Off The Comma

Paul Briley

You’re stuck, I get it. I’ve been there too. I call it “sitting on a comma”. We all know what it’s like to feel stuck in life and not know where to go next. This podcast is all about what it’s like to be on the comma, as shared by individuals just like ourselves. We will explore what they experienced, what they learned and how they got themselves off the comma. See more at YouTube @offthecomma! Are you sitting on a comma? Work 1:1 with me to unpack what’s holding you back. Book a 1-session coaching call and see what getting off your comma can look like! https://www.offthecomma.com/programs

  1. 2d ago

    #158 Creating The Life I Want with Anca Uni

    In this episode, we talk to Anca Uni. She describes herself as curious, learning and on the path of self discovery. Anca lives in Canada.  Anca tells us about sitting on a comma with a good life where she wanted to explore more. While she could describe her job and life as satisfying, Anca felt the pull to learn and discover more. He had an urge to see the world, so her family and she decided to move from Europe to Canada. Once she arrive and her new life unfolded, she found herself expanding her new career in trauma research. Anca followed her unique calling to create something meaningful for herself. Tune in to hear what Anca means when she says “it’s not what it created, it’s what I created out of it”.  You can find Anca on: Website:  www.AncaUni.com Linkedin:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/anca-uni-b-msc-msc-cissp-pmp-34aba22b2/ Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/uni.mist.3/  Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/anca.uni/  Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/@AncaUni  Anca would like to acknowledge the following individuals, organizations and/or causes that matter to her and invite you to consider supporting them and/or sharing their messages: My kids, they’re awesome, I’m learning so much from them My mentors, I’m blessed to have them Everyone who is doing good in the world #neuroscience #anotherlifebefore #jumpingoffthecomma #wantedmore #exploringandlearning #traumaresearch #whatIcreated #generationaltrauma #Ilovemylife #giftofhope #beyourself #goyourownway #OfftheCommapodcast #offthecomma  Music from #InAudio: https://inaudio.org/  Come Alive. Do you have a story to tell about being on your own comma? If so, come JOIN US on the podcast! Message me if you’re interested in being a guest! https://offthecomma.com/podcast/  Are you sitting on a comma in your life? Work one on one with me to unpack what’s holding you back. Contact me to explore your possibilities! https://calendly.com/paulbriley/i-want-to-get-off-my-comma  While we grow this podcast, you can learn more about me at www.offthecomma.com. All of my social media links, organizations I support and other ways to reach me can be found on my website: https://offthecomma.com/mylinks/    Until next episode, keep noticing and keep listening!

    #158 Creating The Life I Want with Anca Uni
  2. Sep 24

    #157 Breaking Free from the Status Quo with Kerri Roberts

    In this episode, we talk to Kerri Roberts. She is woman of faith, wife and mother. Kerri lives in the United States.  Kerri tells us about sitting on a comma with an identity shift. When the pandemic happened, Kerri found herself longing for a simpler life. Caught up in her corporate identity and roles, she wanted to create a quiet space away from the city and eventually moved her family there fully. After giving up her corporate role, she grieved the loss of that identity and the community that no longer identified with her choices and changes. Letting go of the role was simpler than navigating the isolation from others who used to embrace her. What she found was freedom, gratitude and joy. Tune in to hear what Kerri means when she says “I didn’t have to get self-righteous”. You can find Kerri on: Website:  kerrimroberts.com http://saltandlightadvisors.com Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/kerrimroberts  Linkedin:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerrimroberts/  Kerri would like to acknowledge the following individuals, organizations and/or causes that matter to her and invite you to consider supporting them and/or sharing their messages: Coyote Hill  https://coyotehill.org/  Coyote Hill’s mission is to provide a safe place to be a child for every child impacted by foster care. For over 30 years, Coyote Hill Foster Care Ministries has worked to keep kids safe. Welcome Home  https://www.welcomeveterans.org/  Welcome Home is an accredited non-profit veteran-centric organization, with a community-based approach, that empowers homeless and at-risk veterans to return to society as productive self-supporting citizens.  #mindsetshift #changetheidentity #walkingaway #createnewlife #notaprisonsentence #whatreallymatters #disruptthenorm #gave20years #peoplefeeljudged #letgopowerfulrole #timefreedom #griefatlettinggo #eyesopen #investinmarriage #grattitudeandjoy #OfftheCommapodcast #offthecomma Music from #InAudio: https://inaudio.org/  Come Alive. Do you have a story to tell about being on your own comma? If so, come JOIN US on the podcast! Message me if you’re interested in being a guest! https://offthecomma.com/podcast/  Are you sitting on a comma in your life? Work one on one with me to unpack what’s holding you back. Contact me to explore your possibilities! https://calendly.com/paulbriley/i-want-to-get-off-my-comma  While we grow this podcast, you can learn more about me at www.offthecomma.com. All of my social media links, organizations I support and other ways to reach me can be found on my website: https://offthecomma.com/mylinks/    Until next episode, keep noticing and keep listening!

    #157 Breaking Free from the Status Quo with Kerri Roberts
  3. Sep 17

    #156 Creating My Own Blueprint in Business with Vanessa Morse

    In this episode, we talk to Vanessa Morse. She is an entrepreneur who wants to help others. Vanessa lives in the United States.  Vanessa tells us about sitting on a comma after leaving a job that didn’t serve her. Vanessa wanted to start her own business and immersed herself into learning the things she needed to reach her audience and achieve viral momentum. Facing challenges from driving sales and views, she found it hard to keep her motivation alive. Through experimentation, study, taking risks and allowing things to unfold over time, Vanessa found herself starting to gain traction. What kept her moving forward was her determination to help others to create change for themselves. Tune in to hear what Vanessa means when she says “I focus on the impact, not the numbers”.  You can find Vanessa on: Instagram Threads:  https://www.threads.com/@dreamlifelaunch?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==   YouTube:  https://youtube.com/@dreamlifelaunchboldera?si=gj0W5HDbe8SGy0cQ YouTube:  https://youtube.com/@dreamlifelaunchcafe?si=PkA-7YL6ZAy5Jzvv   Vanessa would like to acknowledge the following individuals, organizations and/or causes that matter to her and invite you to consider supporting them and/or sharing their messages: Arlan Hamilton’s Free Skool to help entrepreneurs https://www.skool.com/yourfirst5k/about?ref=f16a5ec58a0f4eae95eae7270e924746  SCORE  https://www.score.org/ #entrepreneur #getsalesandviews #startupsarehard #focusonimpact #helpotherscreatechange #principlesversusalgorithms #2yearstotraction #buildtrust #testthingsout #mindsetmatters #OfftheCommapodcast #offthecomma  Music from #InAudio: https://inaudio.org/  Come Alive. Do you have a story to tell about being on your own comma? If so, come JOIN US on the podcast! Message me if you’re interested in being a guest! https://offthecomma.com/podcast/  Are you sitting on a comma in your life? Work one on one with me to unpack what’s holding you back. Contact me to explore your possibilities! https://calendly.com/paulbriley/i-want-to-get-off-my-comma  While we grow this podcast, you can learn more about me at www.offthecomma.com. All of my social media links, organizations I support and other ways to reach me can be found on my website: https://offthecomma.com/mylinks/    Until next episode, keep noticing and keep listening!

    #156 Creating My Own Blueprint in Business with Vanessa Morse
  4. Sep 10

    #155 The Power of Reinforcement with Josef Stetter

    In this episode, we talk to Josef Stetter. He is a husband, father and altruist who wants to make the world a better place. Josef lives in Canada.  Josef tells us about sitting on many commas that often took him from highs to lows. While so many of these commas were difficult and challenging, Josef realizes that he learns something from each one and that they actually help him build skills and become an authority in his crafts. He also carries the respect, dignity and care for others that he learned from his father. Josef discovers that he can learn from the failures, pay it forward and help heighten humanity in the process. Tune in to hear what Josef means when he says “no one asked me how I was doing”.  You can find Josef on: Websites:   https://www.culturaltransformationsystems.com/
 https://www.thecelebrategroup.com/ Instagram:  @josef_Stetter for instagram Linkedin:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/josefstetter/ Josef would like to acknowledge the following individuals, organizations and/or causes that matter to him and invite you to consider supporting them and/or sharing their messages: My wife and kids. My coach, Jonathan Kegler  https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonathan-kegler-305978373/      My Father (In Loving Memory) - The man who taught me what it means to show up, even when life is at its hardest. 
 Dr. Russell Thomas   https://www.linkedin.com/in/schoolofaimastery/  A mentor and partner who helped me see AI not as a tool, but as a responsibility.  Cultural Transformation Systems (CTS)   https://www.culturaltransformationsystems.com/  A mission born from lived experience — to ensure no one feels invisible at work again.  #positivereinforcement #supportingothers #expertandauthority #respectanddignity #payitforward #manycommas #alwayslearning #skillswedontteach #Ijustgotit #nevergiveup #notafraidtofail #OfftheCommapodcast #offthecomma  Music from #InAudio: https://inaudio.org/  Come Alive. Do you have a story to tell about being on your own comma? If so, come JOIN US on the podcast! Message me if you’re interested in being a guest! https://offthecomma.com/podcast/  Are you sitting on a comma in your life? Work one on one with me to unpack what’s holding you back. Contact me to explore your possibilities! https://calendly.com/paulbriley/i-want-to-get-off-my-comma  While we grow this podcast, you can learn more about me at www.offthecomma.com. All of my social media links, organizations I support and other ways to reach me can be found on my website: https://offthecomma.com/mylinks/    Until next episode, keep noticing and keep listening!

    #155 The Power of Reinforcement with Josef Stetter
  5. Sep 3

    #154 Using My Skills for Meaningful Change with Craig Taylor

    In this episode, we talk to Craig Taylor. He describes himself as inquisitive, empathic and a good listener. Craig lives in the United States.  Craig tells us about sitting on a comma after leaving a corporate job. While he may not have realized it then, he had been on the comma for some time. As Craig juggled responsibilities to his family and finances, he created a vision and a partnership toward a future with his own company and mission to take on big challenges in cyber security. Navigating the transition over a period of years, Craig exercised his “quiet confidence” and slowly worked to create the change he envisioned, with empathy and compassion. Tune in to hear what Craig means when he says “I don’t have a clue about how I’m gonna run this company”. You can find Craig on: Website:  https://cyberhoot.com/  Newsletter Registration: https://cyberhoot.com/newsletters/  Individual Registration (Free Personal Training for Life): https://cyberhoot.com/individuals/  🎯 Special Podcast Offer: 20% off CyberHoot for 1 year using the podcast’s unique coupon code: Coupon Code: "Off the Comma" Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/CyberHoot/ Linkedin:  https://www.linkedin.com/company/cyberhoot/ Craig would like to acknowledge the following individuals, organizations and/or causes that matter to him and invite you to consider supporting them and/or sharing their messages: My father, thank you for your support. My mother, who was a saint. All of my friends and family, who lifted me up along the way. Lee and Shawn who help me run the tournament and raise funds.   My co-founders, Brad, Chuck and Raf, as well as the entire Cyberhoot team. I couldn’t have done it without you.  Pan Mass Challenge (PMC) Supporting Dana Farber Institute. For 12 years I have ridden 192 miles over 2 days in August raising funds for cancer research. https://profile.pmc.org/CT0104   My fund raising page is found here:  https://runsignup.com/craigMTaylor2026/   #cybersecurity #careershift #psychologybackground #empathyandcompassion #rewardversuspunishment #quietconfidence #solvingbigproblems #multipliereffect #growmycommunity #theyhavetheanswersIdont #communityservice #listentounderstand #depositsmultiply #takecareofeachother #OfftheCommapodcast #offthecomma  Music from #InAudio: https://inaudio.org/  Come Alive. Do you have a story to tell about being on your own comma? If so, come JOIN US on the podcast! Message me if you’re interested in being a guest! https://offthecomma.com/podcast/  Are you sitting on a comma in your life? Work one on one with me to unpack what’s holding you back. Contact me to explore your possibilities! https://calendly.com/paulbriley/i-want-to-get-off-my-comma  While we grow this podcast, you can learn more about me at www.offthecomma.com. All of my social media links, organizations I support and other ways to reach me can be found on my website: https://offthecomma.com/mylinks/    Until next episode, keep noticing and keep listening!

    #154 Using My Skills for Meaningful Change with Craig Taylor
  6. Aug 27

    #153 Scrambling, Searching and Scheming with Jerry Jones

    In this episode, we talk to Jerry Jones. He describes himself as someone who likes to bring out the strengths in others. Jerry lives in the United States.  Jerry tells us about sitting between the commas. During the pandemic, Jerry’s world was shaken when the dream he was building was no longer possible due to the Covid-19 shutdown. When forced to relocate his family back to the USA, he found himself confused. What started as a dream to bring out the strengths in others and facilitate their journeys was now a dark unknown. Through openness and exploration, Jerry eventually found his way to a new dream and a continuation of his work to connect people and himself. Tune in to hear what Jerry means when he says “I did not put my mask on…I’m not superman”. You can find Jerry on: Website:  www.thecultureblend.com  Linkedin:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/jerry-jonestcb/ Jerry would like to acknowledge the following individuals, organizations and/or causes that matter to him and invite you to consider supporting them and/or sharing their messages: My family, we’ve come through this together Anyone who played a role in putting me where I am, I’ve been changed from our interactions #betterexpats #ambassadoroflife #between2commas #shapingidentity #culturetransitions #changingdreams #diveristywork #international #ineedpeople #putmymaskon #OfftheCommapodcast #offthecomma Music from #InAudio: https://inaudio.org/  Come Alive. Do you have a story to tell about being on your own comma? If so, come JOIN US on the podcast! Message me if you’re interested in being a guest! https://offthecomma.com/podcast/  Are you sitting on a comma in your life? Work one on one with me to unpack what’s holding you back. Contact me to explore your possibilities! https://calendly.com/paulbriley/i-want-to-get-off-my-comma  While we grow this podcast, you can learn more about me at www.offthecomma.com. All of my social media links, organizations I support and other ways to reach me can be found on my website: https://offthecomma.com/mylinks/    Until next episode, keep noticing and keep listening!

    #153 Scrambling, Searching and Scheming with Jerry Jones
  7. Aug 20

    #152 Living The Life That Is Pleasing To Me with Aleta Hunt

    In this episode, we talk to Aleta Hunt. She is a quiet storm, a game changer and a life changer. Aleta lives in the United States.  Aleta tells us about sitting on three commas in her life and what they collectively taught her. From making it out of a difficult childhood, to fitting in at college, to pivoting after a job elimination, Aleta shares about her experience with resilience. Through the process of starting over and getting back up, she came to being eccentrically herself, able to express in any way she chooses. Ultimately, she found comfort with herself while modeling the way for her family and others. Tune in to hear what Aleta means when she says “the fight doesn’t always end”.  You can find Aleta on: Website:  www.bemeauthentically.com  Instagram:  @b_e_m_e_  Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/share/17oQS5DmL9/ Tiktok:  @beme1084 Youtube:  @BEMEBEME Amazon:  https://amzn.to/4siqj4R Aleta would like to acknowledge the following individuals, organizations and/or causes that matter to her and invite you to consider supporting them and/or sharing their messages: My supporters of family, friends, coworkers, my mom now deceased, and my church where I find faith and encouragement My followers and besties in my village and circle who uplift me daily Those who let me go, so I could be free to be me Destiny Alliance  https://www.facebook.com/share/1AbMV62ssR/   My therapist, Maria Potter, who uses my products in her services  https://www.facebook.com/share/18JXrKKaw6/ #beingofservice #aquietstorm #gamechanger #lifechanger #threecommas #beingme #resilienceandhope #aspacetobemyself #beeccentric #simplecomplication #subtleandquiet #gettingbackup #OfftheCommapodcast #offthecomma Music from #InAudio: https://inaudio.org/  Come Alive. Standard Outro Text for Each Episode: Do you have a story to tell about being on your own comma? If so, come JOIN US on the podcast! Message me if you’re interested in being a guest! https://offthecomma.com/podcast/  Are you sitting on a comma in your life? Work one on one with me to unpack what’s holding you back. Contact me to explore your possibilities! https://calendly.com/paulbriley/i-want-to-get-off-my-comma  While we grow this podcast, you can learn more about me at www.offthecomma.com. All of my social media links, organizations I support and other ways to reach me can be found on my website: https://offthecomma.com/mylinks/    Until next episode, keep noticing and keep listening!

    #152 Living The Life That Is Pleasing To Me with Aleta Hunt
  8. Aug 13

    #151 The Self is an Illusion with Zac Russell

    In this episode, we talk to Zac Russell. He focuses on quality of life, value to humanity and giving back. Zac lives in Canada.  Zac tells us about sitting on commas throughout his life with living in the future and never knowing peace, contentment and presence. Zac shares about experiencing fear, anger and other emotions as a result of living an ego-driven life. He was so focused on future and identifying with pursuit of perfection, he couldn’t even recognize the commas this created for him. In pursuit of answers and relief, he consumed knowledge (and more) to satisfy his cravings. Over time, he began to reflect and build awareness, leading ultimately to a way of being that asks questions and recognizes self awareness. Tune in to hear what Zac means when he says “no matter what I achieved, it was still empty”. You can find Zac on: Linktr.ee:  https://linktr.ee/zacrussell Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/zac_russell?igsh=MWZ5ZzdwNHhxaWthMQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@1zacrussell?_r=1&_t=ZS-91DQ6yzBuyX Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/@zacrussell- Zac would like to acknowledge the following individuals, organizations and/or causes that matter to him and invite you to consider supporting them and/or sharing their messages: My wife and my mother Everyone, as we are all unique and have specific stories and gifts to bring to this life #valuetohumanity #maladaptiveemotionalstructures #startsinchildhood #neverpeace #alwaysinfuture #startquestioning #consumingknowledge #ithappenedovertime #purposeofaparent #theselfisanillusion #lifeconstantlychanges #OfftheCommapodcast #OfftheCommapodcast Music from #InAudio: https://inaudio.org/  Come Alive. Do you have a story to tell about being on your own comma? If so, come JOIN US on the podcast! Message me if you’re interested in being a guest! https://offthecomma.com/podcast/  Are you sitting on a comma in your life? Work one on one with me to unpack what’s holding you back. Contact me to explore your possibilities! https://calendly.com/paulbriley/i-want-to-get-off-my-comma  While we grow this podcast, you can learn more about me at www.offthecomma.com. All of my social media links, organizations I support and other ways to reach me can be found on my website: https://offthecomma.com/mylinks/    Until next episode, keep noticing and keep listening!

    #151 The Self is an Illusion with Zac Russell
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You’re stuck, I get it. I’ve been there too. I call it “sitting on a comma”. We all know what it’s like to feel stuck in life and not know where to go next. This podcast is all about what it’s like to be on the comma, as shared by individuals just like ourselves. We will explore what they experienced, what they learned and how they got themselves off the comma. See more at YouTube @offthecomma! Are you sitting on a comma? Work 1:1 with me to unpack what’s holding you back. Book a 1-session coaching call and see what getting off your comma can look like! https://www.offthecomma.com/programs