33 episodes

We all want love, but most of us don't want to date to get it...because dating kinda sucks. That's why I'm Reinventing it.

Welcome to Reinventing Dating! A podcast from Positive Psychology Coach, Kira Sabin that helps singles learn the foundational knowledge & skills to date like you f*cking mean it.

Join Kira weekly, for short, smart & sweary conversations on what's working in dating, what's not, and where we go from here.

Because love isn’t broken, but dating is. Let’s fix it.

Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin Kira Sabin

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.8 • 202 Ratings

We all want love, but most of us don't want to date to get it...because dating kinda sucks. That's why I'm Reinventing it.

Welcome to Reinventing Dating! A podcast from Positive Psychology Coach, Kira Sabin that helps singles learn the foundational knowledge & skills to date like you f*cking mean it.

Join Kira weekly, for short, smart & sweary conversations on what's working in dating, what's not, and where we go from here.

Because love isn’t broken, but dating is. Let’s fix it.

    Green Flags in Dating

    Green Flags in Dating

    We all know about red flags, but what about green flags?  What we should be looking for while dating.  That's what I'm sharing today!
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    • 32 min
    Why you should watch Bridgerton Season 3 (and it's not just because of the carriage scene)

    Why you should watch Bridgerton Season 3 (and it's not just because of the carriage scene)

    But it's not NOT about the carriage scene. 😂
    Listen to the Bridgerton episodes breakdown on Rom-Com Rescue.
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    • 30 min
    Men, Bears, & Dating

    Men, Bears, & Dating

    Check out my  "Date Like You F*cking Mean It" Group Workshop for $99! GO here.
    Today I talking about the social media conversation around "would you rather be stranded in a forest with a man or a bear?" and what that means for dating.
    Date Rape Stats Resources
    End the Backlog site.
    Tiktoker I reference. 

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    • 43 min
    Sabotage Series: Why Dating for Potential Makes You An A*****e

    Sabotage Series: Why Dating for Potential Makes You An A*****e

    Dating for potential can mean looking for someone who could potentially be a good match, but not yet is. The goal of dating is to identify potential, explore it, and confirm it.  It can lead to people choosing for incompatible relationships, ignoring red flags, and giving too much time to someone who isn't right for them.
    Every single day I see singles sabotaging their dates or potential relationships without even knowing it!  This week, I'm talking about dating for potential.  Which is not only a sabotage but can really hurt you and your relationships.
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    Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life!
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    Instagram: @kirasabin
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    • 39 min
    Sabotage Series: Anti-Sabotage Guidelines for Dating & Relationships - Part 2

    Sabotage Series: Anti-Sabotage Guidelines for Dating & Relationships - Part 2

    New podcast is up and it is so juicy with good info that this a two parter! If you missed part one go listen first.
    Self-sabotaging in relationships involves engaging in behaviors, either consciously or unconsciously, that lead to the end of a relationship. This might involve pushing the other person away or finding reasons to get out of the relationship. Such behavior often stems from trust issues, past experiences, and poor relationship skills.
    Every single day I see singles sabotaging their dates or potential relationships without even knowing! 
    So I created a list of 10 Anti-Sabotage Guidelines to make sure you are not unconsciously sabotaging yourself and keeping you away from love. I even made you this PDF to download so you don't forget them! Download it here.
    Today I breakdown 6-10 and they are GOOD! 
     

    • 36 min
    Sabotage Series: Anti-Sabotage Guidelines For Dating & Relationships - Part 1

    Sabotage Series: Anti-Sabotage Guidelines For Dating & Relationships - Part 1

    New episode is up and it is so juicy with good info there is going to be a part 2 next week!
    Self-sabotaging in relationships involves engaging in behaviors, either consciously or unconsciously, that lead to the end of a relationship. This might involve pushing the other person away or finding reasons to get out of the relationship. Such behavior often stems from trust issues, past experiences, and poor relationship skills.
    Every single day I see singles sabotaging their dates or potential relationships without even knowing!  So I created a list of 10 Anti-Sabotage Guidelines to make sure you are not unconsciously sabotaging yourself and keeping you away from love.
    Today I breakdown 1-5 and they are GOOD!
    Resources from the episode:
    Very Well Mind Article on Self-Sabotage
    Mind Body Green Article
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    • 54 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
202 Ratings

202 Ratings

KHCJ5225 ,

PLEASE LISTEN

The ONLY dating podcast that makes me feel better after listening. She addresses hard things with hope and a growth mindset to change our thoughts behaviors and our world for the better when other podcasts just state the poor and don't address what to do instead. Truly valuable information that will make everyone's relationships and lives much more meaningful, intentional, and joyful. Kira is a gift to the world.

delightfulbelle ,

SO helpful

Kira is refreshing and fabulous at helping give you clarity. There are so many articles in dating advice, Instagram, quotable’s, etc. And she excels at fine-tuning all of that and quieting the extra noise. She’ll give you hope, humor, practical steps, and insight. And, she’s funny! Give it a listen with an open mind.

jduithrbfb ,

Thank you

New to the podcast. Love your perspective! Thanks for being you!

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