40 episodes

You’re stuck, I get it. I’ve been there too. I call it “sitting on a comma”. We all know what it’s like to feel stuck in life and not know where to go next. This podcast is all about what it’s like to be on the comma, as shared by individuals just like ourselves. We will explore what they experienced, what they learned and how they got themselves off the comma. See more at YouTube @offthecomma!

I intend to keep this channel ad-free and a safe place for storytelling. Donations are welcomed to help cover monthly production costs. Donate here: https://venmo.com/u/Paul-Briley Thank you!

Off The Comma Paul Briley

    • Education
    • 4.8 • 6 Ratings

You’re stuck, I get it. I’ve been there too. I call it “sitting on a comma”. We all know what it’s like to feel stuck in life and not know where to go next. This podcast is all about what it’s like to be on the comma, as shared by individuals just like ourselves. We will explore what they experienced, what they learned and how they got themselves off the comma. See more at YouTube @offthecomma!

I intend to keep this channel ad-free and a safe place for storytelling. Donations are welcomed to help cover monthly production costs. Donate here: https://venmo.com/u/Paul-Briley Thank you!

    Episode 39: Christine

    Episode 39: Christine

    In this episode, we talk to Christine Coulson. She is honest, understanding and witty. Christine lives in the UK. 



    Christine talks about sitting on a comma with her previous house that represented a container for disappointments, unmet expectations and limiting beliefs and self-image. While not seeing the comma she was sitting on, her challenges accumulated until she reached a breaking point. Christine ultimately made a decision to give up and move on from the container and its contents. Tune in to hear what Christine means when she says “I saw no value in it”.  



    You can find Christine on:


    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/misstine_af/


    Website  www.yoursoberpath.co.uk  


    LinkedIn  https://www.linkedin.com/in/christine-coulson-sobriety-coach/





    Christine would like to acknowledge the following individuals, organizations and/or causes that matter to them and invite you to consider supporting them and/or sharing their messages:



    Sunday Assembly  https://www.sundayassembly.org/  We are a network of secular (non-religious) communities who gather to celebrate this one life we know we have. We're a global movement for wonder and good.



    If you are currently sitting on a comma and would like to explore how to get yourself moving again, check out my "Get Off Your Comma 5-Week Program". https://www.offthecomma.com/programs or book a complimentary call with me to talk! https://calendly.com/paulbriley/i-want-to-get-off-my-comma 



    While we grow this podcast, you can learn more about me at www.offthecomma.com. All of my social media links, organizations I support and other ways to reach me can be found on my linktree at https://linktr.ee/paulbriley.



    My intention is to keep this channel ad-free and a safe container for uninterrupted storytelling. Donations are welcomed to help cover the costs of monthly editing and production fees only. Thank you!  https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paul-briley/support 



    Until next episode, keep noticing and keep listening!

    • 56 min
    Episode 38: Joe

    Episode 38: Joe

    In this episode, we talk to Joe Smith. He describes himself as empathetic, having humor and being an advocate. Joe lives in the USA.



    Joe tells us about sitting on a comma with pulling apart from an earlier world view shaped by his faith of origin. When the political climate began influencing the practices of his church community, he began to audit his faith and experience deep feelings of despair and distortion; he started noticing the cracks. Joe shares how letting go of his beliefs created space for a new sense of belonging and love to emerge. Tune in to hear what Joe means when he says, “I was still trying to create the same fundamentalist structure”.



    You can find Joe on:


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealjoe.smith/


    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/joe.smith.355


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therealjoesmith





    Joe would like to acknowledge the following individuals, organizations and/or causes that matter to them and invite you to consider supporting them and/or sharing their messages:



    Pride Community Center of NCF: https://gainesvillepride.org  The Pride Community Center of North Central Florida offers safe spaces, resources, services and events to foster and enhance the well-being and visibility of LGBTQ+ people in North Central Florida.



    Equality Florida: https://www.eqfl.org  Equality Florida is Florida's statewide civil rights organization dedicated to securing full equality for Florida's lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer (LGBTQ) community.



    Parenting with Pride https://parentingwithpride.org  Our goal is to empower the parents of Florida by offering tools such as monthly webinars, links to resources, and a direct connection to our support manager to get you the assistance you need for your child to grow and thrive.



    Shift Church: shiftgnv.com  We are open, loving, and inclusive. We also affirm that no matter your age, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity or expression, socio-economic background, or belief, you are welcome here, and celebrated just the way you are. 



    If you are currently sitting on a comma and would like to explore how to get yourself moving again, check out my "Get Off Your Comma 5-Week Program". https://www.offthecomma.com/programs or book a complimentary call with me to talk! https://calendly.com/paulbriley/i-want-to-get-off-my-comma 



    While we grow this podcast, you can learn more about me at www.offthecomma.com. All of my social media links, organizations I support and other ways to reach me can be found on my linktree at https://linktr.ee/paulbriley.



    My intention is to keep this channel ad-free and a safe container for uninterrupted storytelling. Donations are welcomed to help cover the costs of monthly editing and production fees only. Thank you!  https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paul-briley/support 



    Until next episode, keep noticing and keep listening!

    • 1 hr 10 min
    Episode 38: Blair

    Episode 38: Blair

    In this episode, we talk to Blair. He describes himself as resilient, determined, and compassionate. Blair lives in the US.



    Blair tells us about sitting on a comma with a work role that did not align with his values and purpose. When faced with unpleasant feedback from his environment and peers, he realized that there was a larger message being delivered that spoke to his sense of ownership, agency and accountability. Tune in to hear what Blair means when he says “feedback is a gift”. 



    You can find Blair on:

    Linkedin:  www.Linkedin.com/in/blaireversley

    Blair would like to acknowledge the following individuals, organizations and/or causes that matter to them and invite you to consider supporting them and/or sharing their messages:



    Melanie Bruce https://www.linkedin.com/in/melanie-bruce/?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app  My best friend who helped me get through the tough times.

       

    My auntie Brenda on mastering the art of taking constructive feedback and accountability in personal/professional settings, 



    Sabrina Zohar (Do the Work Podcast)    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSKQduzS78E6-I9tx0jqjpw     Not a therapist, just a dating coach who’s tired of inauthenticity & curses a lot 🤷🏻‍♀️. New podcast out every Friday “Do the Work” available on Spotify or Apple podcasts.



    Western Governors University  https://www.wgu.edu  WGU is a nonprofit, online university that was founded by 19 U.S. governors. However, WGU is a private university, not a state university. WGU developed out of a vision for the future of higher education that emerged among the governors of the Western Governors Association (hence our name).    



    If you are currently sitting on a comma and would like to explore how to get yourself moving again, check out my "Get Off Your Comma 5-Week Program".



    https://www.offthecomma.com/programs or book a complimentary call with me to talk! https://calendly.com/paulbriley/i-want-to-get-off-my-comma 



    While we grow this podcast, you can learn more about me at www.offthecomma.com. All of my social media links, organizations I support and other ways to reach me can be found on my linktree at https://linktr.ee/paulbriley.



    My intention is to keep this channel ad-free and a safe container for uninterrupted storytelling. Donations are welcomed to help cover the costs of monthly editing and production fees only. Thank you!  https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paul-briley/support



    Until next episode, keep noticing and keep listening!

    • 56 min
    Episode 36: Lisa L

    Episode 36: Lisa L

    In this episode, we talk to Lisa Laugher. She describes herself as supportive, accepting and kind. Lisa lives in the US. 



    Lisa tells us about sitting on a comma with her “black hole” moment. She describes how her relationship to trust, resistance addiction and people pleasing left her unable to answer the critical question, “what do I want?” As Lisa talks about the journey to connection, peace and serenity, she discovers a transformation that reminds her of all she is capable of. Tune in to hear what Lisa means when she says “you follow yourself wherever you go”. 



    You can find Lisa on:


    Linkedin:  http://linkedin.com/in/lisalaughter 


    Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/lisalaughterlifecoach 





    Lisa would like to acknowledge the following individuals, organizations and/or causes that matter to them and invite you to consider supporting them and/or sharing their messages:



    ICF Sacramento (www.icfsacramento.org)   We are a leading International Coaching Federation (ICF) Charter Chapter, in the Capital of California, SACRAMENTO. We have 350 affiliates and members in our region and are growing. We are committed to our community and the profession of coaching. We welcome all credentialed coaches, aspiring coaches, students, and organizations to expand their reach and grow professionally.



    Food Addicts in Recovery Anonymous (www.foodaddicts.org)  Food Addicts in Recovery Anonymous (FA) is a program based on the Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA). There are no dues, fees, or weigh-ins at FA meetings. FA is a fellowship of individuals who, through shared experience and mutual support, are recovering from the disease of food addiction.



    iPEC (https://www.ipeccoaching.com/)  Whether your interests center on life coaching, health & wellness, executive coaching, leadership development, sports & performance coaching, or some other specialty, iPEC has a program for you. Ready to create a powerful, lasting change in your own life and the lives of others? 



    Choice Center Leadership University (https://choicecenter.com/)  Successful people, Olympians, and athletes all have one thing in common... the desire to elevate their life and accelerate their results immediately.



    GoodReads (https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/47480269-lisa-laughter)



    Books:


    The Four Agreements, Don Miguel Ruiz


    The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen Covey


    Dare to Lead, Brene Brown (any of her books really)





    If you are currently sitting on a comma and would like to explore how to get yourself moving again, check out my "Get Off Your Comma 5-Week Program".

    https://www.offthecomma.com/programs or book a complimentary call with me to talk!

    https://calendly.com/paulbriley/i-want-to-get-off-my-comma 



    While we grow this podcast, you can learn more about me at www.offthecomma.com. All of my social media links, organizations I support and other ways to reach me can be found on my linktree at https://linktr.ee/paulbriley.



    My intention is to keep this channel ad-free and a safe container for uninterrupted storytelling. Donations are welcomed to help cover the costs of monthly editing and production fees only. Thank you! 

    https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paul-briley/support 



    Until next episode, keep noticing and keep listening!

    • 49 min
    Episode 35: Kristy

    Episode 35: Kristy

    In this episode, we talk to Kristy Keith. She is resilient, tenacious and a lover of people. Kristy lives in the US. 



    Kristy tells us about her experience with going public about her experience with being outed at the age of 14 and living into her adult life in an environment religious exclusion. She spent a large part of her life trying to align with beliefs, indoctrination and being told to change every part of her authentic self. After a lifetime of putting everyone else first, she begins the journey of speaking out and self healing, in hopes that it will provide hope for other youth like herself. Tune in to hear what Kristy means by “me aligning with me”. 



    You can find Kristy on:


    TikTok:  @kristy_loves_  https://www.tiktok.com/@kristy_loves_


    Instagram:  @kristy_loves  https://www.instagram.com/kristy_loves_/  or  @dv_in_the_church  https://www.instagram.com/dv_in_the_church?igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==





    Kristy would like to acknowledge the following individuals, organizations and/or causes that matter to them and invite you to consider supporting them and/or sharing their messages:



    The Trevor Project  https://www.thetrevorproject.org/  The Trevor Project’s mission is to end suicide among LGBTQ young people.



    Shift Happens Podcast, Joe Smith  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shift-happens/id1689054326   Shift Happens tells the stories of queer and ally people fighting for inclusion within the church and culture. 



    Movie:  “1946: The Mistranslation that Shifted Culture” Www.1946themovie.com 





    If you are currently sitting on a comma and would like to explore how to get yourself moving again, check out my "Get Off Your Comma 5-Week Program". https://www.offthecomma.com/programs or book a complimentary call with me to talk! https://calendly.com/paulbriley/i-want-to-get-off-my-comma 



    While we grow this podcast, you can learn more about me at www.offthecomma.com. All of my social media links, organizations I support and other ways to reach me can be found on my linktree at https://linktr.ee/paulbriley.



    My intention is to keep this channel ad-free and a safe container for uninterrupted storytelling. Donations are welcomed to help cover the costs of monthly editing and production fees only. Thank you!  https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paul-briley/support 



    Until next episode, keep noticing and keep listening!

    • 1 hr 9 min
    Episode 34: Lisa

    Episode 34: Lisa

    In this episode, we talk to Lisa Frydenlund. She describes herself as curious, creative and an artist. Lisa lives in the US. 



    Lisa tells us about how sitting on a comma brings her comfort. After experiencing deep anxiety from the “ending” of significant roles in her life, Lisa shifts onto a new path that provides her more freedom. Along the way, she embraces the fear that comes from “breaking the molds”. Tune in to hear what Lisa means when she says “I would feel completed”. 



    You can find Lisa on:


    Linkedin:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/lfbngme23/


    Email:  bngme19@gmail.com 





    Lisa would like to acknowledge the following individuals, organizations and/or causes that matter to them and invite you to consider supporting them and/or sharing their messages:



    Sacramento Public Library https://www.saclibrary.org    Every day is a great day at Sacramento Public Library. When we walk through the doors we know that we’re going to make a difference in the lives of the public that walk through the doors with us — whether we’re building a community of readers, bringing topical discussions to the forefront or advancing education for all ages.



    Crocker Museum Sacramento  https://www.crockerart.org  The Crocker Art Museum features the world’s foremost display of California art and is renowned for its holdings of European master drawings and international ceramics. The Crocker serves as the primary regional resource for the study and appreciation of fine art and offers a diverse spectrum of exhibitions, events, and programs to augment its collections, including films, concerts, studio classes, lectures, children’s activities, and more.      



    Book: “The Creative Act: A Way of Being"  by Rick Rubin.



    If you are currently sitting on a comma and would like to explore how to get yourself moving again, check out my "Get Off Your Comma 5-Week Program".



    https://www.offthecomma.com/programs or book a complimentary call with me to talk! https://calendly.com/paulbriley/i-want-to-get-off-my-comma 



    While we grow this podcast, you can learn more about me at www.offthecomma.com. All of my social media links, organizations I support and other ways to reach me can be found on my linktree at https://linktr.ee/paulbriley.



    My intention is to keep this channel ad-free and a safe container for uninterrupted storytelling. Donations are welcomed to help cover the costs of monthly editing and production fees only. Thank you!  https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paul-briley/support 



    Until next episode, keep noticing and keep listening!

    • 46 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
6 Ratings

6 Ratings

suzieqjenny ,

Great podcast for those looking to move off their commas

This is a great new podcast. I know if Paul from a local learning and development professional group I participate with. Once I heard he had a podcast I downloaded it immediately. I love hearing where people are stuck and how Paul talks through it wil ml them.

WenadaG ,

Such a great listen

I love this podcast. It’s powerful to hear stories about what happens when someone finds themselves on a comma, a pause, whether intentional or not, and what they have learned. We may react differently, we may notice different things, but the more we listen to others’ stories the more we connect with our community, our circle of influence, and ourselves. Each episode has at least one phrase or revelation or concept that resonates. Can’t wait to watch it grow.

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