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NCAA athletes Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier have always taken shots on and off the court. They know how to get what they want, except when it comes to men. Recently, dating has become a harder to navigate with Erica getting diagnosed with herpes and Molly’s sister/best friend excommunicating herself from the family. But instead of giving up on love, they've made a pact to challenge each other to test modern and old school dating methods. They'll stay in the game and laugh at the rejections they take along the way. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Shooters Gotta Shoot Erica Spera & Molly DeMellier

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NCAA athletes Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier have always taken shots on and off the court. They know how to get what they want, except when it comes to men. Recently, dating has become a harder to navigate with Erica getting diagnosed with herpes and Molly’s sister/best friend excommunicating herself from the family. But instead of giving up on love, they've made a pact to challenge each other to test modern and old school dating methods. They'll stay in the game and laugh at the rejections they take along the way. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

    #92 Does a Woman's Value Decrease with Age? w/ Jourdain Fisher

    #92 Does a Woman's Value Decrease with Age? w/ Jourdain Fisher

    Fan favorite JOURDAIN FISHER (The Tonight Show) is back this week with Erica and Molly to unpack advice from image consultant and YouTuber, Kevin Samuels. The three discuss clips from Kevin's YouTube video, "Single Women Are Getting Older, Educated, And Aren't Willing To Settle." They talk about whether age should factor into the value that women bring into relationships and if society views older men the same way. They also debate how socio-economic status impacts relationships, the different ways it can be felt by men and women and much more.

    This episode is sponsored by Sunset Lake CBD. Use Promo Code: SGS20 at https://sunsetlakecbd.com/ for 20% off everything!

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    Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Jourdain Fisher: instagram.com/jfishercomedy

    Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod

    If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com

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    • 1 hr 5 min
    #91 Is It a Woman's Job To Keep a Man Loyal? 🤔

    #91 Is It a Woman's Job To Keep a Man Loyal? 🤔

    On Thursdays we take down the patriarchy. This week Erica and Molly dive into Bruce Bryan's book "The 7 Irresistible Qualities Men Want in A Woman" to upack Chapter 7: An Attribute That Keeps Him Loyal (A Woman's Secret Weapon."  The two call out that women feel pressure to "keep" a man loyal, when fidelity should be an individual responsibility, They also debate the author's recommended tactics for how women can make themselves irresistible, discuss what is means to be a "proactive lover", and question why there is less focus on men to match women's efforts in relationships.

    20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com

    Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot

    Check out our new blog posting every Sunday!

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    Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly

    Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod

    If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com

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    • 44 min
    #90 You Can't Manifest a Relationship 🔮

    #90 You Can't Manifest a Relationship 🔮

    Your girls are on one this week as we dive into the book "Calling in The One" by Catherine Woodward Thomas. Erica and Molly take a deep read of Chapter 23: 'Setting an Intention' and debate what it really means to date with intention. They discuss whether you can actually manifest what you're hoping for in a relationship by adjusting your outlook and attitude as well as how to take consistent action in order to get what you want. To no one's surprise, the pair has some hard opinions on "speaking to the Universe" that you definitely don't want to miss.

    20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com

    Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot

    Check out our new blog posting every Sunday!

    **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS**

    Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly

    Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod

    If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com

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    • 48 min
    #89 Polyamory 101 w/ Rachel Wright

    #89 Polyamory 101 w/ Rachel Wright

    Don’t sleep on this one folks! This week we sit down with Rachel Wright, a licensed sex therapist and sex educator, to talk all about polyamory / ethical non-monogamy. We break down the terms to understand the difference between the two, as well as other lifestyles. Rachel shares details of her current relationship, what led her and her husband to open up their marriage after nearly 8 years, navigating jealousy in an ENM relationship, the "agreements" of non-monogamous relationships, and much much more.

    This episode is sponsored by Sunset Lake CBD. Use Promo Code: SGS20 at https://sunsetlakecbd.com/ for 20% off everything!

    Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot

    Check out our new blog posting every Sunday!

    **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS**

    Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Rachel Wright: instagram.com/thewright_rachel

    Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod

    If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com

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    • 1 hr 6 min
    #88 Once a cheater, always a cheater?🤷🏻

    #88 Once a cheater, always a cheater?🤷🏻

    This week we're talking about all things infidelity! We debate tips shared by Steve Harvey from his Good Morning America segment, "Why Do Men Cheat?" and Erica and Molly discuss their own experiences with cheating. They also answer the questions: Should you ever stay with a cheater?  What makes a person cheat? Would you date someone who has cheated on a past partner? Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating? And much more.

    20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com

    Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot

    Check out our new blog posting every Sunday!

    **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS**

    Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly 

    Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod

    If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com

    www.shootersgottashoot.com


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    • 53 min
    #87 When to walk away w/ Matchmaker Maria 👩🏼‍❤️‍👨🏼

    #87 When to walk away w/ Matchmaker Maria 👩🏼‍❤️‍👨🏼

    This week we sit down with Matchmaker Maria of Agape Matchmaking (@matchmakermaria) to discuss dating in the post pandemic world, how a matchmaker can help you find your person, when to sleep with a new partner, when to walk away from a relationship, and much more. Maria also gives her professional opinion on the questions: Is it ever ok to just hook up with someone? Is there a difference between exclusive and in a relationship?

    20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com 

    Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot

    Check out our new blog posting every Sunday!

    **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS**

    Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa // Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly // Matchmaker Maria: instagram.com/matchmakermaria

    Maria's Website & Services: AgapeMatch.com

    Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod

    If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com

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    • 1 hr 2 min

Customer Reviews

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488 Ratings

488 Ratings

Alinaddd ,

Such a good find

I’m hooked. Smart and sassy

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Great!

Some smart ladies here 💪

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So glad I found this podcast

Started listening to this podcast after Erica was on the U Up? Podcast. It took a second to get into it but loved how honest both Molly and Erica were since episode 2. As a former college athlete myself I can see myself in both of the co-hosts. Shooters gotta shoot!

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