Om Rupani Podcast

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Om Rupani Podcast

Om Rupani teaches workshops in BDSM, Man-Woman Relating and Tantra. He has a book, Prerequisites To Ecstasy. You can find out more about him at www.OmRupani.org

  1. MAR 16

    There Are Two Types Of Women In The World

    THERE ARE 2 TYPES OF WOMEN IN THE WORLD 1.  Those who believe that their full SOUL EXPRESSION can only occur independent of any   man, independent or any relationship with a man, independent of any marriage with a man.   That taking her full soul journey as a woman is a solo path, independent of men and relationships with men, and that men and relationships with men are distractions, detours and obstacles to that true SOUL journey of hers. 2.  Women who believe their SOUL JOURNEY can only be completed through the archetypes of wife and mother.   That only in a deep partnership with a man, only in a deep marriage with a man, in going through all the ups and downs that a marriage entails, in upholding and living out all the marriage vows of sickness and in health, for richer or poor, that only in that life-long journey can she realize and make her SOUL JOURNEY. My prompt to women is that they examine their belief system and see what programming they are carrying in their system.  Be true to the belief you are carrying.   If you are in the first category, please stop trying to pair bond with men, please stop seeking long-term partnerships with men; please don’t even cohabitate with a man, and most certainly, please don’t get married.  It wont’ work out for you.  You yourself will sabotage your relationships, because your core belief is not in agreement with long-term bonding with a man. — Om Rupani www.OmRupani.org

    45 min
  2. MAR 9

    Podcast with Kelly Brogan - BDSM Scene Constructions For Catharsis

    PODCAST WITH KELLY BROGAN - BDSM SCENE CONSTRUCTIONS FOR CATHARSIS Timestamps: [00:00] Introduction [03:05] How BDSM intersects with trauma, pleasure, and healing [05:12] Understanding the father-daughter dynamic in relationships [06:08] How childhood experiences shape adult desires [07:20] Why reenacting childhood wounds can be healing [08:14] Common father-daughter wounds and their emotional impact [09:05] Revisiting painful childhood memories in a controlled way [10:18] How a dom can rewrite past trauma [11:10] Why people internalize childhood neglect as self-blame [12:02] How reenacting childhood wounds can change self-perception [13:15] The role of theater and psychodrama in BDSM [14:09] How women can relive and heal rejection from their fathers [15:30] Why BDSM scene design is structured like a play [16:22] Examples of how childhood wounds show up in adult relationships [19:02] The impact of revisiting parental rejection in scene play [20:10] The emotional release that comes from reenacting past pain [21:04] The psychological effects of feeling preferred or not preferred [22:15] The deep-rooted nature of childhood wounds in adult life [23:09] How re-experiencing childhood emotions can reframe memories [24:03] The importance of acknowledging that parents are human [25:12] Using BDSM to address self-worth issues rooted in childhood [26:08] Why people carry childhood pain into adulthood [27:00] The difference between memory, narrative, and reality [28:15] The role of the dom in guiding emotional catharsis [29:05] How the body holds onto past trauma [30:10] The connection between physical sensations and emotional healing [31:12] How BDSM can address and release stored trauma [32:20] The impact of feeling powerless as a child [33:08] How physical expression can help process past pain [34:04] Why talk therapy alone cannot resolve deep trauma [35:10] Jealousy as a common relationship challenge [36:02] How BDSM can be used to work through jealousy [38:00] How playing out jealousy can lessen its intensity [41:08] Why understanding your fears can give you more agency [42:04] How women can shift their perspective on their partner’s attraction to others [45:02] How body shame impacts relationships and intimacy [46:10] How BDSM can help heal body insecurities [47:15] Why body shaming is common in BDSM play [48:02] How men and women experience different types of body shame [49:08] The role of worship and cherishment in healing body shame [50:05] Why aftercare is essential in BDSM scenes [51:10] How physical play can anchor emotional healing [52:02] Why BDSM is not just for “kinky” people [53:08] How scene play can be an effective tool for personal growth [54:12] Why BDSM should not be stigmatized in therapeutic settings [55:05] How this approach can complement traditional therapy [56:02] The importance of embracing taboo topics for healing Learn more about Om Rupani’s School for Dominance & Submission on his website, YouTube channel and Instagram. Listen to the Om Rupani Podcast on Spotify or Apple Instagram: @kellybroganmd Website: kellybroganmd.com www.OmRupani.org

    57 min
  3. FEB 5

    Polarity Glitches : 01 Are you Following Your Man? Or, Are You 'Letting Him Lead'?

    POLARITY GLITCHES : 01 ARE YOU FOLLOWING YOUR MAN?  OR, ARE YOU ‘LETTING HIM LEAD’? Many couples who have switched from an egalitarian model of relating towards a more polarized form of relating are still feeling quite exhausted.  The sweet rewards of ease and greater functionality that polarity relating has promised them still seem elusive in their dynamic.  The women are still feeing over-stretch and tired.  The men are not quite feeling like they have arrived in their element in leading in their relationship. When I’m coaching couples and listening to their conflicts and complaints, I am often able to spot a handful of glitches in their dynamic.  It’s almost as if their habits and ways of doing things need to be ‘debugged’ like in a computer program.  I thought I’d make a series of videos addressing these glitches. This video deals with one of the most common shadow pieces I see — where the woman thinks or acts like she is really in favor of her man leading, but in fact she is stuck in the shadow energy of ‘letting him lead’,  or ‘allowing him to lead’.   There is a world of difference between trusting and following your man and this underhanded energy of ‘letting him lead’. There are many beliefs and energies that can live behind this phenomenon of ‘letting your man lead’ instead of whole-heartedly wanting his leadership.  Here are 2 of them: You simply don’t know how to turn off your controlling mechanism.  Behind this drive to control is a deep distrust — perhaps of everyone, but more likely a distrust towards men and the masculine.You feel following your man makes you inferior to him.  So you are holding your surrender in reserve, because you don’t want to render yourself weaker and inferior to him according to your beliefs.  Constantly checking your man, on the other hand, implies you are more competent than him and thus superior to him. — Om Rupani www.OmRupani.org

    43 min
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Om Rupani teaches workshops in BDSM, Man-Woman Relating and Tantra. He has a book, Prerequisites To Ecstasy. You can find out more about him at www.OmRupani.org

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