book instead of coaching, one who read it and went backwards • Addressing the question directly: "Is this just an upsell to coaching?" • Why you cannot run a composure tool for the first time while your spouse is screaming at you • What a book cannot give you: accountability, execution checks, and real-time feedback • The calculus test — would you fly a space mission after reading a textbook once? • Why Michael Jordan had a coach from the day he nearly failed tryouts • The two real reasons the Morrow Marriage books were written • Why the course uses video formats to maximize retention and application • The failure mode: using a book as evidence that you tried so you can give up • Case study: The woman who was two weeks from signing divorce papers—and what actually turned her marriage around 📕 Where the books fit: We wrote our books as a fast reference manual for people who are already doing the work, and so that anyone who genuinely cannot afford coaching still has something actionable in their hands. They were never designed to replace real-time feedback and execution practice. 💬 Free training — rebuild trust, intimacy & leadership (start here): 👉 https://start.morrowmarriage.com/vslshortoptin 🔗 Courses, tools, books & our story: https://www.morrowmarriage.com/resources 🎙️ Full podcast playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLzgMDD_noj4rUVhb9v9alyZe5ws_Su0I4 🔔 Subscribe — daily marriage help. No filter. #selfhelp #marriageadvice #marriagehelp #coaching #implementation #accountability #personalgrowth #savingyourmarriage #husbandandwife #books #marriagepodcast #CassMorrow #MorrowMarriage #TheNEWMarriage MorrowMarriage.com | Disrupting Divorce With The “New” Marriage Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of hell to save their marriage and keep their family together.  Battling narcissism, abuse, reactive abuse, emotional, physical and sexual assault. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story.  Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today. Inspiring couples around the world... If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and a sexless marriage - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse? Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life. Have your own questions or topics you would like us to cover?  Let us know here: https://forms.gle/7R8GBAdmQRkuZ3NFA

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Cass Morrow, Author of DISRUPTING DIVORCE | The NEW ManSaving Struggling Sexless and Toxic MarriagesAvailable on Amazon: https://a.co/d/31vm4bV Saving Struggling, Sexless & Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket FenceKeeping Families TogetherAvailable on Amazon: https://a.co/d/f0diMvp Brings you MORROW MARRIAGE: The NEW Marriage, with Cass & Kathryn.Cass and Kathryn came back from the depths of Hell to save their marriage and keep their family together while battling narcissism, emotional abuse, reactive abuse, physical and sexual assault. They learned a lot during these toxic times and the restraining order against Cass... mess up and he would go to jail. Seven separations, two divorce lawyers... HELL. Listen as they share their lessons, actionable steps and real life examples from even the worst of their story. Unscripted, real, raw and against the grain from society’s example of marriage - currently leading to the demise of nearly 78% of all marriages today.Inspiring couples around the world...If they can save their marriage from toxicity, abuse and sexless - not only survive it all... but THRIVE... what’s your excuse?Join Cass & Kathryn as they flip divorce statistics and fulfill their purpose in life.Join their exclusive Free Men's Community and Free Women's Community at https://go.morrowmarriage.com Take advantage of all the free resources to support this podcast and their books. 

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