Sharing My Truth

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Sharing My Truth

Hi Babes! Hello Darling! Sharing My Truth is a weekly conversation with Mel and Suzie. Unlikely best friends, we are two women from different generations, sharing our uncensored truths. We talk about life, love, relationships, sex and what we have learnt and want to learn. Each week we sit down for a chat about the good, the bad, the ugly, the embarrassing moments, the drama and the down right wild and crazy stuff that happens in life.The truth is we’re all searching for answers, solutions and to make life better, but how do we get there? How do we learn to speak to each other so we can have better relationships with each other and with ourselves? By sharing our truth with you, we hope it helps you get a little closer to your truth.

  1. 6D AGO

    Gatekeeping Sex: Why Women Hold the Keys (or Do They?)

    Are women really the gatekeepers of sex, or have we all just bought into a narrative that puts the power—and the blame—squarely on their shoulders? In this episode, Mel and Suzie dig into the cultural scripts that frame women as the ultimate deciders of when, how, and if sex happens. From hookup culture to long-term relationships, we explore whether this dynamic is about empowerment, control, or just centuries of social conditioning dressed up as “just how it is.” And here’s where it gets juicy: Mel and Suzie don’t see eye to eye. Mel thinks that it changes as a woman gets older. Suzie’s not convinced. She believes women are always the gatekeepers of sex, whether they want to be or not. The result? A hilarious and honest debate about modern relationships. This episode goes into the emotional and psychological layers of sex, power, and expectations in modern relationships. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

    42 min
  2. JUN 25

    Modern Men Unhinged: Cheating, Rage, and the Rise of the Incel - A Talk With Jeff James - Part 2

    In Part 2 of our fascinating conversation with Jeff James (@bythesaintjames), we’re diving deep into the uncomfortable truths about modern masculinity, cheating in relationships, and the disturbing rise of incel culture. Why are so many men angry, disconnected, and spiralling in today’s dating world? What’s really behind the cheating epidemic, and how does online toxicity fuel it all? We explore how loneliness, rejection, and unrealistic expectations are impacting men's mental health and behaviour, as well as what it means for the women trying to date them. No topic is off-limits in this raw, honest, and sometimes controversial episode of Sharing My Truth.  Topics Covered: The psychology behind cheating and emotional detachment How incel ideology is gaining traction online The crisis of connection in modern dating Why some men feel like the victims—and what that really says Dating advice for women navigating this mess If you’ve ever asked, “WTF is going on with men ”today?”, this episode has some answers. 🎧 Listen now and share this episode with a friend who is struggling with dating. Tune in, share your truth, and let’s talk about it Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

    1h 10m
  3. JUN 11

    You Say You Want to Date… So Why Do You Look So Unapproachable?

    You say you want to meet someone, but are you actually giving off “come talk to me” energy? In this episode, Mel and Suzie get into the mixed signals so many of us send without even realizing it. From crossed arms and dead-eye stares to hiding behind your phone, wearing headphones, and a constant scowl, we break down the little habits that might be making you look closed off, even if you're totally open to connection. It's not about blaming you—it’s about helping you notice the signals you’re giving off that could be sabotaging your dating life. We also talk about what “looking approachable” really means in 2025. Whether you’re out at a bar, walking through the grocery store, or just existing in public, your body language and vibe matter. And if you’re ready for something real, it might be time to match your energy with your intentions. Tune in, share your truth, and let’s talk about it Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

    47 min
  4. MAY 28

    Short King Energy vs. Hot and Tall Privilege: Why Height Still Messes With Dating

    In this episode, Mel and Suzie ask the question no dating app will: does height really matter, or are we just conditioned to think it does? From the rise of the “short king” to the timeless appeal of “hot and tall,” we’re unpacking how height shows up in modern dating and how much of it is personal preference vs. social pressure.  We share real stories, some hard truths, and a few unpopular opinions. Is it fair that short guys have to bring a six-figure salary and a killer personality just to compete with a hot and tall guy who’s average in every other way? Are women actually open to the dating shorter men?If you've ever filtereted by height on the dating apps or felt judged by it, this one's for you! vibr8tor.com: Use Promo MS15  guybrator.com: UsePromo GUY15 Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us, check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more Tune in, share your truth, and let’s talk about it

    38 min
  5. MAY 21

    I Slept with My Sister’s Husband - Do I Spill or Stay Silent?

    This week, we're diving headfirst into the messiest kind of drama: family. What happens when your sister’s relationship is technically open… but you end up hooking up with her husband? Is it betrayal, bad judgment, or just really confusing boundaries? Mel and Suzie break down this jaw-dropping confession, talk through the ethics of open relationships, and ask the big question: when is honesty the right move and when is it just selfish guilt in disguise? Buckle up, this one’s messy. In this episode, we unpack a wild confession that has us both cringing and clutching our wine glasses: a sister slept with her sister’s husband... and now she doesn’t know whether to confess or keep it zipped. We talk sibling loyalty, messy boundaries, and why "open" doesn’t always mean “anything goes.” It's uncomfortable, a little scandalous, and 100% the kind of tea we live for. vibr8tor.com: Use Promo MS15 guybrator.com: UsePromo GUY15 Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us, check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more Tune in, share your truth, and let’s talk about it

    29 min

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About

Hi Babes! Hello Darling! Sharing My Truth is a weekly conversation with Mel and Suzie. Unlikely best friends, we are two women from different generations, sharing our uncensored truths. We talk about life, love, relationships, sex and what we have learnt and want to learn. Each week we sit down for a chat about the good, the bad, the ugly, the embarrassing moments, the drama and the down right wild and crazy stuff that happens in life.The truth is we’re all searching for answers, solutions and to make life better, but how do we get there? How do we learn to speak to each other so we can have better relationships with each other and with ourselves? By sharing our truth with you, we hope it helps you get a little closer to your truth.

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