Relationship Advice Hosted by: Chase Kosterlitz, Produced by: Sarah Kosterlitz

Giving and receiving constructive feedback can be a tricky area to navigate in all of our relationships, especially romantic relationships. Understanding the tools to best give and receive feedback will help you live a happier and healthier life. Listen to today's show to learn more about constructive feedback and start applying these tools today!
In this episode with Dr. Wyatt Fisher, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

Understanding when and how to give constructive feedback

Tools to give constructive feedback 

Specific exercises to implement in your relationship to create space for feedback

How to navigate unsolicited advice in your relationship

What to do if you're a problem solver and feel like you want to give unsolicited advice

The importance of creating safety in your relationship and how to do it

And much more!

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There is a lot to unpack when it comes to understanding our personal relationship to sexuality and bringing that into our relationships. Understanding all of the things that influence how we think about sex can help us improve our sex lives and move through our relationships more positively. Listen to today's show to learn what makes good sex, what sex is worth having and what makes it better. 
In this episode with Catherine Roach, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

What makes good sex? 

Physical and emotional vulnerability around sex

Understanding how the cultural scripts around sexuality may be influencing you

Unpacking the shame you may have around sexuality and how to do it

How to talk to your kids about sex to set them up for a healthy relationship with their sexuality

Sex positivity and why that doesn't always mean more sex

And much more!

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Not everyone is going to have the same exact set of values and beliefs as you. Navigating our romantic relationships, friendships and family relationships with those whose values may differ is an important skill for a happy and healthy life and a more peaceful world. Listen to today's show to learn these skills and start applying them today!
In this episode with Dr. Samantha Stein, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

Understanding what values are and how they impact us

What to do when some values don't align with someone we are in relationship with

The importance of active listening when discussing differing values and opinions

Why values don't have to be all or nothing when it comes to alignment

Understanding which values are non-negotiable for you

Accepting differences with your family

And much more!

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We all want to have better sex lives, but it's not always easy to make that happen. Understanding the research around desire, arousal and our biology can go a long way in helping us improve our sex lives. Listen to today's show to learn some key tools and insights that will help you improve your sex life today!
In this episode with Michael Sytsma, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

The different types of desires that men and women exhibit and how understanding them will improve your sex life

The difference between desire and arousal and key points about both areas

How to bring the art of seduction into your relationship

The importance of creating a healthy connection outside of the bedroom to improve your sex life

Important questions to ask your partner about sex

The number 1 turn on for women according to research

Creating a vision for your sex life in your relationship

Navigating pain issues during sex

And much more!

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Like A Kitten curates adult subscription boxes created to inspire and influence female sexual wellness. Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you go to LikeAKitten.com/ido OR enter code IDO at checkout.
Füm helps you shake bad habits. Head to TryFum.com and use code IDO to save 10% off when you get the Journey pack today. The Journey pack comes with three unique flavors and the new Version 2 Füm to help kick start your positive habits.
Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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Conflict is inevitable in relationships. Couples in healthy relationships do not try to avoid conflict, they navigate conflict in productive and healthy ways instead. Listen to today's show to learn what to do when you or your partner are triggered, and how to navigate these situations in the best way possible. 
In this episode with Wendi Dumbroff, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

The vulnerability cycle that can occur when one partner is triggered and how this can create a negative spiral of conflict

How to become aware of the cycles of fights you may be having in your relationship and navigate these conflicts better

The importance of understanding the why's of you and your partner's triggers

Understanding that we can't help what we feel, but we can help what we do with those feelings

Tools to listen and validate your partner's feelings and examine your own

How wounds from our family of origin affect how we show up in our relationships

And much more!

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Like A Kitten curates adult subscription boxes created to inspire and influence female sexual wellness. Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you go to LikeAKitten.com/ido OR enter code IDO at checkout.
Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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Understanding who we are and what we want are some of the most important things we can do for ourselves in life. It's not always easy to understand these things either. Sometimes we think we know who we are and what we want, but we're not quite sure. This is our life's work and we can always use help along the way. Listen to today's show for some great tools to understand who you are and what you want in a relationship. 
In this episode with Andrea Dindinger, we discuss relationship advice topics that include:

How to acknowledge and determine what it is you want

The importance of not judging ourselves harshly and how to break this pattern

How to find the perfectly, imperfect partner for a relationship

Valuing yourself when choosing a partner

The importance of shifting your focus from yourself when dating

Tools and exercises to help determine what it is that you want

And much more!


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Like A Kitten curates adult subscription boxes created to inspire and influence female sexual wellness. Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you go to LikeAKitten.com/ido OR enter code IDO at checkout.
Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners!
If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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