Set your Mind

Dr. Stephen Ginsberg

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Set Your Mind is a sport and performance psychology podcast about training the mind with the same intention we train the body. Hosted by Dr. Stephen Ginsberg, each episode explores mindset, courage, resilience, and the mental processes that help performers show up on the playing field and in life with courage, clarity, and commitment.

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Episode 37: Armored Golf

In this episode of Set Your Mind, Dr. Stephen Ginsberg examines the psychological armor golfers subconsciously wear to protect themselves from embarrassment and explores the evolutionary and neurological roots of why social judgment can register as a genuine threat. Drawing on research into self-conscious emotion and the neural overlap between social and physical pain, Dr. Ginsberg distinguishes a real threat from a false alarm and introduces five practical shifts for playing without the weight of self-protection. The episode closes with Theodore Roosevelt's "Man in the Arena" address, reframing the alternative to armored golf as daring golf: playing fully exposed, and fully in the game. In This Episode Why embarrassment is classified as a self-conscious emotion, and what that requires psychologicallyThe evolutionary link between social exclusion and physical threat, and why the brain often can't tell the two apartHow to distinguish a real threat from a false alarm on the courseA practical check-in for evaluating worst-case scenariosThe five mental shifts required to remove the armor: process over outcome, control over no control, values over opinions, improving over proving, and learning over judgingTheodore Roosevelt's "Man in the Arena" and the concept of daring golfReferenced in This Episode Ted Lasso, Season 4, Episode 5, "Riches of Embarrassment"Elizabeth Appell — "And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom" (frequently and incorrectly attributed to Anaïs Nin)Theodore Roosevelt, "Citizenship in a Republic," 1910 ("The Man in the Arena")Music Credit: “Kong” by Bonobo; Courtesy of Ninja Tune Records
Sep 7

Episode 36: The Kintsugi Mindset

A potter's masterpiece shatters on the studio floor. Before he can sweep it into the trash, his teacher, a Shokunin, a master craftsman, stops him and asks one question: "Why did you throw away your masterpiece?" What happens next is kintsugi: the Japanese art of repairing broken pottery with gold, so the cracks aren't hidden, they're highlighted. In this episode, Dr. Stephen Ginsberg unpacks the Kintsugi Mindset and what it means for how you handle failure on the course, at work, and everywhere in between. Drawing on Nassim Taleb's Antifragile and the Japanese worldview of Wabi-Sabi, Stephen makes the case that your mistakes aren't flaws to conceal, they're feedback to use. But there's a catch: not every moment is the right moment for repair. This episode also covers the difference between the small, in-the-moment adjustments that keep you playing golf (not "playing golf swing") during competition, and the deeper excavation that belongs in practice and post-round reflection. In this episode: The kintsugi story and what a broken bowl can teach you about failureTaleb's fragile / robust / antifragile framework, and where your game fitsWhy "everything is neutral until you label it" changes how you see a bad roundWhen to make a small swing adjustment vs. when to do the full evaluationThis week's challenge: turning one post-round mistake into your gold lineThis week's challenge: After your next round, identify one mistake or struggle. Don't rush past it, ask the Shokunin's question: "What do I see here?" Then name exactly how you'll improve on it. Mentioned in this episode: Antifragile by Nassim Taleb; kintsugi pottery Follow Set Your Mind for a new episode every week. Remember, mindset isn't something you have. It's something you set. Music Credit: “Kong” by Bonobo; Courtesy of Ninja Tune Records
Aug 31

Episode 35: Grow Your Circle of Good

A golf ball is 1.68 inches across. The golf hole is 4.25 inches in diameter, two and a half times wider. So why do so many golfers, athletes, and high performers play (and live) like there's zero room for error? In this episode, Dr. Stephen Ginsberg introduces the idea of your "circle of good," the personal, often unconsciously narrow definition of what counts as an acceptable outcome. Drawing on stories from coaching college and professional golfers, PGA Tour proximity-to-hole data, and the difference between perfectionism and genuine excellence, Stephen makes the case that a rigid, all-or-nothing standard doesn't produce better performance, it produces more pressure, more self-criticism, and less resilience. You'll hear why even tour pros are routinely 20+ feet from the pin on approach shots, what separates "high achieving" perfectionists from truly elite performers, and why widening your circle of good might be the single biggest lever for both performance and peace of mind. In this episode: The physical math behind golf's built-in margin for errorWhat Jack Nicklaus and Ben Hogan have said about how few shots per round actually go exactly to planWhy "good enough" isn't the same as lowering your standardsWhat PGA Tour proximity data reveals about realistic expectationsThe difference between perfectionism and a healthy pursuit of excellenceA simple question to measure the size of your own circle of goodMusic Credit: “Kong” by Bonobo; Courtesy of Ninja Tune Records
Aug 24

Episode 34: The Line of Best Fit

As a clinical and sport psychologist, Dr. Stephen Ginsberg doesn't have to use math all that often. The one exception is the scatter plot. In this episode, he explains why one bad round, one tough day, or one sub-par performance can send high performers spiraling, and why the real story is never in a single data point, it's in the line of best fit that cuts through the noise. Featuring Olympic runner Alexi Pappas's "rule of thirds," passed down from coach Ian Dobson, this episode reframes how to evaluate progress: not by the last dip, but by the trend across good days, okay days, and bad days. Music Credit: “Kong” by Bonobo; Courtesy of Ninja Tune Records
Aug 17

Episode 33: Lead the Field in Resilience

What does real resilience actually look like? Not "rub some dirt on it." Not grit your teeth and move on. In this episode, Dr. Stephen Ginsberg unpacks a conversation with a professional golfer about the true goal for tournament week: leading the field in resilience, not birdies, not fairways hit. Drawing on James Gross's research on emotion regulation, Dr. Ginsberg explains why skipping the step of acknowledging pain doesn't make you tougher, it sets you up for suppression, which deepens emotional intensity, impairs memory, and is linked to depressive symptoms. He offers a working definition of resilience that actually holds up: the capacity to metabolize a setback, feel it, process it, respond to it, faster and more completely than the setback demands of you. Music Credit: “Kong” by Bonobo; Courtesy of Ninja Tune Records
Aug 10

Episode 32: Simple Not Easy

Why do the simplest mental skills feel so hard to execute under pressure? In this episode of Set Your Mind, Dr. Stephen Ginsberg breaks down one of the most common patterns he sees in high performers: mistaking "simple" for "easy." Deep breathing, staying present, letting thoughts pass, the concepts are simple. Training yourself to actually use them in pressure-packed moments, day in and day out, is the real work. Dr. Ginsberg explains why accepting this distinction up front saves you from a lot of self-criticism, discouragement, and helplessness later, and closes with a simple challenge for your next practice session: pick one skill that feels easy, and commit to repeating it until it actually gets easier. Music Credit: “Kong” by Bonobo; Courtesy of Ninja Tune Records
Aug 3

Episode 31: Three P's in a Pessimistic Pod

Optimism and pessimism aren't personality traits: They're explanatory styles. In this episode, Dr. Stephen Ginsberg walks through psychologist Martin Seligman's research on the three P's (permanence, pervasiveness, and personalization) and how they shape whether a setback stays small or spirals into something bigger. Featuring Seligman's college swim team study, where swimmers given false, slower-than-actual times either got measurably slower on their next swim or held steady if stuck in a pessimistic outlook. Dr. Ginsberg closes with practical language swaps to catch the three P's in your own self-talk and replace them with something temporary, localized, and action-focused. Music Credit: “Kong” by Bonobo; Courtesy of Ninja Tune Records
Jul 27

Episode 30: The Beginner's Mind

A beginner gets invited to play one of the most anticipated golf course openings in the U.S. What his first-ever round taught three veteran golfers about curiosity, ego, and why experts have more to learn from novices than they think. Full Show Notes: It's not every day you get invited to play one of the most anticipated golf course openings in the United States. Rarer still: for that to be the first time you've ever stepped on a golf course. In this episode, Dr. Stephen Ginsberg shares the story of a friend's very first round of golf — played at Rodeo Dunes, a Michael Keiser course that had been generating buzz for months. What could have been a disaster turned into a masterclass in mindset, as a total beginner's shrug-and-laugh approach to the game reminded a group of seasoned golfers what they'd lost somewhere along the way: curiosity, presence, and a total absence of ego. Drawing on Shunryu Suzuki's Zen concept of shoshin, or "beginner's mind," Dr. Ginsberg unpacks why expertise so often narrows our thinking instead of expanding it, and offers a practical challenge for approaching both the technical and mental sides of any skill — with playfulness instead of judgment. In this episode: What it looks like to play a bucket-list golf course with zero expectations. Why the golf world's obsession with score and identity sabotages the game before it starts. Shunryu Suzuki's "beginner's mind" and what it means for anyone who has ever gotten good at something. A practical exercise for bringing novice curiosity back to your own practice — technical and mental. Quote from the episode: "In the beginner's mind there are many possibilities, but in the expert's there are few." — Shunryu Suzuki Enjoyed this episode? Subscribe to Set Your Mind and leave a rating — it helps more people find the show. Remember: mindset isn't something you have. It's something you set. Music Credit: “Kong” by Bonobo; Courtesy of Ninja Tune Records

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Set Your Mind is a sport and performance psychology podcast about training the mind with the same intention we train the body. Hosted by Dr. Stephen Ginsberg, each episode explores mindset, courage, resilience, and the mental processes that help performers show up on the playing field and in life with courage, clarity, and commitment.

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Dr. Stephen Ginsberg
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