37 episodes

NCAA athletes Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier have always taken shots on and off the court. They know how to get what they want, except when it comes to men. Recently, dating has become a harder to navigate with Erica getting diagnosed with herpes and Molly’s sister/best friend excommunicating herself from the family. But instead of giving up on love, they've made a pact to challenge each other to test modern and old school dating methods. They'll stay in the game and laugh at the rejections they take along the way. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

Shooters Gotta Shoot Erica Spera

    • Relationships
    • 4.9, 318 Ratings

NCAA athletes Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier have always taken shots on and off the court. They know how to get what they want, except when it comes to men. Recently, dating has become a harder to navigate with Erica getting diagnosed with herpes and Molly’s sister/best friend excommunicating herself from the family. But instead of giving up on love, they've made a pact to challenge each other to test modern and old school dating methods. They'll stay in the game and laugh at the rejections they take along the way. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support

    #35 Rules for living together

    #35 Rules for living together

    Erica goes on a few FaceTime dates and the girls debate if dating apps are really worth your time. Erica & Molly discuss the chapter "Be Easy to Live With" from the book "The Rules" and cover; how to adjust to living with your significant other, roommate conflict, the two types of "dishes" people, how to ask for your space, and please don't kill your parents.  

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    If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com

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    • 49 min
    #34 Jordana Abraham - Attached - We are only as "needy" as our unmet needs

    #34 Jordana Abraham - Attached - We are only as "needy" as our unmet needs

    JORDANA ABRAHAM (Betches, U Up?) join Erica & Molly to discuss the book Attached which breaks down attachment theory. We discuss; the different styles of attachment (secure, anxious, & avoidant), the dependency paradox, why codependency is a myth, the dangers of playing games, how fighting can help a relationship, and if men are ever intimidated by a woman's success.

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    Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa
    Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly
    Jordana Abraham: instagram.com/jordanaabraham

    If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com

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    Jordana's Podcast U Up?: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/u-up/id1313996383


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    • 47 min
    #33 Joe List & Sarah Tollemache - Herpes Herpes Herpes

    #33 Joe List & Sarah Tollemache - Herpes Herpes Herpes

    JOE LIST & SARAH TOLLEMACHE join Erica & Molly to talk about all things HERPES! Joe was diagnosed with herpes 11 years ago, and not long after started dating Sarah (his now wife) who is still herpes free. We discuss; accepting your diagnosis, the best ways to tell people you have herpes, some rejections Joe faced when disclosing to partners, how people assume Sarah must have herpes too, dealing with outbreaks, and much more!

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    Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly
    Sarah Tollemache: instagram.com/stollemache
    Joe List: instagram.com/joelistcomedy

    If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com

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    Joe's Podcast Mindful Metal Jacket: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/joe-lists-mindful-metal-jacket/id1497367623 

    Sarah's Podcast Vadge: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/vadge/id1152624471 


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    • 53 min
    #32 Sara Levine - Why do women date murderers?

    #32 Sara Levine - Why do women date murderers?

    SARA LEVINE (Betches & Not Another True Crime Podcast) joins Erica & Molly for to talk about women who date murderers. We discuss; the penpal fantasy, what exactly makes women fall in love with a killer, the Bonnie & Clyde complex, Ordinary vs. Famous murderers, and online dating dangers and tips. We share a few shooting your shot stories, how Molly once got a letter from a prisoner, and our past dating app experiences. 

    CNN: Killer love: Why people fall in love with murderers

    Psychology Today: Why Do Women Fall for Serial Killers?

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    Sarah Levine: instagram.com/sarafcarter

    If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com

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    Not another True Crime podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/not-another-true-crime-podcast/id1437413223 


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    • 1 hr 2 min
    #31 Francis Ellis - The 5 Love Languages

    #31 Francis Ellis - The 5 Love Languages

    Comedian FRANCIS ELLIS (Barstool Sports & BroBible) joins Erica & Molly for to talk about The 5 Love Languages. We discuss; what each Love Language means, why it's a bad idea to buy an apology gift, engagement ring and proposal mistakes, and why you shouldn't withhold sex (physical touch) as a punishment. We each take the Love Languages test below and Francis can't figure out why we're still single.  

    Love Language Test: http://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/  

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    Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly
    Francis Ellis: instagram.com/francisccellis 

    If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com  

    www.shootersgottashoot.com 

    Oops Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/oops/id1474010458 


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    • 48 min
    #30 Taylor Tomlinson - Long Distance Relationships

    #30 Taylor Tomlinson - Long Distance Relationships

    Comedian TAYLOR TOMLINSON joins Erica & Molly for to talk about being in a long distance relationship (LA to NYC) with comedian Sam Morril. We discuss; how to keep the love alive despite the distance, Taylor's broken engagement, rebounding precautions, how you know you're ready to date again, and what questions you should ask yourself & your partner before getting into a long distance relationship. We end the episode with Taylor sharing a hilarious story of how she "shot her shot" and missed.  

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    Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com
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    Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa
    Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly
    Taylor Tomlinson: instagram.com/taylortomlinson

    If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com

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    Self Helpless Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/self-helpless/id1251196416

    This is Important to Me Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-is-important-to-me-with-sam-morril-and-taylor-tomlinson/id1503629640?ign-mpt=uo%3D2

    Taylor's Netflix Special 'Quarter Life Crisis'


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    • 59 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
318 Ratings

318 Ratings

WarrenG88 ,

Two thumbs up 👍👍

Love, Love, Love! Makes you feel like you’re chatting it up with your best girls! So funny, so real and so down to earth! Always look forward to the next episode! ❤️❤️❤️

sarahchau14 ,

The best podcast!

I love Erica and Molly!! They have a hilarious, yet reflective take on dating. They talk about great topics that are informative but still SO entertaining. They’re getting great guests 🙌🏼♥️

MaddiRettmann ,

One Of My Go To’s

Erica and Molly are some of my favorite podcasters. I heard about this podcast from Yung Daddy, and it is such an awesome pod to listen to. The girls have such range, where they can go from making me cry laughing to cry because I feel for them. They do a great dive into sucking at relationships, which I relate to quite a bit, so it something I look forward to listening to at least once a week!

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