Live Your Best Midlife

Jill Lewis

Hello! I'm Jill Lewis, a nutrition and fitness coach by day and pickleball fanatic by night. I work with Gen X and Baby Boomers to ditch the old school diet mentality while learning strategies to live a healthy and energetic life that also includes plenty of fun! I'll have guest interviews to share along with solo trainings from me.

  1. 5d ago

    When Your Kids Grow Up: Birthdays, Letting Go & Parenting Adult Children

    Today is my oldest son’s 29th birthday, and it has me thinking about just how much birthdays change when your kids grow up. There was a time when their birthdays meant themed parties, cakes, presents, decorations and me doing everything I could to make the day feel special. I’m sharing some of my favorite birthday-party memories from those years, but I’m also talking about the part of parenting adult children that doesn’t get discussed nearly as much: letting go. My son spent the weekend in Chicago with his girlfriend, who cooked for him, surprised him with a custom-made putter and made him feel incredibly special. I loved that for him. But it also made me realize that one of the transitions of motherhood is watching other people become an important part of your kids’ lives and learning that you don't always have to be the one creating the magic anymore. And then there’s the fact that he’s 29. When I was 29, I was married with three kids! His life at 29 looks completely different from mine, which opens up a much bigger conversation about timelines, expectations and why our kids don't have to follow the same path we did. In this episode, I’m talking about the birthday years I loved, what it feels like when you can’t be with your adult kids on their birthdays, learning when to give advice and when to stay quiet, and the thousand little ways we have to let go as our kids build lives of their own. Because raising independent adults is exactly what we wanted to do. It’s just that nobody tells you how weird it can feel when it actually works. ;) And I have a question for you: How old is your oldest child right now, and what were YOU doing at that exact age? I would love to hear your answer. If you are trying to hit protein goals but are tired of eating chicken... how about you give my favorite protein powder a try? https://www.equipfoods.com/jill and get get 15% off your first order with code JILL. Tastes like dessert, but helps you hit your protein goals.

  2. Aug 19

    California Road Trip Recap: Pebble Beach, Carmel, Napa Valley & Ventura

    California really did feel like three vacations in one. In this episode, I’m recapping our 12-day California road trip through Monterey, Carmel, Pebble Beach, Napa Valley and Ventura County, including where we stayed, what we ate, the golf, wine tastings, our drive down the California coast and the experiences that made this trip so special. We started in Monterey and Carmel before spending four nights at The Lodge at Pebble Beach. I’m sharing what it was like to play The Hay, Spyglass Hill and Pebble Beach, why having a caddie added so much to the experience, our favorite restaurants, and whether I think Pebble Beach is worth visiting even if golf isn’t the main reason for your trip. From there, we headed to Napa Valley for private wine tastings, incredible food and a stay at the charming Harvest Inn. It had been 11 years since our last Napa trip, so I’m also sharing what has changed, what surprised me and why Napa now requires a little more planning than it used to. Then we hit the road for Southern California, stopping in San Luis Obispo before finishing our trip in Ventura and Oxnard, where we had a very special reason for visiting: meeting our oldest son’s girlfriend’s family. I’m also talking about something I’m passionate about: enjoying vacation without feeling like you have to completely abandon the habits that make you feel good. There was plenty of wine and amazing food on this trip, but there were also workouts, lots of walking and plenty of movement. That balance is what works for me. If you’re planning a California road trip, a Pebble Beach golf trip, a Napa Valley getaway or simply love hearing about travel, food, wine and some of the unexpected moments along the way, this episode is for you. Stay on top of your protein goals with a bag of my absolute favorite protein powder. You can get 15% off on your first order with code JILL: https://www.equipfoods.com/jill

  3. Jun 17

    Who Are You When You're No Longer Needed Every Day?

    Who Are You When You're No Longer Needed Every Day? Lately, I've been thinking about something that I don't hear discussed very often. For years, my life revolved around being needed. My kids needed rides, help, advice, support, and a million other things. My days were full, my schedule was packed, and there was rarely a quiet moment to myself. Then, little by little, things changed. The kids grew up. The house got quieter. The calendar looked different. And I found myself with something I hadn't had much of in decades: space. In this episode, I'm talking about a side of midlife that I think many of us experience but don't always talk about. What happens when you're no longer needed in the same way you once were? Why can having more freedom feel both wonderful and uncomfortable at the same time? And how do we begin to create a meaningful next chapter when so much of our identity has been wrapped up in taking care of other people? This is a conversation about empty nest life, retirement, identity, purpose, and learning to embrace a season that offers more freedom and more possibilities than ever before. In this episode, I share: • Why having more time and freedom can sometimes feel surprisingly uncomfortable • The connection between being needed and how we see ourselves • Why it's possible to love this season of life and still miss parts of the past • My thoughts on retirement, empty nest life, and navigating major transitions • Why I think we should be careful about rushing to fill every open space on our calendars • The importance of leaving room to think, reflect, and discover what we truly want • How podcasts, social media, and constant busyness can sometimes keep us from hearing our own thoughts • The opportunities that can emerge when we stop filling every quiet moment • Why I believe an empty nest doesn't have to mean an empty life I don't have all the answers, but I do know this: many of us spent years preparing financially for this stage of life, but very few of us prepared emotionally for it. If you've ever found yourself wondering what comes next, I think you'll relate to this conversation. If you would like more information about my FASTer Way Coaching program check it out here: https://jillblewis.myflodesk.com/interest Follow me on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/jillblewis

  4. May 27

    Books, Pickleball, GLP-1s & Other Midlife Thoughts

    In this episode of Live Your Best Midlife, I’m sharing a little bit of everything that’s been on my mind lately, from books and TV shows worth your time to sourdough experiments, gardening, strength training, aging, travel, and getting outside your comfort zone in midlife. I’m talking about recent reads including The Correspondent, Theo of Golden, and Culpability, along with shows I’ve been watching like A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms, Partners, and Shrinking starring Harrison Ford. I also dive into a bigger conversation about aging, muscle loss, nursing homes, GLP-1 medications, and why I believe strength training is about far more than aesthetics. We talk about why women make up the majority of nursing home residents, how muscle impacts independence as we age, and why I worry we could be heading toward a future epidemic of frailty if we focus only on getting smaller instead of getting stronger. I’m also sharing: my latest sourdough adventures (including a few imperfect loaves)what’s growing in my garden right nownon-toxic pest control for vegetableswhy I took my own advice and met a friend for lunchnerves about playing in a couples golf tournamentand why I genuinely admire the way Gen Z approaches travel, experiences, and uncertainty differently than many of us in Gen X did.Grab my favorite protein powder: https://www.equipfoods.com/jill and use code JILL for 15% off your first order! Tastes like dessert, easy on digestion and gives you 20 grams of protein per serving.

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Hello! I'm Jill Lewis, a nutrition and fitness coach by day and pickleball fanatic by night. I work with Gen X and Baby Boomers to ditch the old school diet mentality while learning strategies to live a healthy and energetic life that also includes plenty of fun! I'll have guest interviews to share along with solo trainings from me.

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