Mother Daughter Relationship Show

Brittney Scott

Are you tired of trying to get your mom to understand your pain and apologize, just to be left feeling worse than when you started? I get it! What if I told you that you could heal your mother wound and your inner child, even if your mom wont take any accountability for her behavior or your childhood? Let's be real, it takes a self aware mother to acknowledge hurt done to her daughter. You’re healing should not rely on her being self aware. Welcome to the Mother Daughter Relationship Show, the go to podcast for mother daughter relationships, mother wound healing, eldest daughters, and women learning to mother when they weren’t mothered. I’m your host, Brittney Scott - mother daughter therapist and coach, the eldest daughter and mom to a daughter, book nerd, scripted show over reality show person. I understand the position of the eldest daughter and I know what healthy relationships look and feel like. I’ve worked with women like you who want better relationships and want to stop the pain and frustration from their mother daughter relationship. This podcast will answer questions such as: *What is a mother wound? *How do I heal my mother wound? *How do I reconnect with my mother? *How do I fix my broken relationships? *How do I become a good mom when I don't have an example of one? *What is my inner child? *What is generational trauma? Tune in to learn about generational trauma, mother wounds, inner child healing, and exploring how these experiences influence adult connections, friendships, and self-identity. Ready to find your voice, understand your needs, and heal your mother wound? Hit play on the latest episode and lets get started.

  1. 5d ago

    Coming Back to Life with Makena Interview [Ep. 74]

    Coming Back to Life: Healing the Mother Wound with Makena & Gigi Sage Makena had built a life that looked successful on paper (career, independence, and ambition) but underneath it all, she was struggling with anxiety, burnout, and a quiet sense that something was missing. In this deeply personal episode, McKenna sits down with her mother, Gigi Sage—a pioneering coach with over 40 years of experience—to share their powerful journey through breakdown, healing, and transformation. Together, they explore what it means to “lose your light,” how to find your way back to yourself, and the profound role their mother-daughter relationship played in that process. From navigating a shared “dark night of the soul” to healing the mother's wound and redefining their relationship beyond traditional roles, this conversation offers insight, honesty, and practical wisdom for anyone seeking deeper connection and aliveness in their life. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:What it means to “lose your light” and how it happensThe impact of childhood experiences and family challenges on identityHow burnout, anxiety, and misalignment show up—even in a “successful” lifeThe power of slowing down and reconnecting with what truly brings you aliveA simple but transformative question: What brings you vitality?How to navigate and heal the “mother wound”Why forgiveness is more about your freedom than the other personHow redefining roles (mother, daughter, mentor, partner) can deepen connectionThe importance of curiosity over assumptions in relationships Key Takeaways: Start noticing what energizes you vs. drains youCreate space to slow down, clarity doesn’t come from forceAsk yourself regularly: What brings me alive?Get curious about the people closest to you instead of assuming you know themHealing doesn’t require the other person’s participation—it starts with you Practical Thoughts: Healing, whether within yourself or in your relationships, isn’t about rewriting the past it’s about releasing its hold on you. Thank you for listening. Don't forget you can submit your question! And yes, I really am going to give you an answer in an upcoming podcast.and be sure to say hi on Instagram! Resources Mentioned Makena's Book - The Wisdom That Raised Me: A Daughter's Journey into Wholeness, Wisdom and Womanhood (featuring exercises like “Charting Your Aliveness”)Coaching principles from Gigi Sage’s 40+ years of experience Help me reach more service providers like you by following the show & leaving a rating or review on Apple & Spotify! Keyword tags: Brittneyscott,#MotherDaughterRelationship #podcast #podcastclips #podcastlife #selfgrowth #personaldevelopment #healingjourney #innerhealing #motherwound #selfdiscovery #mindsetshift #emotionalhealing #anxietyrecovery #burnoutrecovery #womensupportingwomen #womenempowerment #relationshiphealing #familyhealing #forgivenessjourney #mentalwellness #liveyourtruth #findyourpurpose #authenticliving #growthmindset #selfawareness #healingtrauma #lifecoach #coachinglife #spiritualgrowth #wellnessjourney #empoweredwomen

    55 min
  2. Jun 19

    Are We Really That Different From Our Mothers [Ep. 73]

    Are We Really That Different From Our Mothers Breaking the Cycle vs. Redirecting It In this guest episode, Dr. Imani Steele returns to explore one of the most complex and formative relationships in a woman’s life: the relationship between mothers and daughters.Through personal insight, research, and real-life examples, Dr. Steele challenges a common belief, that awareness alone is enough to break generational cycles. Instead, she invites listeners to consider a deeper truth: sometimes we’re not breaking patterns, we’re simply expressing them differently. This conversation dives into how maternal relationships shape identity, emotional patterns, self-perception, behavior, and what it actually takes to heal, grow, and show up differently for ourselves and the next generation. Key Topics Discussed: Why mother-daughter relationships are so formative and complexThe difference between awareness and transformationHow generational patterns show up (even when we try to avoid them)“Mirroring vs. inversion” — becoming like our mothers vs. reacting to themEmotional conditioning and learned behaviors in childhoodThe internalization of maternal criticism and its impact on self-worthReparenting, self-awareness, and identity rediscoveryThe role of community and support in healing Key Takeaways: Awareness does not automatically equal changeYou can reject your mother’s behavior and still be rooted in the same woundsNot all differences are healing, some are reactionsIf you don’t address patterns, you may internalize them instead of breaking themHealing requires both recognition and intentional interruptionYou may need to relearn who you are outside of survival patterns If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who may need it, and take a moment to reflect on your own patterns, healing journey, and what breaking the cycle truly means for you. Thank you for listening. Don't forget you can submit your question! And yes, I really am going to give you an answer in an upcoming podcast.and be sure to say hi on Instagram! Resources MentionedLink to purchase the book https://bookshop.org/lists/mother-daughter-relationships-brittney-m-scott Help me reach more service providers like you by following the show & leaving a rating or review on Apple & Spotify! Keyword tags: Brittneyscott,#MotherDaughterRelationship #healingjourney #selfgrowth #personaldevelopment #mentalhealthmatters #growthmindset #selfawareness #emotionalintelligence #innerwork #mindsetshift #traumahealing #reparenting #breakthecycle #healing #selflovejourney #deepconversations #podcastclips #womenempowerment #lifechanging #truthbomb #explorepage

    30 min
  3. Jun 12

    Redefining the Mother-Daughter Relationship with Tes and Holly [Ep. 72]

    Heart to Heart: Redefining the Mother-Daughter Relationship with Tes and Holly When Vulnerability Deepens the Mother-Daughter Bond In this honest and heartfelt guest-hosted episode, Tes and Holly Cohen explore the powerful intersection of vulnerability, boundaries, grief, and connection in adult mother-daughter relationships. Through personal storytelling and real-time reflection, they unpack how one emotionally charged moment during Tes’s egg-freezing journey transformed their relationship and inspired the creation of Heart-to-Heart Gatherings: intentional spaces where mothers and adult daughters can reconnect through courageous conversation. This episode is a moving reminder that healing often begins not when someone fixes our pain, but when they are willing to sit beside us in it. With this episode you’ll understand : How “toxic positivity” can unintentionally create emotional distanceThe vulnerable conversation that changed Tess and Holly’s relationshipThe lasting impact of grief, loss, and generational patternsNavigating changing family dynamics during new life chaptersWhy adult daughters and mothers often struggle with “burden” conversationsThe importance of reflective practice in relationshipsHow voice memos, spontaneous calls, and intentional check-ins strengthen connectionLearning to “be with” someone’s pain instead of trying to solve it Key Takeaways: Vulnerability Over FixingGenerational HealingGrief & Bittersweet JoyBoundaries & BurdensIntentional Relationships Thank you for listening. Don't forget you can submit your question! And yes, I really am going to give you an answer in an upcoming podcast.and be sure to say hi on Instagram! Resources MentionedSign up for Heart-to-Heart newsletter hereOur contact info (we'd love to connect!): Tes' LinkedIn + tes@gatherbetter.co, Holly's LinkedIn + hollyrcohen@gmail.comOur first podcast episode with Brittney, Overcoming Toxic Positivity: How Vulnerability Deepens Mother-Daughter BondsThe Bengson's Keep Going SongToxic Positivity Book Help me reach more service providers like you by following the show & leaving a rating or review on Apple & Spotify! Keyword tags: Brittneyscott,#MotherDaughterRelationship#MotherDaughterRelationship #MotherDaughterBond #MotherDaughterHealing #Vulnerability #EmotionalHealing #HealthyRelationships #FamilyCommunication #GenerationalHealing #ToxicPositivity #EmotionalWellness #RelationshipPodcast #WomenSupportingWomen #AdultDaughter #HealingJourney #Boundaries #AuthenticConnection #IntentionalLiving #ReflectiveLeadership #WomenEmpowerment #GriefAndHealing #EggFreezingJourney #FertilityJourney #MentalHealthAwareness #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth #PodcastLife #HealingConversations #EmotionalIntelligence #FamilyHealing #HeartToHeart

    37 min
  4. Jun 5

    Matrscence and The Mother Daughter Dynamic with Dr. Cecily Moore [Ep. 71]

    Materscence and The Mother Daughter Dynamic with Dr. Cecily Moore When the Daughter Becomes the Mother with Dr. Cecily Moore In this guest-hosted episode of The Mother Daughter Relationship Show, Dr. Cecily Moore explores the powerful transformation that happens when a daughter becomes a mother. Through the lens of matrescence, the psychological and identity transition into motherhood, Dr. Moore discusses how motherhood reshapes our understanding of caregiving, sacrifice, emotional labor, and our relationship with our own mothers.Drawing from both personal experience and professional expertise, Dr. Moore shares how becoming a mother can bring compassion, clarity, grief, boundary-setting, and healing. She also dives into the impact of generational expectations placed on women (especially Black women) and the process of redefining motherhood on your own terms. This thoughtful conversation invites listeners to reflect on the cycles they want to continue, the patterns they want to break, and the values they want to pass forward. With this episode you’ll learn: What “matrescence” means and why it mattersThe emotional complexity of becoming a motherBreaking generational cycles and redefining caregivingEmotional labor and the “Strong Black Woman” narrativeQuestions every mother should ask herself about values and identityHow motherhood can become a healing journey Key Takeaways: Motherhood is more than caring for a baby, it is a complete identity transformation.Becoming a mother often changes how we understand our own mothers.Matrescence can bring both healing and grief.Setting boundaries can be an important part of creating healthier generational patterns.Motherhood can become an opportunity to consciously rewrite family narratives. Memorable Quotes “Sometimes the most powerful part of becoming a mother is realizing that we now have the opportunity to rewrite the story.” Thank you for listening. Don't forget you can submit your question! And yes, I really am going to give you an answer in an upcoming podcast.and be sure to say hi on Instagram! Resources MentionedBe sure to connect with Dr. Cecily Moore using the links in the episode description and download her free Values Checklist. https://www.drcecilymoore.com/values-checklist If this episode resonated with you, take a moment to reflect on the values shaping your motherhood journey. What are you carrying forward and what are you intentionally changing? Help me reach more service providers like you by following the show & leaving a rating or review on Apple & Spotify! Keyword tags: Brittneyscott,#MotherDaughterRelationship #Motherhood #Matrescence #MotherDaughterRelationship #GenerationalHealing #EmotionalLabor #ParentingPodcast #MentalHealth #BlackMotherhood #HealingJourney

    24 min
  5. May 29

    Enmeshed Mother Daughter Relationships [Ep. 70]

    Breaking Free from Mother-Daughter Enmeshment Why does prioritizing yourself feel like betraying your mother? In this episode, licensed therapist Brittney explores emotional enmeshment in mother-daughter relationships and the painful guilt many daughters experience when trying to become independent. She unpacks how emotionally dependent mothers can unintentionally use guilt, manipulation, and toxic loyalty to keep daughters emotionally responsible for their well-being. Brittney explains why boundaries often feel “wrong” to daughters raised in enmeshed dynamics, how the “good daughter” archetype fuels burnout and resentment, and what healing can look like for both mother and daughter. She also offers practical strategies for setting healthy boundaries, recognizing false guilt, and reclaiming autonomy without abandoning love. This conversation is a reminder that self-care is not betrayal, and that loving your mother should never require losing yourself. With this episode you’ll be able to learn: What emotional enmeshment looks like between mothers and daughtersWhy autonomy can feel like abandonment to an emotionally dependent parentThe “good daughter” archetype and societal pressureGuilt-tripping language emotionally dependent mothers may useHow childhood attachment patterns shape adult behaviorThe difference between real guilt and false guiltWhy boundaries feel so difficult in enmeshed relationshipsPractical examples of healthy boundariesHow to stop feeling responsible for your mother’s emotionsPreventing codependent patterns in future relationships Connect with Brittney: Instagram: @theBrittneyScottWebsite: www.brittneymscott.comConsultation to work with BrittneyFree Resources Notable Quotes: “Your self-care is not betrayal.” “Love does not have to mean self-sacrifice.” “Your mother’s emotional dependency has convinced you that your self-preservation is her destruction.” “You can love your mother without losing yourself.” “In an enmeshed relationship, ‘no’ gets interpreted as ‘I don’t love you.’” Thank you for listening. Don't forget you can submit your question! And yes, I really am going to give you an answer in an upcoming podcast.and be sure to say hi on Instagram! Resources MentionedFree Class (May 20th): Learn how to build a healthier, more connected relationship with your daughter. Register Here Help me reach more service providers like you by following the show & leaving a rating or review on Apple & Spotify! Keyword tags: Brittneyscott,#MotherDaughterRelationship #emotionalmanipulation, #peoplepleasing, #familyenmeshment, #daughterguilt, #toxicfamilydynamics, #healingjourney #boundaries #codependency #mentalhealthpodcast Mentioned in this episode: Q2 '26 Ad

    20 min
  6. May 22

    Trauma, ACEs, and Mother Wounds Talk [Ep. 69]

    Trauma, ACEs, and Mother Wounds Talk: Is Everything a Trauma Response? Rethinking ACE Scores, Mother Wounds & Emotional Impact Summary Social media has made it easy to label behaviors as “trauma responses,” but is it really that simple? In this episode, we unpack why human behavior can’t be reduced to blanket statements and explore the nuance behind trauma, ACE (Adverse Childhood Experiences) scores, and emotional impact. Drawing from personal experience as a therapist, we examine how context shapes our responses, why two people can experience the same event differently, and how this connects deeply to mother-daughter relationships. We also dive into the concept of the “mother wound,” what it actually means, and why believing people’s lived experiences is more important than trying to measure or minimize them. With this episode you’ll be able to: Why labeling behaviors as “trauma responses” can be misleadingWhat ACE scores are, and their limitationsHow the same experience can affect people in completely different waysThe true foundation of a “mother wound”Why emotional validation matters more than comparisonHow generational patterns and societal shifts impact family dynamicsWhy more daughters are choosing distance and what’s behind that shift Connect with Brittney: Instagram: @theBrittneyScottWebsite: www.brittneymscott.comConsultation to work with BrittneyFree Resources A Reframe: Trauma isn’t one-size-fits-all. What matters most isn’t labeling experiences, but listening, validating, and responding with empathy. Especially in mother-daughter relationships, healing starts with belief and accountability. Thank you for listening. Don't forget you can submit your question! And yes, I really am going to give you an answer in an upcoming podcast.and be sure to say hi on Instagram! Resources Mentioned:ACE (Adverse Childhood Experiences) Questionnaire (search online: “ACE score test”)Free Class (May 20th): Learn how to build a healthier, more connected relationship with your daughter. Register Here Help me reach more service providers like you by following the show & leaving a rating or review on Apple & Spotify! Keyword tags: Brittneyscott,#MotherDaughterRelationship #RelationshipGoals #HealthyBoundaries #MotherDaughterBond #parenting daughters #emotional safety #parenting advice #conscious parenting #motherhood podcast Mentioned in this episode: Q2 '26 Ad

    19 min
  7. May 15

    2 Mothers and 2 Mother Wounds [Ep 68]

    Two Mothers and Two Mother wounds In this deeply personal and emotional conversation, Desiree shares her journey of growing up between two mother figures, her biological mother and the great-aunt who raised her after she entered the foster system at age five. From early instability, abuse, and emotional parentification to navigating identity, race, and belonging in a predominantly white town, Desiree opens up about the lasting impact of her childhood experiences. Now a licensed professional counselor associate and a mother herself, she reflects on the complexity of forgiveness, the evolution of her relationship with her biological mom, and the boundaries she’s had to build with the family who raised her. This episode explores the “mother wound,” generational trauma, and what it means to break cycles while raising the next generation. With this episode you’ll be able to learn: Growing up with two maternal figures and navigating divided loyaltiesEntering foster care and being raised by extended familyExperiencing instability, abuse, and early emotional responsibilityThe impact of inconsistent parenting and “walking on eggshells”Over-scheduling as a coping strategy and why it didn’t workIdentity, race, and isolation in a predominantly white environmentMental health struggles in adolescence, including disordered eating and hospitalizationThe long road to rebuilding a relationship with her biological motherSetting boundaries with caregivers who provided materially but lacked emotional connectionBreaking generational cycles as a parent Connect with Brittney: Instagram: @theBrittneyScottWebsite: www.brittneymscott.comConsultation to work with BrittneyFree Resources A Reframe: Desiree’s story is a powerful reminder that providing a “good life” materially doesn’t always meet a child’s emotional needs. Healing isn’t linear and sometimes growth means holding compassion and boundaries at the same time. Thank you for listening. Don't forget you can submit your question! And yes, I really am going to give you an answer in an upcoming podcast.and be sure to say hi on Instagram! Resources MentionedFree Class (May 20th): Learn how to build a healthier, more connected relationship with your daughter. Register Here Help me reach more service providers like you by following the show & leaving a rating or review on Apple & Spotify! Keyword tags: Brittneyscott,#MotherDaughterRelationship #motherwound, #fostercare, #familytrauma, #emotionalneglect, #parentification, #identity, #therapyexperiences, #adolescentmentalhealth, #generationalhealing, #boundaries Mentioned in this episode: Q2 '26 Ad

    45 min
  8. May 8

    The Ripple Effects of Mother Wounds [Ep. 67]

    The Ripple Effects of Mother Wounds. How the Mother Wound Impacts Every Relationship in Your Life The “mother wound” doesn’t stay confined to your relationship with your mom, it shapes how you show up in romantic relationships, friendships, parenting, and even your relationship with yourself. In this episode, Brittany Scott breaks down how early relational patterns formed in childhood continue to influence your behaviors, beliefs, and emotional responses as an adult. You’ll learn how these patterns show up in subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways, like people-pleasing, choosing unavailable partners, struggling with self-worth, and repeating generational cycles. Most importantly, Brittany shares what it actually takes to break these patterns and begin healing from the inside out. With this episode you’ll be able to learn: What the “mother wound” really is and why it affects all relationshipsHow childhood relational patterns get wired into your brainWhy you may be repeating unhealthy dynamics without realizing itThe connection between self-worth and early maternal relationshipsWhat it truly means to break generational patterns Quote: “You can’t break generational patterns by doing the opposite—you have to move through it.” Connect with Brittney: Instagram: @theBrittneyScottWebsite: www.brittneymscott.comConsultation to work with BrittneyFree Resources If this episode resonated with you, share it with a mother or daughter who needs to hear it. Don’t forget to follow the show, leave a rating or review on Apple & Spotify! and take the next step in your healing journey. Thank you for listening. Don't forget you can submit your question! And yes, I really am going to give you an answer in an upcoming podcast.and be sure to say hi on Instagram! Resources MentionedFree Class (May 20th): Learn how to build a healthier, more connected relationship with your daughter. Register Here Keyword tags: Brittneyscott,#MotherDaughterRelationship #motherwound, #motherwoundhealing, #motherdaughterconflict, #healingchildhoodtrauma, #innerchildhealing, #generationaltrauma, #breakinggenerationalcycles,#trustissues #romanticrelationshippatterns, Mentioned in this episode: Q2 '26 Ad

    18 min
3.9
out of 5
11 Ratings

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Are you tired of trying to get your mom to understand your pain and apologize, just to be left feeling worse than when you started? I get it! What if I told you that you could heal your mother wound and your inner child, even if your mom wont take any accountability for her behavior or your childhood? Let's be real, it takes a self aware mother to acknowledge hurt done to her daughter. You’re healing should not rely on her being self aware. Welcome to the Mother Daughter Relationship Show, the go to podcast for mother daughter relationships, mother wound healing, eldest daughters, and women learning to mother when they weren’t mothered. I’m your host, Brittney Scott - mother daughter therapist and coach, the eldest daughter and mom to a daughter, book nerd, scripted show over reality show person. I understand the position of the eldest daughter and I know what healthy relationships look and feel like. I’ve worked with women like you who want better relationships and want to stop the pain and frustration from their mother daughter relationship. This podcast will answer questions such as: *What is a mother wound? *How do I heal my mother wound? *How do I reconnect with my mother? *How do I fix my broken relationships? *How do I become a good mom when I don't have an example of one? *What is my inner child? *What is generational trauma? Tune in to learn about generational trauma, mother wounds, inner child healing, and exploring how these experiences influence adult connections, friendships, and self-identity. Ready to find your voice, understand your needs, and heal your mother wound? Hit play on the latest episode and lets get started.

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