Post Trauma Secrets & Decluttering

Valerie Huard and JM Tetreault

Hosted by wellness and decluttering experts Valerie Huard and JM Tetreault, the Post Trauma Secrets and Decluttering Podcast brings you on a journey from trauma to Joie de vivre! Like going on a vacation, you may be stressed and excited at the same time. You will enjoy every moment, try new things, discover new places, and still have time to relax. That decluttering journey will give you all the secrets you need to simplify your life by reducing your stress, decluttering your mind, organizing your space and getting control over your time so that you can create the life you want.

  1. 5d ago

    #120 The Clean Desk You Still Can't Start At

    You cleared the desk. You sat down. You opened the laptop — and forty minutes later, nothing has started, and the only sentence in your head is what is wrong with me? JM and Valerie open this episode inside that exact moment, and JM draws the distinction that changes everything: you didn't fail to finish the task, you failed to initiate it, and those are two completely different systems. Valerie walks the Clutter Vicious Cycle down to the level where it actually explains your morning — how chronic stress overstimulates the amygdala, why your frontal lobe is the first thing your body spends to fund an emergency that isn't happening, and why your desk is a threat-assessment surface rather than a discipline surface. JM turns it into the Cafeteria Tray and a five-step sequence you can run tomorrow. Click the link and you'll be taken straight to a video where Valerie breaks down exactly what's happening in your brain when you freeze in front of your own clutter — so the next time you sit down at that same desk, you're not trying to remember it from audio. You'll actually understand it.  IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN: JM's five-step tray-sized starting sequence — regulate before you relocate, mark the square, set the riverbank, release instead of relocate, and end with celebration — built for a brain that can't self-sequence right nowWhy Valerie says you are not hesitating, you are being overruled — and how a cleared surface inside a dysregulated nervous system is just a quiet room with the siren still runningWhy organizing before releasing is decision fatigue in disguise, and how Micro-Progress became the only biologically viable entry point for a client whose executive function had fully collapsedWhat you get when you click the link: a video where Valerie walks you through exactly what's happening in your brain in that freeze moment — the one at your desk, your closet, wherever it hits you. So next time, you're not showing up with a feeling that arrives late and leaves early. You're showing up with an understanding of why it happens.  LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-freedomJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself YOUR NEXT STEP: Click the link. It'll take you straight to a video where Valerie breaks down exactly what's happening in your brain when you freeze in front of your own clutter. No keyword, no DM — just click and listen. dwht.net/notlazy  Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you'd like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or iHeart Support the show

  2. Aug 4

    #119 Why You Start Everything But Finish Nothing

    In this episode, JM and Valerie discuss why multitasking feels impossible to escape, even though most of us were trained to believe it made us more valuable. Learn why constant task-switching drains a brain that's already carrying stress, and how unfinished tasks quietly compete for your attention long after you've moved on. Discover the shift from "one task" to "one completed task," how to work with your nervous system instead of against it, and how practicing sequential productivity turns small, finished wins into lasting momentum. This episode offers a simple, practical tool for parents and busy minds alike who want to feel present again instead of scattered. IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN: Learn why multitasking is actually task-switching, and why every switch has a hidden costDiscover how unfinished tasks quietly drain your working memory and attentionUnderstand why "one completed task" builds confidence in a way "one task" never doesGain a simple daily tool for practicing sequential productivity and finishing what you start LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-freedom Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you'd like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or iHeart Support the show

  3. Jul 21

    #118 Why Family Decluttering Always Ends in a Fight

    If you've ever tried to turn decluttering into a "fun family activity" — the playlist, the timer, the prize for whoever tosses the most — and watched it fall apart within minutes, this episode is for you. JM and Valerie unpack why forced fun almost always backfires in a family setting, walking through the real dynamic playing out in so many homes: one person ready to let go, another silently furious, a teenager who disappears upstairs, a spouse who goes quiet in the doorway. Together they name what's actually happening — not a lack of teamwork, but a room full of nervous systems that were never invited to feel safe in the first place. From there, Valerie breaks down the neuroscience of why joy can't be layered onto a threat response, and JM introduces Stewardship as the operating principle that turns family members from reluctant helpers into a team with shared ownership. They walk through a real, anonymized case of a marriage that quietly fractured under shared clutter — and how a small, blame-free shared system rebuilt it. To get the exact family-adapted framework discussed in this episode — the team charter, the tray-sized zones, and the co-regulation reset that makes it work — DM the keyword family and it'll be sent straight to you. IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN: How to turn "my family won't help" into a structure where everyone takes ownership of the shared space, without forcing anyone into a role they're not ready forWhy you can't layer fun or gamification on top of a nervous system that's still scanning for threat — and what has to come first insteadA simple, 90-second co-regulation reset the whole family can do together before decluttering even beginsHow DMing the keyword "family" gets you the exact team charter and tray-sized system used to rebuild trust in a real marriage fractured by clutter LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-freedom Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Want the family team charter from today's episode? Head to dowellht.com, open the chat, and DM us the keyword family — we'll send it straight to you. Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you'd like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or iHeart Support the show

  4. Jul 3

    #117 Parenting With PTSD: Building Your Resources & Support Networks For Healing

    In this episode, Valerie discusses the importance of building a strong support network while parenting with PTSD. Learn how family, friends, and respite care can provide practical help during difficult moments and why asking for support is a vital part of recovery. Discover strategies for balancing self-care with parenting responsibilities, creating a reliable support system, and finding motivation to heal. This episode offers encouragement and practical guidance for parents who want to care for themselves while showing up fully for their children. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: Learn how a strong support network helps parents manage PTSD recoveryDiscover practical parenting support through family, friends, and respite careUnderstand why self-care is essential for healthy parenting and emotional well-beingGain strategies for balancing trauma recovery, family life, and personal resilience LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-freedom Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself   Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you'd like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or iHeart Support the show Support the show

  5. Jun 26

    #116 How To Manage Parenting When You Have PTSD: Tips & Insights

    In this episode, Valerie explores the challenges of parenting while living with PTSD and shares an encouraging message for parents navigating trauma recovery. Discover how PTSD can make the unpredictability of parenting more difficult, why self-care matters during recovery, and how caring for a child can bring purpose, connection, and growth. This episode offers hope, reassurance, and practical perspective for parents who want to support their children while managing their own healing journey. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: * Understand the challenges of parenting while living with PTSD * Learn how trauma triggers can impact family life and daily parenting * Discover the importance of self-care and emotional resilience for parents * Gain encouragement and practical insights for raising children during PTSD recovery LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-freedom Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you'd like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or iHeart Support the show

  6. Jun 19

    #115 - How To Deal With Other's Anger Effectively: PTSD Emotional Management

    In this episode, JM explores how to effectively manage anger when someone close to you is struggling with their own emotional outbursts. Learn practical strategies for emotional regulation, supporting loved ones through difficult moments, and creating positive habits that help break cycles of anger. Discover how self-awareness, music therapy, and habit formation can help reduce emotional reactivity, strengthen relationships, and support trauma recovery. This conversation offers compassionate guidance for anyone navigating anger management, PTSD recovery, and healthier emotional coping skills. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: Learn practical anger management techniques for emotional self-controlDiscover how to support loved ones struggling with anger and PTSD triggersUnderstand the power of positive habit replacement for emotional regulationBuild healthier coping skills using music, mindfulness, and trauma recovery strategies LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-freedom Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you'd like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or iHeart Support the show

  7. Jun 12

    #114 - How To Overcome Anger In PTSD: Practical Tips For Emotional Control

    In this episode, JM shares a simple anger management technique that helped transform emotional triggers into calmer, healthier responses. Learn how anger and emotional reactivity can be redirected through habit replacement, visualization, and positive emotional conditioning. Discover a practical strategy for managing frustration, reducing aggressive reactions, and building greater emotional control through consistent daily practice. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: Learn a practical anger management technique to reduce emotional triggersDiscover how positive visualization can help rewire negative emotional responsesUnderstand the power of habit replacement for emotional regulation and PTSD recoveryBuild healthier coping skills to improve self-control, resilience, and emotional well-being LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-freedom Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you'd like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or iHeart Support the show

  8. May 29

    #113 - Managing Panic Attacks During PTSD Recovery: Strategies For Trauma Relief

    In this episode, Valerie and Jean-Michel discuss how panic attacks affect PTSD recovery and share practical strategies that helped them manage trauma and emotional overwhelm. Learn how panic attacks impact daily life, relationships, and clutter-related stress, while discovering calming techniques and supportive habits that can reduce emotional intensity. This episode also explores the connection between PTSD, emotional suppression, and physical clutter, offering compassionate insight for individuals and families navigating trauma recovery together. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: Understand how panic attacks impact PTSD recovery and emotional well-being.Learn practical coping strategies for managing panic attacks and trauma triggers.Discover the connection between PTSD, emotional overwhelm, and clutter.Gain supportive tools for navigating trauma recovery with loved ones. LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-freedom Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you'd like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or iHeart Support the show

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Hosted by wellness and decluttering experts Valerie Huard and JM Tetreault, the Post Trauma Secrets and Decluttering Podcast brings you on a journey from trauma to Joie de vivre! Like going on a vacation, you may be stressed and excited at the same time. You will enjoy every moment, try new things, discover new places, and still have time to relax. That decluttering journey will give you all the secrets you need to simplify your life by reducing your stress, decluttering your mind, organizing your space and getting control over your time so that you can create the life you want.

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