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There are celebrity interviews, and there are life-changing conversations. On Question Everything, you get both. Journalist Danielle Robay has a rare gift: she makes people feel safe + seen enough to tell the truth. Every week, she draws out the stories the world's most fascinating people rarely get to tell– the heartbreaks, the risks, the controversies, the beliefs they had to unlearn to become who they are and every now and then, their thoughts on the Bravoverse. You'll come for their story. You'll leave rethinking your own. -------- Danielle is also the creator of the bestselling QUESTION EVERYTHING card game series, which has sparked connection in thousands of living rooms around the world, and the co-executive producer and host of Bookmarked by Reese's Book Club, alongside Reese Witherspoon. Dubbed "The Queen of Questions," she brings both heart and rigor to every conversation — a background in political science, a Gloria Steinem Fellowship, and a mentorship under Larry King, whose legacy of curiosity and connection she's carried forward across more than 8,000 hours of interviews with icons from Taylor Swift to Malala Yousafzai.

  1. 4d ago

    What Does it Take to Be One of The Greats? with Danielle Brooks

    At 22, Danielle Brooks was being chased through subway stations by Orange Is the New Black fans while still struggling to afford the life her new fame seemed to require. The series helped turn Netflix into a cultural force and made her recognizable around the world, but behind the success, Danielle was afraid to negotiate, afraid of being replaced, and increasingly willing to let other people decide what came next. Now an Oscar-nominated actor, Grammy winner, wife, mother, and host of the podcast The Intermission, Danielle gets strikingly honest about the money, rejection, faith, ambition, and self-doubt that shaped her rise + the power she’s finally ready to claim. In this episode, Danielle shares: The reality of becoming globally famous before becoming financially stable Why she was still riding the subway while Orange Is the New Black fans chased her through stations How the women of Orange Is the New Black were paid compared with the young stars of Stranger Things Why feeling replaceable kept her from negotiating for the salary she deserved The moment she realized she had allowed someone else’s fear to direct her career Why she put her dream of hosting on hold, even after buying her first camera with $356 How Orange Is the New Black helped build Netflix + why Danielle almost turned down the role of Taystee What she negotiated behind the scenes when the show asked her to appear topless The Hollywood rooms that made her wonder, “Am I supposed to be here?” Why losing The Piano Lesson film role made her question God and consider quitting acting The truth about having to audition for The Color Purple again after earning a Tony nomination for the same role Why Danielle refused to let her ego cost her the role that earned her an Oscar nomination What Oprah Winfrey and Whoopi Goldberg’s approval awakened in “little Dani” The career milestone that finally made her think, “I’m in this + I’m not going anywhere” Why she could sing as Sofia or Mahalia Jackson but was terrified to sing as Danielle Brooks How motherhood, marriage, and faith changed her relationship with ambition and control The dating rules that helped her recognize her husband + the ones she immediately broke Why she named her daughter Freeya and the freedom she hopes to pass down to her Her new podcast, The Intermission, and why she’s finally sharing the parts of herself that acting allowed her to hide Follow Danielle on Instagram here. Watch Danielle on InnerMission here. Book Rec: Think Like a Monk by Jay Shetty See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  2. Sep 17

    The Internet is Messing Up Our Kids with Dr. Shefali

    What does it mean to raise confident, emotionally healthy kids in a world of AI, social media, beauty standards and the manosphere? Dr. Shefali Tsabary, clinical psychologist and author of the 2010 bestseller The Conscious Parent, joins Danielle to unpack her new books, Raising Conscious Daughters and Raising Conscious Sons. Dr. Shefali lays out a new reality of childhood, including the ways girls are excelling while struggling internally, why boys are searching for new models of masculinity and how algorithms are competing with parents for our children’s attention. She shares insight into everything from “good girl” conditioning and the male gaze to screen time, self-worth, curfews and whether 30 minutes of truly present parenting can actually be enough. Plus, Dr. Shefali challenges us to rethink what it means to be a “good” parent in our world today and shares why raising secure kids may have less to do with controlling them and more to do with trusting, listening and showing up. In this episode you’ll learn:  How watching Netflix’s Adolescence gave Dr. Shefali a new sense of urgency around raising boys and ultimately inspired her book Raising Conscious Sons  How AI and social media are competing with parents for kids’ attention, attachment and connection Why boys are increasingly drawn to the manosphere and what parents can do to model a healthier version of masculinity. How parents can teach boys to process rejection, vulnerability and difficult emotions instead of suppressing them. Why children and teens may turn to AI chatbots for validation and emotional support. How parental phone use can impact a child’s self-worth and sense of being seen. Why lowering expectations in early childhood can actually help kids build confidence. How giving kids age-appropriate choices can develop independence, resilience and self-trust. Why raising a “good girl” can unintentionally teach daughters people-pleasing, obedience and silence. Why girls can appear successful on the outside while struggling with anxiety, perfectionism and pressure within. What the Kardashians can teach us about beauty standards, female empowerment, the male gaze and the messages young girls absorb from culture. Why Dr. Shefali challenges the idea that women dress entirely “for themselves”—and why understanding our desire for external validation matters. Why strict rules and too much parental control can sometimes create more rebellion in kids How algorithms influence what we see, want and believe, and why Dr. Shefali believes our social media feeds are increasingly leading us to being “brainwashed.” Why Dr. Shefali says Emma Grede’s viral “three-hour mom” comment may have a point: quality time with kids can matter more than quantity. Dr. Shefali’s Book Recommendation: The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle  Grab a copy of Dr. Shefali’s books, Raising Conscious Daughters here and Raising Conscious Sons here. Follow Dr. Shefali on Instagram. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  3. Sep 10

    What Happens When You Out-Earn Your Partner? with Tori Dunlap

    What happens when you start earning more than your partner, friends or even your parents?  What does it actually mean to be rich? New York Times bestselling author, Financial Feminist host and Her First $100K founder Tori Dunlap challenges the different financial lessons taught to women and men, reveals the investing mistake she sees constantly and explains why building wealth requires us to think beyond cutting expenses. Danielle and Tori also talk candidly about buying versus renting, out-earning a partner, separating net worth from self-worth—and why talking openly about money can deepen our relationships. In this episode: The financial audit that reveals whether you have an earning problem or a spending problem. Why women are taught to save while men are taught to invest—and how that difference can shape a lifetime of wealth. The overlooked second step that keeps money in many Roth IRAs, 401(k)s and brokerage accounts from actually being invested. Why your earning potential may matter more than finding another expense to cut. How multiple income streams helped Tori reach her first $100,000—and what she would do differently today. Why renting isn’t “throwing money away” and buying a home may be an emotional decision rather than a financial one. The hidden complications of out-earning your partner, parents or friends. Why women can feel shame both when they’re struggling financially and when they’re succeeding. How talking openly about money can create greater honesty and intimacy in your relationships. Why having a high income means little if you don’t know how to protect, invest and sustain it. The difference between a $10 purchase and a “$10,000 decision”—and which one deserves more of your attention. Why automating your savings is one of the simplest financial habits with the greatest return. How Tori learned to separate her net worth from her self-worth. Why money management is a learned skill, not a trait you either possess or don’t. How financial freedom can help you become “unfuckwithable”—able to leave any room, job or relationship that doesn’t respect you. Tori’s Book Recommendation: Life of Pi by Yann Martel. Grab a copy of Tori’s book, Financial Feminist, here. Follow Tori on Instagram. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  4. Sep 3

    Do You Know How to Fight...Well? With Priya Parker

    Priya Parker wants us all to stop running from conflict and she says there is actually an art to fighting! The bestselling author of The Art of Gathering is back with her new book The Art of Fighting, a guide to having the hard conversations that can actually bring us closer together. Priya joins Danielle to unpack why avoiding conflict may be making us lonelier, how to figure out which relationships are worth fighting for, and why every fight may be revealing something deeper that we want. Plus, Priya looks at some of pop culture’s most memorable conflicts: from Issa and Molly’s friendship rupture on Insecure and Ross and Rachel’s infamous fight on Friends to the real conflict hiding inside The Devil Wears Prada. If you’ve ever avoided a difficult conversation, struggled to speak up, or wondered whether it’s time to repair a relationship or walk away, this episode will change the way you think about fighting. Priya shares: Why avoiding conflict might actually be making us lonelier How healthy conflict can bring us closer together Why the fights we avoid can reveal what we really want How to figure out what you’re actually fighting about Why conflict can be an unexpected form of intimacy How to know when a relationship is worth fighting for — and when it’s time to walk away What to do when a friendship starts to feel different Why some friendships need to evolve as we change What Insecure gets right about friendship breakups and “the dangerous truth” What the Ross and Rachel fight on Friends teaches us about group dynamics Why Priya thinks we’ve misunderstood the real conflict in The Devil Wears Prada A new way to look at Miranda Priestly’s iconic cerulean sweater speech How to ask better questions during difficult conversations Why you don’t have to resolve every fight in the moment The surprising reason some of our hardest fights can become a doorway to deeper connection Priya’s Book Recommendation: The Soul of Money by Lynne Twist Grab a copy of Priya’s book, The Art of Fighting, here. Follow Priya on Instagram. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  5. Aug 27

    Is She a Toxic Friend or Are You? Danielle Bayard Jackson

    Danielle Bayard Jackson is one of the world's leading experts on female friendship. She's a friendship coach, researcher, and the bestselling author of Fighting for Our Friendships. Today will forever change the way you think about friendship. Danielle shares:   The two questions every friend wants answered How to handle conflict in friendships as adults How to make friends as an adult Why female friendships are essential to our mental, emotional, and physical health How to navigate conflict without ending the friendship Friendship jealousy, envy, gossip, and why they're more nuanced than we think The hidden reason adult friendships change during different seasons of life Danielle Robay shares the friendship betrayal story that went viral on TikTok and Instagram Why desire is important even in platonic relationship Friendship burnout and how to handle it How to know when it’s time to let a friendship go (and how to handle it) Gossip! Why it’s not ALL bad (and how to differentiate the two)  Wedding drama, bachelorette parties, birthdays, and mismatched expectations Friendship burnout and how to show up when life feels overwhelming The difference between being a nice friend and a good friend Simple ways to become a better friend starting today Book Recommendation: Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make--and Keep--Friends by Marisa G. Franco PhD Follow Danielle Bayard Jackson here. Grab a copy of her book here. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  6. Aug 20

    Oversharing: Are You Doing Too Much or Too Little of It? with Dr. Leslie John (Harvard)

    Ever shared something vulnerable and immediately wished you could take it back? That sinking feeling has a name: the vulnerability hangover. Harvard Business School professor and behavioral scientist Dr. Leslie John joins Danielle to unpack the surprising science of self-disclosure, why we often regret what we don't say more than what we do, and how revealing a little more, at work, in dating, and in friendship, can actually deepen trust, strengthen relationships, and change the way we connect. In this episode Dr. John shares: Why we regret what we hide more than what we reveal The science behind trust and human connection How to know if you're oversharing—or simply being honest Why vulnerability feels so uncomfortable The psychology of revealing secrets How social media has changed the way we share our lives The difference between authentic vulnerability and performative sharing Why revealing a little more can improve your relationships The "Goldilocks Principle" of self-disclosure How to have difficult conversations without saying too much What to share on first dates (and what to save for later) How vulnerability can make you a better leader at work Why you should only list a few personality traits on your dating profile. Why reciprocity is the key to building deeper friendships Practical advice for overcoming the fear of opening up How to tell if someone is revealing to connect, or revealing to perform. Why relationships should be built "like a fire," slowly, one reveal at a time. The biggest first-date red flag: skipping straight to trauma dumping. Dr. John’s Book Recommendations: Difficult Conversations and Unreasonable Hospitality Grab a copy of Dr. John’s book, Revealing: The Underrated Power of Oversharing, here. Follow Dr. John on Instagram. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  7. Aug 13

    Remembering Sydney Towle: Time, Hope, and What Really Matters

    At 23, Sydney Towle was living a bright, full life—until she felt a lump after a run and heard the words: “likely carcinoma, multiple enhancing masses.” What followed was a diagnosis of Stage 4 cholangiocarcinoma, a rare and aggressive cancer typically found in people decades older. Sydney began sharing her journey online as a way to stay connected and hopeful, quickly building a community of more than 4 million followers on TikTok. Through it all, Sydney continued to speak openly about what it meant to live with cancer: the physical toll, the mental battle, the relationships that changed, and the lessons she learned while confronting questions most people her age never expect to face.  On August 5, we learned that Sydney had died from cancer at just 26 years old. In this conversation, recorded during her cancer journey, Sydney spoke with remarkable openness about living in the face of uncertainty and what mattered most to her when time felt stolen. Her words, and the kindness, humor, vulnerability, and perspective she shared, carry even more weight now. Sydney shared: Receiving her rare cancer diagnosis alone in a parking lot. How she knew it was cancer before she was diagnosed + her advice for others. Why she chose to share her story on TikTok Surviving a viral hate campaign of people on the internet accusing her of “faking cancer” The mental battle of pretending to be “just a normal 25-year-old” while living with a rare  cancer Dating while in chemo + redefining love  The mantras that keep her going. Why she no longer believes “everything happens for a reason” but still believes in kindness, empathy, and intuition. Using humor and disassociation to cope with cancer treatment Fertility preservation and cancer  How friendships change +  who shows up when life gets hard Finding hope when there is no finish line in sight Life lessons at 25: what really matters when time feels stolen. Honor Sydney Towle’s Memory By Donating to Her Family’s GoFundMe Sydney’s Book Recommendation: The Midnight Library by Matt Haig See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  8. Aug 6

    Savannah James + April McDaniel: “Everybody’s Crazy.” Stop Pretending You’re Not

    Some friendships don't just change your life…they change who you become. In one of Savannah James and April McDaniel's most candid conversations yet, they join Danielle Robay to talk about the friendship that became the foundation for their businesses, their hit podcast Everybody's Crazy, and the lives they've built. Savannah opens up about finding her voice after years behind the scenes and the realities of life in the public eye, while April reflects on grief, leadership, and resilience. Together, they explore authenticity in the age of social media, what it means to find a "friend soulmate," and why everyone—from CEOs to celebrities—is carrying around their own version of "crazy." In this episode, they discuss: Why the strongest friendships feel effortless. Why Savannah James stayed quiet for years—and why she's finally finding her voice The friendship that changed both Savannah James and April McDaniel's lives The truth about being married to LeBron James for more than two decades What people get wrong about Savannah James Savannah’s best advice for basketball wives  The surprising reason social media doesn't interest either of them Why confidence is built—not born How grief reshaped April McDaniel's life, leadership, and ambition The hidden pressures young women are putting on themselves today Friendship soulmates and how to know you've found one Why "Everybody's Crazy" became more than just a podcast title The biggest misconceptions about success, CEO life, and having it all How to stop losing yourself inside a relationship Building businesses with purpose: Reframe Beauty, Crown + Conquer, and Everybody's Crazy Why therapy, self-awareness, and intentional growth changed everything Dating red flags, friendship red flags, and the "sassy men" debate Why authenticity always outlasts performance The lesson Savannah hopes her daughter learns by watching her + how motherhood transformed Savannah's confidence and sense of self. The philosophy that keeps both women grounded through fame, loss, and success Make sure to watch Everybody’s Crazy here. Follow April on Instagram here. Follow Savannah on Instagram here. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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There are celebrity interviews, and there are life-changing conversations. On Question Everything, you get both. Journalist Danielle Robay has a rare gift: she makes people feel safe + seen enough to tell the truth. Every week, she draws out the stories the world's most fascinating people rarely get to tell– the heartbreaks, the risks, the controversies, the beliefs they had to unlearn to become who they are and every now and then, their thoughts on the Bravoverse. You'll come for their story. You'll leave rethinking your own. -------- Danielle is also the creator of the bestselling QUESTION EVERYTHING card game series, which has sparked connection in thousands of living rooms around the world, and the co-executive producer and host of Bookmarked by Reese's Book Club, alongside Reese Witherspoon. Dubbed "The Queen of Questions," she brings both heart and rigor to every conversation — a background in political science, a Gloria Steinem Fellowship, and a mentorship under Larry King, whose legacy of curiosity and connection she's carried forward across more than 8,000 hours of interviews with icons from Taylor Swift to Malala Yousafzai.

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