10 episodes
Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin Kira Sabin
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4.8 • 200 Ratings
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We all want love, but most of us don't want to date to get it...because dating kinda sucks. That's why I'm Reinventing it.
Welcome to Reinventing Dating! A podcast from Positive Psychology Coach, Kira Sabin that helps singles learn the foundational knowledge & skills to date like you f*cking mean it.
Join Kira weekly, for short, smart & sweary conversations on what's working in dating, what's not, and where we go from here.
Because love isn’t broken, but dating is. Let’s fix it.
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Swipe Stories TV Breakdown: Five Lessons from Tinder Swindler
It’s a bit hard to introduce a topic as wild and heavy as sociopathic behaviors and emotional manipulation… but here we are. Let’s dive into it!
Listen in to this episode of the RD Podcast as Kira talks about the new Netflix documentary, The Tinder Swindler, and five lessons we can take away from it.
Kira also breaks down the concepts of cognitive biases and emotional reasoning, shedding light on how these biases can show up in your life and impact your relationships. Plus, she highlights the interconnection between self-worth, emotional reasoning, and toxic relationships.
From sociopathic behaviors to justifying getting on a plane with a stranger by embodying the phrase “you only live once” … we’re covering almost all the red flags in the book! So buckle up!
“Every day, throughout the day, we are talking to people, we are invested in people, we are surrounded by people, so let’s have the best friendships and relationships possible to make that all feel good and worthwhile and not exhausting.” - Kira
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Article Referenced:
Psychology Today
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Swipe Stories: The Realities of Online Dating - Rejection Projection
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We are in the second episode of talking about the realities of online dating. Today I breakdown how & why rejection feels so much worse on dating apps. I talk about:
*What types of rejections happen in dating
*What we CONFUSE with rejection
*Why rejection hurts so much
*Why I think rejection is WORSE on dating apps & why it matters
*What skill to build to help you move past rejection in dating so you can get real love!
Video Referenced:
Little Girl & stool
Books Referenced:
Grit
Article Referenced:
Grit in Dating
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Swipe Stories: The Realities of Online Dating - Paradox of Choice
Today I breakdown the paradox of choice in online dating & apps.
I talk about:
*What milk options in a grocery store has to do with online dating.
*Meet the Paradox of Choice, how it has changed modern dating, & why it matters.
*how online dating has changed the way we date from earlier generations in more ways than you think.
*the difference between maximizers vs satisfiers in dating & which you want to be for best success
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Books Referenced:
The Paradox of Choice
Article Referenced:
Stanford Daily
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Foundations: Is Your Attachment Style keeping you Single?
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Books Referenced:
Attached
My favorite for Anxious Attachment
Insecure in Love
Article Referenced:
Fictional Character Attachment
Favorite Attachment Quiz
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Foundations: The #1 Mindset You Need for Love
Join me in the Reinventing Dating Program on November 11, 2023! Learn more here
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Books Referenced:
Mindset by Dr Carol Dweck
Carol Dweck Ted Talk
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Foundations: The History of Love & Dating (& why it still matters)
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Articles Referenced:
Mark Manson Article
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Questions? Email the show at hey@reinventingdating.com
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Customer Reviews
Thank you
New to the podcast. Love your perspective! Thanks for being you!
Lots of f bombs
I know a lot of people don’t care, but I keep what I listen to clean, because what comes out of my mouth needs to be clean. FYI there is a lot of unnecessary f words dropped.
Just what I needed
Kira offers wisdom in a broken dating world!